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Men are suffering sha.
After bragging on social media that they don't need marriage, women are useless,.. same them save money to spend on marriage rites to women.
What a life.
It's a pity.

dawnomike:
Wickedness of the highest order!!!

Why deceive a woman just to marry her in the name of lover that will first clear off when the truth unravels?

For the same marriage that men claim they don't need and beneforit nothing from

Softmen:
Madam e smooth for you like express no mean say na U sabi relationship pass.
Anyways no sympathy here cos these daughter of eve will never take to advice

I never said I sabi relationship pass.
I only said there is no way a lady should be in a relationship for 6 years except she is a teenager.
Even though.
What will they do be doing for 6 years?

edogu:
If you are in a relationship for six years and your partner is yet to propose demand for pension immediately. On a side note, people should go into a relationship with a purpose. If the person is not serious, you move on. I'm sure the red flags or signs were there but she continued with the relationship.

Note this: in relationship, the person who suffers most is the person who invested more either emotionally or financially. Therefore, learn to use your 5 and 6 while dating to avoid had I known.

6 years? Like a whole 6 years?
Anyway, some can start as teenagers.
Cos if a grown up woman is dating a man for 6 years, na she sabi.
I dated my husband for 8 months.

OnionBandit:
This jubilation means she has been cheating, only that the person she has been cheating with is imp0t€nt

Are you aware that there is something called "Safe sex, contraception??
Every act of intercourse should not result in pregnancy

If my husband demands for DNA test, I will gladly obliged him . I am 100% sure the 3 children are his.
But then, no trust in the marriage.. It can never be the same.

Emdi1914:
ok, what if a woman admires a man and wants to sleep with him, she makes advances at him but the man says No.Out of frustration and anger, She goes out to the streets crying and accusing this man of rape or attempted rape, won't you believe her?

Keep imagining script.
Nobody makes sustained advances at anybody if the other party doesn't encourage it.
Men always want to have sex, that's why it's very easy for them to fall victim to rape accusations.
They can't say NO to invitation for sex.. they, instead, see it as a blessing

Emdi1914:
If you like cut off the prick of Everyman,a woman will still find a means to bring a Man down.
The breed that had one on one interaction with the devil,they are as cunning as the serpent

Big lie.
He who plays with dogs should not complain when the dogs tear his clothes.

A man who can control his third leg has solved 90% of his problems.

Men, especially financially successful ones, believe they must sleep with as many women as possible.

If Hakimi never entangled himself with his accuser(s),no woman will wake up one morning to point accusing fingers at a man she never met or had no business with.

NomorePMO:
Na who give ekaite belle, na the question wey my wifey, dey ask me very lately, lol

Did you know, she has a boyfriend. Also, her mother usually helped her clean after her crazy sex show?

Oyibo no dey rate sex like Africans do. Mostly cheap or free there. Just be confident to ask

Team foreign women

Houseofglam7:
That man will soon cry! He will weep! 🤭

How?
Why?
It's the lady that will cry if she allows herself to be messed up

Good but don't loose guard.
He will gladly shift your pants if you mumu yourself.
Then go back to his bad boy lifestyle.

Flip this script, a man will never take a woman who had a rough past serious.
No matter how genuine she may have changed, they will still judge her by her past.
Don't get carried away else you will weep.

I have seen a guy who faked being born again and even did introduction just to sleep with the lady .. after the deed, he ended the engagement and shunned her.
Be warned

Nostalemate:
Sad one...must be out of underlaying ailment(s) or too much excitement ....


Shout-out to all chess players on Nairaland earning good money from the game .

Pulmonary embolism.
Risk factors: Elderly, Big size, Immobilisation (Long flight)

Love800:
I like it when am being briefed on why disconnections happened between you and me.

Don't take the coward style. Iron it to us, for understanding.
This kind of separations usually leaves a huge hole in our hearts because you don't know the wrong.

I rather ghost.

When I was single, if I meet a guy and we are in the talking stage and I find out things I don't like about him, I just quietly withdraw aand ghost him.
No explanation

Drsnives:
Hmmmm..
That's how a lady at I love ghosted me back then.
Thank God for life sha, at least am not still at the level she left me

Better to ghost than plenty shalaye

BigYash:
And HIV positive . Heard one guy said has shared to over 20 girls in Lekki. Those girls go don share to more than 50k each.. Those 50 will share too. If you like dey dive raw,you will learn new thing soon

The moment I had my third child and decided I was done with child bearing, I swore that nothing in this world will make me have unprotected sex.

The total number of your sexual partners is the number of the people your spouse is sleeping with and their partners.. it's indefinite.

The joke is on her

Accommodated and fed a man... Shame on her
He ate her food and ate her towtow

She is the loser

folake4u:
Lol actually there are few genuinely kind Nigerian men I've met with no ulterior motive at all. They've been really good to me.

Emphasis on FEW.

