₦airaland Forum

obowo69:
We keep getting opposite messages about the economic situation in the south west. There is a big divide between what yoruba youths tell us online and what yoruba elders and leaders say to the media.

The elders and governors have been complaining of poverty and hardship that is shaking the fabric of yoruba society.

The youths online and social media keep telling us the opposite; that they are the most economically viable region.

So where does the truth lie?

Who is telling the truth and who is lying?

sisipelebe:
Ten things you should definitely do before you turn thirty:

1.Get Your Heart Broken. It is not the most pleasant experience in life. Unfortunately, it is inevitable. However, it is the invaluable lesson everyone should go through. Get your heart broken to learn the hard way how cruel and tough the life can be.

2.Realize That Life Has Already Begun. The sooner you do this the sooner you will be able to start doing the things that matter. Every decision matters and every choice counts. There is no interlude Nor is there a trial version. Therefore, strive to live a meaningful life now.

3. Write An Article. Develop a strong point of view regarding the particular issue and do your best to express your thoughts in the best way possible. Get your voice featured on the popular outlet and praise yourself for this small accomplishment.

4.Master A Valuable Skill. Your ability to apply your knowledge and produce some great results is what lets you stand out and makes others pay you for your services. Opt for mastery and strive to become the best at what you do.

5. Slay Your Fears. Stop living your fears as soon as possible. Do not enter the fourth decade of your life being afraid of trivial things. Learn to live beyond your comfort zone and slay your fears to live the life to the fullest.

6.Establish A Few Useful Connections. You cannot know everyone and know how to do everything. The good thing is that you do not need to. Meanwhile, you can meet some great people that can give a valuable advice or come in your hour of need.

7.Live Abroad For At Least A Year. Living abroad is not always fun and easy. This experience is often full of struggle and difficulties. Learn how to adapt to and survive in unfamiliar environments. Find out how to meet new friends and get used to a different culture.

8. Establish A Good Habit Attitude. Then you won`t need to break a bad one. Habits might seem innocuous daily actions that do not make any impact on your life. In fact, they define how productive and successful you are. Adopt the habits that are the perfect fit for a person you`d like to be.

9.Define Your Goals. Make sure you are not going to float along after you are 30. Make sure you get closer to the things you want to accomplish with every step you take. Make sure you know what you want and channel your energy towards attaining your goals.

10.Get Into Challenging Environment. If you are not willing to start stagnating too soon, surround yourself with the people that are smarter, stronger and faster than you. They will motivate you to catch up and become better than you ever thought possible.

NwaAmaikpe:




I entered the new year ejaculating, my mates were praying.
Someone said it is a bad omen.

They may be right if truly Iran wants to go to war.

Because by the time they are through with USA and Israel, some of us might not even have any semen left to ejaculate again.

I just hope they don't transfer some aggression on those holding ElZazaky because Trump has pushed Iran into Overdrive.
And this anger knows no mercy.

That is what I call a nation.
A country that knows when push has turned to shove.

If it were one country now, it's Minister of Communication would have since given a press release denying the death of any General.

He'd call the missile attack a case of firecrackers and 'knockouts' from excited children celebrating the New Year then blame the opposition for heating up the polity by spreading fake news.

While the Presidential media aide will say that the said General committed suicide just to apologize to the US.

Bad is bad.
I love the U.S of A but I stand with Iran.

TechTanic:
Missed my period.

Offpoint:
Waiting till I have enough before I launch my plans.

Being to soft hearted person in times of giving, 90% of my funds has always gone into giving. I hate turning people in need down, I just can't. I don't plan stopping though, just wanna minimize it.


And lastly... not impregnating my landlord daughter's. I hope to do so before April.

kestolove95:
See am like my ex dick

Cheato64:
I got married in 2018, I love my wife so much and I know she loves me too but my wife is too dramatic.

She always claim she trusts me but mehn she doesn't let me out of her sight. I do everything and it's affecting me, we have a son and another is on the way, she has refused to learn how to drive on purpose, I take her everywhere, antenatal, market (hate this one the most), I drop and pick her from work, am forced to go church or other programs which I wouldn't like to go.

She goes through my phone every 3 days most especially at night. She noticed I snore I asked for a separate room, she will never let me, she Insists we sleep with light on.

Sometimes I pray for Nepa to take light. The day I called an ex that works in bank to assist me with transaction due to crowd, she went through my phone saw it, I had to explain out of anger she smashed my phone she does this very often she has smashed hers b4.

I feel like running away for a week but I can't leave my work or our son and she might go to my parents which I wouldn't want.

Pls I need help on how to tackle this wahala

bestpunterever:
Audio Dry Port.

luminouz:
You make nice points too.

