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Bliss62:
Have a deep heart to heart discussion with him

Most times break down in commiunication causes more damages in relationships

You guys are not mind readers, and need atleast 3 hours of talking daily

Early in the morning atleast an hour after praying together

And before sleeping

Topics should include how your day went by

Una no dey tire with this una cliche 😫
Tueh!

Jewessgratitud3:
I came across a post where some men where expressing disappoinment over the high rate of indecent dressing among our girls and thought to make a counter post to let the men understand why it is so and how they are not unconnected to it.

Now, you Men come here to complain about indecent dressing of most ladies meanwhile you're the reason this things are so.

90% of the time, You men are naturally and easily attracted to this indecent girls. I've seen it happen a lot of times. If a decently dressed lady and the slutty ones are placed side by side for you men to make a pick , the tendency to pick the decent girls will be low compared to how you would rush after their slutty counterparts and it is this single act that has driven more girls and even the once decent and innocent girls into dressing slutty just to be seen by men.

In another scenario, a girl will be minding her business and you men will come and start flashing cash before her to lure her into sleeping with you even when your intentions are not pure. Like you don't plan to marry her. It will take extra discipline and grace of God for any young girl to reject such offer and when she gets used to getting this free cash and starts demanding or giving her body to the highest bidder, the same you men will start complaining again. Why are you men now complaining now that they are giving you what you want? Abi na me dem dey dress like that for?

Some men will even tell you they need a Christian sister with a touch of Ashawo vibes. I mean.... these girls see and hear these things and the chicken brain among them who don't want to be left out will begin to conform to such lifestyle.
Others will tell their wife's to dress decently but will go and be running after the slutty ones outside. This is the reason you can hardly tell a married woman apart these days because of the way they too have started dressing slutty just to keep their untamed husband. You men had better dropped this double standard mentality because the woman are no longer having it. What is sauce for the goose is good for the gander.

After this carefully expressed thoughts/ points of mine, it is safe to say that you Men are the cause of high moral decadence in the society cos you're the ones promoting it by your actions.

So if men say you should jump inside ocean now would you?. Some of yall so quick to prove how yall got fish brains

Na club wey cut that guy ticket do this thing. If you check well Man U fit dey am

At least men dey bring money. Wetin dey other gender dey bring aside toto and unnecessary headaches.

Uyi2017:
My eyes have seen and my ears have heard

Who is this one deceiving. Madam go back and remove that (m) on your moniker. this your the best way to disguise and spill trash? lol.

In the whole universe na only for this country grid dey collapse. And also the only place grid collapses every month i.e 12 times a year.
Who do this country don die throway

Jennyclay:
Why recording and posting it online?? Is not as if he’s faithful either . Nigerian Men are really childish . The idiot even said he’s feeling like God . Mumu!

You don’t give your girlfriend money, you don’t take her out on a romantic date, you nonsense men don’t even care about her well being and you want to experience faithfulness and true love . You foolish men must be joking!!

I’ve said it, if I can’t get enough money, sex and true love from my man, I’ll look else where. No time!!

Shior!!

Any man that's dating you is a big fool. Just know that any man that is with you is a fool. No sensible man will date someone like you

[quote author= post=127428058]Reading partners whatsapp/text messages has opened many Pandora boxes.

@Op,
You are not alone.
Kelechi our neighbor is still in shock at this time since he discovered the below....

He couldn't believe his eyes....
We are still on the matter as we type....
The Child involved is now 3 years old!!
Tins dey happen o.
We were shocked to read all the over 20 screenshots he shared with us,
It was so surreal 😢

Fear some women........
Cherish some women........[/quote]Obara Jesus wetin I just read

SMJay:
I heard the traffic on that axis is extremely bad.

Person wey trek go first you reach Ajah. That alone should tell you something

Starboytwo:
Last time I was In Lagos, a 30 minutes journey stretched to over 2 hour journey.

I started thinking about my life in the standstill, blistering heat and sweat running down my forehead inside the danfo, from Ikotun to Mushin, just to see my mama, family and friends.

This place is not for me I decided. Well until that road is completely fixed.

This one small na lol. Try VI to Ajah from 4pm downwards. The distance isn't up to 20km but your body go tell you when you reach house from sitting inside bus
Person wey trek go first you reach Ajah

Nice2023:
How...it means u like suffering.

U come to Abuja eh...living here is serene and absolutely beautiful.

No noise.

Complete opposite of Lagos.

