₦airaland Forum

Sandralight:
My Uncle Friend wife died in October, in November the man is already looking for a wife and by December he did a lowkey traditional marriage to his new wife.

My point is na who die na lose, both male or female just know you are replaceable

Everybody is replaceable.

My roommate in uni died during childbirth of her 3rd child in June 2023.
I was surprised people were typing "May God grant the husband fortitude to bear the loss"... And I was wondering what loss?

So I responded "The losers here are the lady who lost her life, the 3 children she has left behind, her aged parents and siblings., nothing concern husband. He will remarry within 6 months and move on with his life".

A lot of people especially the guy attacked me .
Lo and behold, in October 2023 ,just 4 months after her demise, the husband remarried and everybody kept mute.

Turn this table around, the world would have ended.
Men are very bad people.

Lol.
Funny how male tears are all over this thread.. for the very same thing they(men) do and are happy about it.

Woman die today... Husband remarries within few months and nobody asks questions.

Man dies.. Widow remarries and tears full ground.

Indeed, men can't chew half of the things they dish to women.

Careente7:
So this guy is married to a Nigerian?


No comment; next question

Very surprising.
Must really be a joke

A pure American marrying a Nigerian woman based in Nigeria despite everything said that Nigerian women are the worst to date or even marry worldwide

And the God he serving and trying to force on other people couldn't make the bullets turn to rubber or backfire to the assailants.
They keep believing God will protect them but when reality sets in,they are as vulnerable as those they tag unbelievers.
How ironical!

Men love bi.t.ches

They say one thing online and do another offline.

The sweetness of Bleep has made a lot of men decide to marry promiscuous ladies simply because they are good in bed.

It is what it is.

Rolings:
Real learner

I was shocked to discover that part of the medication given to my wife from the hospital after child birth was Tramadol, as in TM o

Tramadol is a pain killer.

Very potent one


Some people abuse it.

Kai.
Men!

Many of them have "changed mouth" now now.
Just months ago, they were all celebrating Tuface for humiliating Annie and moving on with Natasha.
They were all "worshipping" Natasha,tagging her Tubaba's peace of mind.

This life sha.
Everybody knows what they are doing.

FreeStuffsNG:
Smh.

Lies from the pit of hell where unhappy, unfortunate, unintelligent people burn.

She couldn't have been abusing drugs and recently give birth to a healthy child. Not everyone is foolish o.

She's a nursing mother and still struggling with the challenges that come with having and nursing a baby.

She needs all the support, love, care and understanding especially from her husband.

Don't bring badluck and foolhardiness to ruin their home and union so that you will not attract curses from God.

Their marriage is their business. Eyin Solo Makinde, mind your own business before it's too late for you in life.

I can understand how difficult it is for you to believe that his peace of mind is already giving him troubles so early.

Well, I don't know how true their story is but just so you know.. Drug addicts give birth to very healthy babies.

Cheers

Drifter02:
At 25 years, I've never had a proper girlfriend.. might sound like fiction but it's true

I've actively chased girls all my life.. but I've never actually met any that liked me for me..

This was particularly worse in university.. all the girls I met were dumb and were only interested in chasing good grades instead of just actively existing..

Some are even married now and their lives are still robotic and pathetic.. these days they're chasing corporate certifications and more needless difficult things instead of just calming down and living their lives

Interestingly, the only one that had a school cert I met that gave me her number later told after two years (we never had sex btw) that she feels my family won't allow us marry as I had a BSc and she doesn't.. (young girl of 22 ).. naso she break things up. Bro the reason was just weird and strange. I suspect though she has another man she's attracted to.

All the other girls I keep meeting keep using me for money.. rather than bonding emotionally, it's always send me card.. buy me ice cream.. take me out.. stupid nonsensical crap and whatnot

Bro.. I'm just tired. I earn 100k a month and all I do I just sit indoors, jerk off and hate my life.. it's almost true love died with the last century. Without a partner.. my life just feels hollow and meaningless

You should be happy you are alone.
It has been agreed especially on this platform that Nigerian women are not useful and have nothing to bring to the table.
Besides, your problem is konji..
You don't even matured(mentally, financially and emotionally) for a long term relationship

Kwinesther:
Thank you ooo. Exactly what I wanted to reply him with. As useless as Nigerian women are, (according to Nigerian men) this abuser still never thought of taking his five children to a man to help him take care of them, he still chose women.