The emotional blackmail stuff is not limited to Yoruba gehs alone. Coming from a man who dated girls from several tribes except Hausa, they all do it. Once they identify a weakness in your psyche,they will keep exploiting it. Just be unruffled and they will be comfortable playing emotional games with you.

xendra:
I'm not surprised to see men saying she should have kept this within the family. na from clap dem dey enter dance. a man that can come home 2am and slap the wife that same night deserves no sympathy. na so she go keep quiet till it gets worse and he kills her.

naija men, Una try o

Yankiss:
This is crazy. What about the subsisting court order? Impunity and clashes everywhere. Which one is superior now? The court order nullifying the emirates or the legislative order??

Wiseandtrue:
Na your assignment be that!!!

We all know that the foundation of this government is propaganda!!!

We live in Nigeria and we know what the Federal government and the Nigerian police is capable of!!!

We all saw how they shot the shite protesters with AK 47 and other sophisticated guns!!!

What was the police doing in the lawyer's house

So people mourning saw the police and started attacking them bah

I don't know how you sleep at night

Fear God nah

Adekun33:
Am 19yrs old and I am 188cm i.e 6.2ft. I feel so awkward about my height. I feel that am no longer tall but long, for a very long time now i hated everything about my height to the extent I feel very sad and depressed every day.

As a result of that, I've lost confidence in myself and also my self-esteem is nothing to write home about.

This has made me an introvert and I don't socialize.

So pls tall dudes out there, I want to know how you deal with your self esteem and confidence and also how you approach comments about your heights cuz am gradually going insane!!!

Adekun33:
Am 19yrs old and I am 188cm i.e 6.2ft. I feel so awkward about my height. I feel that am no longer tall but long, for a very long time now i hated everything about my height to the extent I feel very sad and depressed every day.

As a result of that, I've lost confidence in myself and also my self-esteem is nothing to write home about.

This has made me an introvert and I don't socialize.

So pls tall dudes out there, I want to know how you deal with your self esteem and confidence and also how you approach comments about your heights cuz am gradually going insane!!!

SalamRushdie:
Nonsense !!!! The Buhari govt will not tell U that average daily fuel consumption was 26 million litres a day when he took over from Jonathan and the borders were open but under Buhari this figure mysteriously jumped to 60 million litres a day and now Buhari is celebrating because it has reduced to 57 million litres a day which is still a far cry from the 26 million litres a day under Jonathan and then border where open ooo

EVarn:
Report from various human rights groups and civil society observers have confirmed that what happened in Kogi state was a shameful display of gunpoint democracy.

People butchered, ballot snatching, even the police and military have been implicated in the ruse that took place. In one polling station, a helicopter was used to rain down bullets and disperse voters.

That wasn't an election and I hope the court orders a rerun or declare the third runner-up as winner, because both PDP and especially APC employed all manners of irresponsible tactics on election day.

charliboy654:
This guy na mumu o, so the house you rent, is it some someone else house.

NaijaOlosho:
Oga if you love the girl, and you truely know she loves u

Go ahead and marry her.

Forget the stupid advise these beasts here will give you.

Thank God you said it was in the past!

Is she still fucking around presently and has she changed?? This should be your observation.

Mean while will you get married to her and still stay in that your circle??


Guys take note, in as much as no be you disvirgin woman it means more than 5 to 10 guys don chop before you.

So why u want kill ya self over who don chop?

You never chop like 8 girls before her, including olosho them

Pls if she's good and loves you marry her and both of you leave your circle for good

userplainly:
My brother ignore all these people telling u to leave her.. u feel that way cos u knew her before yet still loved her.. many girls u don’t know have done worst! Runs girls get marrieg faster than decent girls these days hope u know .. n they make excellent wives... the celebrities ur guys in nairaland lust about have all done worst compare to ur girl... Bro whe. U meet the right one u forget all her past! They r her past! Just give her boundaries about how she relate with guys now .. Marry her n u won’t regret it

Fountainofyouth:
That lady is shameless and has esteem issues for her to have something to do with you and your former clique...

You lack high standard, moral decency, and also esteem issues for you to go for someone who has been passed around by your friends, you lack class,

Your faults,
Were you blind or deaf that you didn't know all these revelations before starting the relationship with her and falling in love?
How come it is now that you want to dump her you remember that she was once a free sample?
You are now having second thoughts but you don't want your conscience to judge you that's why you came here to rant so you won't feel and be perceived as a terrible person for wasting her time all this while abi?
And then you remembered a tale that was long forgotten cos you are tired and bored of her and need a stupid ass reason to break up with her right?

Clap for yourself mister man, we will tell you what you want to hear, break up with her and let her be, but know this, I assure you that the next woman you meet will have evil, deadly baggages as high as Mount Everest that you will never know till you are both married, and I pray by that time, it will too late for you, I so pray it will really be too late, nonsense.

GistMore7:
A Ghanaian man identified as Osman Hafiz is getting prepared to tie the nuptial knots with his 3 fiancees on November 23.

