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Gabless:
I am 28 years old, a graduate of one of the university in South West. I work as a contract staff in a bank.

I met this guy about a year ago through my best female friend, and the journey started. I took him to my parents and he also took me to his parents too, and the wedding preparation started.

We were suppose to do family introduction but my parents says there is no need considering some logistic reasons. Although my mum has her reservation concerning him. But since my father has no objection I think am good to go.

He has sent money for some preparation since he is not residing in Lagos. The problem started after I went to idumota with my aunt to buy our engagement clothes. It was my aunt that drove me to the market. When we returned, my fiance called me, we talked for some times, but he couldn't appreciate my aunt for her kind gesture. Although my aunt didn't say anything that day but she wasn't happy. My dad also complained that he has been rude to him. The same goes with my mum.

The last straw that broke the Carmels back was when he was arguing with my aunt over the phone. He did not know I was in my aunt's house that particular day. I wasn't happy at all, thinking that if he would not regard my parents how would he treat me after marriage.

So I confronted him the second day over the phone, telling him that I'm not happy about the way my parents where complaining about him, and that attitude of him is creating fear in me. Instead for him to be a little remoseful and even call those people and apologize, he was arguing with me, still in my aunt's house.

So I told him, maybe we should put the preparation on hold thinking he would at least try and apologize to them. He just said, is that what you want and ended the call.

Everyone was surprised. He didn't call back it was his mum that called my mum, she didn't even persuade them to stop me from taking such step, and the guy too didn't call me for like too weeks until when I called him and he said he wasn't interested in the marriage again.

Actually, I wasn't happy and I have been downcasted since then, but on the other hand, May l ask this question does this guy really loves me?. Is he really mature enough for marriage. Is it all my fault? Please don't insult or abuse me. I just want to know if it's all my fault.

You should be able to judge by yourself if he is a rude guy or not.You can't just claim he is a rude guy because your parents said so.We don't know the kind of conversation he had with your family for them to claim he is rude.Even you as a person there are some shits you won't tolerate from some people but if they are to ask those people about you, they will say you are rude simply because you are not playing to their tune.
Be wise!

SmartPolician:
In the past, women used to be gentle and caring souls. Those women worked hard to support their husbands and still raised good kids.

But since neofeminism was mistaken for feminism, women became beasts and monsters in human bodies. Today, women are as horrible as men, if not worse.

Isn't it rather interesting that the same women who go through the pains of childbearing maltreat their maids like they weren't given to by another woman?

You lie!
Women have always been evil right from the days of EVE!
This topic is mostly common to IGBO women though

JbravoAdodger:
One weyrey tell me say haaland no go play this match

Come on Copenhagen you can do it!!!

What is the name of this sport betting site

Laggafin:
You see why I don't like short people.. check all the short people in Govt.. from that midget in Kaduna to this Eskimo minister of Labour and his Education counterpart.. You see why it's not about tribe or religion .. it's about the character and personalities of most of our politicians who are united in destroying Nigeria and mortgaging the future of our great youths.. I implore us all .. the sensible and non sensible ones to please Vote Wisely come 2023

The last time I checked, Buhari was never a short man

geezynoni:
We've seen many deceased persons under similar circumstances leave suicide notes before taking their lives.

And this is because they never got the help they needed and so lost hope totally then committing the act.
Have been there!

Yusufhakeem:
I just want sincere opinions and conversation on this thread. I feel sad sometimes. I don't know if it is just me or there are other men like me out there.

I am in my late twenties and I have shyed away from women not because I am a homosexual but just because the media and the world we live in tends to sexualize everything. It seems like all females out want big joysticks and everyone hypes only males with big penis. I now believe the hype and my mentals with finding love have become messed up as a result of this.

I am 3inches when non-erect and 5inches when erect with a grith of 3-4inches which is small compared to the average black joysticks out there. I feel like nature and nurture cheated me as an African as I read somewhere that small joysticks can only be increased through hormonal therapy when one is infant but when one hits adulthood then there is nothing that can be done again about increasing one's penis.

