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Waylex21:
I see a lot of immature men who marry immature women. Maturity here has nothing to do with age or status or financial dependence. Maturity means knowing what you want, and knowing what it takes to have it and keep it. Many people enter into marriages with the wrong intentions. Marry someone who shares the same idea of marriage with you and you will have a wonderful story.

Ask yourself: what is marriage all about before lamenting about marriage favouring only when.
It's time to grow up kids!

Hintona:
I beg your pardon but you can still form strong, powerful emotional ties without having sex in a relationship.

I'm talking from experience.

Righteousness2:
Thanks to GOD, he was stopped.
He was not just stopped from committing suicide.
He was stopped from jumping into Hell Fire.

No Matter your Matter, suicide should not be an option. Suicide is an expressway to Hell.
There is help in JESUS Christ. When life is raging , Cast your burdens upon Him.
Life could be filled with worries and cares but in JESUS Christ and His Word ,you will find peace.
HE is well capable to give you rest.

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bestman09:

His zone b followers will land very soon to defend the failure

Immaculate755:
Good afternoon Nairalanders.
Please I need your input on the predicament I found myself in.

Roughly 3 months ago, I discovered something like a lump in my breast the left side precisely but it wasn't painful if not pressed. Initially, I didn't see it as something serious until clear fluid began to show on the nipple when pressed and the size of the lump seems reduced when water is being squeezed out.

3weeks after the discovery, I went to see a Medical Doctor in a Federal University Health Centre where I'm schooling. I narrated my ordeal to her and asked me to pull off my T-shirt for her to see the lump in the breast which I did.

She did visual check only. No examination or anything. she said it nothing to worry about that it normal.

She then asked of my age? Told her I'm in my mid-twenties (was specific when telling her tho). Her response was that it normal. Then I told her about some researches I made on the internet, that I think it should be normal if am still in my teens prolly because of puberty. Her response was still the same couldn't believe my ears.

Later told her about the nipple discharge (clear liquid) coming out when pressed. She laughed it off and said maybe it breast milk. I was very vexed and told her what's that suppose to mean, saw the vexed look on my face she then apologized that she didn't mean that way that's normal. She asked if it painful? I said no if not pressed and she gave the same response as usual.

It has been over 2months now I met the Medic but can't get it off my mind. The thought of the lump being cancerous that it'll better if the lump is examined on time has been on my mind ever since then.

Please Medics/Health Practitioners come to my aid, is the Medical Doctor right about lump not being cancerous?

Pls pardon my grammatical errors.

Ajehkpako4naija:
Dem wan renew thier rituals, thier soap don finish. Useless ritualist

Deepocean:
Let me go straight to the point.

My daddy is good when it comes to financial fatherly responsibility but lacks fatherly pampering and caring towards the children and wife.

This issue of returning home without first greeting those people at home annoys me a lot.

Whenever he is returning from town he would just enter like that, not greeting anyone with the expectation of we the children and our mummy to first greet him even if we are not aware that he has arrived.

What happened today annoyed me so much, he came in some minutes to 8 this night from the town, I came home from my base a few weeks back to do some things at home but Covid couldn't let me return as planned, I have been ill for the past three days and I am the only one with my mummy, mummy has been doing all the house chores alone since when I was ill.

As daddy got home I was expecting him to at least check on me in my room to greet me for being ill, but he didn't, although I wasn't that concerned about that because I knew him already, and besides I don't get too emotional with things like that.

But, I was emotional and concerned with my mummy, she has been the only one doing all the domestic works at home since all these days. I could not help her, hence, she got tired this evening and had to sent someone in the neighborhood to buy her analgesic to relieve her pains.

She was also resting in her room when daddy came in, my daddy could not just check on anyone even when he didn't see anyone while entering and could not see anyone in the sitting room, of him knowing fully well that I would be inside my room all he was saying was why didn't they switch on the lamp that the house was dark.

I was really annoyed hearing that from him, his food had been ditched already on the table in the sitting room, all he did was just to eat and went to bed.

Honestly speaking I am very angry with him, and this is someone that everyone will be running up and down at any slightest illness of his.

What is too special there for a father to enter and just greet everyone at home?

