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CrimeRe: NDLEA Arrests Businessman With Cocaine Hidden In Private Parts At Lagos Airport by spiceadole(f): 1:16pm On Feb 01
As usual...
RomanceRe: Just Clocked 46, No Wife , No Job , No Connection by spiceadole(f): 10:22pm On Jan 30
Stayingalive:
you and who agreed what? Be listening to teenagers online
Old man suddenly sees the value of marriage.
I thought age was only a woman's problem
RomanceRe: Just Clocked 46, No Wife , No Job , No Connection by spiceadole(f): 10:21pm On Jan 30
Stayingalive:
you and who agreed what? Be listening to teenagers online
Old man suddenly sees the value of marriage.
I thought age was only a woman's problem.
RomanceRe: Just Clocked 46, No Wife , No Job , No Connection by spiceadole(f): 7:27pm On Jan 30
nnamdi640:
I need a guide too bros, I will be 41 this December, no wife
What are you doing with a wife?
It has been agreed on this platform that men should not marry because they stand to benefit nothing from marriage.
CelebritiesRe: Angela Okorie's Ex Boyfriend, Oil Money Makes Mockery Plead For Her Release by spiceadole(f): 4:20pm On Jan 30
zenburster:
If this uncle is age-shaming Angela Okorie, who was born in 1985 (41 years ago),

How old is he?

Two silly people.

P.S: I know her public age may be reduced, but let's give her benefit of doubt.
In Nigeria, a 50 year old man(bachelor) can age shame a 30 year old woman especially if she is not married.
Once a woman is 30+ and not married, she is regarded as an old woman and that's where the so called ex boyfriend is driving to.
RomanceRe: A Lady Was Embarrassed For Hugging Her Ex In The Presence Of His Girlfriend. by spiceadole(f): 4:14pm On Jan 30
For me, nothing like ex.
Once we are done, I never knew you.
As long as we are not co-parenting,if you see me for road, don't greet, don't stop.. keep moving.
CrimeRe: Uk-based Nigerian Jailed 6 Years For Raping A Woman In Toilet Of A Train by spiceadole(f): 2:22pm On Jan 29
folake4u:
Yen yen yen.

I thought you people said white women are the best thing after sliced bread. See how y'all are changing mouth. Na múmú dey believe una truly.

I hope justice is served and Mr. Odubanjo cools his brains in prison.
My sister, don't mind them.
I'm in the UK. This is my 7th year.
White women are not rushing Nigerian men.
Even Nigerian women tend to avoid them .
Konji is dealing with a lot of Nigerian men here.
Some of them got dumped by their wives as soon as they relocated here.
I know a guy who has not gotten any action since Sept 2023. His wife divorced him and moved on with a guy from another African country.
He is so frustrated, he is considering visiting Nigeria during the summer just so he can cum.
CrimeRe: Uk-based Nigerian Jailed 6 Years For Raping A Woman In Toilet Of A Train by spiceadole(f): 2:18pm On Jan 29
All of a sudden, they are shifting posts.
I thought you guys say foreign women are better.
What changed?
FamilyRe: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by spiceadole(f): 5:54am On Jan 29
You guys are still getting married and this one even sounds excited about it.
Lol
Men will say one thing online while doing another offline.
Marriage doesn't benefit them , women are evil, bla bla bla yet they can't stop getting married.
PoliticsRe: 'Why Did You Start With Mortuary? – Governor Eno Questions Contractor (Video) by spiceadole(f): 5:46am On Jan 29
Why Oyibo contractors?
No Nigerians that can handle the project?
FamilyRe: Married But Lonely by spiceadole(f): 10:04pm On Jan 28
QuinQQ:
I was sincerely agreeing with you. I value FREEDOM sooo much. And I know the only way to have my freedom is to allow other's their's too, though within certain parameters. I don't want clingy or someone who can't live without me!
Clingy partners( especially men) are people with low self esteem and usually extremely dangerous.
It's not love, It's danger loading.
A clingy man is not attractive.
FamilyRe: Married But Lonely by spiceadole(f): 6:27pm On Jan 28
QuinQQ:
There u go! My kind of lady. Do your thing, I do my thing. Just make sure I don't hear about any "thing" you did
And so?
Highest , it's divorce... Life goes on.
RomanceRe: What Will You Gift Your Man For Valentine Day by spiceadole(f): 1:23am On Jan 28
Nothing.
Never given my husband valentine gift.. and he doesn't give me too.
We are good like that.
SportsRe: Patrick Dorgu Out For 10 Weeks With Injury by spiceadole(f): 5:16pm On Jan 27
Denalarian:
Didn't know this guy is born into a Nigerian home
My husband and his friends jokingly call him "Chinazaekpere"
SportsRe: Calvin Bassey’s Father Begs For Reconciliation After 18 Years by spiceadole(f): 9:02am On Jan 27
Team "It doesn't matter, my children will look for me when they grow up".

