₦airaland Forum

Me I'm poor o, but i don't condole cyber fraud (Yahoo) It's pure greed that lure most of them into it.

Garri

2real52:
It is obvious he is not rich.
Now, listen very carefully. The greatest mistake you will ever make in your life is to think that you can dictate who a woman will be with. Either she is an adult or a child, once a woman makes up her mind on anything about the male gender, it is stamped. It is only the future that can determine her fate.

You want to force her to marry a man of your choice, are you also going to force her to be happy, fulfilled and contented with the man of your choice? Will you import happiness into her life? In your little mind, you think that girl is a kid?

My friend, if you don't want to be her greatest enemy, don't present yourself as a barrier to what she feels is best for her. You can never tell if that man is meant for her or not. You are just been sentimental and jealous. You think your sister is too good for the man.. Pray, step aside and find your calling in life. Leave the girl, the man and the future to determine.

I beg to disagree @bolded

My course mate and also a friend in school told me how she met a man immediately after her secondary School. This man was in his mid 30s while she was just 18. This man spoilt her silly. The love the man had for her was pretty much. She was also in love with this man. This man gave her life that her parents couldn't afford because she was from a poor home. This man washes her panties with her monthly flow. This man spoilt not only her but her friends and people around her. He proposed to marry her and she gladly accepted. She's from Abia while the guy is from Imo state. He wanted to come and meet her people for marriage and other neccesities. This my friend was also in love with this guy also. Her family stood their ground that she would never get married at this young age without education. Though the guy promised to see her through school. To cut long story short, she ended up not marrying the guy. She graduated last year @23, though still single but if she chose to get married today, she has guys doing pretty well drolling on her DM. She always thank her mum for such decision she took on her behalf. She was so naive and myopic then. She thought the life the guy gave her then was heaven and earth. She always pray for her mum to be smart enough for such decision.

Today, the said guy is married with 4 children and his wife sells in one small shop. His wife wasn't educated. And she was imagining that's how she'd have just ended up. Imagine the education, the exposure and the Calibre of Men she had met and would definitely still meet. She probably would have missed it all in the name of early marriage

She had made up her mind then to marry the guy but her family put a stop to it. The fact that a girl, lady or woman had completely decided to marry someone doesn't mean such decision can't be haltered or change to her own interest. It depends on individual family

Some family would gladly do anything within their reach to stop their daughter from marrying anyone they felt isn't right for her and they'd achieve their aim

wd2454418:
Stop oppressing the keke guy. In as much the guy is paying his due, the keke belongs to him, only for him to complete his money. It's not part of the agreement that the keke guy should carry ur friend or family member. So u people should leave him alone. From your write up. Even if u get to police station, your friend will be blame.

not until the keke rider complete the whole payment, the keke doesn't belongs to him

Vistra40:
Good evening everyone! Please are there special buses that take corpers directly to camp? If yes, what states do they ply and what companies offer this service? Thanks

some school do organise buses for her PCMs going to camp. You can also liase with your fellow PCMs to meet at a particular car park to board same bus

I can help you or anyone else organise bus going to any part of the country to obey the clarion call

2real52:
This op is a demented fool. If I ever set my eyes on brothers like you eh, na one bullet to your gull straight. Leave her alone and go fine your own life.

Even if your sister wants to marry a dead man, get the hell out of her way.

For your mind now, you are wise, you are protective. You dey feel like James bond. Leave her alone oga.

She doesn't owe you a thing in this world. You too, as well don't owe her whatever.

Get away joor

Your mumu go last

Op please ignore this nuisance

sinkhole:
ASUU will go on strike because Buhari is a vegetable, he only reads whatever they give him to read without any action following his statement!

I doubt if they will go on strike. This present ASUU president seems to be calm. If it were to be the former president, he'd have long declare strike

Elsueno:
If u got the talent, Japa woh....a colleague of ours who graduated with first class tried his best to get a job in Nigeria but couldn't, like joke he applied for scholarship abroad, d oyinbos pick am sharp sharp, dat was 5 years ago

Nawa o, we wey get strong 2.1 no get hope be that o.. as we no get job, scholarship sef na war! This life don tire person i swear

Rastaramsey:
Guy if you try am enh, nah ogun go kill you....

