₦airaland Forum

ImaIma1:
What about the millions who married as virgins that want to try out something different...that have known only their husbands and are adventurous, wanting to explore.

Remaining a vigin till marriage is admirable. However, it takes more than that to keep a marriage. Some ladies go into marriage with only that to offer. That's where the issue is

Coming from a lady! How can you even say that! Virginity is a sacrifice, what you bring to the marriage is a complete different thing entirely!
Remember, marriage is about two people, look at the example the OP gave, do you want to blame the woman for being a virgin! She married a cheat, and now her life is miserable because of it.

A successful marriage entails lots of things, sacrifices from the couple, virginity is just an added advantage and a bragging right on the side of the woman.

Stop using a single occurrence of a reckless man (By the way, in this instance it is completely out of context) to judge the everyone.

onpoint247:
LSG ask yourself are the roads good anuf for our cars? Nigerians are facing undue hardship already and any move to further complicate things is not welcome.

My friend keep shut if you don’t have nothing to say on the subject.

So it’s okay to block the road on both side leaving just a small portion of the road!

Do the right thing and stop hiding behind hardship.

Witcher:
What's this... This unnecessary, Most of the civil service in Nigeria are poverty alleviation scheme
Anyways
I do not particularly like the word 'work.' Human beings are the only animals who have to work, and I think that is the most ridiculous thing in the world. Other animals make their livings by living, but people work like crazy, thinking that they have to in order to stay alive. The bigger the job, the greater the challenge, the more wonderful they think it is. It would be good to give up that way of thinking and live an easy, comfortable life with plenty of free time. I think that the way animals live in the tropics, stepping outside in the morning and evening to see if there is something to eat, and taking a long nap in the afternoon, must be a wonderful life. For human beings, a life of such simplicity would be possible if one worked to produce directly his daily necessities. In such a life, work is not work as people generally think of it, but simply doing what needs to be done.

Unfortunately, we have passed the stage, it can only get worse from here on out.

johnmattew:
about 40 years older than the oldest in the world....which made her the only person in the world that was born in 19th century

18th century you mean

UyaiIncomparabl:
There's no particular amount of money that ever makes one ready. If you're in with the right person with just 300, 000 naira, marriage will be bliss. You people should stop attaching happiness to money. Money is only a means to an end.

Can you marry a man with 300,000 when your family will bring list na!

LilMissFavvy:
I cannot understand why a woman should be rude, a yes/no is not too hard a reply. If you are very sure you like her, go ahead, but if you want a mere fling or casual friendship, keep off.

Maybe you are not a woman, there is no body more wicked and heartless than a woman in position, if they frustrate you, there is no begging, there is no sympathy they go all in. (Imagine sacking someone for sometime that is not yet confirmed and arresting the person as well, I mean, come on)

Even women don't want to work with a woman in power, they know themselves, there is a more likely chance that you will get help from a man! If you take a sample of 100 women in power, hardly will you find 2 that is sympathetic or have human feeling, they will unload all their life frustration on you.

Conner44:
So if a Fulani herdsman decides to ‘legally’ kill 3 Amotekun officers in a stationed hilux he will first sell 5 of his cows and gather the cash for the fine and then carve out one month in his life to flex prison. I’m sure he will pull strings and be out in good time too.

Chai, it’s too poor naw. ONLY N250,000? A MONTH? chai. We all know herdsmen DO NOT MOLEST, they KILL. even if you miraculously survive with cuts and all you’d wish you were dead.

Even a rich herdsman can sponsor them one million to wipe out the Amotekun cats from a particular village.

I really pity the Amotekun cats

whoever decides to join this stuff to collect N13k salary and put a N250,000 or 1 month jail price on his life in a cruel manner is a fool

Your stupidity stink to high heaven, killing anyone in Nigeria attract the death penalty or life sentence if convicted.
You don't know the difference between murder and assault! Shame!

Get brighter grammar and educate yourself, stop spreading you stupidity!