The wedding ceremony of Hafiz and his fiancees; Yidana Sikena, Ali Karima, and Yakubu Huzaima will reportedly be holding at Walele in the Northern part of Ghana.

Here is the wedding invite below;

BY GISTMORE - http://gistmore.com/ghanaian-man-set-to-marry-3-women-on-same-day-see-wedding-invitation

overdrive:
Paul and Paula.

iammo:




Black people have a problem with envy and not just poor people

why else are people rejoicing the downfall of Mompha and other Yahoo Boys if not for deep hate for rich people

The scammed white people aint even wishing evil on them infact some of their victims still love them, but Naija people curse and wish death on them

post=83752161:
All for the grams.
What is he into?
What does he do?

We know Mayweather (the money man) he took a pic with is a Multi-Billionaire Boxer.
Bill Gate is a Developer.
We know how Mark Z made his Billions.
Dangote is a Business mogul.
Seun Osewa owns Nairaland (Biggest forum in Africa!)
@ is an entrepreneur (some people go die with hate today reading this part!
They will start wailing and quoting us now! )

Who is also hearing about or seeing this instagram Billionaire for the very first time today?!

sulaak:
What country base the president on race, colour and tribe?

lilwetdick:
ok.. but she also bought for you

anyway up to you, as they said the nice guys always get the bad girl when she wanna settle down

age is not in her side, she wants to settle down thus all these open up stories, so that you will pity her and carry her along

anyway, every man for himself, if i was in your shoe i wouldnt accept her, i have standards and i cant be comfortable with a woman with lot of body count and abortion reason is many women with lot of body count have issues, issues you cant solve, issues of bonding with their future partner, also potential std and sti. that is just my opinion

it is up to you.

pressplay411:
There are myriads of problems plaguing Nigeria, but Mediocrity has to top the list.

We do not vote based on merit/comprtence but ttibe/religion/party.
The worst part is how we have been brainwashed to think this is nornal.

psychologygh:
go and feed your 200 million poverty capital of the world citizens. Do you know the meaning of trade.It goes two ways.Did you listen to the man.Ghana will rather block trades with Nigeria and rather trade with Dubai and Europe.Already trade among West African ECOWAS members is the lowest in the world. Ghana exports gold,timber,oil,manufactured products, etc worth 17 billion dollars and out of it,just 80 million dollars goes to Nigeria. So how does a few loss not even loss cos the products can be sold to Europe and China.How does 80 million dollars feed Ghana. Tell me.It's your own people that will suffer cos you can't trade among all these countries again and no imports and exports for them thus businesses and jobs collapsing in Nigeria. Food and goods more than double in prices and majority of your people can't afford such high inflated living.You can't even feed yourself thus closing all your borders to starve yourselves and you're ignorantly shouting that you feed Africa.Despicable words.

NwaAmaikpe:




I love this writeup.
It is either a sentimental gift rooted on an age-long feeling of indebtedness to the man in question or an avenue to show allegiance once again to an already lost benefactor.

But most importantly, it is the work of a seasoned journalist and not the hogwash writings of today.

I am not very competent in the field of proper assimilation.
However, one thing is evident and also a common denominator in what he has written and what Aisha Buhari has always said.

It is that Mamman Daura's interest always comes first to General M. Buhari.
In other words the former is the law while the later is the enforcer of the law.

That is the Mamman Daura we also know.

Stephani3e:
I noticed that most guys hate the idea of their friends dating their sisters. Some would even threaten their friend to stay away from their sisters.

Most guys even if their friend is the last male on Earth they would prefer their sisters to be a nun instead.

MERCHANDISER:
willie obiano is trying but he needs to intensify his effort.

Onitsha metropolis alone support to have 10 fire service station

Adakintroy2:
Sharap. You are of low i.q urself. I cannot start tell you about the truth because obviously you won't know it even if it's your boss in the office.

Over 50 percent of the world have low iq" By what standards?. A camellion can change colour. Can you do that. Yet we judge a camellion as primitive lifeforms. But turn round to study this primitive life forms to advance our sciences. You know nothing about standard measurements as it relates to knowledge or intelligence so shut your mouth with your borrowed knowledege. Many of you think you know but your in very much the shadows.

Am a graduate of science. But have heard that man teach of life's generalities that only apex scientific social studies can produce yet he make it looks so easy. The foolishness many of you display is such that anyone who follows him do so because they are dumb. You can never flip it round enough to see that many who follow him are too intelling and you are the dumb ones. It's hard to swallow for many of you.

How does an educated man become one of the biggest man of God of the 21st century.

Simple. He is humble, kind and compassionate.

Science is observation direct observation. Go and observe instead of using secondary sourced information from "hear say". Again for emphasis science is observation"

the world come to see him. Because Unlike you they observe directly.