How the hell you would betray your blood If you aren't satisfied with his job , leave him.......

which blood biko? Blood wey be thief na him you dey call blood kwan? Better expose the criminal ASAP

How on earth would one criminal ripped off someone hard earned money and you are here saying trash. You don't want him to expose your colleague in crime abi

ImpregnaTor:
I bet he's a simp, just take a good look at that smile

what else do you want him to be?

gentiles:
If you inform your brother, you might ruin their marriage, and if you keep quiet your brother's wife and her lover might eliminate you just to keep the secret. The decision is yours. Fear Nigerian ladies, 80% of Nigerian ladies of this generation are hoes.

Then Nigerian Men are saint right?

Happiness

Kshogz:
I am actually to the one but someone close to me. She has gone to bayelsa to do the needful and they told her she should check her portal . Since Monday till now nothing has shown on the portal for her to proceed and print out the document needed to present at the NYSC of the state she want to relocate to. Called bayelsa and they keep saying they have cleared her that she should check her portal but till this moment nothing is showin on her portal ..

Send a mail detailing how she had been redeployed successfully and got cleared in Bayelsa state but yet to find anything on her dashboard

Hassanmaye:
Blood of Zachariah! Na covenant be glorified secondary

Welcome to nairaland where talk is cheap

Batam:
This is a good development and not castigating Tinubu up and dawn.
There are lot of technically and politically gifted Igbo who can lead Nigeria successfully but the question is under which party.

probably from APGA

Kshogz:
Good morning house. Please I have been having a big issue with my relocation from bayelsa to Osun. Since my relocation was approved on the 10th of January I have not been able to print out the necessary slip to document in Osun. My portal is not giving me the print out and payment option to print out the necessary document to do documentation in NYsC Osun. Pls I need help I am batch C 1.

You are supposed to sort out this at Bayelsa. Send a mail to NYSC Bayelsa state concerning that. You can also meet with your LGI and reason with him/her. You need clearance from your PPA and LGI before being cleared completely

MufasaLion:

Take a walk to the brothels (both online and physical). It's filled and controlled by the female folks. And oh, don't forget OnlyFans.

I ain't disregarding any gender. I'm just trying to let you know there are bad eggs in both genders.

Lol

That same Brothels are mainly patronize by the male gender. Meaning, they are birds of same feather

Lol, yeah i know you ain't discrediting any gender

Kriss216:
Getting drilled under my roof means getting the gbola when she's still under my care. I dey vex quick, I fit OVB person son.

ogbu ishi anaghi ekwe mma ga ya na azu.
Mariah, that Ilu is not applicable here. I'm a cool headed guy

Take a walk to the correctional centres. It's mostly occupied by the male folks

My mum this, my mum that here and there. If it was the guy who does same thing, what will happen?

Dear sister,

Why would you be going out with a boy still learning mechanic and you guys are indulging in sex without protection till you got pregnant? This is completely wrong. I sincerely pity your father seriously. The man is definitely heart broken

FINANCIALLY, this guy can't feed himself because he's still under tutelage, learning work

This guy mother don't want you. She probably May not hate you naturally. The hatred might be as a result of you getting pregnant for her son who can't even feed himself. She probably felt that you've distabilized her son journey in life by holding him down with pregnancy

If you kick against aborting the pregnancy, chances had it that you'll become a single mother @21, your parents are not in support and the boy mother don't like you. The red flag is huge sister

If you were my sister, i would advise you to get rid of the pregnancy and move on with your life. I'm not even saying you shouldn't marry the guy because of his religion. If at all you will marry him, it'd definitely be later in life not now. He's still learning work. God forbid bad thing, this is not the life i wish even for my enemy. He should finish learning his work, start working and be able to stand firm before considering marriage with him. By Then, you also can look for something doing. Even if it's college of education or polytechnic just go. @21 do you want to be suffering in this present state of the economy? Do you want to be crying, thinking and be treated badly at this age? That woman don't want you, if you insist, she'd definitely frustrate your life that is even if you forcefully marry her son who is still learning mechanic

Terminate that pregnancy and go meet your father for forgiveness. But if you insist like your sister rightly said. No wahala! I just want you to have it at the back of your mind that you may likely end up becoming a Single mother because that guy is not man yet and his mother doesn't like you

Please use your head. Do not allow love becloud you completely. Love doesn't pay bills sister. This country will continue getting tougher o sister. You need to be calm in selecting a life partner. Don't start your journey with suffering please. I'm not saying you shouldlook out for billionaire o. You deserve the best sister. You should marry an ambitious guy with stable income, who has a roof over his head and his family would welcome you as their daughter inlaw to be. Please listen to your sister. Trust me, she loves you more than the guy do. Yes! The guy love for you is conditional but that of your sister is natural. Please do listen to her. Thanks!

