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FamilyRe: Story Of My Cousin And Her Unfaithful Husband And The Divorce by spiceadole(f): 10:32pm On Nov 12, 2025
franchasofficia:
I support this post with 30 Lieutenant Yerima the Wike antidote.


No condom, no sex after couple are done with childbearing, you get too much sense Doc grin
Needful precaution.
Since the male gender have sworn they can not respect their marital vows and stay faithful to one partner.
FamilyRe: Story Of My Cousin And Her Unfaithful Husband And The Divorce by spiceadole(f): 9:25pm On Nov 12, 2025
LilMissFavvy:
I pity w0men wh0 lack direction. If a woman was married for years, has children and left her marriage for good reasons, why then should she bother about remarrying? Maj0rity 0f men have n0thing good to offer, they are like a cur$e. I always tell myself that if for any reason I become divorced, that I will never remarry again.

Financial Independence is important, if a woman is able to foot her bills she can always live a peaceful life with her kids only. I'd rather be a single mother living with my children,, than live with a cheating hu$band, infact his mere $ight w0uld irritate me.
The only thing about marriage is having kids who knows their father and roots.

Women who divorce and remarry esp when they had children already are nothing but idio..ts
FamilyRe: Story Of My Cousin And Her Unfaithful Husband And The Divorce by spiceadole(f): 9:22pm On Nov 12, 2025
Towma:
I work in Healthcare and have seen and heard cases of men transmitting incurable diseases to their wives because of their sleeping around. This propaganda of trying to force women to forgive cheating husbands is nothing but pure evil.

If as a man you cannot masturbate your excess sex urges instead of cheating on your wife, then make sure you inform whoever you want to marry that you believe it's your right to cheat so she can know what kind of selfish bastard you are before marriage.
I am a medical doctor and it's very painful seeing women being managed for all sorts of sexually transmitted infections esp HIV .
This is why I insist on "No condoms ,no sex" with my husband after I completed child bearing

There is no reason to have unprotected sex with a man, if not for the purpose of procreation.

For me, if he refuses to use condoms, no sex.
Las las, na him go cry cos he needs the sex more than I do.
TravelRe: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 5 by spiceadole(f): 7:56pm On Nov 12, 2025
No
xx1v:
Use the VFS at Opebi, Ikeja.
Select 12,1pm as your preferred time.

Enter libra from benjack stadium road to jibowu, Lagos.

There are hotels at the jibowu park where you can sleep. Next morning, navigate your way to vfs ikeja. Zero charge.

Vfs, presidential hotel offers only premium. Hence, the additional charge.
My cousin boarded Libra from Stadium road . It was a night trip.. she arrived Jibowu, Lagos at about 9am.
Paid for 1 hour at the hotel upstairs in Young Shall grow park where she had her bathe and changed her clothes.
Then off to VFS Ikeja for her biometrics which was scheduled for 2:30pm

She finished the biometrics, returned to Jibowu park and joined Libra back to Port Harcourt that night.

She got the visa and is here in the UK with me.
Will stay till after Christmas
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by spiceadole(f): 11:37pm On Nov 11, 2025
LINSAR:
Thank you for your contribution.

I'm not sure it is normal not to like sex, except you were circumcised.
I'm not circumcised.
Sex is not just my thing.
I'm not a fan
RomanceRe: How Can I Approach Dating With This Condition? by spiceadole(f): 10:40pm On Nov 11, 2025
Size matters to some women while it doesn't matter to others.

While most women seems to like big sizes, few including myself prefer smaller size.

For me, I don't like sex.

Why should I enjoy a huge rod ramming into me?

My husband is quite small... He used to have this low self esteem about it but it doesn't matter cos I don't care about Bleep.
CelebritiesRe: Ned Nwoko Gets 48-hour Ultimatum To Accept Regina Daniels’ Returned Bride Price by spiceadole(f): 1:41am On Nov 07, 2025
Stolen:
OK LET US SEE WHERE REGINA IS HEADED, WHICH OF THOSE PEOPLE CHEERING HER WILL ACTUALLY MARRY HER OR WILL IT BE ANOTHER NOLLYWOOD STORY LIKE OTHER NOLLYWOOD ACTRESS.


I MEAN IT IS NOT LIKE U ARE NED ONLY WIFE.
Dey play

Men dey wey don mount dey wait make she free from this marriage.

Trust Nigerian lustful men.
Before you know, another wealthy man will marry her
PoliticsRe: Treat Patients With Compassion, Professionalism, Oyebanji Charges Health Workers by spiceadole(f): 3:17pm On Nov 06, 2025
kenn4rill:
That should be in there dreams, Nigeria health workers are one of the worst people on earth.

huh huh
While in Nigeria, my life was pathetic... Seeing so many patients from clinic to ward. Poor pay,terrible work environment.Disrespectful and ungrateful patients. I hated being a doctor.


I relocated abroad and life started to make meaning.
I am happy to be a doctor.
I am happy seeing my patients.
I am fulfilled.
Excellent work environment
Better pay and renumeration package
Health insurance for me and my family
Top-notch security..No fear of being kidnapped.