GoTV:
As a born again Christian who is meant to speak the truth at all times, i think the only solution to these clashes is for all states to accept the proposed Ruga settlements for herdsmen and watch peace reign. Instead of setting up regional security outfit like Amotekun and forest guards, why can't we Christians states especially be tolerant and live in peace with our neighbors? Infact, we Christians disown Amotekun and Enugu forest guards. We are all Nigerians and we have equal rights in every part of the country.


Instead of blaming every tragedy on our Muslim brothers, why can't we Christians dialogue for peace sake? Recently a Christian suicide bomber was caught in the church and we quickly rejected him to be a Christian but if he were to be a Muslim we would call all Muslims terrorists just because of the actions of one man. We Christians have a lot of lessons to learn from our Muslim brothers. Honestly

You are a fuckiiing fulani! No Christian will support RUGA for any reason, go and Ruga your father land!

travelwaka:
In Nigeria the poverty rate and the corruption is so high that we do not even know what is right from what is wrong. Any government that really want to end corruption in Nigeria will have to do a lot of publicity to engage the people on what is right or wrong
Let me give few example

I was opportune to be in a church where they were doing youth empowerment and some rich guys in the church offered grants to some business ideas, but you will need to convince the judges that your business is viable. Then bro Samson came out with his 20 pages proposal of how he knows how to bring rice cheaply from kotonou , he said he knows people that can help transport it in some remote villages off the sight of customs . He even said he knows the customs to bribe that will give him info of where and where he will pass. That at the end he will make between 6 to 10k per bag of rice which is a good investment.
Then one of the judges said did you what you just said is illegal and you can get arrested for that. And bro Samson argued , then i realise he actually didnt know he just said was a crime , cos everyone does it and it has become a normal thing

Again I was in a public transport and the driver would not give this police man bribe again the passengers were the first to say oga give am now na normal thing, again i was like what Has crime become so popular that we now see it as normal

Lastly when things like this happen Nigerians will be shouting why is the government wicked, peoples investment bla bla bla , then also the custom officials would seize the rice and it willl end up in their wifes shop. I used to know at least 5 customs officials that sell rice.

If we are serious about making this country work it has to be a collective effort not the case of where the government officials and the people are sabotaging the process.

That is the problem with Nigerians.

I have lots of experience that sometime it breaks my heart, I remember, I was in a car and the radio was on, and this news about EFCC arresting about 100 young yahoo boys and then a debate broke, see how mature men were defending and saying the government is wrong, they should allow them to look for money and some even went as far as saying they are actively looking for a way to learn and do it themselves, I couldn't hold my breath.

catoluy:
I know the last statement will bother you as an afonja...you think Igbos are your mate? Go and read about what Lord Luggard said about Afonjas having low IQ; that's why they are using you people and Fulani to promote One Nigeria...you cannot reason like a human being! By the way, IPOB created BSS way before your people thought of Amotekun. Your envy and wickedness made you people attack BSS but now wanting the same? You people lack foresight to see things before they happen. Just like we warned you about Buhari, you refused to listen. You have no shame.

You see, this is the problem, everyone that doesn't agree with you is an afonja, to you there are only three tribes in Nigeria, you talk like a kid, what has mate got to do with this.

In your stupidity, you mentioned BSS, under what? What did you succeed in doing, apart from making IPOB that used to be a peaceful gathering into a FG approved terrorist!, get people killed and nothing changed. You read but can't understand, look how UK did theirs, look how Amotekun was formed, if OPC decide to form Amotekun, do you think the FG will be this quite about it, do you think there will be any negotiation at all.

Your governors are there, senator and house of rep member, no unity, you think typing hate speech or chanting fire all day is going to bring the actualization! Keep fooling yourselves, no democratically elected government will support separation by anarchy!

You warned about Buhari but want to put Atiku there, what is the difference, why can't you just learn, remove a fulani and replace with another fulani of your choice, how does that resolve anything, if you want to leave Nigeria, that is the last thing you want to do, except you are just deceiving yourself.

I am not surprised, every man for himself and its a shame!

catoluy:
Black people are very very useless. Here is Britain leaving EU but want Nigerians to remain as one? And black people think this is okay? Tomorrow, you cry that white people see you as less human, why won't they? Biafrans at least reason like human beings!

