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Family › Re: If You Are The Poorest Amongst Your Siblings Avoid Family Gatherings. by SPAMBOX7: 10:54am On Jan 02, 2024
So even families have preferential treatment for their own. Just imagine.
Now tell me why you want the society to smile at you for being a failure. Omo in this life you either make it or you are nothing to anyone..not even your family.

Chai
Romance › Can Women Learn From Their Mistakes? by SPAMBOX7(op):
https://www.nairaland.com/7954403/been-insensitive-should-just-neighbour

I read the story above and asked myself will she learn from her experience? As the story reminded me of one chick.


So this girl I once dealt with. She was chick and while we were dating she sent money to her ex that was in another state to come meet her. The ex didn't come. But the fact she wanted the dude to come was enough. I found out through her friend and dumped her.

At first I just locked up I didn't confront her cos I wasn't tired of smashing her yet. But this chick was the type that if she call you once and you don't pick she's calling you on video call the next second to know where you at. God save you to pick if not she will assume you with another chick and start keeping malice.
I don't even wanna talk about her sneaking into my WhatsApp at any given opportunity. But one day she went into my WhatsApp and called a random girl's number thinking she was my girl.

I got pissed and told her to bring her phone lemme check too then she refused. I insisted and all this while she rushed to her WhatsApp and cleared some chat she had of she and the ex. This got me mad but I calmly told her I know what she been up to. She tried to deny then I told her about her sending her ex money to come smash her in town. She was perplexed. She started begging..

Then I told her we can't be the same again. Even tho I wasn't tired of hitting I told her point blank I ain't taking her back. The only thing that would make me take her back was if she was gonna be paying me half of her salary monthly cheesy

She got mad that I was trying to make her buy me. I told her I don't care cos since she got enough money to send to a man to come smash her like she's some sugar mommy then it was only fair she pay me for what I been doing for free. If not no more fvking and I gave her a deadline if she don't start paying she should forget about me. I told her plain blank that it was my punishment to her for trying to cheat and still having the guts to check through my phone and even go dial some numbers.
She cried throughout the night and left the following morning. But before she did she cursed and spoiled my door knob grin


Chick came back after 2 weeks calling with different numbers cos I already blocked her, crying that she is ready to start paying me half of her salary..I told her the deadline was over and that was it.


This was like a year ago. Last night I saw her at my former hood when I went to check on a friend. We didnt speak cos the moment I saw her coming towards my direction I went inside the house. Her friends kept telling me how she keeps talking about me and how she fbcked up and wished I gave her another chance bla bla.
Now I am asking you fellas if I had given that girl another chance would she have made good use of it?

Because I haven't seen a woman that was given a second chance and she made good use of. It is always the opposite, cos instead of changing they rather device ways to be more sneaky.
This has always been what I observed from modern women. Our forefathers used to exert measures that will make their women not to repeat any mistakes they have done. And they used to Obey and fall in line. But women of nowadays tends to operate differently.

I think it is this evolution that made the statement "once a cheat, always a cheat" valid af.

So I am asking one more time. Are there any women that has learnt from her mistakes and adjusted after given a second chancehuh
Nairaland General › Re: What Negative Act Are You Stopping This 2023? by SPAMBOX7: 10:33am On Dec 31, 2023
HeadNigga:
No more new me. I stopped it last year.
Same here. Realized it's just a waste of time. Anyone could change anytime. You don't have to wait for a specific time or date
Christianity Etc › Re: What Are Your Hope And Expectations For 2024? by SPAMBOX7: 10:20am On Dec 31, 2023
Not pressuring myself over some new year again.
Whether new year or not Imma take every day just like any other day and move at my pace
Nairaland General › Re: Describe Year 2023 With 'One Word' by SPAMBOX7: 7:55am On Dec 31, 2023
Awesome
Romance › Re: Is This A Minor Issue Or We Should Just End The Relationship? by SPAMBOX7: 10:08pm On Dec 30, 2023
Netcry0:
There’s was a time she said she want us to have a baby i said okay.. we tried and nothing happened.
That your girl Don abort till e affect her womb. My ex girl had same ish. Them go live rough life abort till e affect their womb and then when it's time to have babies wahala go come dey. Those type just for nacs while you still waiting for the one that's for you
Romance › Re: I Want To Cancel The Marriage Plans. What Do You Think? by SPAMBOX7: 9:55pm On Dec 30, 2023
Those kind girls na make you just dey fvck dem at arms length. You no suppose allow am know your house sef. Her type na to just dey use hold body till you see the one wey you dey find.
But yall boys of these days too impatient yall just pick anything to wife.
Christianity Etc › Re: What's The Essence Of Marriage?? by SPAMBOX7: 2:14pm On Dec 30, 2023
ogawisdom:
grin

Just a stupid institution to kill a man with billing after which the kids n wife will abandon the foolish man once he is old.