Is this character a pride or what's can it be called?

Cakkie:
I drink garri with too much sugar. But it has stayed long enough.

God1000:
Not all men, sex is overrated, real men hustle everyday and set their minds on productive things

Personally I want to be like Aliko dangote and Tony Elumelu, there's no time for bullshit

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram


I SAMANKWE to ur GOVERNMENT!


WTF MAN!

Rastaramsey:
Damnnnn this is so bad....

Those Niggars nah pussy ass Niggars....

How man go run update 1.3 billion and he no lock the matter

Some of my guys wey dey run deal 20k sef, you know how many consultations them go do make the matter no cast....

Some Yahoo boys enh

Na only to cashout and spend them know...

Peter532:
Stop been pained, go and Mary a 55 year old woman

Peter532:
Yes you can call me that, for wanting a tear rubber.

LilMissFavvy:
Why would a man date and waste the time of a single mother of 39yrs, when he knew he was only interested in using her, and not interested in marriying her. Then she finally decides to quit the relationship, but he wouldn't accept, such selfishness'.

OgunleyeA1:
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nzeobi:
Any prophet who gives a prophecy and it doesn't come to pass should be arrested a lot of them has ruined lives and destinies

22o62021:
Me breakfast?
Na she dey beg.

Abetterperson:
Have actually tried that, but he seems to sink into a huge depression, any way I can help with that.
Yesterday would have been a month he stopped intake, but his brother request for money and he was so depressed on how to get the money he wanted that stuff again.
He's the one paying for his brothers university fees, his mom lapo debt, his sister school fees.
He's carrying the responsibility of a father at the age of 22
Mind u his not into Yahoo, he works from morning till night, sometimes I see the pain in his eyes but I feel helpless, I'm still a student
How can I help with his depression with telling him to cut his family off, they clearly the problem, his mom as even advised him to enter Yahoo, imagine

Righteousness2:
Poverty is not a thing of Joy , but it is one of the least things one should be afraid of, because as long as there is Life there is hope. It is just a thin line btw poverty and Wealth. A poor person right now can have his life changed in the next hour or befor the day ends.

What should scare anyone is to Live without JESUS Christ or to Depart this world without JESUS Christ. That is Greatest Calamity that could befall any human.

Asianjollof007:
I just feel like keeping mine since it grows naturally, to stay healthy i keep only the left hand finger nails. People admire mine alot because it's neat and moderately shaped, some ladies often ask if it's natural or artificial. Some even ask to teach them how to groom theirs like mine but i tell them it grows naturally.

PS: i'm not lazy and i don't even act femine

obembet:
I was surprised to see Van Dijk ahead of Rudiger.

Emary:
RIP, furry friend. Only a fellow dog lover can understand the pain of losing our loyal companions.

hagjay:
Goodday Nairalanders
I just got a caucasian/german shepherd mix breed dog and that dog is almost driving me crazy.
This dog is one of the nost useless and docile dog I've ever seen.
It doesnt listen or even understand simple instructions, it doesn't bark, it's so friendly to strangers and it fears people and other dogs around the vicinity
Someone should please recommend what i can do to make this dog hostile and aggressive. I'm almost losing my cool
Pls guys, help me

Lucasmuyiwaa:
What happened was that my Dad collected a brand new iPhone I bought from me February last year all because some uncivilized people like him keeps telling him the phone I use is very expensive and said it’s used by yahoo boys and which my Dad hate the word YAHOO.

Though , I felt very sad wondering why he would collect a phone from a 27 years old Son.

I pleaded to him severally to please give me back the phone and I also sent some of his friends which they value each other to him to please help me beg him to return the phone but he keeps telling them he’s not gonna give me and instead get me a small phone that doesn’t browse so as to stop having internet access.

After many Months of using a small Android phone which is very uncomfortable for me and hoping I will gather some money and get a better phone for myself anytime soon.

I waited for some months but couldn’t afford a better phone cuz I don’t want to buy a very low budget phone since I’m addicted to smooth browsing on my IPhone.

Then I tried to find solution for myself by going to find the iPhone he seized in his room even though I don’t enter his room anyhow.