Almost true except the last statement, where, if you think about it, the representative from UK make this possible, are you saying no ibo in the house of reps and senate, why are they not talking, agitation didn't do this, they went about it the right way.

This is the lesson we should learn, learn from the yoruba, see how they came together form a regional police, there is no way the FG can stand against a whole region if they are in agreement, but no my people want to be rich, everyone want to make himself great.

There is no way progress can come from a select group of people who can't come together to have collective purpose driven agenda, instead of chanting fire and brimstone we should look for loop holes in the constitution, get the entire lawmaker in the region to agree on a purpose, that alone can set everything on the right path.

Have you imagined why the White won't support the claim or help in anyway to facilitate the move, because we are going about it the wrong way, how do you expect them to support you when all you do is disagree on everything, anoint a king as a saviour, no government will support anarchy simple, call it any name you want, I repeat no democratically elected government will support the creation of a state through anarchy!

MISTAICEY02288:
Sign wetin? No be Major General Buhari the tyrant again? E no go sign anything... We say we're in Democracy but what we experience is nothing short of a dictatorship Government.. Nobody here can say there was no complete freedom during Jonathan's tenure. How many can say the same for this present tenure? But as usual, the Buharideen zombies will soon land to defend their Lord and savior as usual... Radaada oshi!

Next time don't compare Jonathan and Buhari, they are one and the same, I remembered vividly how soldiers were deplored in Lagos, shooting at civilians in Ojota area, close and put soldiers in CNN, BBC offices in Lagos.

When you want to compare, use what democracy is supposed to be, none of the Leaders we have had (apart from Yaradua, which of course didn't stay long enough for us to know how he will handle anything) in Nigeria has being completely democratic.

Built2last:
That was a sharia judgement.

if it was a female southern judge, that wont have happened.

Does Nigeria even have facility to hang criminals.

Rubbish

KanwuliaExtra:
Because of 'KWARRRAPTION and LACK OF SECURITY'.
Ask Dangote!
You can steal, kill and run away with other peoples money/goods.
You can work and not get paid.
You can invest and harvest at will at the expense of the blood, sweat and tears of others.
You don't need a conscience, work ethic or any sense of accountability.
The police is always your friend against the poor.
You can do whatever and get away scott-freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

The best place to do business. . . where you do not have to pay attention to quality and you don't have to worry about disgracing yourself with substandard performances.

Push come to shove. . . . tell the investors that 'a big snake swallowed billions of investors' money.
A lawless country can only be a breeding ground for criminals.
The more corrupt. . . the greater the chances of success!

Salute!

Your problem is, you like bad news! This is not good as a person, when you see something good appreciate it, you don't have to criticize all the time!

Drink lots of water, don't give yourself high blood pressure because of Nigeria, nobody cares.

slowice:
Lagos is a place where where all Nigerians irrespective of tribe converge for investment and business and more, some when Lagos is mentioned in statistics like this it doesn't really imply that the result is influence by yorubas alone, but by nigerians. All this tribal chest beating should stop already

You see, the problem with this aversion is, when they put Lagos in a bad light, do you still say the problem is everyone, then you point finger at a tribe but you are surprised when they claim the victories! This is double standard, if you want Lagos to be for all, even when the news is bad, identify and stop calling Tinubu or Afonja!. Because we all know Lagos comprises of all ethnic group, the progress is determinate on all.

Stop the double standard!

Philinho:
One day your life will be frustrated too cos life is turn by turn....I don't know y many Nigerians like injustice

Define injustice! If a nobody did what Sarahi and his family did, the whole family will be in prison or worse!

If he has a legal document to prove he owns the land let him present it!

excessmon:
Pls what’s d real meaning of the phrase “a typical Nigerian girl”

Over 87% of Nigerian guys have low self esteem

It’s not low self esteem, a typical Nigeria girl feels she has to play around with over a dozen guys, call some friends, some uncle, and call the more emotional one boyfriend until she has to make a choice!

If you think she’s just yours and you fail to read the signs, you will end up broken with everyone looking at you like a fool!

