Politics › Re: How South East Lost Out In $93b Foreign Investments by sparko1(m): 5:41pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
nedu666: South east had the least investment at 203 million dollars. North west had 29 million dollars, north east had 39 million dollars. Yet the south east is least according to the article. Wonderful Growth! How hard is that? Growth over the specified years. |
Politics › Re: PDP National Leadership Swears In Enugu State EXCO by sparko1(m): 5:45pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Which one is “Swears in” again! |
Phones › Re: OPPO A92 For ₦109,900: Is It Worth It? by sparko1(m): 8:56am On Aug 11, 2020 |
Bomed62519: Good morning � Thieves everywhere, better go get a job. |
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija House Cost ₦2.5 Billion To Complete by sparko1(m): 7:38am On Aug 11, 2020 |
michlins: Una just dey quote numbers anyhow. No privatebuilding in Nigeria costs 1bn. The land is what is always expensive and not the building Are you for real! Some houses cost over 10bn. |
Celebrities › Re: Mary Timms: "Not All Slim Girls Have Flat Backside" by sparko1(m): 9:14pm On Aug 09, 2020 |
pretydiva: If this rubbish post enter front page ehnn. What I will do would be left u imagined You were saying?...  |
Romance › Re: A Lady I Was Toasting Insulted Me Because Of My Height by sparko1(m): 10:37pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
ubunja: So what was the insult again? I can't seem to find it on your post. Chai  This is the real insult |
Computers › Re: Naked German Man Chases A Wild Boar After It Snatched His Laptop (Photos) by sparko1(m): 5:08pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Edo Assembly Holds First Plenary, Orders Closure Of House’s Bank Accounts by sparko1(m): 3:41pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
IgbalodeRaymond: [s][/s] lol and who go send money for the account or approve the money to be sent? Stop fooling yourself if you think Executive power na beans 
the statement is just to hit they polity nothing more  That’s not power, that’s anarchy! The executive have account, so does the house! This is just childish, the issue here is not a party issue, the executive have no right to access the account of the House. |
Politics › Re: Edo Assembly Holds First Plenary, Orders Closure Of House’s Bank Accounts by sparko1(m): 3:32pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
IgbalodeRaymond: nope you're the one pained because inside you, you know that this is just a mere toutish talk.
Oya go stop Obaseki from making withdrawal naaa the way you guys where talking yesterday one would have taught by now Obaseki would be chilling in his personal residence impeached. but little did you know that Edo is not Lagos APC is scared because they knew that they cannot win any free and fair elections in Nigeria and they're also scared that Obaseki is ready to do them the Wike in Edo state. Thank God Obaseki gat the people Ize the criminal cultist fake pasta should keep relying on rigging. Ambode is a bastard fat pig clown
cc Simplyleo NgeneUkwenu Bros sometimes read before commenting now, he said HOUSE account. Obaseki doesn’t have the right to withdraw from house of rep accounts. Read! Don’t make a fool of yourself! |
Politics › Re: Victor Edoror: Malami Instructed IGP, DG DSS To Provide Us With Security by sparko1(m): 12:23pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
azmanaty02: Are u that daft?? 18members that their seats have Already been declared vacant. They are no longer members of the state assembly. How can you elect a speaker when u are not an assembly member in the first place?  So who represents his people? The only way to remove them after election is a recall, and there is nothing like that. |
Education › Re: Some Commonly Confused Animals: Can You Tell Them Apart? by sparko1(m): 7:42am On Aug 07, 2020 |
pocohantas: 1— Leopard and Jaguar
Pic 1: Leopard Pic 2: Jaguar
Pic 3: Black panther and his leopardess spouse. An article I read said they have been together for 4yrs. Some of you can’t even stay 1yr .
Pic 4: What is happening here? Is it not you again, you just have to add this part, always looking for trouble. |
Crime › Re: Pastors Glory Okeoghene Aberefa & Vincent Okpogo Jailed For Stealing by sparko1(m): 10:34am On Jul 28, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Pastors Glory Okeoghene Aberefa & Vincent Okpogo Jailed For Stealing by sparko1(m): 10:32am On Jul 28, 2020 |
I Righteousness89: If they are Wise, they will Make Good use of this Prison Sentence to sort themselves out with God and Get themselves ready for Eternity... 16 + 17 years to sort things out with Fod!  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: VACANCY!! ONLINE Customer Sales Support Job For An IT Company by sparko1(m): 8:24am On Jul 28, 2020 |
8lngish: sure, do how do I contact you You can’t see the email provided! |
Romance › Re: We Met In 2017 On Nairaland And In July,2020 We Got Married by sparko1(m): 3:10am On Jul 24, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Why Did She Lose Interest Suddenly? by sparko1(m): 6:50pm On Jul 23, 2020 |
alaribe1992: I am an undergraduate of a high institution in Owerri, so I've been home due to the closure of schools Nationwide.
