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RomanceRe: Who Should Be Blamed For Betrayal Of Trust by sophy09: 11:14pm On Aug 01, 2010
You both betrayed each other but since you guys are now friends, there is no issue to raise here. The deed has been done. But why are you still friends with your ex and why are you guys bringing up past issues? The past is the past, your ex is your ex. MOVE ON!!!
FamilyRe: What Would You Do by sophy09: 8:12pm On Jul 31, 2010
Is she not your sister? You have to tell she needs to be aware of what is going on in her home. But the thing is how sure are you of the marriage, if it is something you are not sure of and you heard through a grapevine then you do not have to tell her
FamilyRe: Submission In A Marriage: Women, Why The Resistance? by sophy09: 8:08pm On Jul 31, 2010
The mistake most people make about submission is that they view it as your wife being a slave to you. She has no opinion on any issue and every issue has to be decided upon by the man BECAUSE HE IS THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY. But according to a preaching I listened to, a man is the head while the woman is the neck that supports the head. A woman has to be submissive but not in the sense that her opinion doesn't count or she has no say in anything.

Most of these man that want submissive wife that have no say in the home usually have girlfriends that are bossy, meant and rude. At times these girls might be way younger than them, and when they get home they are looking for a submissive woman.
FamilyRe: Which One Is Better: Divorce Or Marriage Without Happiness? by sophy09: 7:59pm On Jul 31, 2010
Divorce is the easiest way out but how do you think children feel living separately from their parents. In a situation where there is no kids divorce will be the best bet but whereby you have kids you need to sacrifice and endure because of your children. If the guy is assaulting his wife and children, then the woman should get a divorce
FamilyRe: I Am Finally Pregnant. by sophy09: 7:28pm On Jul 31, 2010
Congratulations I wish you safe delivery.
EducationRe: Which Course/subject Do You Like Most? Why? by sophy09: 7:09pm On Jul 31, 2010
I never liked school that much and all the subjects were taught by boring instructors. The course I wanted to study was hotel administration but my dad was against it. So I studied marketing which I tried to enjoy but after school and into labor, I realize that it was aggressive marketing that was practiced. The only course I enjoyed was when I enrolled for IATA certification course. I enjoyed all the subjects taught.
RomanceRe: What Song Would You Request At Your Wedding Day? by sophy09: 7:03pm On Jul 31, 2010
Keyshia cole 's you complete me and trust
FoodRe: Mention Your Cooking Disasters Here by sophy09: 7:47pm On Jul 29, 2010
chyket:
i am currently in the US for a vacation/biz trip,its my first time here and i did not understand how things work over here.i rented a one bedroom apartment with a kitchen as they dont serve food here so i am on my own and fortunately i cook well by mens standard.On my 5th night here i was really longing for a naija food so my friend helped me buy the ingredients for okoro soup and i was really boasting to him how well the soup will taste but unfortunatel,when i put the palm oil on fire,i mistakenly allowed it to get too hot and as soon as i put the onions,the place was filled with smoke and as i was thinking of what to do the fire alarm went off and there was serious commotion in the hotel and everybody was rushing to my room to make sure i was ok.later they asked me to open the windows and there goes my dream of eating naija soup that day.I had to eventually convert the meat i boiled for the soup to a pepper soup eventually and we ate it for dinner
I hope they did not call the fire service grin
FamilyRe: Why Do Some Ladies Engage In This Practice? by sophy09(op): 3:01pm On Jul 29, 2010
aisha2:
For the first time i agree with UjuJoan, oster what is your own in this matter? Two people had sex and now are having a baby and you are here crying louder than the bereaved. Are you interested in this guy? Na you wan trap am? If anyone is being selfish here it is you
I am not surprised at your statement it shows that you are self absorbed you think only of yourself and not other people. For someone like you calling me selfish, I think you need to check out the meaning of the word in the dictionary before you make use of it. If I am being selfish I will be looking for ways this issue will be beneficial to me which really the issue is not. I am very sure you don't have male friends and you are the kind of lady girl who sees a guy talking to a girl and you conclude that they are dating.

