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Romance / Re: Why Do Some Ladies Use Their Monthly Period To Cook For Their Boyfriends? (18+) by SoapQueen(f): 11:16am On Apr 19, 2022
MadeINchenzen2:
Guys, watch out... this is not a new news, no be today our babes don dey use menses cook soup and stew for man pikin' to chop.

I know a lot of SIMPle dudes out there that have become zombies because of the diabolic inclinations of their beloved girlfriends...

Usually I will suggest that every guy carries out serious investigation about the ladies they are wit or want to be with, especially guys who loves having their girlfriends cook for them.

Now, let me tell of you... "some shallow minded diabolic Women believe that if they use their menses to cook for their boyfriends, then the guy will never leave her or cheat on her... he will do anything possible to please her and empty his bank account for her sake....grin

Ref: more similar stories like this...

https://www.pulse.ng/gist/stranger-than-fiction-woman-who-uses-her-menstrual-flow-to-cook-food-for-hubby-says/tz844ep

https://newsbreak.ng/nigerian-lady-cooks-for-boyfriend-with-menstrual-blood-for-seven-months/

https://www.nairaland.com/4134252/lady-makes-boyfriend-propose-using

https://kasatintin.com/2021/09/21/women-use-their-menses-vagina-fluid-to-cook-food-for-men-study-confirms/

https://www.stayathomemum.com.au/wtf/the-women-who-sneak-period-blood-into-their-partners-food/


Very nonsense and evil thing to do. God forbids!

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Romance / Re: Getting Back Together With An Ex ; What's Your Experience? by SoapQueen(f): 9:53pm On Apr 18, 2022
C2Ok:
Where is damn nigarrrrr grin

He dey light him kpoli in peace....

Loool
Health / Re: Rate My Gym Body (Picture) by SoapQueen(f): 9:45am On Apr 15, 2022
OkwuEziokwu:
Ladies And Gents. Honest Opinion. On A Scale Of 1-10, What Wud U Rate Dis Body?

What would you suggest I improve on?

Looks real good. You're doing well.

Keep it up.


High time I hit the gym. Let me get this body real good, and firm, and hot.
Romance / Re: At Your Big Age,what Don't You Know How To Do? by SoapQueen(f): 8:34pm On Apr 14, 2022
Silentgroper:
U mean a God fearing sister with big nyash or with tincture of bad girl vibe...

Both are plenty in the area..

I knw a sister in d lord that likes to sing to mics in za oza room and still head to church grabbing a real mic singing to d high heavens..


I know that's right!!! Werey nla! Lool
Romance / Re: At Your Big Age,what Don't You Know How To Do? by SoapQueen(f): 9:50pm On Apr 13, 2022
Draslo:

grin

lucky guy, I guess
Me I'm still single been so for like 3 years. I've realized that it's harder to find a sharp, working brain to love than a big yansh to love

Rotfl!

Hahahahaha. You're crazy for this comment I swear!

Better girls dey everywhere, na una dey find God fearing Nicki Minaj.
Romance / Re: At Your Big Age,what Don't You Know How To Do? by SoapQueen(f): 3:43pm On Apr 13, 2022
Draslo:
Now that I think about it, there's nothing I don't know how to do that will hinder my lifestyle except maybe in emergencies.

I know how to write in cursive
I know how to drive
I know how to ride a bicycle
I know how to swim
I know how to cook
I know how to dance
I know how to kponkiriyon
I know how to navigate
I know how to code (amateur)
I know how to make money any legit which way
I know how to make money any street which way
I know how to tame a wild vagina
I know how to make kids like me
I know how to manage money(sometimes tongue)
I know how to speak
I know when to speak
I know how to dress for whaatever occasion(sometimes, you could mistake me for a sales boy, other times, you'd need a change of panties)
I know how to play football, basketball and cricket
I know how to roll weed (like I'm so pro, celebrity status in my hood)
and so many more

To answer you OP, I don't know how to ride a motorcycle. That one go get solution this year by God's grace
.

Wow. If I wasn't seeing someone I for marry you sharp sharp.

Kudos!
Celebrities / Re: Only A Brave Man Can Marry Rita Dominic by SoapQueen(f): 10:59am On Apr 13, 2022
Senomii:
I'm still trying to calculate all the complications involved with pregnancy at 40

They'd have doctors round the clock monitoring her. Getting pregnant at her age comes with a lot but with money and the right support system, God will be with her.

