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motherfucker:
This same girl complained of not benefiting anything from her ex. I did opposite to prove there are still nice guys out there and what did I get?

We had a quarrel for the FIRST time and she just wouldn't let it slide, no matter what I tried. I don't want to talk too much or reveal too much cosh is a member here.

It is well.

Hello dear ,
I understand perfectly and I am so so sorry you had to go through this. If you let her absence affect you, you will not only be heartbroken, you'd be broke.

Tough people weather storms. You gotta be strong, okay?

I'm rooting for you. Get the hell up! Stiffen up your shoulders.

BabbanBura:
Sarauniya Mai Sabulu

Sarki Mai Sabulu

Girlllllllll!


I went to this girl's page on IG yesterday. She is pretty. That her signature look ehn.


Cee-C

C is for Cat( with nine lives).


From the look of things, Miracle will sweep the money. Can't wait for it to come to an end so everything can go back to normal.

Oh my God! Someone please help this guy. He sounds very downcast.

twentyk:
I know i f.ucked up but what i learnt is are so precious
im like a dark clouds now...dnt let em figure me out
im mean
i deliberately do crazy things(my nature)
i dont listen,i dont talk much
im so uninterested in whatever
i tell lies because truth is bitter
i dont commit...in fact im one miserable lover....
I wont let another girl Bleep.ed me up like funbi...that girl got me so f.ucked up,at one time i started hating myself....(i swear i still miss her)she was my first real love and only...she d only lady i allow speak with my mum and i have never been so eager to meet someone parents like hers...she was in 200l nd i was 400l when we met...it was heavenly for sometimes until she started acting strange,i told her about it,instead she accused me of being the strange one...ok in fairness to her,im kinda strange and really weird,like really really weird,im restless and usually up to something...i get bored easily so i love activities,(football,sport,bethouse,gym,studio,party anywhere there is noise nd happening)...she is the lowkey type,not that she didnt like it but not over the top like mine....people dont understand how we roll,but for the first time i found someone who calms me down....(till date only mum nd codein)do the magic but funbi does it better....i remember once i had to wait for her,she had a text and i was getting bored where i sat,also i needed to go play set(football competition)off campus by 4.30..as she was ascending the stairs for the 1st time i thought marriage and i knew i was gonna marry this girl....she saw me staring at her and we both smiled and i could feel all the blood in my vein...i hate this feeling and i love it too.... Hate it cuz i cant control the mess is happening nd love it cuz its beautifull,sweeter dan koko,sk,tm,swiff and rochii all mixed together....she was tired nd put her head on my lap,i sang her love song by timi dakolo and she slept off(she loves me sing her a song)....girl was snoring on my lap nd it was beautifull stroking her hair till rapture...i thought i fulfilled my mission in life that day,meanwhile boys been dey call my number for field asking where this wahray dey,it was a match between my hostel(lead) vs prince palace and i was the Ronaldo of my team....imagine ronaldo not playing for Real madrid against juve but busy stroking person hair for under tree...anyway we lost 7-4 but e nor pain me,how many guys can sing their girl to sleep....
Awww im talking too much....im sorry to bore you with my sad love story....long story short my heart was broken and i cudnt get over it....i knew i was making a mistake calling her repeatedly for answers but she kept breaking my heart each time i cudnt get through to her.....oh we made up after a while but shii was lifeless like 'Drogo after the khaleesi made the witch bring him back...so this time i ended things and she didnt object,my heart was screaming Nooooooo,but the sight of her now gives me pain so i moved....
Im only sorry for my new babe,i know things could be a lot better only if i could put in some efforts
but im just not interested in any effort whatsoever....she asked me to sing her this new rekado banks song with tiwa on saturday,but i coudnt stop remembering that stupid love song by timi i did last time.....once bitten twice shy they say.....funbi wherever you are(infact i know where she'd be at the moment)i wished you nothing....
In a relationship whoever loves most suffers more.....thank you...

Your story reminds me of a song, "Him and I".. Bittersweet romance. Smiles.