You know at times when I have nothing to contribute on a thread, I move to the next thread. FOOD FOR THOUGHT
CelebritiesRe: 9ice's New Look , Hot Or Not by sophy09: 6:17am On Jul 29, 2010
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FamilyRe: Why Do Some Ladies Engage In This Practice? by sophy09(op): 12:35am On Jul 29, 2010
MRbrownJAY:
could it be that the baby aint HIS at the first place and that she is using this BS story of pierced condom to force him into marrying her?!

if SHE told him that she pierced the condom then this man should walk away immediately from this evil biatch!!! having children should be a decision made by two consenting adult and not force unto other in devious means.

how can any man trust such a lady from that day? how can any man sleep next to such woman peacefully?!
Exactly what I'm telling him. How can you trust someone like that. It is not a must he marries the girl but he has to be responsible for the child.
FamilyRe: Why Do Some Ladies Engage In This Practice? by sophy09(op): 11:15pm On Jul 28, 2010
The funny thing is that the girl refused to abort the baby. Although I am against the notion, but it is obvious the girl wants something from him. he thinks my friend his rich and all, but the things is that the guy is managing himself. I know how selfish some girls are at times.
FamilyRe: Why Do Some Ladies Engage In This Practice? by sophy09(op): 9:51pm On Jul 28, 2010
Why it is bugging is because as a friend I feel sorry for the guy. He is just starting out in life and here is a problem he wished he never had.
FamilyRe: Why Do Some Ladies Engage In This Practice? by sophy09(op): 3:19pm On Jul 28, 2010
The reason for this topic is what a friend told me, he said his girlfriend pierced the condom without his knowledge and now the girl is pregnant. At first, I said he was responsible because you both had sex, but he made me understand he uses a condom whenever they have sex. So how did the pregnancy come about? He wants her to abort it but the girl does not want to.
FamilyRe: Wife Palava: Am I Right.men In The House? by sophy09: 4:04am On Jul 28, 2010
Crazy grin LMAO!!!
FamilyWhy Do Some Ladies Engage In This Practice? by sophy09(op): 2:57am On Jul 28, 2010
Why is it that most ladies use pregnancy to hook a guy? I mean in this day and age, stuff like this shouldn't be going on. Although some of them are lucky and the guy gets to marry them but they always end up in a loveless marriage. I thought some ladies have learned but I guess not
FamilyRe: Her Parents Love Her The More because She Makes $1500 Weekly Frm Her Private Buz, by sophy09: 4:37am On Jul 27, 2010
And her parent will love her more if she becomes a victim
RomanceRe: She Started It by sophy09: 7:50pm On Jul 24, 2010
How did she come after you? you guys are funny o. You might have termed her friendliness to mean something else.
FamilyRe: Tokunbo Or New Clothes For Kids? by sophy09: 7:40pm On Jul 24, 2010
Haba how can you buy tokunbo for your kids? Even if you need to buy clothes for your kids, there are inferior clothes you can buy which are better than tokunbo. There are numerous skin diseases out there. The funniest thing is that the tokunbo clothes some are more expensive than inferior clothes.
RomanceRe: Do Women Test Men? by sophy09: 5:33pm On Jul 23, 2010
I don't know of others but I do test men a lot. You meet different guys every day who want to date and you can't differentiate the sheep from the goat. You need to test them. I tested my ex on numerous occasions and he failed it all. There are some guys you think they are all in all but when you are testing them without they realizing it you will be surprised what you'll come across.
Christianity EtcRe: Ituah Ighodalo Starts Own Church by sophy09: 5:25pm On Jul 23, 2010
When did church become a business which you can start and close any time. Those that were invited were his

investors. There are numerous churches in Nigeria and yet the people are still hungry and the country is still corrupt.