As long as her vital signs, hormones, mental health, and other parameters are not in a state of flux, she's good to go!
Romance / Re: Quit Toxic And Abusive Relationships Or Marriage by SoapQueen(f): 9:24pm On Apr 10, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked




God gave me the wisdom to quit mine since. Though blessed with two lovely kids, but I have no regret that I made that decision of leaving such a worthless idiotic marriage. Poor him, he's walking around with just one ball in his scrotum. I destroyed one with my fury kickgrin he nearly died that day.shocked

That action of mine towards him till date I am not regretting at all. I have lost so much in the hand of my ex husband which time won't permit me to say it all. I wouldn't say I was a perfect wife, no, I wasn't, I have my flaws too, but despite my flaws I tried all I could to make my marriage work. I am not happy because I am a divorcee, it's not something I am proud of. But sometimes something doesn't worth the stress,the abused and the insults so one had to let it go.

I won't say much regarding this, but the bold step I took to quit the marriage save my life till this moment. The second wife he took will probably not give birth again in this life because he hit the poor lady and damaged everything in her tommy, it was a miracle that she survived it and she too kissed the marriage goodbye after she survived. That was wisdom on her own part.


My God! I'm wondering if it's too late for me to become a nun??
Romance / Re: How Do I Win Back My Boyfriend After He Break My Heart? Please Don’t Tell Me by SoapQueen(f): 9:10pm On Apr 10, 2022
Elitefosa:
This sounds strange right?

I mean how do you win back someone after breaking their heart?

Here's the summary…

Sam (not real name) met a beautiful damsel in the month of September in the year 2020. That was after the lock down…

Friendship blossomed into a relationship and the relationship blossomed into talks of marriage.

Somewhere along the line, about 8 months into the relationship, Sam saw some red flags he couldn’t cope with and decided that ending the
relationship was the only way out.

Though he did not meet any counselor for advice, he just decided to end the relationship with her.

Sam broke her heart by ending the relationship and decided to move on.

But the Damsel wanted him back, she begged and begged but he said NO.

That he was done with the relationship.

He left her heart broken.

The thing is she wants he back.

Abeg ladies in the house…

Make una chook mouth for this matter…

PS: Please this is a real life something.


Omo, I really wish I can go and beg someone who "dumped" me. Choi! I admire such ladies for their tenacity. Me and my craziness wey go delete your numbers and photos, unfriend you everywhere, and lock up in less than 2 market days. I don't block, just delete reminders and lick my wounds. As emotional, sweet-natured or sensitive I can be, I've got pride. Na man dey beg me, no be the other way round.

No matter how hurting or heartbroken you may be, never beg anyone to take you back. Somethings are meant to break if they ain't strong enough.
Crime / Re: Guys, Share Your Experience Of Sexual Abuse by SoapQueen(f): 11:43am On Apr 08, 2022
Iyaebe:
I don't believe in men's sexual abuse,if it was an abuse why did he sustain erection?

Some men have been sexually abused especially by house helps and you'd be shocked at how negatively it affects them.

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Romance / Re: Help! A Man Is Threatening To Release My Nudes, I'm Depressed! by SoapQueen(f): 3:51pm On Apr 07, 2022
Angela1996:
He said I should pay him 50 dollars for WhatsApp spy app

You better don't drop the stupid blackmailer's number anywhere if you don't want your photos to be plastered all over the internet by a hacker.

Wonder why you'd even think of asking him to reply your mail in the first place
Romance / Re: Help! A Man Is Threatening To Release My Nudes, I'm Depressed! by SoapQueen(f): 3:45pm On Apr 07, 2022
Dshocker:


Do don't drop any number to him,it will escalate issues,he will only beg the guy to send him the pix or video

Exactly!
Romance / Re: Help! A Man Is Threatening To Release My Nudes, I'm Depressed! by SoapQueen(f): 3:44pm On Apr 07, 2022
Angela1996:
I'm just depressed over this situation, I'm tired of him, he snapped me while I was naked and threatened to release my nudes...I've told him to sign the undertaken and leave me alone but he has refused...
Please I don't know what to do again!...Don't judge me or insult me because no one is perfect

Are you even OKay? You want someone to hack his phone? So that your nude photos will continue to spread? Girl! Have some sense.

This is why the guy can blackmail you with your nudes.
Celebrities / Re: Korra Obidi's Husband, Justin Dean Sues Her And Her Friends For Defamation by SoapQueen(f): 8:54pm On Apr 05, 2022
Terrier99:


It seems you didn't read the original post. He's not suing her for custody, he's suing her for defamation. She can keep the kids and then she will keep paying punitive damages.
Just pray she's not doing narcotics of any kind. They will take those kids away from her and into custody.

And you didn't read my first line where I wrote he started the "tirade" first.