I guess none of the 4 boys are grown ups yet.

Oga, wait. let them grow.
They will look for you.
Time still dey.

He wants to reconnect with them esp Calvin because he is a professional footballer doing well in his career.

Anambra man that should have married Anambra woman, have new children and move on with his life , is busy looking for the children he had with a Calabar woman

How shameful!
EducationRe: Pretty Lady Celebrates Her Degree In Yoruba Language by spiceadole(f): 12:13am On Jan 27
Ojuntana:
UI sabi throw people into funny funny courses sha
But it's good to see she made good of hers
Kudos

There's one dude here on NL who's always busy hating on doctors simply because he couldn't meet the cut to study the course. Dude is also a political urchin here... free something can't really remember
I was offered Zoology in UI
I wrote UME again and got into medicine and surgery in UNIPORT.
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh Testifies About Reconciliation With Ex-husband; Churchill Reacts by spiceadole(f): 12:35am On Jan 26
advanceDNA:
Churchill and rose are still married.....

Tonto dikeh and Churchill are not getting back together....the reconcile context is that she has stopped being bitter towards him and allowed him access to his son after 10years
Dey play.. until Tonto is expecting baby number 2

Is Churchill not a Nigerian man?

He will not just sleep with Tonto, he will impregnate her, rub it on Rosy's face.
It's just a matter of time.

P. R. E. E. K no get sense
EducationRe: Woman Gifts 9-year-old Daughter Iphone 17 For Coming Second In Class by spiceadole(f): 11:55am On Jan 24
By the time she is 18 and her mother buys her an SUV, they will say it's clitocurrency.
CrimeRe: Comfort Uwakwe: Lady Missing During Visit To Boyfriend In Epe (photo) by spiceadole(f): 10:40am On Jan 24
Gerrard59:
Except to Asian countries, the earnings from European countries is abysmal.
https://www.economist.com/britain/2023/06/14/how-much-is-a-human-head


Young men too as ladies wouldn't trust or find it hard to trust innocent men no matter how innocent and harmless they might be.
Organ trafficking is very lucrative in Asia.
It has always been.
I do not think Europe is a destination for such business compared to what's happening in Asia.

Young men are not the ones getting killed, having their organs harvested and sold. Instead, they have the "upper hand" because they are the culprits behind this. They are in the place of advantage.
FamilyRe: Married But Lonely by spiceadole(f): 11:34pm On Jan 23
Sexyrosey:
The Loneliness No One Talks About

It’s a different kind of pain to feel lonely while lying next to someone who is supposed to love you.
To be married, yet feel emotionally single.
To wake up every day craving affection, attention, and connection… and still go to bed empty.

People think loneliness only comes from being alone.
But sometimes it comes from being with someone who no longer sees you, hears you, or desires you.

I miss being wanted.
I miss being touched with intention, spoken to with softness, loved with effort.
I miss feeling like I matter.

I’m tired of pretending I’m okay.
Tired of acting strong when inside I feel invisible.
Tired of pouring love into a space that feels cold and silent.

This is not about perfection.
It’s about presence.
About romance.
About feeling chosen, not just tolerated.

The hardest part is knowing that I’m still capable of love, passion, and deep connection — but I’m living in a place where none of it is returned.

And that kind of loneliness… hurts more than being alone ever could.
This one doesn't concern me.
I have children.. I am not lonely.
I don't like a clingy partner.
As long as he is giving me peace and space, I'm okay.
CrimeRe: Comfort Uwakwe: Lady Missing During Visit To Boyfriend In Epe (photo) by spiceadole(f): 9:41pm On Jan 23
Berankis:
See this fine girl. Women are now endangered species in this God-forsaken country.
Who established that money can be gotten from the killing of another human being?
It's all these lunatic believes that have kept this country in perpetual suffering and underdevelopment. What nonsense!
Organ trafficking is lucrative.
It's not money ritual.
I really feel sorry for young girls in the dating /relationship phase.
RomanceRe: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by spiceadole(f): 5:31am On Jan 23
GenFunction:
The girl sef
36 nd 51. E suppose show na.
Abi the man na Pharrell Williams?
Williams may not look 52 but he definitely doesn't look to be in his 30s.
Additionally, he completed secondary school in 1991. That information clearly puts him in his early 50s.