Reedarh:
Please i need your opinions. I am dating this guy that really loves me and it's a long distance relationship, I'm in the University but he's working already, about 10yrs age difference he gets mad at little things and at some point says things like, I'm wicked, he'll find a better person, I don't contribute anything to the relationship. He also said he has stopped drinking but the last time we had a breakup coz of his temper, he promised to change and confessed he drank then but I believe if he as really stopped he wouldn't have drank then and there's no way to be sure if he actually drinks coz of the distance but he goes to bars. It's a celibate relationship for us but he's not faithful. He claims to love me and so far as I know he has cheated twice and always saying he'll change and this time around I want to call it quits but he really loves me, he has called his friends and family to talk to me even his imam. My brother are saying he's toxic that it's only a matter of time after we get married then he'll start beating me up that I should let go but my mother on the other hand is saying he loves me that that's how men are, they have a main gf and may cheat,that I should continue coz he really loves me. Please I need mature minds to help out, thank you.

Hey sis,
This man is going to drag you into the underbelly of sadness. I'm not sure I like the sound of his character. Kindly let him go, okay? Get busy with yourself and your mind, you will heal.

Best wishes!

QueenSuccubus:



Okies...it's easy to say I LOVE YOU & this word is overused a billion times by the serial cheaters...

Always remember that ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS.. If a man truly cares & love you , he won't dare to cheat.NEVER.

But if you are ready to suffer for the rest of ur life, juz accept him back & carry on.

Lol. My thoughts exactly. People say "I love you" without really showing it. If a man loves you, he won't cheat. Also, very true. Sex is over hyped

I didn't read past three lines. All I have to say is "Don't accept her"

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motherfucker:
I hope so but no gonna ever let them see that heart again.

Don't be like this. Please, I went through an emotional traumatic path recently but I am not letting it hold me down. We all have our stories. Try to re-write yours but don't let anyone hold your pen.

motherfucker:
u dont understand. i have been there before and it has always been the same thing all over again... they always leave the guys that don't give them heartache...I pray i find that one that would just let me be whom God created me to be instead being bad... but often times, i see myself thinking of changing...not wanting to get married all together.

Hi there,
I just got online. I've been quite busy. Life is unfair. You just have to be strong and move on. You have a good heart, I presume. Best believe there are so many good women out there. Yours will come.

motherfucker:
sup. So u stay in Abuja? Na wa o. Is that u in ur DP?

Sir, yes Sir

Halima likes too much pity.

I'd Kiss Rico, Hug Efe, Punch Noble in the gut

Danty37:
exactly what happened to me. Where I regret the most was I never fvcked her. I dated this girl while I was still in 200l uniben back then 2012. I invested my money, time and energy to see that everything worked fine. I also promise to marry her not knowing I was building my castle in the air. After wasting 6years of relationship, the next thing I got last two weeks was a whatsapp message and I quote " I know I have really offended you but you need someone better than me". " don't bother about me and take care of yourself ". that's the message I got from her. Thank God I have already a good job in a multi national company that always keep me busy.. I would have committed suicide. It's all for good sha..
thank God she left while things are working out for good.. I was deceived by love and the the girls name is LOVETH. Loveth will never know peace in her marriage and life endeavors. I keep having negative thoughts about her and she will meet her match on a good day. I never bleeped her all in the name of keeping myself till marriage. May God will surely punish her. I used a whole lot of money just to please her, yet she dumped me. As am writing this now, Loveth will have a bad marriage and family.. so shall it be IN JESUS NAME. AMEN

Oh my God! Trust me, you are still hurting. Please, don't wish her bad. Please. Just move on.
Modified:

So, apparently some peeps are a bit unhappy that I said the guy should move on, they said I don't know what it means to be heartbroken. Lol.

To answer their question. Yes,I have experienced heartbreaks.

When? Presently, I am healing from a heartbreak. This is a situation that had me going to the Doctor's on Friday because my of my heart rate. A guy I loved genuinely didn't only go cold turkey on me, he called me names FOR NO REASON. This is same person that begged and begged him to give him a chance. My mental health nose dived.

It is imperative to know that we ought to take care of ourselves. Pain is worse when you feel you have brought it on yourself.