I wish every doctor hoping to japa the very best of luck.

Nigeria doesn't deserve medical doctors

God forbid!
BusinessRe: Is ₦5M Enough For Someone To Start A Business And Get Married? by spiceadole(f): 12:58pm On Nov 04, 2025
Ibtxxo:
Today makes me 41 years old.
I have been jobless since I finish school.
I have never work in my life.
The only work I did was teaching in private school for years with peanut.
I decided to resign and sold some property I got from family.

I am just tired and i need direction to manage this money before I waste everything.

Please make una advice me.
Please don't consider marriage.
Invest the money and face front.
Marriage is not profitable to men.
Don't ever think of it.
CareerRe: Lady Shares How A Friend Secretly Pays Her Monthly Salary When She Lost Her Job by spiceadole(f): 8:16am On Nov 04, 2025
tiswell:
Or imagine say na woman placed a guy on salary...
Very few stu.pid women can do it.
Later, they cry
FamilyRe: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by spiceadole(f): 8:12am On Nov 04, 2025
Berankis:
I won't encourage you to live alone if you don't want to. But why not go for Nigerian girl. Most especially, someone from your tribe. You see these things we down play are very important. Though, no relationship may be perfect but at least, save yourself some differences by settling for someone of same cultural background and other things can be worked on... Na wetin me I do and I no regret am till date.
I prefer Nigerians to any other people of this world. I go for my tribes' people first, if not available I go for the next group I love and then the last. I don't like white people and any other people for relationship matters.
But it's still your gender that demonize Nigerian ladies.. They say foreign ladies are better
FamilyRe: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by spiceadole(f): 8:08am On Nov 04, 2025
themanderon:
I wonder how you guys choose to cohabit with animals. Take the policemen to your house get your properties and flee from that jezebel before she ensures your deportation.
Someone has all these terrible traits so what are you doing with her? Because she probably offers free sex.
Flee before you regret your actions
She probably doesn't ask him for money unlike Nigerian ladies who are said to be money conscious and greedy.. making sex transactional.

Baba is enjoying free sex.
FamilyRe: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by spiceadole(f): 8:03am On Nov 04, 2025
[quote author=Bigdickmoney post=137349937][/quote]Nigerian men have agreed on this platform that Nigerian ladies are the worst thing to happen to men worldwide.
And that foreign ladies are the trophies.
This, it is impossible to believe that a Kenyan lady who is also British can become a problem to a Nigerian man.

I live in the UK too for about 6 years now.
CareerRe: Lady Shares How A Friend Secretly Pays Her Monthly Salary When She Lost Her Job by spiceadole(f): 9:57pm On Nov 03, 2025
Baileyz101:
That wehrey fit no dey help him manchis ooo... Omo wehrey.
Him manchis no get towtow and bwess
CareerRe: Lady Shares How A Friend Secretly Pays Her Monthly Salary When She Lost Her Job by spiceadole(f): 9:57pm On Nov 03, 2025
Had to be a man giving a lady.
Imagine just relocating and his fellow man even begs him for assistance for once , Baba will fold.
FamilyRe: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by spiceadole(f): 9:40pm On Nov 03, 2025
Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.
This is not possible.

A Kenyan lady cannot behave like this.

It is Nigerian ladies home and abroad that are bad for dating and marriage.
Op,you are lying.


Team foreign ladies.

You never see anything.

Now na morning
HealthRe: Resident Doctor’s Strike: Fg Set To Release ₦11.995 Billion Within 72 Hours by spiceadole(f): 11:00pm On Nov 01, 2025
symbianDON:
FG didn't threaten them with no work, no pay like they did ASUU?? Wow!
Doctors are already used to working without pay.
"No work, no pay" threat cannot work.

Many doctors work for 3-12 months without receiving salary when they first assume duty in government hospitals
HealthRe: Resident Doctors Commence Nationwide Strike by spiceadole(f): 10:52am On Nov 01, 2025
KingAzubuike:
Tinubu is not ruthless enough. As they are going on strike, they ought not to be paid salaries too. Nobody will beg them to come back and work.

Why leave patients to die all because of your own personal interests.
6 months of total shut down without salary won't kill.
Nigerian doctors work for 6-12 months in the worst of conditions without salary.

I have 2 colleagues in my house now who visited to write their exams in the UK.

They will stay back and enjoy the strike holiday.

Working without pay has been the norm.
"No work,no pay" is a bonus.
CrimeRe: Ghana Jails Nigerian Man 10 Years For Trafficking Sister, Nine Others by spiceadole(f): 2:54pm On Oct 31, 2025
In the quest for wealth, these people don't exempt their family

They say "wife is not family".. no wahala.

Even their sister too?

