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Had to be a man giving a lady.
Imagine just relocating and his fellow man even begs him for assistance for once , Baba will fold.

Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.

This is not possible.

A Kenyan lady cannot behave like this.

It is Nigerian ladies home and abroad that are bad for dating and marriage.
Op,you are lying.


Team foreign ladies.

You never see anything.

Now na morning

symbianDON:
FG didn't threaten them with no work, no pay like they did ASUU?? Wow!

Doctors are already used to working without pay.
"No work, no pay" threat cannot work.

Many doctors work for 3-12 months without receiving salary when they first assume duty in government hospitals

KingAzubuike:
Tinubu is not ruthless enough. As they are going on strike, they ought not to be paid salaries too. Nobody will beg them to come back and work.

Why leave patients to die all because of your own personal interests.

6 months of total shut down without salary won't kill.
Nigerian doctors work for 6-12 months in the worst of conditions without salary.

I have 2 colleagues in my house now who visited to write their exams in the UK.

They will stay back and enjoy the strike holiday.

Working without pay has been the norm.
"No work,no pay" is a bonus.

In the quest for wealth, these people don't exempt their family

They say "wife is not family".. no wahala.

Even their sister too?

Damnnnnnn!

SpencerForbes:
Only the spirit could have shown you this. Most of them just don't vibe with their native name, even if it means Jesus is Lord. They rather go by Lord Jesus. Quite a funny bunch, really😂
🚶‍♂️

I know.
I am from Akwa Ibom.
All my 3 names are native names.

tobeezman:
I met this fine geh at a tech event in Lagos.
Before the event started, we had a little chit-chat and mehn, she was exactly my type. Beautiful, intelligent, confident, and we just clicked. You know that kind of connection that feels like you’ve known someone for years? Yeah, that was it.

Throughout the event, we kept vibing, laughing at the same jokes, sharing ideas, everything just aligned.

At the end, I asked for her name she said Linda.
Cool name.

Then I asked where she was from, she said Anambra.
My eyes lit up. I’m from Anambra too!

So I got curious and asked, “What village?”
She mentioned it and boom, it’s in the same local government as mine. I was like, “This is fate.”

Everything was lining up perfectly.
She was single, I’m single, we shared interests, goals, and background… until one tiny moment changed everything.

She gave me her business card and I didn’t see a single Igbo name on it.
Both her first and last names were English.

When I got home, I texted her, I asked, gently, “Don’t you have an Igbo name?”

Her reply?

“I don’t like my Igbo name, and I don’t like speaking Igbo either.”

That one message drained everything I felt for her.
Instantly.

It wasn’t about tribal pride or anything dramatic, it was just the realization that we might see identity differently.
Because for me, being Igbo isn’t just where I’m from, it’s who I am. It’s the rhythm in my thoughts, the tone in my laughter, the root of my values.

And when someone rejects that part of themselves, it feels like they’ve rejected a part of me too.

So yeah… I ghosted her.
Not because she wasn’t amazing, but because something in me went cold.

You haven't met Akwa Ibom people.

Mark Sunday Timothy
Peace Peter Joseph
Joy Simon Samuel
Gift Ezekiel Jonathan
Etc.

They don't like to bear their native names.

Lol

Nigerian men want to have sex as soon as they meet you but don't want to be billed.

Very funny.

There was a time .. in my state, if you go to market to buy grains for example rice, beans or garri , in cups.. You may have bought 10 cups only to return home to find out what you actually have is less than 10 cups. .. be sure you bought it at an Igbo store and the trader played that cheap sharp trick on you.

What they do: They will swiftly use the measuring cup and be scooping the grains into the nylon bag, counting 1,2,3... And while you look on or away, a little distracted, unsuspecting, they will turn the back of the cup , scoop "nothing" and put it in your nylon.. 4,5.. then add the real 6,7.. another fake scoop 8... And so on.

E go be you like film tricks.
But that's the Igbo trader for you.
Igbos are always ready to cheat you to make the smallest profit.

In as much as the lady has apologised due to social media pressure, she didn't lie.

Igbos cheat too much .. they are cunny and dubious in the name of business.

That's their nature.

I learnt this at 15 : Never accept anything from a man if you know you won't sleep with him.
Men can never give even water to a lady free of charge.
There is always the ulterior motive of bleeping her.

Unfortunately, some ladies have refused to understand this nature of men because of greed

He must have gone to fvvvvck his sugar mummy.
Charge and bail is not profitable

pappilo:
Better HIV than cancer.

As crazy as it sounds right now I'd choose H.I.V

Unfortunately, HIV is a risk factor for developing cancer.

You obviously don't know much about HIV

Over speeding kills

sofeo:
Only weak guys/men, simps, uncultured guys/men, uncivilized guys/men and those not also enlightened will fall for that foolishness.

You are wrong.
Nigerian men who have the means will fall for it.
Married men will deny their wives upkeep allowance for the home and fall for it.
You guys are always Hot and try to impress ladies cos of knacks.

Her sins caught up with her.
Police officers are cursed

GanagiBitrus:
I think say na only women dey celebrate being engaged.

E shock me too

His madness is becoming cured.
He now looks like a human being

What did the man do that Sanda killed him?

Abi isn't that what we ask when men brutalise or even kill their partners?

So despite all the advice on social media that men should not marry,men are still looking for wives.
Interesting times.

The women who agree to marry policemen and military men are those who dated/would date cultists in higher institutions.

No reasonable woman agrees to marry an animal

For the same marriage that they don't benefit from..He is celebrating finding a wife.
Yeye dey smell

Tenrack:
Lol. Interesting take. So the question now is, will you marry up? Guess we all know the answer to that.

Before nko?
I married up.
He is a medical doctor too
And we are both based in Europe.
That's the least I could have settled for.

PerfectStranger:
You even add to kill lol maybe you haven't heard the news of that woman who set her husband ablaze. Are you even male of female?

And maybe you haven't heard the latest and updated news around that incident.
The man started the fire after threatening to burn the woman.. Unfortunately,he accidentally started the fire and in an attempt to rush inside and get his documents,he got severely burnt.
The incident happened in my community and he was managed at UUTH where I did my housemanship and still have colleagues working there.
The woman has been acquitted and released from police custody.

Less than 5 months of marriage,she even had a miscarriage due to beatings she received from the husband.

Meanwhile,I am a female...and I doesn't change the fact that Nigerian men do not genuinely like well to do women..They prefer to marry down because you can't CONTROL who you don't feed!

PerfectStranger:
But if rich man marry broke woman it's love and OK ,now e reach broke men turn they're hungry and angry predators

Yes! Predators 100%.
To steal ,to destroy and to even kill.
Men don't genuinely like rich women.
It's just how it is.

SAMBARRY:
yes.because most women know that you guys don't genuinely like rich women.you make sure you bring them down that's why they avoid broke men

No lie!

Men genuinely dislike well to do women.
They fake the likeness,ruin them and dump them.
Then move to women below their social class so they can boss over them.

Muscular woman born pikin
Sexy baddie fit battle with infertility

Madam,you are broke..
You can't feed yourself without your husband.
Like my husband will tell me to apologize to his mistress,as how?
Them no born him papa well.
If I even find out he is having an affair,he will return to find his luggages outside.