Men cannot take care of children.
They are not programmed like that.
My husband used to think taking care of children was a joke until I had to travel for a course for 2 months and left 3 children under 7 years for him to care for.
Within a week, he had started complaining.. and before the end of the second week, he had sought the services of child minders.
He paid heavily for it.
This is service I render naturally,freely and happily.
Since then, his brain calmed down.
He now appreciates my efforts.

ABankole:
This feminism of a things should be tone down sometimes.

I have 2 girls, love my mother and my sister. We need and made for each other ❤️

There is nothing feminism about the comment you quoted.
He/She simply stated what Nigerian men sing on social media and even offline.
"Women bring nothing to the table, we don't need women in our lives. We are doing them a favour. women are this, women are that"

Nigerian men are funny.
They wish to marry virgins but become upset when they hear that a woman is a virgin.

My question is : Who recorded it?

grandiose4ever:
Hello everyone,

I have begun to think about getting married.

But for some reason I don't fully understand what to expect or what is fully expected of me as a man in the area of finances.

So I'm asking the following questions to matured married men and women to get clarity?

In your own family

1. If the wife is working class, Is it expected that the man pays 100% of the rent?

2. If the wife is working class, is it expected she contributes towards children school fees or the man pays 100%?

3. If the wife contributes financially, is there an expectation that the man does chores? (Ps I don't want to do any chores in this life apart from occasional cooking lol).

4. If the wife contributes financially how does it affect the decision making in the family?

The last question is ONLY for married men who share bills?

5a. Do you feel respectedby your wife when you share bills with her?

*5b. If you don't share bills with your wife and she keeps 100% of her earnings to herself, what do you think is the purpose of a woman working?

I'd appreciate if the mods can help me get a wider audience by putting on front page. Thanks!

Why are you thinking of marriage?
It has been agreed that men have nothing to benefit from getting married.
You lots say something else on social media but in reality, you are doing another thing.
Na you sabi sha

stasius:
Nairaland doctors say you have HIV.

So I hope you are satisfied now.

Better visit a hospital oga! Nairaland is not a hospital.

I am a medical doctor and if a patient presents to me with such history of diarrhoea, I will suspect HIV immunosuppression and screen him for HIV.
It's as simple as that.

dominique:
The depravity and perversion of Nigerian men is getting disturbing. May God's protection be upon our children especially daughters

It's really scaring.
Even in this UK, they get into trouble so much because they have zero control over their sexual urges.

Men and always bragging about their sexual prowess/escapades to the point of making careless offensive remarks concerning minors and vulnerable people under their care.

franchasofficia:
I support this post with 30 Lieutenant Yerima the Wike antidote.


No condom, no sex after couple are done with childbearing, you get too much sense Doc

Needful precaution.
Since the male gender have sworn they can not respect their marital vows and stay faithful to one partner.

LilMissFavvy:
I pity w0men wh0 lack direction. If a woman was married for years, has children and left her marriage for good reasons, why then should she bother about remarrying? Maj0rity 0f men have n0thing good to offer, they are like a cur$e. I always tell myself that if for any reason I become divorced, that I will never remarry again.

Financial Independence is important, if a woman is able to foot her bills she can always live a peaceful life with her kids only. I'd rather be a single mother living with my children,, than live with a cheating hu$band, infact his mere $ight w0uld irritate me.

The only thing about marriage is having kids who knows their father and roots.

Women who divorce and remarry esp when they had children already are nothing but idio..ts

Towma:
I work in Healthcare and have seen and heard cases of men transmitting incurable diseases to their wives because of their sleeping around. This propaganda of trying to force women to forgive cheating husbands is nothing but pure evil.

If as a man you cannot masturbate your excess sex urges instead of cheating on your wife, then make sure you inform whoever you want to marry that you believe it's your right to cheat so she can know what kind of selfish bastard you are before marriage.

I am a medical doctor and it's very painful seeing women being managed for all sorts of sexually transmitted infections esp HIV .
This is why I insist on "No condoms ,no sex" with my husband after I completed child bearing

There is no reason to have unprotected sex with a man, if not for the purpose of procreation.

For me, if he refuses to use condoms, no sex.
Las las, na him go cry cos he needs the sex more than I do.