When I first moved to Abuja from Lagos at first it was boring cos of how quiet everywhere is. Man was used to Lagos unending noise. But I am glad I made that move. Most of my guys there that visited me wan relocate come join me

Abeg make person hear word. Una go dey make person wey never live for Lagos go dey think say na one kind hell.
Yes living in Lagos is one of the hardest things in life but not the way y'all always try to put it. As long as you a smart person life in Lagos isn't that hard. But try get money sha you go enjoy pass

Postinor:
I am 6'3 in height and I am 19 yrs of age. I usually feel too tall when I walk around my age mates and what makes me feel insecure the most is when people start saying that I am long.

Tall people out there, how do you survive? I also hate it when people stare at my height when I am walking in the street because I am the kind of person that likes being conspicuous and unseen.

At times I just wish I wasn't so tall, so I would like to know at what age does one stop growing in height?

Lol 6'3 and they say you long? You must be living in an environment full of short people.

Aaaaarghmed:
I wound the Narcissist wey I ghost sotey,she gatz call me after months and said....so it is very easy for you to leave and walk away.This her statement sweet me die.I have always told her,I have gentle face but if I cross my mind.Am not going back.she think say na joke.i bullshit her.

Dem dey believe actions pass. If you tell them something even if you mean it they will think it's just bluff until you prove it with actions.

For me it is okay to walk away from a bitch at least once in a relationship. Whatever you two have going is always better when that happens and you two later reconcile.

Narcissist or not a man with a strong frame can conquer any bitch. Who goes back to apologize when they ain't wrong. Plus can't even go 2 weeks without talking to a bitch lol. Op was just a weak mf and fully deserved what he got.

Women should learn to teach men like this more bitter lessons so they will learn.

6ixVille:
Two months is not bad...bt im looking at the opportunity to network in that area because of the calibre of pple there and light never goes off. My 3months salary is me even paying like 1/4 of the total rent. Thanks for ur input

Lol. Make use of your wisdom bro. Abort that idea asap. Which kind sense be this

Gadafii:
If you had rizz, you could have still bagged that pusse, okafors law never fails

Calling an ex especially one whom did no bad in your books is not a bad idea, but if she’s a cheat, toxic, lazy and dirty, cut her loose

That’s why I don’t break up with any of my girls, if I notice she has started acting like ogbanje I will give her space and withdraw silently so that later in the future I can easily reinitiate conversations with her again, some exs dey fine after separation sha

Same here. Even if she fbck I will just dump her without explanation.

Eba and whatever soup that is

naijamanyoutube:
I even took some to eat on the train to Edinburgh, Scotland from Manchester.

It's the Akara and pap for me. Been over a year I had Akara and pap even though they sell in my street. Tomorrow I dey go buy

Zxcvbnmghtr:


Come and see broke ass guys call him simp.

Any man that calls him a simp is actually stupid and doesn't know shit

You want to commit to a naija babe. Duh!

EDUECO:
Why not charge ₦‎60,000( ₦‎60,000 × 130 passengers will give ₦‎7,800,000)?

₦‎250,000 ×6 passengers just gave the airline ₦‎1,500,000

The manager of this airline is clueless just like a typical Nigerian politician!

Not everyone has the brain to do the math you just did there. You will amazed that we have more dullards at the top than fishes in the river

Aaaaarghmed:
Keep banging ,detach yourself emotionally.una too dey emotional with women.I don date ladies wey get guy,I dont care,even if am the side guy.as far as it's just for the moment.cos I cannot take them serious before.

Swears. Men be too weak with women nowadays. Species that behaves like little kids. Tells you and even swear with their life they won't betray you then goes at your back and do what they want is what one man will be emotionally attached to. Lmao

psalmsjob:
I'm posting this as a response to the topic that made Nairaland front page yesterday; "See What Someone Bought With An Hour Minimum Wage In The UK £10", the link: https://www.nairaland.com/7929193/see-what-someone-bought-hour

UK & US ARE OVER-RATED NIGERIA IS STILL BETTER in terms of cost of living see a practical example why doing a price comparison: 1 pound to 1 naira today is N1,001 so are you saying with £10 x N1,001 = N10,001 you cannot buy everything in that basket and collect change in Nigeria today?

1 Sliced Bread = N800
2 Spaghetti = N1400
1 Gesha = N600
1 live chicken = N3,000
1 75cl soya Oil = N1,400
1 Midium size Butter = N600
2 Gino Tomato paste = N1,000

Total = N8,800 so your change is N1,200 that's if you exchange pound to naira at offical rate and buying at the most expensive stores or high brands. If you exchange at black market rate and buy at public market "days" you will collect as much as N6,000 after buying everything in that basket....that's about £6 left.

