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Port Harcourt is a fine place to stay if you have enough money.
I sometimes prefer it to Lagos sometimes.
The issue with port Harcourt is security mostly

Don't be dececived by this things.This tales are told to put fear and orderliness all in the name of Christianity.As far as am concerned, there are Hundreds of religions across the whole wide world.Some are popular and some are not.
This people are living in a different world entirely.

Odewaleadesoye:
Just wanna give few people small change for tomorrow's breakfast or Lunch.

Kindly quote this message and tell what breakfast you can buy from the small change and I will credit you.

I can see your good works here
God will reward you in multiple folds

Fira09:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rH-6heOisPs



SOURCE

The Devil meant is the WOMAN causing problem between them.
Fear women!

God1000:
They are both together now in the great beyond.

Both together where?
Oga stop this mental slavery.There is nothing like that.You only know your spouse and kids when you are alive.
There is nothing like that after death

I can't lie to my partner how much I earn. I am always the honest type when it comes to any issue.
Now, the thing is, it's left for me to give her the money she asked for.
If am never gonna give her I will not give her.If she wants to end the relationship because of that she is free to go.
The same thing apply should be applied to a marriage

Kollins11:
MEN! Try and get yourself a foreign girlfriend when you're ready to mingle. Even if it's a beautiful girl from Bangladesh.

Stay away from Nigerian girls. They are nothing but sex objects and slaves always walking around with overused kpekus and damaged womb.

Foreign girls are hardworking and very supportive.
Nigerian girls are liabilities and very lazy.

I agree with you on this one.
It's what I have experienced
But still on still, one should be careful of this women in general because even the so called white ones can fvck you up

Chai Iyana Ipaja
I could remember when I was still living around that area with my parents

LordviccoDaGuru:
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Lalasticlala

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VeryWickedMan:
Nigeria must join this war

You don die be that

Eriokanmi:
Who now takes putin seriously? Mtcheew. Let him try it. He'd know others too have nukes

Yen Yen Yen Yen Yen Yen as if you will survive if he tries it
Una go just open mouth talk waa

I understand all hands are not equal but I want to believe that there is a particular stage in our lives that we can claim to be wealthy.
Now the question is, what amount of money must we have or assets in our possession, for us to claim wealth in our lives

Lalasticlala, Mynd44 mukina12 Seun please front page

I understand all hands are not equal but I want to believe that there is a particular stage in our lives that we can claim to be wealthy.
Now the question is, what amount of money must we have or assets in our possession, for us to claim wealth in our lives

Lalasticlala, Mynd44 mukina12 Seun please front page

Rest in peace Queen

inoki247:
lol if u no get confidence for this just life try ur best get even if na small money confidence will locate u....

I dey tell you my brother
After all the suffer wet I don suffer be nah money later give me confidence and self esteem

Rubbish!
Just imagine this nonsense thread on this forum

Life is about karma and not heaven and hell.Religion made us believe there is heaven and hell somewhere.They made us believe we either go to heaven or hell after death, which is wrong.When we die, it's the mortal (body) that died not our soul.We become unconscious after death because our soul is what controls our body.A body without a soul is a non living thing.
After death your soul leaves your body to emerge on a spiritual realm.A soul can never be seen.It emerges to a spiritual realm and wait again to reincernate into a new body.Not just a new body but a body that suits it's karmaric pay back.
As soon as the perfect male and female that will suit it's karmaric pay back copulates, the soul would be at alert to possess the body of that forming baby the womb for a rebirth.
This is how it works!

imagrg:
I read with great wonder on Nairaland, the story of a 'Native' doctor who saw heaven and I want to share it with people who still believe that heaven doesn't exist.

Happy reading...

https://www.nairaland.com/7337351/nasarawa-native-doctor-walks-out

There is heaven and hell.But they are here on Earth.There is no heaven or hell when you die because when you die, your soul leaves your body and goes to the spirit realm and there is nothing like hell or heaven in the spirit realm. You only reincernate to life again as a totally different person to pay for the karma of your past life which brings about heaven or hell

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Arsenal dey win this match as far say man City win yesterday

Epl na arrangee

Another league way I want try study na bundesliga

I still dey try perfect that one too

Brentford wins bro

Fuckgodndjesus:
Why even bring kids into the world to suffer when you know you don't have money to take care of them?

Especially those ones that get married when they know they are not financially stable.

Remotions:
No doubt the tongue has power, but why can't people use it to declare themselves billionaires? Why is it always bad things that comes to pass? I pray she gets justice

The main reasons for this is because the life we live in carries bad energy than the good ones.That is why bad things trend faster than you think.
If you doubt me,declare a bad thing in your life and a good thing and tell which would happen first.
It's one of the reasons why we have to pray, pray and pray before a get a positive result.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Very strong woman.

Strong where?
It's pointless voicing out now that the queen is dead
For the records, the queen was aged 96 years be death.Where was uju Anya all this while.
She is nothing but a coward

Indispensable85:
Study now before you come here and be crying.

What of those police driving one way

This is what you get when you wife a bit*h
Never wife a hoe
And again,no matter how enticing a woman yansh is, never bleep a woman who without a condom

City to win or draw

This story no clear abeg
I travel by air and I know what am talking about

Rozross:
I now understand why you are bitter, may God rescue you and bless you. You and others are the reasons I hardly respond to insults on this forum, I’m like if it makes you ok then no problems. I also discover many people ain’t like me, I see you all as my children and have to take and clean whatever dirts you kids bring. I’m using you all to practice how to be a good mother in future and I’m far better than what I used to be before I joined nairaland. You and others will be fine.