Damnnnnnn!
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by spiceadole(f): 10:25pm On Oct 30, 2025
SpencerForbes:
Only the spirit could have shown you this. Most of them just don't vibe with their native name, even if it means Jesus is Lord. They rather go by Lord Jesus. Quite a funny bunch, really😂
🚶‍♂️
I know.
I am from Akwa Ibom.
All my 3 names are native names.
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by spiceadole(f): 10:03pm On Oct 30, 2025
tobeezman:
I met this fine geh at a tech event in Lagos.
Before the event started, we had a little chit-chat and mehn, she was exactly my type. Beautiful, intelligent, confident, and we just clicked. You know that kind of connection that feels like you’ve known someone for years? Yeah, that was it.

Throughout the event, we kept vibing, laughing at the same jokes, sharing ideas, everything just aligned.

At the end, I asked for her name she said Linda.
Cool name.

Then I asked where she was from, she said Anambra.
My eyes lit up. I’m from Anambra too!

So I got curious and asked, “What village?”
She mentioned it and boom, it’s in the same local government as mine. I was like, “This is fate.”

Everything was lining up perfectly.
She was single, I’m single, we shared interests, goals, and background… until one tiny moment changed everything.

She gave me her business card and I didn’t see a single Igbo name on it.
Both her first and last names were English.

When I got home, I texted her, I asked, gently, “Don’t you have an Igbo name?”

Her reply?

“I don’t like my Igbo name, and I don’t like speaking Igbo either.”

That one message drained everything I felt for her.
Instantly.

It wasn’t about tribal pride or anything dramatic, it was just the realization that we might see identity differently.
Because for me, being Igbo isn’t just where I’m from, it’s who I am. It’s the rhythm in my thoughts, the tone in my laughter, the root of my values.

And when someone rejects that part of themselves, it feels like they’ve rejected a part of me too.

So yeah… I ghosted her.
Not because she wasn’t amazing, but because something in me went cold.
You haven't met Akwa Ibom people.

Mark Sunday Timothy
Peace Peter Joseph
Joy Simon Samuel
Gift Ezekiel Jonathan
Etc.

They don't like to bear their native names.
RomanceRe: The Silent Epidemic Of “billing Relationships” by spiceadole(f): 10:00pm On Oct 30, 2025
Lol

Nigerian men want to have sex as soon as they meet you but don't want to be billed.

Very funny.
BusinessRe: Omo Igbo: Bokku Mart Faces Backlash Over ‘tribal’ Ad by spiceadole(f): 5:44am On Oct 30, 2025
There was a time .. in my state, if you go to market to buy grains for example rice, beans or garri , in cups.. You may have bought 10 cups only to return home to find out what you actually have is less than 10 cups. .. be sure you bought it at an Igbo store and the trader played that cheap sharp trick on you.

What they do: They will swiftly use the measuring cup and be scooping the grains into the nylon bag, counting 1,2,3... And while you look on or away, a little distracted, unsuspecting, they will turn the back of the cup , scoop "nothing" and put it in your nylon.. 4,5.. then add the real 6,7.. another fake scoop 8... And so on.

E go be you like film tricks.
But that's the Igbo trader for you.
Igbos are always ready to cheat you to make the smallest profit.

In as much as the lady has apologised due to social media pressure, she didn't lie.

Igbos cheat too much .. they are cunny and dubious in the name of business.

That's their nature.
CrimeRe: Two Sisters Killed In South Africa For Rejecting A Man's Advances (video) by spiceadole(f): 7:53pm On Oct 29, 2025
I learnt this at 15 : Never accept anything from a man if you know you won't sleep with him.
Men can never give even water to a lady free of charge.
There is always the ulterior motive of bleeping her.

Unfortunately, some ladies have refused to understand this nature of men because of greed
CrimeRe: Missing Person: Have You Seen Barrister Jeffrey Lotanna Ucheagwu? by spiceadole(f): 7:47pm On Oct 29, 2025
He must have gone to fvvvvck his sugar mummy.
Charge and bail is not profitable
HealthRe: The Day I Found Out I Was HIV Positive. by spiceadole(f): 5:55pm On Oct 28, 2025
pappilo:
Better HIV than cancer.

As crazy as it sounds right now I'd choose H.I.V
Unfortunately, HIV is a risk factor for developing cancer.

You obviously don't know much about HIV
CelebritiesRe: J Martins Survives Ghastly Auto Crash, Escapes Unharmed (photos) by spiceadole(f): 5:15pm On Oct 28, 2025
Over speeding kills
RomanceRe: Lady Gone Viral For Dropping Billing Formats On How To Collect Money From Men by spiceadole(f): 8:46pm On Oct 27, 2025
sofeo:
Only weak guys/men, simps, uncultured guys/men, uncivilized guys/men and those not also enlightened will fall for that foolishness.
You are wrong.
Nigerian men who have the means will fall for it.
Married men will deny their wives upkeep allowance for the home and fall for it.
You guys are always Hot and try to impress ladies cos of knacks.
CareerRe: CSP Matilda Ngbanoyen Dies During Fibroid Treatment (Pics) by spiceadole(f): 6:22pm On Oct 25, 2025
Her sins caught up with her.
Police officers are cursed

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