Loose guard and see if they won't want to shift ya panties or clear your account if you have money

pulsa:
I'm 31 and I'm liking a girl so much, but she always says she's busy though and does not pick my calls most times when I call, I know she's not lying though because someone else told me she does the same thing to her, I had someone compose a small valentine music poem for her which I will give her tomorrow, but honestly speaking if things don't change by next week I won't bother her again. I'm too old for all this hide and seek nonsense lol.

Getting married right in Nigeria of today is becoming really hard.

I thought it has been agreed on this platform, especially that marriage is not for men.
Men should not marry as they have nothing to benefit from getting married

Any style other than the missionary position, count me out.

Sex is overrated.
It's not food.
I do not enjoy sex.
I only manage it for procreation reasons and as a chore, rarely

Onegai:
If you know men, and I'm not saying this to bash men, I'm saying this because I've seen it a lot...

They only fight for custody when they want to punish their ex and have a way to control her. Men don't process breakups well.

And it is not a Nigerian phenomen, even abroad. Abroad, a lot of women in divorce court once they hand their child over for custody and the man realizes that she won't be allowing him use the kids to fight her, they get tired and start looking for another way to control and hurt her.

Davido wanted to punish Sophia. Which is why this nonsense came up

I'm 99% positive that the reason Davido's family was quiet was because they had access to Imade anytime and Davido's case had no leg to stand on. I know a Nigerian man in this situation and it's only gullible people who don't know his wife believe him when he says she's kept the kids away: his family literally chat up with the wife on social media, his friend was getting updates. He only fights for custody when he's feeling hurt or needs his ego stroked. We're tired of him.

His idiotic prideful bluster that he was dealing with the lawyer in court but decided to drop the case is just typical male ego face saving foolishness. I don't understand why men do it and I have sons, so I'm scared one day they'll be foolish like this.

And they will never fight for custody for babies.
They wait for the children to grow.
Walk, talk, be able to eat unassisted.

No sane court will give custody of a child to an irresponsible careless person no matter how much he has.

Love800:
Those of you who always insist on having baby-mama, have you now seen the consequences!

Lol. Na una sabi.

Nothing beats having all your children with one mother under one roof.

folake4u:
@ the bolded.

Spice please. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

If Nigerian man shows you kindness, there is an ulterior motive.
Those people are not kind anything

jmoore:
Men who are victims of paternity fraud especially with the first child are those decided to taste before marriage.

Especially those ones who married their pregnant girlfriends. The joke is on them

adecz:
An essential professional like you
will always have a better life in UK than
Nigeria.

Your services are in high demand and
you are well paid & get extra income from
added hours of work, unlike in Nigeria
where doctors are basic maltreated,
grossly undervalued and underpaid.

But for the average japa people that simply
take off to go hustle at any available job,
the wahala is real as bills keep you on
permanent high jump.

The major consolation in the relatively
affordable cost of foodstuff👍

I'm so glad I left Nigeria when I did.
It's not even about the money .
For me, it's more of a system that works.

adecz:
How can you compare darkness 🌚🌑
and light🌞🌝?


However, Japan has its pros & cons.


Nigerians planning to Japan will be calculating
the thousands of pounds dem go dey
collect as salary, forgetting they will be
spending the money in the UK (not Nigeria)
and the system will immediately collect
everything back.

When you are collectiing N800k/ month
in 9ja and paying N2m/ year for rent. You now
japa & earning £3000/ month ( About N8m equivalent).

Your eye go clear when your monthly
rent go be £1000 ( N2m😨😱😰), fuel & energy bill £600 ( over N1m), before you begin
think of feeding & other matters.

Na there you go enter wetin be rat🐀🐭 race wet nor dey finish..

I understand this calculation but my life is still better in the UK than what it was in Nigeria.
I am a medical doctor in the UK

Capping rub.bish because he believes he has made it and doesn't need anybody, will never need anybody's money.
May life be kind to us so we do not have to beg/ask people like this for financial assistance

Coolis:
So a man that earn 100k in a month is less than a man? He should just commit suicide. He shouldn't interact or relate with the opposite sex. I'm not going into crime to impress anyone. You have no slightest idea about the struggle so l don't blame you. You might not be more intelligent, you might not have graduated with better result than me . Time and chance happened to us all. Life and Nigeria happens. But then, l 've resolved not to be depressed. I shall emerge stronger and better

Sorry, Sorry..
Don't cry.. Don't cry.
Waste your meagre 100k on the very same gender you people despise and abuse.
Na you sabi.

bukatyne:
Oh, you are a 'nice' guy and not a genuinely kind man.

Perhaps she saw through you.

Where you see genuinely kind man for Nigeria?
Even here in Europe, they are known to have ulterior motives for dating/relationship and even marriage

You are whyning and feeling pained cos you didn't have the chance to sleep with her on top of your 6200 that she ate. Lol
If you had succeeded, you wouldn't have been calling or texting her.
She would have been the one trying to communicate while you will avoid avoid her, feeling like a King Kong.

Your gender people keep bragging on social media that they don't need women but I'm surprised that a man who earns just 100k in a whole month is looking for a woman.
For what exactly?

jom28gy:
You better you forget about her, she is coming for your money,

But he doesn't have money.
For someone who earns about £50/month
That's too low