That lady isn't just smart.
There are many ways to know people's ages apart from looks
RomanceRe: 26-year-old Woman In Tears After Discovering Husband Is 51, Not 34 by spiceadole(f): 5:26am On Jan 23
There is no type of genetics that will make a 51 year old man look 34.

Additionally,looks is not the only way to know or guess someone's age.
In this era , it's very easy to have a good guess of someone's age.

In our every day interaction with people, we get to know their siblings, educational achievements, career achievements,their friends, choice of music, even certain stories they will tell us or childhood memories they remember can give a good idea of how old they may be.

Some years back I think around 2017, I was discussing with a colleague and he told me a story that happened in 1990 .. and I was like "1990? And you are narrating the gist so well?".
He replied " Haba! I don finish secondary school that time sef".
Gbam!
I quickly added 16-18 years + 27/28... I had a rough guess of his age and knew this guy was a "senior man" even though he didn't look like in his 40s,he didn't look 20s.He could actually pass for late 30s

We were not dating,no intentions to.
Just colleagues interacting and along the line,I knew his age range.
How much more someone you are intimate with.

The lady is not smart..Her mathematics is even wrong.

As young as AY and Bovi look,they don't look 20 years younger than their ages.
Even Teju Babyface who looks so young ,by the time you see his friends and the circle he rolls with,find out his life achievements,see his siblings ,you will know he is not in his 30s.

Mumu lady got played.
I can imagine the pain of getting married hoping to build with a young man only to find out he is a papa and he is broke/struggy at 51 abi 54.
Lol
TravelRe: Can Someone Help With European Countries With Good Amount Of Jobs by spiceadole(f): 11:00am On Jan 22
obonujoker:
Good afternoon House.

Please can anyone help with good European countries where someone can study and also get job without waiting for so long.

I intend to pursue a PHD abroad, but I want to be strategic, while studying I can work. I intend taking my wife and 2 kids along...

I already have a masters and bachelor in Mechanical engineering, but I have never practiced with these certificates, I have been into Real estate and Education.

My wife has a Bachelors degree too... She will be a dependant.

We are looking at Portugal, or Finland , but we want where we can get jobs easily.

Canada is too expensive for us, except there's a scholarship.

So please help out..... Thank you
You want to take your wife abroad.
I thought you guys said wives should be left in Nigeria.
Or you say one thing online while doing another offline?
CrimeRe: He Died In His Room, Rot, Turned To Skeleton And Nobody Noticed For 4 Years by spiceadole(f): 3:06pm On Jan 20
victorVIC1:
You are trying. I did that for few months, I couldn't help it. It felt so lonely to the point that I was staying back at work till night. I eventually fast tracked my wedding to same year.
Fast track wedding for the same marriage that men benefit nothing from

Lol
RomanceRe: How Long Can You Stay Without Sex ? by spiceadole(f): 1:13am On Jan 19
I can stay as long as I want to

Left for me, I no longer need sex .
Sex is for procreation and I'm done with child bearing

I have never seen /felt the pleasure in sex.

I just squeeze face and manage it once In a while, for sake of marriage.

Sex is not food.
RomanceRe: Gay Nigerian Man Marries His Oyinbo Lover In USA (Photos) by spiceadole(f): 3:06pm On Jan 18
A bold man
Unlike the lots of them who spend all their energy and time complaining about women yet desire same women.
RomanceRe: Please Help Me Reprogram My Life, I'm Tired Of Patronising Prostitutes. by spiceadole(f): 8:08pm On Jan 17
KiNg0G:
Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.
How come patronising prostitutes is no longer a flex?

How come steady knacking is no longer a boast of sexual prowess?

Oga, please continue oh.

Don't stop.

It makes you more manly.
Man was meant to sleep with as many woman as he can possibly lay.

As long as you can afford the women, continue.
Brotherhood is proud of you
CrimeRe: Married Woman Got Stuck With Another Man In Her Matrimonial Bed (Video) by spiceadole(f): 8:20pm On Jan 16
ibrutex:
Wetin this man dey yarn huh Juju dey abeg

Ask yourself why it always happen to Men with another man wife , i have never seen the case of husband and wife before....


Have you heard/seen a man die while having sex with his wife in their home?
As compared to men dying in hotels with their side chics/pros.titutes
RomanceRe: Lady’s Desperate Attempt To Reconcile With Her Boyfriend by spiceadole(f): 5:37pm On Jan 16
This is the low self esteem that comes from having sex with a man who is not your husband.
You end up feeling worthless when he leaves you.
You feel ashamed and less of yourself.

If not, if he never saw your tow tow and decides to leave, you will be walking around happily with your shoulders raised up high.

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