God so good i got into his room when everyone wasn’t aware and I found the phone where he kept it and took it.

I started having conscience on it and asking myself if I’ve messed up.

I came to Nairaland to ask what I should do maybe to return the phone or keep it with me.

I found out some people blamed me for invading his room and getting m my stuff.

Some people told me to return it and never do that again.

when I was going to return the phone I found out that the whole house are back and it’s not possible to go there that time.

I don’t know what to do because it was a luck that nobody was at home that day.

I reasoned to my self maybe I should go and deliver the phone to him myself fearing if he found out the phone is no more there the issue will escalate and will be too late.

The next morning I took the phone to him and told him I find it using a device on the phone with another phone to track it.

He was very annoyed and said what I did was bad with a very cool voice and gave me the phone back himself.

After few hours he called me and said he put some Saudi Money (Riyadh) in the carton he hide my phone and he couldn’t find the money there and asked me if I took it.

I sensed he was trying to tell me that in order to know what I did was bad.

I told him I didn’t take any money there and I honestly didn’t see any money there.

He let me leave and said he will try to find it very well later.

Then just today he called my married elder sister to come to our house and wanted to have a meeting with us cuz we are just two from our late mother.

From his speech he said he can’t be seeing me not working since I’m a graduate and I should find something doing.

He knew I was into exportation of Petrol to Cotonou before the work stopped due to border close down and too much customs officials on the road.

So he started insulting me I’m just being idle and don’t want to work because I’m getting money from yahoo because he returned my phone to me to have internet access.

I accepted all the insults he did to me and didn’t argue with him not until he said if I’m a good boy I won’t go into his room to take my phone and even take his money he kept there the other day.

I then knew he meant that word that I took his money again and which I didn’t even take or see.

Then he began raining insults on me and begin to lay emphasis on the money that I took my phone and his money.

At this point I was very mad and couldn’t hold myself from keeping silence and then I had to break it.

I told him I can take everything he do to me but accusing me wrongfully I will never take that with a mini voice and suddenly wanted to hit me which I run from him to escape.

On running through the steps, he suddenly grab the big stool in the sitting room and dropped it on my head which nearly hit me . (If that stool hit me I don’t know what will happen to me )

But I managed to escape and he started raining curses on me and insulting my late mother for giving him a son like me.

My sister was there too and all she kept saying was I’m very rude to disclaim the accusations and defending myself and she also start insulting me that how dare should I talk when he’s talking.

After few insults he gave me so he came downstairs and started insulting me again while I stand not too far from him.

He quickly picked up a very big stone and a big plank on the floor threw at me which if these two objects meet me I will still be bleeding by now.

He told me with anger that I’m a bastard and cursed me saying it will not better for me and we can never sleep together in the house today and he left and went out.

So my stepmother returned and I narrated everything to her and made her known I’m leaving the house to avoid unnecessary violence again because I’ve been planning to leave the house due to everyday arguments and his nags.

The stepmother told me not to leave the house and rather he will talk to him and calm him down and everything will be fine.

I already made my mind to leave the house and stay at the hotel for some days because my friend which I could go and stay with has traveled last week and said he will be back today.

I got to the hotel and booked the room and having some rests then I saw my stepmother call and she said I should come home and we need to talk.

I sensed maybe she was trying to set me up and I told her I’m at where I’m going to sleep tonight because I just don’t want to come home today.

She said I shouldn’t even think that way and promised me nothing is going to happen.

I believed her because she knows I respected her and I knows she likes me.

Then she told me to come home and sleep and assure me no violence will happen as she just need to talk to me privately which I don’t have idea what else she want to tell me .

Now should I go home or just sleep at the hotel and probably not going to go to that house again soon if I sleep at the hotel today ?

Uniquetani1:
Of course

Uniquetani1:
These are the attributes I want in a man.

He must be handsome
He must be wealthy
He must be fair
He must be tall
He must be kind
He must be an introvert
He must be hardworking
He must not be the first son of his family
He must not be Mama's boy
He must be ambitious
He must have the fear of God
He must be respectful as in believe in gender equality.
He must be responsible
He must be faithful
He must be intelligent


What about you?


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