No

xx1v:
Use the VFS at Opebi, Ikeja.
Select 12,1pm as your preferred time.

Enter libra from benjack stadium road to jibowu, Lagos.

There are hotels at the jibowu park where you can sleep. Next morning, navigate your way to vfs ikeja. Zero charge.

Vfs, presidential hotel offers only premium. Hence, the additional charge.

My cousin boarded Libra from Stadium road . It was a night trip.. she arrived Jibowu, Lagos at about 9am.
Paid for 1 hour at the hotel upstairs in Young Shall grow park where she had her bathe and changed her clothes.
Then off to VFS Ikeja for her biometrics which was scheduled for 2:30pm

She finished the biometrics, returned to Jibowu park and joined Libra back to Port Harcourt that night.

She got the visa and is here in the UK with me.
Will stay till after Christmas

LINSAR:
Thank you for your contribution.

I'm not sure it is normal not to like sex, except you were circumcised.

I'm not circumcised.
Sex is not just my thing.
I'm not a fan

Size matters to some women while it doesn't matter to others.

While most women seems to like big sizes, few including myself prefer smaller size.

For me, I don't like sex.

Why should I enjoy a huge rod ramming into me?

My husband is quite small... He used to have this low self esteem about it but it doesn't matter cos I don't care about Bleep.

Stolen:
OK LET US SEE WHERE REGINA IS HEADED, WHICH OF THOSE PEOPLE CHEERING HER WILL ACTUALLY MARRY HER OR WILL IT BE ANOTHER NOLLYWOOD STORY LIKE OTHER NOLLYWOOD ACTRESS.


I MEAN IT IS NOT LIKE U ARE NED ONLY WIFE.

Dey play

Men dey wey don mount dey wait make she free from this marriage.

Trust Nigerian lustful men.
Before you know, another wealthy man will marry her

kenn4rill:
That should be in there dreams, Nigeria health workers are one of the worst people on earth.

While in Nigeria, my life was pathetic... Seeing so many patients from clinic to ward. Poor pay,terrible work environment.Disrespectful and ungrateful patients. I hated being a doctor.


I relocated abroad and life started to make meaning.
I am happy to be a doctor.
I am happy seeing my patients.
I am fulfilled.
Excellent work environment
Better pay and renumeration package
Health insurance for me and my family
Top-notch security..No fear of being kidnapped.

I wish every doctor hoping to japa the very best of luck.

Nigeria doesn't deserve medical doctors

God forbid!

Ibtxxo:
Today makes me 41 years old.
I have been jobless since I finish school.
I have never work in my life.
The only work I did was teaching in private school for years with peanut.
I decided to resign and sold some property I got from family.

I am just tired and i need direction to manage this money before I waste everything.

Please make una advice me.

Please don't consider marriage.
Invest the money and face front.
Marriage is not profitable to men.
Don't ever think of it.

tiswell:
Or imagine say na woman placed a guy on salary...

Very few stu.pid women can do it.
Later, they cry

Berankis:
I won't encourage you to live alone if you don't want to. But why not go for Nigerian girl. Most especially, someone from your tribe. You see these things we down play are very important. Though, no relationship may be perfect but at least, save yourself some differences by settling for someone of same cultural background and other things can be worked on... Na wetin me I do and I no regret am till date.
I prefer Nigerians to any other people of this world. I go for my tribes' people first, if not available I go for the next group I love and then the last. I don't like white people and any other people for relationship matters.

But it's still your gender that demonize Nigerian ladies.. They say foreign ladies are better

themanderon:
I wonder how you guys choose to cohabit with animals. Take the policemen to your house get your properties and flee from that jezebel before she ensures your deportation.
Someone has all these terrible traits so what are you doing with her? Because she probably offers free sex.
Flee before you regret your actions

She probably doesn't ask him for money unlike Nigerian ladies who are said to be money conscious and greedy.. making sex transactional.

Baba is enjoying free sex.

[quote author=Bigdickmoney post=137349937][/quote]Nigerian men have agreed on this platform that Nigerian ladies are the worst thing to happen to men worldwide.
And that foreign ladies are the trophies.
This, it is impossible to believe that a Kenyan lady who is also British can become a problem to a Nigerian man.

I live in the UK too for about 6 years now.

Baileyz101:
That wehrey fit no dey help him manchis ooo... Omo wehrey.

Him manchis no get towtow and bwess