Arrewa:
Go and collect your own wheelbarrow and start work... The south east is the most backward region in Africa... Go and help your people they are dying everyday trying to cross Mediterranean sea while tanker is busy roasting the ones in onitsha... Common adequate fire service una no get...fire just dey roast una like kulikuli...zamfara is a London to compare to Anambra

Now I see what you are trying to do, you just want to have a conversation, you know how ridiculous you sound but you need an audience!

Sorry, Bye!

Arrewa:
Help your sisters in the south first... Bloody hypocrite
Even a demented old man was given 14yr old girl to Mary on Anambra...go and help your sistera first... Anu mpam

You also concentrate you stupid self on the backward north!

You want to glorify yourself, do it without dragging the South into your shitty lifestyle!

Arrewa:
Under age marriage is normal in the south...at least the north are fighting against child marriage which has already end... And has been declared illegal in the north... What about the south especially in the south east... Child marriage is part of their culture

You didn't just do that, seriously, you that have it legalize in your constitution!

I give up!

zelgiusdigby:
Lol! Another product of the infamous southern miracle centers. Literally couldn't understand a single sentence this dummy put out. Come back when you are able to string together coherent sentences. I don't have the time to be scavenging through the scribbles of a mad man.

When you don't have brains, how will you understand!

So no answer for the questions right! May your children be given out to their elders to PENETRATE before they know their left from their right!

You put picture of roundabout together and call it beauty! MAN this is my last warning! Get your brain check!

zelgiusdigby:
LOL What a despicable human being. So the helpless wee yats in baby factories and brothels are not being abused or taken advantage of? Shame on you if this is the best defense you can come up with.

When i was in the south women didnt wear any clothes, they just walked about naked and copulated in plain sight. See? Anyone can conjure up stories out of thin air. Besides, i never claimed we were perfect. But at least if something like this were to happen in the north we'd be surprised because such immoralities have not been normalized in the north. As long as that is the case then i can live with that. You people on the other hand, no tale is too tall when it comes to your promiscuous and lecherous misadventures.

You typing in caps only shows your true nature, nothing but a good for nothing aggressive tout. Typical!

You are ok with your elders sleeping with a 12 year old girl, but you only care about what an adult does with his/her!

WHAT CAN BE WORSE THAN giving birth to children and sending them to the street to beg to improve your miserable life!

You see your problem, when people in the south do those things, they know its wrong and have moral to not justify it, BUT you no! NO! You will justify marrying an 8 years old, How stupid and wicked can you be to penetrate a CHILD! Tell me HOW MANY CHILD HAVE YOU PENETRATED THIS YEAR! People like you should be locked up and the key thrown away!

You hide behind religious connotation and commit unforgivable acts and STILL JUSTIFY IT!

That is the difference, we in the south, have morals, those who decide to sell their body do it in shame, the baby factory they do it in hiding!
Please tell me one thing worse than PENETRATING A CHILD YOU gay! How can you sit there and compare that ruthlessness with anything!

YOU NEED YOUR BRAIN FORMATTED! THAT KIND OF THINKING IS WHAT IS KEEPING THE NORTH IN POVERTY FOR THIS LONG!

Take a look and some years ago, we heard, a non government organization that helps ladies in the north was doing graduation and all the HEAD of idiots were there picking out young girls that are barely 14 as wives! These are men with children that are as old as 30 and above taking young vulnerable girls as wives and You have the gut to talk about promiscuous and lecherous misadventures. They need to give you a TOWN FLOGGING, NAKED YOU AND FLOG YOU STUPID ASS!

zelgiusdigby:
Yes, they are treated like living beings in brothels and baby factories.

At least they have a choice! And no body is forcing them!

Oh gay! You need to go home oh! if you see the way your people sleep around over there, they have this junction that have this small tent, THEY CAN'T EVEN GET A DECENT PLACE, THEY LAY DOWN AND YOU CAN SEE THEIR LEGS OUT, HAVE RANDOM SEX WITH TRAILER DRIVERS. (CAN'T TOUCH SUCH WITH A 10 FEET POLE, DIRTY, DISGUSTING, SMELLING! GOSH! of course there is no water, the air is so polluted! I want to choke!)

I can only pity them! such a harsh life with flies EVERYWHERE, ALMAGIRI EVERYWHERE! mY Gosh!