There's this girl whose mom owns a drinking bar somewhere around my street, she's an undergraduate too, but she's been home too during this lockdown. I've been seeing this girl for years but started developing feelings for her suddenly.
I approached her as a sharp guy and collected her number. She wasn't using a smart phone then, so we communicate through phone calls. At first our conversations was smooth and sweet, and it was like a match made in heaven, we haven't gone out for a date due to she always stays in her mom's shop and her mom is a very strict woman. Her dad is late. I told this girl my mind, that I'd like us to date and she agreed.
To cut the story short
After a week she started acting strange, sometimes she wouldn't pick my calls and she won't call back, she got a smart phone and was back on WhatsApp. She replies my text late after seeing them.
On Sunday afternoon I called her and she busied my call, a friend of mine who lives opposite their shop called me on phone telling me the girl was outside their shop and was over the phone with someone for a long time. I called her again and she busied my call again, I texted her on WhatsApp to ask her what her problem was.
After a day, she replied on WhatsApp that she's sorry. Well today she just texted me that she's no longer interested in the relationship that she just wants to be left alone. Note that we haven't even had a time together all this while due to the fact I didn't want to rush things with her and she was always at her mom's shop.
I want to know how someone that likes you before just wakes up and all of a sudden no longer interested in you again without any provocation.
Thank you You should take a cue, a working class guy have gotten to her! Btw, there’s nothing as a match made in heaven! Once she gets a better offer, if she doesn’t leave she want to eat two play! Sorry bro, get busy! |
Romance › Re: Reasons Why Girls Snub Guys - by sparko1(m): 6:45pm On Jul 23, 2020 |
lavylilly: REASONS WHY GIRLS SNUB GUYS - 1...You are seeing her name on top with her profile pic and u are still asking her what's her name
2... Always asking her if we can see, as if she opened her facebook account for you to see her
3... U asked how are you , she said fine , you are still asking about her day ,if her day was bad she wouldn't have said she was fine...stop asking too much unnecessary questions in the name of being romantic ; 
4... She know she's pretty, stop reminding her about that
5. you meet a girl online all you care about is her big butt, hip and breast...those are the only thing you tell her about herself. And you're already thinking and planning how to have sex with her... Bro why won't she snub you?
6... You said you love her no problem, she asked u for airtime, voom u went offline � and u expect her to reply ur message again 
7... Stop asking her if she have a bf, go to her timeline and read her bio
8... Asking her to send you her pics, bro go check her mobile uploads. Her pics are there
9... Guys don't respect girls, you meet a girl and the first thing you're asking her for is her nude, or sexy pictures and you're already telling her you're Hot. Does she look like a prostitute?. Guys respect yourself for once...  All this story! If you have a boyfriend, just say you are not interested! Because you are a lady everyone should walk on eggshells around. Btw, no body ask questions this days, ones I say send me your account, your name and surname will appear! |
Romance › Re: We Met In 2017 On Nairaland And In July,2020 We Got Married by sparko1(m): 6:07pm On Jul 23, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Lol.  I am glad you are enjoying yourself! The case of my pain give you a special kind of joy!  |
Romance › Re: We Met In 2017 On Nairaland And In July,2020 We Got Married by sparko1(m): 5:17pm On Jul 23, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Not taken, and not searching either.  Wow! Have a nice! You didn’t have to be mean! |
Politics › Re: FG Moves To Stop Importation Of Bitumen by sparko1(m): 2:03pm On Jul 23, 2020 |
mrvitalis: Fashiola was over hyped as governor ... honestly the first time I went to Lagos as a pH boy I was disappointed ...from airport to lekki ...not a single standard road ...the worst is that lekki epe Express
Now he has failed as a minister too
As a governor he was no we're near aklabio and ameachi in any aspect You just want to inform us you flew to Lagos, Congratulations! Now face front. You visited one day, my friend keep quite, even at the moment there is no Minister that is better. He is transparent, resourcefulness, no allegation of malpractices. Were you in Lagos before he was Governor. BTW, Airport to Lekki is mostly federal road! |
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Romance › Re: We Met In 2017 On Nairaland And In July,2020 We Got Married by sparko1(m): 7:23am On Jul 23, 2020 |
pocohantas: Who be this one? 