LET'S JUST THANK GOD FOR WHAT WE HAVE AND STOP LOOKING AT AND GLORIFYING ANOTHER MAN'S LAND MORE THAN OUR OWN....OUR OWN NA OUR OWN O

Show me what you can buy with your Nigerian hour pay. Some of una go dey do math like una no go nursery nawao

She mustn't have multiple body counts for you to know she belongs to the streets

SweetBuns:
They say that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder", but honestly speaking there are certain calibres of men I will never go near no matter how hard they try.

To get straight to the point,

1. Short men
Oh my God.... I don't just know what to say about these sort of men. If I'm taller than you as a girl, then sorry but I can never see you as my second piece. You'll always be like a younger brother to me. No hard feelings.
Short men also have this irritating attitude whenever they see girls around, as if they're trying to compensate for their low height. And some even go to the gym and gets muscles.... But it just makes them look shorter like a 5 litre jerry can and irritating
Also, why in the world would I pick a short guy over a tall guy? I literally feel so protected and safe when I'm with a guy that is wayyyy taller than me (I'm 5'2 so my height is kinda average)... So ofc I'd want a tall man and not a mini man.
Imagine hugging a man and he's hugging your waist cause he's short ugh.
I wanna stand on my toes whenever I kiss him and strain my neck just to look at his face. No more no less.
Tall men also stand out more, they're far more attractive and I also want taller sons and daughters.
Who should the short guys date then? I dunno... But not me.
The bar starts at 6'0, but If you're like 6'2 or 6'3... I want your babiesss

2. Bald men
The only age where I think baldness is acceptable as a man for me is if he's like in his 50s or 60s. But if you're in your 20s-30s and you're already going bald.... It just irritates me low-key in a inexplicable way... Like why will a young guy have a hairline that receeds all the way to the middle or back of your head? Where did all your hair go? Gross
I also read somewhere that early balding is genetically inherited so that means my children too will suffer the same fate? God forbid.
My man ought to have a head full of hair well into his 60s, then we start talking about hair loss.

3. "Oju yo Bo" people
I didn't know the English term for this so I had to Google it. It's a Yoruba term for people whose eyes pop out of their sockets like that of a wall gecko. This is also something I don't like in my man.... I want his eyes to be like that of Henry Cahill... Neatly tucked inside and having small slit like opening.

Addition: so I just googled it and it's called prey eyes. I prefer the hunter one since it gives my man a piercing gaze and I just wanna hug him immediately.

4. Eyebrows
A man MUST have thick eyebrows. If you don't, I can't take you seriously

5. Men with bad posture

6. Men who supports man U

That last one was a joke but I'm dead serious about the rest. And I'm sure other girls will agree to some up there too.

5'2 that's almost like a dwarf. Any man wey no tall pass you is definitely a dwarf

I am a uni drop out but I can do and comprehend things 65% of Nigerian graduates can only imagine. Most of them are awed at my delivery and they never hesitate to confess.

And you the ip, the fact you mistake education for having a uni degree etc already disqualifies you as an educated person. If you are really educated you wouldn't ask that cos you suppose know normal. So let's say you just went to school..simple!

Jangbajantis:
Yes.

They attacked Israel during the ceasefire agreement and injured many. Two of those involved were neutralized by IDF though.

Naw. Those Hamas mumu no be here o. Now see how they made their supporters look stupid

bassdow:
Common cease fire that was agreed upon, Hamas saw it as window of opportunity, despite the fact they, HAMAS are largely on the loosing side

These Hamaz mumu sha. Now they will make all their supporters look stupid

jeromestarks:
The world said "cease fire" but Hamaz still launched attack. Islam just like attacking you when you're sleeping. That's their best strategy.
The sneak up on you and bite you.
If you are not sleeping, Islam can't win you.
Nigerians need to wakeup too.

Hamaz killed them. Hamaz started this war. Hamaz brought death to the people of Gaza.

The people of Gaza deserve to die because they were rejoicing when Hamaz launch the first strike and killed over 1400 innocent Israelis.

You mean while cease fire was ongoing the Hamaz still attacked Israelis?
Abi I no read well

Jangbajantis:
Because the terrorist Hamas broke the deal when they attached Israel first.

Wait you mean even when cease fire was ongoing the Hamaz still attacked Israelis?
Abi I no read well

Stfu if he dint dump you you wouldn't have leveled up. You would expect him to be taking your shit ass like that. That's how most of y'all are.
Glad he made the right choice cos now you are at your best version he deserves an award sef. Now that you have leveled up he can come back for his award, do small sweet talk and pipe the fbck out your transformed self. Cos it's obvious you haven't moved on.