WE NEED TO OPEN A GO FUND ME FOR THE COMMUNITY, NOTHING WORKS, EVERYWHERE IS LIKE A REVERSED 1890 Typical village!

zelgiusdigby:
HIV Prevalence by State in Nigeira https://naca.gov.ng/nigeria-prevalence-rate/

Akwa Ibom 5.6%
Benue 4.9%
Rivers 3.8%
Taraba 2.7%
Anambra 2.4%
Enugu 2.1%
Abia 2.1%
Delta 1.9%
Nasarawa 1.9%
Edo 1.8%
Bayelsa 1.8%
Cross River 1.7%
Imo 1.6%
Plateau 1.5%
FCT 1.5%
Lagos 1.3%
Borno 1.3%
Adamawa 1.3%
Ogun 1.2%
Gombe 1.2%
Kaduna 1.0%
Kogi 1.0%
Kwara 1.0%
Ondo 0.9%
Osun 0.9%
Oyo 0.9%
Ebonyi 0.8%
Niger 0.7%
Ekiti 0.7%
Kebbi 0.6%
Kano 0.5%
Zamfara 0.5%
Yobe 0.4%
Bauchi 0.4%
Sokoto 0.4%
Jigawa 0.3%
Katsina 0.3%

Like i said, the problem with you people is your hubris wont even let you admit your flaws which is the first step to redemption.

Your hausa is horrible BTW. What you typed doesn't even make any sense.

[s]Nigeria has the largest arable landmass in africa, the 9th largest in the world. Most of that comes from the north.[/s] Not to even bring in our abundant natural resources into the discussion. And our land is barren? You people live in a bubble.

You should be ashamed of yourself with this figure! I served in the North I did HIV counselling and Testing, the reason the figure is low is because there is no figure YOUR WOMEN/WIVES ARE SO SCARED THEY CAN'T GO OUT FOR TESTING.

They are so dumb that they can't even explain what is wrong with them! They are slaves, and you the stupid ones are their master, the south is a more advance place where women are treated like living being not slave that can't and should not talk anywhere.

Arrewa:
As a born again Christian who is meant to speak the truth at all times, i think this amoketun issue is being hypocritically blown out of proportion to expand hatred for other tribes especially the Fulanis. Why must we Christians be the brain behind the vast support for Amotekun when the Nigerian constitution is clear about the roles of the armed forces and police in the security of the country? Why must we form an ethnic militia to target fellow Nigerians when the constitution guarantees freedom of movement and doing business nationwide as long as we are Nigerians? What we fail to realize is that the south east cheering on Amotekun sees its as a synonym for their biafra agitations and they will rather support anything that will disband the relative peace and unity of Nigeria. The IPOB sympathizers will be the one to cry wolf when Amotekun starts targeting their tribesmen who commits various crimes in the south west. MURIC recently condemned the killing of a CAN pastor and sympathized with we Christians, how many Christians will condemn the killing of an imam or Muslims? Instead we rejoice when tragedy strikes them forgetting we are all humans before religion. Instead of emulating our Muslim brothers who have remained silent on this issue of Amotekun, we Christians are disturbing the cyberspace with hypocritical comments. Amotekun will never see the light of the day as long as we remain one Nigeria. It's a bad policy and a tribalistic security outfit aimed at persecuting other Nigerians. On behalf of we Christians, i condemn Amotekun. Let's learn to live in peace and harmony

You are not even a christian not to talk of Born Again!

I don't have the time to educate your stupid self on the unintelligent comparison you just made. You had to guts to say MURIC condemned the killing of a pastor, are you out of your mind, WHO THE Bleep is MURIC, who gives a Bleep if they condemn, you see their leaders up North saying nothing and you are talking of a congregation headed by some goro chewing idiot!

If you know the loss the family is suffering, if you know the harm those stupid herdsmen have caused, you won't open your disgusting mouth to talk about a useless group condemning.

They are picking us off one after the other! YOUR CHILDREN AND GRAND CHILDREN WILL BE POSTED TO THE NORTH FOR NYSC and God keep you alive to witness it. They will be posted to Maiduguri AND when they go missing and KILLED I will personally join everyone to Condemn the Act!