We need home of the aged in Nigeria ASAP for people who wants to think outside the box.

It is a poverty alleviation programme for most jobless and hungry ladies, that is why they are desperate for it.
What do you mean by @emboldened
Romance › Re: Reply From The Guy Whose Claim To Jilt A Girl On His Wedding Day!! by SPAMBOX7: 2:00pm On Dec 30, 2023
Nonexisting1:
As soon as I read what she wrote, I knew she didn't have anything on the nigga. She is just another bitter 403 disgracing herself on social media. If she had anything on him, she would have opened mouth waa and penned down an entire book, lies included ofcourse. Whenever they curse without telling a story, they have nothing to tell. The street dog will remain in the streets and continue providing relief to street niggas until old age catches up with her.
Abeg we need them in the streets for relief o. If not yawa go dey cheesy
Romance › Re: Jilted Girl Curses Ex Boyfriend On The Occasion Of His Wedding.(photo) by SPAMBOX7: 8:04pm On Dec 29, 2023
Benue girl. I'm not surprised cheesy
NYSC › Re: Relocating To Abuja For My Nysc by SPAMBOX7: 7:58pm On Dec 29, 2023
Heart of Abuja but also close to Kubwa is Gwarinpa and Maitama.
There is constant electricity in Maitama. I dunno about Gwarinpa tho
Romance › Re: Few Weeks To Wedding....text Message Discovered. by SPAMBOX7: 6:43pm On Dec 29, 2023
LilMissFavvy:
Hmm, so you are still waiting for Miss. Perfect?

As for the Op, my advice is that your brother should think of the attributes of this lady. Does she have good characteristics? If she loves him, is well mannered, etc, then he can forgive her and marry her. If she doesn't possess other good attributes, then he can let go. There is no perfect human and mistakes happen.
So basically you saying a woman would love a man but still go tell another man he'd love to kiss him. Right undecided
Lmfao
Romance › Re: Few Weeks To Wedding....text Message Discovered. by SPAMBOX7: 6:35pm On Dec 29, 2023
worldclass68:
Pure red flag...but some people around them would say it's nothing, that's the guy is having insecurity
issues blablabla.... believe it, if she meets the same model tomorrow, he would fvck her wella...


Things is that majority of these girls re public hoes...
Harsh but the truth
Romance › Re: Is this Enough Reason to Break up with him? by SPAMBOX7: 6:29pm On Dec 29, 2023
Dump that dude asap. He's not a real Arsenal fan to start with. Arsenal fans are already used to disappointments that even if a girl leaves them they won't even feel it.
Start by testing that fraud of a fan by dumping him. If he calls and starts begging then just know that na fake Arsenal fan. That's how you will know if you dating a cry baby fraud or a man.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs West Ham United (0 - 2) On 28th December 2023 by SPAMBOX7: 10:34am On Dec 29, 2023
CatchMeIfUCanMO:
Yes, I am ok with that.

It is not about quoting figures, I can stake 200k if you can but if you're in Nigeria, let's meet somewhere and get a third person to be the witness i.e boardman or handover the cash to Seun or any other person traceable here.
Guy no go throway your money city will win the league. Remember they have an outstanding match with injuries yet they still thriving. Na when DE bruyne and Haaland is back that they will slack. Come back in May and quote me if I am wrong.
Family › Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by SPAMBOX7: 9:57am On Dec 28, 2023
princefunm:
I think you have your answer already.

You are in love and are in a raging battle as to whether to go on or not.

Dude, that feeling you are having, that pain and heartbreak you feel, that sense of loss you are trying to dodge, they will fade away with time. You won't even remember what it feels like to love her.

I will tell you point blank.

Dump her. She is going to do it again and again and again. And you won't know.