I will still say, move on please.

Rangojack:
Just for learning sake, please be kind enough (if you are less busy) to share your heart break story here.

You,share your own..

CosmeticChemist:
My run away queen..

Awwwww... How is business nau? How's Kogi state? Boss man! I tuale for you. Bless up!

HeWrites:
Haven't been in a meaningful relationship before but I think I do need to be now (I need to prepare myself for something).

The one I had was in J2 (still a kid), took me almost 2 years to recover.

That one na heart death..Lol

CosmeticChemist:
How are you doing my friend ?... I came across this profile and the writing shows it's you ... lol..

Awww Boss! My boss! I swear down, I wanted to tag you but I said it will be best to surprise you. I am doing great. Na you be baba o!

MrMoney007:
killer!
please don't listen to this killer, you'd be dead in less than an hour, your brain will get frozen, body goes into a shock, death follows.

Receipt of mail acknowledged.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I heard its an aphrodisiac. Kayan mata to the hausas. I'll try and prepare it at home to know real it is.

So I heard too. My neighbor buys it for her man alot. I take it personally because it tastes really creamy and sweet. I prepare it sometimes in a large bowl and store in the refrigerator. The only downside is that it makes me feel so full. lol.

Pretty!

I just fell in love with this girl's charisma last year after I heard her sing and played the guitar. Her outfits look really beautiful and chic.

Happy Married Life to the.

tytunji29:
Kkk bt y u cum rush me like dat

I don't entertain sexual innuendos

ceejayx:
Lol think abt the side effects too,it has a detrimental effect on semen volume thereby causing infertility,it also affects sexual performance. U wanna confront a smoker that he's been weak in bed?

The fact that I didn't reply to this mention doesn't mean that I am piss poor shallow like the other guy is accusing me of being. I read your opinions and effected a change.
I don't think I have said anything wrong in accepting to marry a smoker, cigarettes just like glucose sugar and alcohol affects fertility in males.
Let us all learn to correct someone without insults.

bayocanny:
Bro, I swear going by the girl comment up there I can boldly say that it is true that some Nigerian girl lacks intelligent, they're so poor in analysis reason why I don't banter with them.

You call me unintelligent because I said something that I have noticed? What right do you have to crop me into your picture of "unintelligence?" This is a public fora, if you aren't okay with someone's opinion of things, you simply make it known and let it slide.
I modified my post up there and said it was an oversight because I am open to taking corrections, so why would you call me or women "poor in analysis"?

More so, you perceived truth isn't my truth. Let this not repeat itself. I will respect you and not send a stinker because you are human like me and a man.
Mr.passerby, just pass in peace.

tytunji29:
Dates ND coconut are for strength ooooooooo don't give him if u no strong / ready for d exercise

Oga, I am not giving it to anybody. I take it because it is natural and I love the sweet taste.

Mompha and Hush are archenemies. We don't want unnecessary drama and shade throwing this time.

Who runs the world? *continues filing nails*

Ramsey Nuoah Mabel and AY Makun repping Nollywood..



I have so much respect for Ramsey and Queen Nwokoye. How they have managed to lead a scandal free life in the industry still amazes me.


Kudos to them.

ceejayx:
Most Guys who smoke use their wives as punchbags so he may not even have ponmo lips,U may be the one carrying the PONMO LIPS after he's battered ur pretty face with punches

If guys are saying this, then I guess I've been in an abyss all the while. I won't marry a smoker no more. Thank you.

bayocanny:
Okay, after smoking and getting high then he descend on you..am sure u would be crying that men are scum..don't settle for less my dear.

My context of smoking is "smoking cigarette". I won't get close to a guy that does hard drug. Marijuana (weed) is a drug.

I have never smoked neither do I drink. I know so many men who smoke cigarettes and behave well to their families. I have an aunt who has been married for close to 20 years(she is very,very hot). She smokes cigarettes.

A guy that wants to become a scum will become one. Nobody will/can change that. I have heard stories of some quiet men(non smokers/social drinkers) who have beaten their wives blue black.

I hope this helps.