Congrats to OP and his wife. The wife’s username is pretty familiar. HML to you two.  Old mama! She did not come to pay homage? |
Romance › Re: We Met In 2017 On Nairaland And In July,2020 We Got Married by sparko1(m): 7:07am On Jul 23, 2020 |
kestolove95: How did dey do dix marriage? Is it marriage for two or wat? What do you mean, should they have invited all Nairaland? Besides it’s covid 19 period, no much noise needed. |
Romance › Re: We Met In 2017 On Nairaland And In July,2020 We Got Married by sparko1(m): 7:05am On Jul 23, 2020 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Everybody out here seeking for partners on NL suddenly. Awon attention seekers oshi!  Well a good story is interesting to emulate! So what do you say, are you taken or I should shoot my shot ��� |
Romance › Re: We Met In 2017 On Nairaland And In July,2020 We Got Married by sparko1(m): 6:52am On Jul 23, 2020 |
Congratulations bro!
Happy for you. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Free Fullstack Developer Training by sparko1(m): 8:28pm On Jul 21, 2020 |
How much is the real training?
And what exactly is it for, is it all the programs started? |
Politics › Re: Auction Of 'Stolen' Nigerian Artifacts Goes Ahead In Paris by sparko1(m): 11:11am On Jul 21, 2020 |
Slawormir: Damnnnnn niggarrr They should Keep it..we are not interested...but they should remember they were the first to draw blood...the battle line has been drawn
This is the main reason i don't feel bad and guilty when people say bombing is bad
I do it with joy....I focus on those Moda fuckkkers.... You ransack our land and you think you will enjoy it
You can't put a padlock on my Great great grandfather's mouth and subject them to misery and suffering and now you think your posterity will go scot free Be careful what you say online! |
Romance › Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by sparko1(m): 6:19pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: But the type of men I talked about in my posts don't even have that kind of money. They are good at sweet talking and making false promises. It's only those in "love" that are their victims Actually, they don’t need that kind of money! Let me share something, when I was in school some years ago, I was on the hostel, when a guy buys something new, shoe, clothes, wristwatch, anything fancy, you will see this set of guys come and be like, bro! I will use this your shoe tomorrow, and they will collate this materials and when you see them in the street, you will be like wow! Everyday always that way! Do you know the interesting thing, girls are that stupid, they just fall like that and by the evening they are already sexing the lady and to the next. So yeah ladies don’t care, as far as you can give them 5k right now, you are the king! Just like the Nigeria Police! Give them money now and they will sing your praise! |
Celebrities › Re: Nicki Minaj Is Pregnant, Shares Baby Bump Pictures by sparko1(m): 6:10pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
donstan18: I just showed this post to Buhari. Guess what? He has decided to resign!!!!
Rubbish!!!! Come on, it’s just entertainment!��� |
Romance › Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by sparko1(m): 6:04pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Let's do this. 
Prior to writing this topic, I have been opportuned to view various writeups by other members who advise men not to date broke ladies or actually, ladies with entitlement mentality. And while the sagacious ones will pick the heart of the message and move on, the foolish ones will gather like crows to feast on the carcass, throwing insults and jabs like little boys that were denied treats at a Christmas party, thus picking nothing relevant from the post by the end of the day. I hope they know that It isn't the messenger's fault that comprehension is a difficult trait to acquire for some people.
Due to this behavioural menace, I have decided to tow a different path with my message today. Having said that, I'll like to reiterate for those hard of understanding that: Broke girls are cool to date but once she starts exhibiting entitlement mentality, end the relationship. To the ladies, I'll say this as well: Broke guys are cool to date but once he starts going on and on about prospects and dreams that look like castles in the air, please discard the relationship and move on. Since this thread is purposefully meant for the ladies, I'll give them reasons why I made that statement. Feel free to correct any mistakes you see and I'll rectify them. NB: Only corrections made without insults and/or jab will be considered.
[center]Characteristics of men without prospects[/center]
1) They are day dreamers: Inasmuch as I believe in struggling together with your man through his hard days, I always know human beings are fickle and loyalty isn't always rewarded. That said, some men who claim to be hustling are actually daydreamers who are too proud to work in the mud. They are hardly steady at any job, always dreaming and fantasising about the day they'll become millionaires or own a private jet or a mansion in banana island without actually making grand plans to achieve that. If care is not taken, it's very likely that he has changed jobs more than ten times in the past five years. While it's good to dream, it's best to have laid down plans that will connect your days of humble beginnings to your glorious future.