Regards,

These women aren't sleeping with themselves. It's my fellow men that do mate with them for them to get pregnant. Men should learn how to use condom at all cost and stop depending on the ladies to take contraceptive pills that is bound to fail st any time. Moreso, excessive intake of 5contraceptive is detrimental to her

Women should borrow themselves brain. No man should condition you to get pregnant before marriage. If you guys can't go for medical check up to acertain your fertility level and whataview then you have no business going into marriage with someone who's giving you terms and condition. If the child mistakenly died and pregnancy wasn't coming as expected then he's likely to play away match because that is the sole reason he's marrying you not really interested in you. Moreover, you can get pregnant before marriage and he can still dump you for someone else or for no just cause then you automatically becomes a single mother

Single mother as a result of domestic violence and abandonment are justifiable to me. I wouldn't consider single mother as a result of rape. A sensible person ought to visit the hospital immediately after being raped to wash off herself to avoid unwanted pregnancy

ChybuzzDD:
How about your father?

Una no de try for fathers at all

The fact that he didn't mentioned his father doesn't mean he's not part of his plans

It's just that children tend to love their mothers much more than fathers. It's natural

jasminer:
I hope some people will be willing to leave their parents house once they clock 16 and not be parasites at 25 claiming parents shouldn't use them as retirement plan...

If you gave those parents the space to build their futures, they most likely won't be broke, but no, you see the free or very affordable government schools and push them to enroll you in one of the best private schools that cost them blood and sweat every term, unlike your mates overseas who attended free education and take loans to pay for their university tuition.

Hypocrisy

I attended public school all through my life. My university education was almost free but my father would still be complaining because of not getting employed

Poor parents no doubt bank on their kids as retirement plan

PrinceMajestic:
shut the hell up. You fuckin commoner. You don't know what Princes pass through on behalf of you commoners. Who gave you the audacity to criticize what Princes do with their father's letterhead paper? U commoners are always lacking common sense. I don't blame you, I blame the monarch that cannot respect his own Princes

please reduce the volume

KAPOVee:
Why has the F.G not pay corpers their Jan. allawee?
Please, somebody should enlighten me. Is this how it has been in the past?

it's A general issue. Even the FG workers hasn't been paid. This is not the first time january salary/allowances is being delayed. It's a norms by the FG. You'll get your allowance don't worry

Rawtruth1:
Will you kill yourself after doing your best to raise them up in the fear of God and their mother convinced them that you the father hate them because you apply discipline?

Most corrupt, criminal minded and deviant children were products of "sweet mothers"

BIG LIE

melodyj:
Please Sir, is it time to check if my Name is on my school senate list and am eligible for registration, and how will I check

check NYSC official website to confirm your name. You should also be in touch with your fellow school mates to get updates concerning that

Enigma2049:
Good morning sir. Please i have an issue bothering me. When my school uploaded their senate list, i found out they misspelt my middle name by omitting a single letter, for eg, my middle name is Anthony, but they put Antony there, they removed the letter h. Plz what can i do to rectify this?

This can be ressolved on your arrival at the camp during registration. Just notify the ICT guys when you are doing biometric capture in camp to help make amend to that


You can as well make correction while registering for NYSC on your dashboard

Househelp:
Please what makes people get posted for a later batch like batch B etc when their colleagues got batch A

Depends on school. Some school do mobilise all her graduate for the next available batch. While some school does that in batch

Also, if the students had any issue, it'd likely delay their mobilization compare to others with no issue

There could be other factors though

yinkeys:
A lot of APC paid zombies are on Nairaland
Stop wasting your time responding to people who have sold their souls for money

Not all are paid agent. The fact that you want PDP or any other political party outside APC doesn't mean every other person should follow suit

Politics is a game of number. Stop seeing those in support of APC as paid agents while those canvassing for PDP as saint

Your choice, their choice either!

anchex101:
Please the date of birth on my jamb and waec is 13th (which is a mistake). My correct date if birth is 15th.

Do I have anything to worry about when filling my details for nysc registration? I'd be among the next batch to go.

Please I need advice

No course for alarm. NYSC make use of your jamb details. 13th will be used. Though you have the liberty to make correction at the camp during registration with the ICT officials

Nwaezepbebe:
So what if my name appears on the list and I don't want to go with the Batch 1, how do I go about it please

Don't bother to register. You could register when you are ready to obey the clarion call