Dump her and heal. You will heal. And you will be grateful you did.
Op even if you no listen to any other thing for this thread listen to @embolden. Everything you are feeling now is temporary. Trust me after one month without her you will start thanking your stars for making that decision by leaving her.
Romance › Re: I Saw Death Face To Face Yesterday But I Didn't Die by SPAMBOX7: 12:21pm On Dec 27, 2023
Garri on Christmas day no wonder you went into a Trance cheesy
Romance › Re: What Is Sweeter Than This? by SPAMBOX7: 12:16pm On Dec 27, 2023
Try receiving a credit alert of 1m above first. Then come back and clear this chat. Something as common as pussy shouldn't even be placed among the sweetest things to start with
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Demands Too Much Money by SPAMBOX7: 12:05pm On Dec 27, 2023
No comment cry
Family › Re: What's The Origin Of Boxing Day? How Is It Connected To Christmas? by SPAMBOX7: 7:28pm On Dec 26, 2023
9182736455O1999:
Boxing day no be to blow person o.
Boxing day is for unwraping the gifts you received for christmas.
Then it is supposed to be unboxing day na cheesy
Romance › Re: What Are You Giving Your Girlfriend This December by SPAMBOX7: 4:23pm On Dec 25, 2023
AsomStructures:
What are the girls going to give their boyfriends this December?
They will say peace of mind and love as usual cheesy
Romance › Re: What Are You Giving Your Girlfriend This December by SPAMBOX7: 4:22pm On Dec 25, 2023
Belle sure for her. That's more than a enough
Food › Re: Show Your Christmas Cooking & Livestock You're Using ⭕️ by SPAMBOX7: 4:12pm On Dec 25, 2023
I rocked pounded yam with egusi.
Best for Christmas
Travel › Re: Airpeace Defends allegation of Fare Disparity In Parts Of The Country by SPAMBOX7: 12:27pm On Dec 25, 2023
nairalanda1:
Well, for booking airline, book early....and get cheaper prices.

Book late, and get expensive prices.
Lol this doesn't work with Nigeria airlines anymore. Book early or late na same price you go jam cheesy
Politics › Re: How Much Is Gas In Your Area Today? by SPAMBOX7: 8:52am On Dec 25, 2023
Everything for this country now na luxury
Romance › Re: What's Your Plan For 2024? by SPAMBOX7: 8:28pm On Dec 24, 2023
lifenija:
Bleep bitches more bitches
Prolly get a babymama as well. Then I fit live any life wey I want at least make I get one pikin down first.
That's my agenda next year
Romance › Re: How Do You Handle A Cheating Boyfriend? by SPAMBOX7: 12:57pm On Dec 24, 2023
eepeepook:
Let’s hope they stay that way for good.
grin
Romance › Re: How Do You Handle A Cheating Boyfriend? by SPAMBOX7: 12:56pm On Dec 24, 2023
And what makes you think the girl isn't cheating either. Abi na cos she no talk her own? Rest
Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Becomes Homeless In The Uk After His Wife Dumped Him by SPAMBOX7: 12:53pm On Dec 24, 2023
advanceDNA:
Always remember....women are loyal to only their emotions ....
And this is why it is advised to never get attached. Imagine man getting attached to someone that is loyal to their emotions. Na suffer be that cheesy
Romance › Re: What's Your Greatest Achievement In 2023 by SPAMBOX7: 12:49pm On Dec 24, 2023
All I can say is God is the greatest. Cos if Wan talk I no fit finish. That's all
Family › Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by SPAMBOX7: 12:34pm On Dec 24, 2023
Nazgul:
1.7m in Tinubu's Nigeria is rubbish. No thanks to inflation and high dollar rate.

Do you know that at child both a considerable amount of that money would go into the hospital expenses. After being discharged from the hospital, there are still other things you'll have to keep buying.

Baby soap and cream.

Napkins.

Baby milk formular.

Baby clothes.

Routine medical checkup.

Coupled with your regular household expenses.

If he does this consistently for 3 months, that 1.7m would finish.
Abeg make person hear word. Poor people wey no get shishi wey dey born nko. Yall be doing too much on this matter of having and caring for a baby.
Guys rasing a baby isn't as expensive as this person here portrays. Make una stop dey scare people. 1.7m will finish in 3 months for baby feeding lmao
Family › Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by SPAMBOX7: 12:31pm On Dec 24, 2023
Valoromega:
I've thought about this and it's a very good reason. I won't lie, when it comes to my pregnant wife and the baby, my mother inlaw will go through hell for them. When the baby is born she will be the one to do the caring. I think I'll sacrifice 100k to buy the rice and other things for both my mom and my mother in law. But I tell me wife I bought it on credit ( the seller is close to us)
Nice one.

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