Why are some men born with small penis and some with big penis? Why do those born with small penis get ridiculed for something that is obviously not a fault of theirs? Are there women out there who genuinely love men with small penis because it has lead me to close off to females because most times in my head. I am like they would embarrass me if they find out I have small penis.

Is this right society wise to ridicule men with small penis for something that they have no control over? How can I get over this feeling like I am inadequate even though I have no health issue except for the fact that I have a small penis. Is there like a Nigerian community for men with small penis and women who love men with small penis to meet and find love even if discreetly?

Is there anyone here like me who has small penis that can share their thoughts on how they feel inside or how they have been treated in the past by their lovers so we can all just take this burden limitation that the society has placed on us small penis males especially us black men where the stereotype is that all black men have big penis? Any man here happily married with small penis who can share with us how they got women who loved them genuinely even with their small penis? Like did you inform her of it before you proposed to her? I believe men like me with small penis also deserve love.

I will love to hear you all out.

Thank you.

The size of your penis doesn't matter.What matters is your potency in getting a woman pregnant.
What of those with long penis but can't impreginate a woman?
Besides women are so different in the sense that, what A likes might be different from B
As far as you can impreginate a woman, you are good to go

You must be a d!ck hunter to know white men have a small dick

A lady is more likely to be affected at that age you mentioned.A man can get married at any time,bang enough pvssy at any time and impreginated a woman at any time

Stop telling him anything again and distance yourself a little from him

She is probably trying to let the world know what she is going through by posting that and expecting someone to help from nowhere.
A person on a real sucide mission won't even leave any message because they know people might come to their rescue.For you to commit sucide, you must have lost all hope.
The lady still hopes someone could help!

Let him complete his house nah
You better don't finish what you never started because you might end up regretting it

It becomes mine abeg
My Compound my property

Corporate2020:
No be from my mouth dem go hear that one. Of you say the woman is promiscuous, what about the different men impregnating same woman at different times?

What do you mean by that
Did they sleep with her at the same time
The woman probably slept with the third man knowing fully well that she has two kids with two different men already

So nobody is talking about the promiscous mother who was impreginated by three men

This country is something else

Cypress042:
Op please what's your source of income ?

Because i don't see the reason why a someone will be eating a plate of food 900
naira in this harsh economy

EFCC need to seriously look into this matter

Get money oo
Make you no die with this poverty mentality

See as this thread quickly reach front page with few comments
Back to the topic,yes you can but know that it won't be a (alariwo wedding).
I as a person if at all I would get married I would spend more than that as long as money no be problem

I see you when you get there
Rest in peace man!

Natural2Heal:
Really? I doubt a vice chancellor of a university can be a punter. Sports betting is for the poor and low lifers

If only you know lol
I know of friends who are millionaires, cashing out steadily
See the last game I played on bet pawa earlier this month. I even posted it on Facebook

VOsimhen144:
says a man who don't have PVC.

I wonder how you expect Peter Obi to win.

Who be this mumu sef
Am not the cause of your misrable life so back off

The greatest mistake to make as a man be is to date or marry a Kenya woman

Nigeria is a joke

Good but Obi is winning

VOsimhen144:
I'm sure you're one of Peter Obi supporters. Majority of them don't have voters card but they are always on social media disturbing people's peace.
Social media votes no dey win election. Peter Obi dey win votes for social media no mean say he's our next president. You better go and get your voters card.

This is how you fail exams in school.I asked a simple question and you are giving me a useless answer.As old as you are, you still don't have sense

Moh247:
I thought she had a partner and not officially married

Go to Google and see for yourself

May we not give birth to what we cannot explain

Of course relationships should only be meant for serious people who are ready for marriage.
Not for constant nacking
By the way, I noticed she is getting thin and slim this days

Moh247:
Do super rich people actually need relationships.... Dangote , Bill gate , Jef Bezos are all divorced , Oprah Winfrey never married

Oprah Winfrey is married

Please how do I get a voters card

Cristiano has done enough for himself and the world at large
I think it is time he joins the Chinese league