Thanks for that

I saw a thread where a Nairalander CcAblemed talked about about being depressed about how his wrong upbringing by his parents have brought depression on him daily.
I was surprised when I saw that thread because I thought I was alone.Infact I almost cursed the day I was given birth to because I feel less of a human.I can't socialize,I feel shy to express myself to people.My parents are not even financially bouyant.My education stopped at secondary School. I luckily got employed as a cleaner only to get bullied and I have to leave the job.If you have never experienced first class poverty, you don't know what God has done for you. I begin to ask my self a lot of questions I can't answer because am of good character.I lost hope one day and almost committed sucide.My took a turn when I ran away from home. I was getting calls from everyone, but I ignoed I slept under a popular Lagos bridge for the first time in my life.I had no place to go but I don't want to go back home.To cut the story short,A guy helped me secure a job at a nylon factory .I saved up most my salary and that guy accommodated me.I am a computer Engineer. Ask me how. I left the factory Last 2 years and I was able save 1.2m Naira from my salary with some little change.I saved for Good give years!
I eat like a church rat and with my friend's support.I decided to learn computer Engineering from my money but the man seeing my condition help me learn for free.
Now I own my computer Engineering firm and I am an astrologist as well,Am living comfortably on my own now.I got in touch with my mum when I I started learning computer Engineering.I learnt my dad left her after I left.I hate my dad right now but there is nothing I can do about it.He remains my dad either I like it or not.
My point now is you have to leave that shell you have been for years.You have to stand for your self and buckle up with life.Bring your self confidence to existence.Rebuild yourself now or you remain that way for life

Ablemed:
I'll like to make my story short as possible without much introduction tho. And also a lesson parents/ new couples should learn from my ordeal, Pls read to the end.

Alright So I'm the only male born of my parent among 4 girls, i also happen to be the last born at it. my problem started when growing up, cause my parent aged bfr getting a Male child which was my Dad and his parent cravings, I was pampered when growing up such that my parents would never watch me do stressful things, dictate when I go out and who I moved out with (My mum's own was even worse cause when growing up, if I want to go out, she'll always send me back inside) even during secondary school they had to get a school very close to our house. my sisters were only the ones that would go to mum's shop and make sales while mum would either stay with me at home or if I eventually go the shop sef I'll always sit and just watch. Literally, I'll say I was denied the right to be exposed to lotta things and real issues about life.

And cause I was not the sociable type cause I'll literally stay at home, watch movies, eat and my movements limited, I was exposed to pornography and masturbation at a very young age and I battled that bad habit thr my University days (Did I say my Parents also dictated the University I went to cause it was close to our House to and any small riot in school then the next hour they'll come and pick me back home till every thing dies down)

So guys over time, I've grown to be this boring guy who is shy, timid, suffering from low self esteem and can't give vibe even when gisting with my fellow guys, in which most of them just relegate me to this small boy level. Did I also say I've never had a Girlfriend all my life cause the truth is ion always know what to say or how to maintain talking vibe. At first I decide not to care and just always console myself with I was created like that and just continue my boring life, it has now gotten to the point I'm not rated in anything at all, most people just make friends with me cause of what they can gain from me, I'm not even good in anything, I can't speak clearly, I'm kinda literally mentally dumb and ion see me useful for anyone or anything, perhaps maybe God only, No business sense, no work skill or experience, no trade experiences to

I'm currently a Corp member serving and before then I rebelled against my parent cause they wanted to dictate the state I serve which is our state of residence so I go to my ppa from home but I told them No and even got to a fight to my Dad cause of this issue and we din speak for like 2weeks, he eventually called me and we settled. But the issue now is guys I've got less than two months left for my POP for service and you don't expect me to return home useless to my parent house again?? Tho sincerely thr my service year, I din touch my allowee so I've saved up to 270k so far. the issue is ask me what I want to do with the money? I've got no idea, what business sense or idea? Nothing is coming to my head, infact I don't know. The funny thing is, my roommate is exactly my opposite, very outspoken, bold, full of vibe and bring back different female friends each day, this guy is not really financially buoyant but you see girls cook and travel all the way to give him for us to eat. I just wish I was like him, i wish i had the vibe

I'm 24years now and at this age, no idea bout my future, bout life, I can't even relate with people, I'm just so sad, depressed and frustrated. At the moment the only job coming to my head is the military cause I served in a military barrack cause I choose it myself but most of the junior officers are trashing my interest by telling me not to waste my time say I no go survive am with my nature, that military needs tough people and endurance bla bla and on the other hand, my mum is saying Never she'll never allow me join the military not over her dead body and she's bout recruiting my Dad to and Sincerely I'm frustrated and my depression have taken another turn that over the past weeks I've been thinking suicide and it's getting really high, I say I should type this here bfr the worse happen cause if I can't be useful for myself what really is the point living??

Please this advice is to parent and intending parent/couples, pls and pls expose ur children to life, don't over pamper your kids, work on them to make them sociable and outspoken, I swear you'll be doing them a great favour. For me I thought my parent loved me, I thought they were trying to protect me but they've put me in a deep mess I have to face alone and just I pray I get the opportunity to make things right with me

OP I know that if I tell you that you just described the way I was brought up, you won't believe it.In fact I think I need to make my own thread about it.
OP your own is still better, to God who made me.Sebi your parents still get money small, my own parents are not even well to do.Am 22 years as at now and there was a time I almost committed sucide.Right now,am I don't stay with my parents anymore because I ran away from home.Now am doing better without them.