My take: Ladies, examine his prospects and see the viability of his dreams before making your decision.
2) They are charming: It always beats my imagination when I see visionless men get ladies so effortlessly. Then I realised the reason is because they're smooth talkers, as charming as a snake can be. I can't seem to understand the correlation between a passion for success and a need to swoon the ladies, and I believe that no man who is skillful in one will be that proficient in the other. While other men are hands and feet down in the mud striving to attain their future ambitions, his head and attention is buzzing like an antenna, waiting to pick up the next available lady, thus distracting him from achieving a single goal everytime.
My take: Ladies, take a good look at your relationship and recall how he wooed you. There are exceptions but a woman can always tell.
3) They are not loyal: Please, let's not dirty our minds and start imagining a cheating boyfriend, (although he may be one) rather, let's look at his life in general. He's never been in a position where his loyalty in life was tested. He's hardly the first child, thus never been in a position that makes him a core hustler. His siblings are doing much better than him, hence he may very likely live off of their crumbs. He's never had a successful relationship that ended due to health or tribal issues. They either ended due to his refusal to leave a job or his inability to keep one, more so the latter. It can be due to his inability to not avoid everything in skirt or his insecurity of the ladies' success as he'd be a trifle bit jealous of other's success as he can't seem to ever achieve his own. All in all, he's not one to trust to handle being the captain of the ship.
My take: Ladies, analyse him if you can and make your decision. But remember, dreamers who can't get what they want always end up jealous. He won't ever be that CEO he's always telling you about, not with the lackadaisical way he goes about it.
4) They are time wasters: This was supposed to be number one point, but the crows would have had a field day with my post if I did it that way. Anyway, men without prospects are invariably professional time wasters. No surprises there. And while their heart may be with you (they do know how to love greatly), they lack the wherewithal to do right by you in the appropriate time. Generally, they're never in a need to settle down or any of the other societal 'needs' that the rest of the population may desire because they lack the capacity to do so. Please do not confuse their inability to mean apathy. On the contrary, if they had their way, you'd be married to them before you can say Jack Robinson. However, their life will always be driven in whatever direction the wind takes them and when the dust finally settles, they'll find themselves approaching forty, with no reasonable evidence of their hustle in life and no lady by their side. Disclaimer: Not all men in that age gap were without prospects.
My take: Ladies, iron out your situation with him and see if you both can reach a compromise. If he won't accept outside help to start off your married life (highly unadvisable), drop him like hot coal. When he gets to 40, someone young will marry him.
Summary, ladies even as you strive to become independent, strong women, always weigh your options in every relationship you go into. Don't always sit and wait for the man to make his intentions known. Incite him to state his desires and see if they tally with yours. At the end, whoever you choose to date, always think of the future your children will have. Think of the children, sisters.
Thank you. Nice post, I can guess you are an introvert, thoughtful and detailed. Now the only error is this ladies don’t care, as a matter of fact, they prefer the exact opposite, by the time they start thinking like you, they are already 35. Have you heard of the term “ Who you help” ladies want MONEY, they want it NOW! They don’t want it TOMORROW, they don’t want to PLAN or desire to be with anyone who wants to. All you need as a guy this days is to have money, even if you don’t have sense!��� There are just few and to find that have a different perspective! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Beware Of This Scammer by sparko1(m): 6:07pm On Jul 04, 2020 |
2116086231 Aminu Abdulwaheed UBA
This is another scammer beware |
Crime › Re: Dr Olufunmilayo Responds To Bola Aseyan Rape Allegation – We Had Sex Twice by sparko1(m): 11:10am On Jul 01, 2020 |
J111333: ..."According to him, they had consensual sex, twice. The 1st being after they were both drunk, only for her to tell him the next day she didn’t give her consent to the sex they had"...
The above statement alone will get him in serious trouble. When she is drunk, you ain't suppose to sleep with her especially when not in an established relationship. Guys be careful and know when to abort mission. Control your prick, don't let it control you. Yea it can be hard and strong but e no go break for sure. Mr Lawyer you are very wrong. 1. Did she say no? 2. Was there forced entry 3. What her close ripped 4. What there a repeat (yes) The fact that they both lived in separate rooms and she came to his room with drinks is a signal that she wants sex. The fact that she have had sex with someone else after this event says a lot. |