He started the whole defamation and has made the mother of his children an object of ridicule, heckling, and mockery on social media. He brought the whole matter online first. Hurling unprintable names at her. Do you know how much that would affect her brand? Especially in Nigeria? Overseas?

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Celebrities / Re: Korra Obidi's Husband, Justin Dean Sues Her And Her Friends For Defamation by SoapQueen(f): 8:45pm On Apr 05, 2022
nenyewrites:


Lol, he will lose. He has done many things that can be used against him.

My thoughts exactly! To think he started the whole tirade and literally took the nursing newborn from her mom.

Dunno how true the rumors are but it is said that she had to show up at Child Welfare services with her engorged breasts and milk flowing to prove that the baby was in distress.

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Celebrities / Re: Korra Obidi's Husband, Justin Dean Sues Her And Her Friends For Defamation by SoapQueen(f): 8:43pm On Apr 05, 2022
Just imagine!

The maddening thing is that he defamed her first and did quite some childish things!

She isn't any innocent either.

One more reason to dread this thing called marriage...

Smh

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Romance / Re: I've Found Love On Nairaland! by SoapQueen(f): 1:59pm On Apr 05, 2022
BoredBerry:
He's not a redpiller btw... Those degenerates would die broke, alone and Hot... grin
.


Hahaha
Crime / Re: Please She Said I Raped Her But I Didn't Do It Now She Is Threatening Me by SoapQueen(f): 4:26pm On Apr 04, 2022
Yhungsarm:
This incident happened last week Thursday. Am a 300L student of Unijos and the girl happens to be my coursemate.

Normally, me and these girl no dey the same level, she can't even talk to me in school but ASUU break happened and i didn't want to go back to Lagos so i stayed back in Jos.

One day i was chatting with her friend who happens to know her and he told me she is still in Jos, so i chatted her up since i was bored and i didn't lie to her, i told her i was bored and i needed someone to talk to for the main time. she accepted quickly and even told me why i didn't chat her up sooner than this. she promised to come to my place and on Thursday she finally came through.

This is the most astonishing part, she knew i had sex with her best friend so she asked me about it and i did not lie about it cus i know she knew and we talked about some nasty stuff related to sex. i was seated on a mini-cushion chair and she sat on my laps literally dropping her boobs in the middle of my face.

As a guy i thought that was the signal, so i carried her straight to the bed and i wanted to gain access and she denied it so i just stood up and left. After a short while she came back again now saying if she handles me and all those stuff, i tried again and she denied i was angry and i wanted to tell her to start gping but i calmed down. she started seducing me badly and i was confused so this time i dropped and dragged her jean with her, we started dragging but she was just saying am trying to rape her and it is unfair, if it is what i do to girls all d time.

i was fingering her at the time but i did not penetrate and i felt it was tense and if i penetrated then what she is saying is true so i stopped and controlled my urge.

She zipped up and started crying, I was like but i didn't do anything and she was like i did everything i want to do with her and it is fault bcus she came to my house.

After a shortwhile, she stopped crying and asked me if it was sex i want or friends with benefit...i was very confused at that point like wetin bring all does one enter so i didn't reply then she said she knows am a rapist and i just want to sex and all dat shit.

i kept my cool after some time she started saying am not normal at all and she jst can't believe what happened, she also said she will tell me something when we she is out of my house.

So i paid her Tp and she went home, i did not chat her up at all. fastforward to Saturday i saw her message saying her forcefully had my ways wit her and jst ignored her so she will deal with me and i will pay for it.

i won't lie to you am very scared, i don't even know what she wants, i started asking her what she wants from me exactly but she is not replying at all. I seriously don't know what to do am very confuse, I don't even understand why i fell for this plot of hers.
What do you think i shud do

Note: I did not have sex with her at all and i never wanted it, she was jst all over me and doing all those stuff. Sex isn't my problem on a normal day bcus am a handsome guy and i get it most time.


This is so RAPEY! And what's more sickening is that you sound so manipulative, unrepentant, and proud.

Really praying that she drags the hell out of you!
Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mum To Visit Us by SoapQueen(f): 12:51pm On Apr 03, 2022
Francis609:
My mum have never liked my wife to the extend of wishing her death when she lost our first baby and I had disowned her for saying that. So far we haven't had any contact since the incident and we are finally proud parents of twins boy and girl born in February. My stepmother have been here for us since day 1 she is in my house taking care of my wife and babies , my mum called saying that she want to come over and take care of my wife and kids and will be spending a month . I lied to her that my wife is with her sister and will let her know when she is back to the house so she can come over. To be Frank I don't want her near my wife because she doesn't likes her and I don't think she have any good plan for us. Did I do the right thing for lying to her my wife is not around or should I give her the chance to come over and see if she have truly change?