Mightymanna:
Non of these regional security apparatus will help Nigeria's unity because they are conceived with sinister motives toward some ethnic groups in the country. For those that are shouting HISBAH and civilian JTF in the North are also illegal, they should look at the aforementioned from different perspectives because Hisbah was created by Kano state and civilian JTF by Borno state non of these Security agencies are allowed to use gun or any sophisticated weapons
But amatekun or whatever they call it is a different case because
1.a whole geo-political zone decided to create it
2. They will be allowed to use weapons
3. They are being supported by people of questionable character e.g Nnamdi KANU
4. Other regions might do the same hence the federal police will be useless and conflicts will started based on perceived injustice by people of different ethnicity.


Therefore amatekun or whatever is dead and buried the Northerners will not agree will these sort of security arrangements, if you want secure your region cooperate with the police and army in your respective states, support them with necessary , material and financial support and watch how things will change

After trying to make some sense you ended up being so stupid! Who cares if the north do not agree! Are we consulting them! Every state has a state assembly and they are the law marker! If the country divides because of it! Good!

Are you not fucking tired of this arrangement!

Lamanii22:
That lady was sent from the pit of hell... Damn... No evidence, no nothing... Sometimes it's good to be mean sef... Too much kindness isn't good... I'm really sorry you were accused wrongly and sacked all at once.. The lord would provide a better job for you Hun..

This what most guys don’t understand, I visited a friend and his Landlord daughter (a teenager about 14 or 15 was in his room playing and joking!

When she left I ask why he would allow such, he said everyone knows he is just friends with her, they play a lot! I told him it’s very wrong, when he insists, I told him I can never visit him again.

If you discover you are all alone in a confined space with a lady that is not your sister, brother give her enough space.

You are lucky your boss didn’t arrest you, by the time people hear your side, it will be too late!

Learn from this, the present law and the public perception of rap is not something that you want especially as an introvert (I am one so I know, even if everyone forgive you, you will never forgive yourself and you can never ever forget, not even alcohol can take it from you $

Be careful and learn from this, over simplicity is the downfall of most introverted people.

You don’t need to be nice, if people don’t like you, to hell with them. Stop trying to impress or make them like you. Because they never will. (You are too different for their understanding)

Bola146:
Most of those mumu took loan from banks, they can't do anything till they pay off theirs debts

God! who are you! this is funny as hell!

Filmewell:
Am not sugarcoating anything don't be surprised that if you ask him to give a brief explanation about whether they relationship is at a good place you will not blame the poor girl.

I am not really particular about how the relationship is going or where its heading, my main concern is, a decent lady/woman don't get that easily compelled into sex on the very first day! Its a red flag!

Filmewell:
Why can't people not do this stupid test on the people they claim to love. There is no one except Jesus of the Holy Bible that can withstand any test. People are not that bad is just sometimes good people do bad things. It does not condemn them to bad people.
Op swear since you met your girlfriend that you have not chyked any order girl even though you did not go through with hooking up.

This is no issue

Madam don’t sugarcoat it!

Asking a guy to come over to your place, a stranger for that matter is completely unacceptable!

Test or not! The fact that she said yes on the first night is a sign she a hoe!

Favoritefarmer:
During sex and he will take drug to prevent her being pregnant.
A married woman also reached out to me on facebook alleging that my girl is dating her hubby thou i abused the woman of lieing and the woman directed to her particular post. I confronted with her with it, she didn't denied but said no sex between them.
thirdly, she asked for hair and transport fares which i gave and she still asked another another guy and right when she was with me last sunday about to leave for her place she was chatting this guy, 'are we meeting today or not.'
You know my girl denied all charges.

And you are asking us to do what? prophecy for you or what exacly!

What are you doing with such a girl in the first place, how can you be a virgin at 30 and still have no sense!
You want to change her or what, what is the plan, because, either her backside or beauty is deceiving you!

Let her go, look for one of those churchy girl or spirit koko kind and marry.

Virgin are vibrant not this weak and gullible indecisive characteristic you portrait. You have better man up, no woman want a weak man!