You can imagine a church in civic center, how much will he be paying for rent? Is the church opened to less privileged

people? My people perish because they lack knowledge. I am not against the pastor or his church but there are some

things more important the church. I pray God comes soon and redeem us all.
TravelRe: Travelling To Canada by sophy09: 2:14am On Jul 21, 2010
That said you just explained yourself. You applied for a teaching job before leaving Nigeria which qualified you to apply for a SIN. "FULL STOP"

The reason why I insist you state the circumstance is that most people in Nigeria do not know anything about Canadian immigration law. Although there is a website which states every information clearly for people to know how to go about it but most Nigerian don't. I understand the stress and the anxiety most of them through. That is why if you want to pass out information to people clearly state you information and the circumstances.
TravelRe: Travelling To Canada by sophy09: 8:07pm On Jul 20, 2010
Don't give people false information about Canada. It is not possible to get a SIN within 3 days of coming into Canada

as an international student. Definitely there are circumstances surrounding your getting "YOUR SIN" within 3days. It

maybe when you were filling your form you said you were going to work in Canada. Even if you are working as a

research assistant in your school you are within the school premises and you can work on campus without SIN. Be

careful what you tell people cause many will come with the hope of getting a job while they study and it is not as easy

as they all claim. Just bring enough money that will see you through the months before you can apply for a work

permit and a job.
FamilyRe: Yourself Or Your Children, Who Would You Want To Suffer More? by sophy09: 7:50pm On Jul 20, 2010
I will rather suffer and go through hardship than for any of my children should go through such.
FoodRe: why do people hate pap (Ogi) so much? by sophy09: 6:14pm On Jul 19, 2010
I love pap especially the white one with a lot of sugar. I don't like adding milk to my pap. The thing I like most about it is that it make me feel sleepy. I take it most times when I cannot sleep.
Music/RadioRe: Any Mary J Blige Fan Here by sophy09: 5:13am On Jul 18, 2010
I love MJB's music from "real love" to "you are everything" to "take me as I am". She has a way with music and her voice is another thing. Jill Scott is another female artist I appreciate. Their songs makes a lot of sense and it is easy to relate to.
FoodRe: Mention Your Cooking Disasters Here by sophy09: 3:17am On Jul 14, 2010
My puff puff is always like akara
FashionRe: Can One Wear Skirt With Tunic by sophy09(op): 3:13am On Jul 14, 2010
mohawkchic:
~You're right on w/ pairing Tunic w/knee length Pencil Skirt.  Like you said,she'd prolly get away w/ pairing it w/ the Tunic but  going by the type of tunic she has (The Kurti) Im in doubt!https://www.labnol.org/assets/images/YahooSmileys/smileys22.gif That type of tunic usually looks best w/ trousers/leggings. . .


~Anywho with the variety of  cuts,colours,designs,shapes,prints & different length available out there,she's bound to find something that works for her since she doesn't  particularly want to pair it up with Trousers/Leggings.


~Found this Pic of a Tunic worn w/ Pencil Skirt. . .
https://www.wendyshow.com/wp-content/uploads/wendy0818093.jpg

This was what I had in mind with the green tunic
FamilyRe: Baby Sienna's First Birthday Party! by sophy09: 10:08pm On Jul 13, 2010
Whao! Congratulations mr and mrs Siena. Your baby looks beautiful.
FamilyRe: Who Should You Put First, Family Or Work by sophy09: 10:04pm On Jul 13, 2010
@poster

As far as, he is providing and what he seems to lack is the quality you guys need, the best thing to do is recognize that he is trying very hard to provide and appreciate him for that. Once in a while you can do something different that will make him happy.
To guys out there, I know how it is to try providing for a family and at the same time trying to be the best for your loved ones.
CareerPwc by sophy09(op): 12:17am On Jul 13, 2010
Can anyone tell me about PwC, their salary and working environment.

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