Please If you want to understand the full story go through my old threads

NO!!!
Crime / Re: Kenyan Man Kills His Wife's Lover After Catching Them In Bed In His House by SoapQueen(f): 7:49am On Apr 02, 2022
Prosperous111:
Nah wetin you Sabi do pass dey kill sometimes

Fucking another man wife at 2pm wey everybody don go hustle for money grin

Nah broke man dick dey rise pass sha shocked

Rotfl
Romance / Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by SoapQueen(f): 11:09pm On Mar 27, 2022
GoodHardDick:


Have you ever regretted aborting a baby? Fool. That was the question. Answer it and stop beating around the bush.


I HAVE NOT AND WILL NEVER, EVER DO THAT!

Bye! I'm done with a nutcase like you!
Romance / Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by SoapQueen(f): 8:58pm On Mar 27, 2022
Candidlady:



Sis please let my goodharddick be! Idont mess with him

Sorry darling.
Family / Re: My Son's Behavior Is Getting Out Of Hand by SoapQueen(f): 1:00pm On Mar 26, 2022
klassyguy:
I have two lovely kids with my wife - a girl and a boy. My son is six years old while his sister is eight. Both were born here in the US. I’ve done what I feel is right as a father to train these kids, but I know not everything can be done accordingly.

My son is restless. He has the attention span of three seconds before he gets distracted by something else. My mum tells says he is a copy of me when I was his age, but that was in the eighties and the way children were handled back then is totally different from today. He hardly wants to do anything in terms of school work and almost every day I get complaints from his teacher that he does not do his work or he is disruptive in class. When other students are doing their work, my son will be the one falling off his chair or hiding under his desk. His teacher told me he acts out when being corrected. Only yesterday my wife told me the teacher met her when she went to pick them up in school and told her that my son started yelling when the lights in the class started flickering. His behavior got so bad, they had to call the school security officer before he calmed down.

This behavior is really bothering me. I know my son is smart. His pre-school teacher once told me he was the smartest student she had. My son can do complex mathematical equations off the top of his head that even his older sister struggles to do. He has a very good memory and can list off all the types of trains that exist in the US, things that even I don’t know. It’s sitting down to be serious about work that he can’t do and can’t seem to focus on.

I enrolled him in a soccer club to see if that would help him expel his excess energy. At first he seemed to be lazy as he gets frustrated easily, and rather try harder, my son would rather give up and cry. I mostly have to encourage him to put in more effort, and most of the time he does not pay attention to what the coach says. The coach told me a couple of days ago that he wants to move him to a lower group level to see if he can build his confidence there.

I want to believe it’s his being the last born for now that’s worrying him. He seemed to start being a bit more mature when my wife got pregnant last year and he learnt they had a younger sibling on the way, but unfortunately, she miscarried and we lost the baby. I’ve been thinking for a while now whether to move back to Nigeria with everyone so that we can build some sense into both of them (my daughter’s story is another one). I’ve thought of taking them both for an ADHD test, but my wife is against that. The only time my son pays attention is when he’s doing something he likes, and that is when he’s playing the PS5 I got them or watching videos on YouTube Kids.

Any advice would be welcome from parents out there.

I was going to suggest you take him to a physician for evaluation before I saw "ADHD Test." Why would you wife kick against such?

Please, take him to see a doctor so that they can rule out the possiblity of any such e.g autism.

And even if there is, it's best to address them now that they are still young.

God will see you through. This too shall pass.

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Romance / Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by SoapQueen(f): 8:56pm On Mar 25, 2022
Jesse25:


Have one for me na undecided

Sure thing, sir.
Romance / Re: Guys Have You Ever Regretted Aborting A Baby And Does The Memory Still Haunt You by SoapQueen(f): 7:49pm On Mar 25, 2022
dealslip:

As if they were impregnated by trees.

Thank you for this.


If you read the first two pages, you'll see that the guys admitted to asking their exes to have an abortion.

How can the decision of keeping a baby fall on just the woman? Knowing that it takes a sperm and ovum to make a baby.


Personally, I'm not cool with the abortion thingy as I'd rather have the baby if I get pregnant but many women out there who have done it have their reasons why.

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Family / Re: My Wife Is Pregnant Again And Our Kids Are Only 1 And 2 by SoapQueen(f): 11:49am On Mar 25, 2022
TheManOfTheYear:
You're not a male, so you're in no position to talk on this.

Every man loves to see semen gush out after a successful orgasm. That feeling is something you can't relate to.

Hence my take, it is not so easy.

So, it's okay for women to be loading their bodies with IUDs and birth control pills?

Wow.

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