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quote author=dammytex]Aunty Spicy;
you promised me a Mel-San oo ehn ehn..[/quote]Not me Sir, I recall you cut that deal with Cowgurl

[quote author=Duke_Nija]Ofcourse too many attention is paid to the subject of temperament because it defines who we are, what we do, and why and how we do what we do.
And Yes, we are professors of temperament [/quote]Veeery well said[

dammytex: @Duke,

Please what do you consider as your own temperament?

I know spicy is chol-mel.

I second that! Duke, its about time you tell us who you are

The customer asked a direct question, "don't you think its expensive"? Give a direct answer. Yes ma'am/Sir, it is! Having dealt with diverse customers I have observed that serious people DO NOT like sales people because they talk too much! So to capture their interest you have to awaken that interest and you do that by not appearing overly eager to sell.

When you give the initial brief and direct answer, the client will wonder about the reason for the cost and ask, you should now proceed to explain, all the while watching for body language. Stick to the selling points θf the product in communicating the value θf it to the client.

To close the deal, sample a less expensive product to the client and expatiate on its inferiority to the expensive product. This always works because you are appealing to the ego θf the customer. I know you didn't ask for this information, but just thought to include it.

Huh? Acidosis banned? No wonder its been kinda mum at your end. Werin happen?

sinie: Hmmmm I think you should read Tim Lahaye's books on temperament.

Sir, I have devoured Tims books and done indepth study on temperament. I think you should do another study and further research.

[quote author=acidosis™]missed you![/quote]Awwww me too darlen, me too.

My dear, its great to see you acting all love struck lol.

Caraaaaaaactaaaaa what have you done to my beloved brother?
Acidosis is this the money making procedure you told us you were undergoing at Nairaland?

I am blessed darlen

Lol babe, well you must have good sides, as all temperament does. Good thing is you know your weaknesses, just do what should be done to be a better person.

sinie: @ op nice post going here! But I think you might have left out one very important trait of a pheelmatic. Stubbornness. Phlegs are very stubborn, whereas they might be procrastinators, when a phleg wants Something nothing can stop him from getting it! He plots, manipulates and does everthing he can until he gets it! That makes them good marketers. That's where I disagree with u, u said they are not good marketers, you are wrong. A phleg in his calm way will convince and manipulate u to do something you don't really want to do. And once motivated they can be the most competitive person in a group, they might not show it but inside they are seriously plotting to get the best. When they are not leaders they have a hard time following authority because they will always believe they can do a better job. A phleg will not volunteeer to lead, but when appointed will lead marvellously.
He's also very good at saying no. Again attributed to his sturboness. He might not stomp and scream no like a choleric will do, he ll just smile and then just won't do it.

Thank you for taking out time to contribute to this thread. I want to point out that your analysis θf the Phlegmatic temperament is not entirely accurate. You got one thing right though, they are stubborn. However, the stubbornness θf the Phleg is as a result θf his lack θf inner motivation and the unwillingness to make effort and not as a result θf being strongwilled! So, they really do not bother with pursuing any goal because it is too much effort for them! Those characteristics you describbed and ascribed to the Phleg is actually that θf the Choleric! It is the Cholerics that stop at nothing to achieve their goals. Phlegs MUST be pushed to achieve goals! Infact, it is the Melancholy that would secretly wish to spearhead something and often resorts to manipulation to subtly have her way. The only Phleg that exists in your analysis is the stubborn nature.

Well, what skills does she have at the moment? The best thing is for her to build a business around a skill that she is passionate about. That way, she is her own boss so she can manipulate her time to accommodate the family needs plus she is also happy.

okpara ugo: Your response isn't sound. When you are close to a person, you can know what gadgets they make use of. Maybe you arent close to your pastor.

I go places and take holidays with my pastor as a good member I am. Moreover none of these things takes a man to heaven. Ipad or no Ipad.

Please read my signature and dont be insulting.

You are actually the one who is being rude Sir. And really, the fact that you chose to misconstrue my statements and also respond by being rude, defensive and somewhat boastful speaks a lot about your substance. Please let's not go further with this "Mr Good Member" lol. Didn't mean to be "insulting". Hope we are good.

Kobojunkie: There is no fact in what you stated. The story does not tell you that she is aggrieved, neither is any release stating that of her. Please know the difference between what you think and what is fact.

I don't even know whether the man treated her badly or the such. That she has kids for the man DOES NOT THEN mean anywhere that she must attend his burial. She has a right to chose whether she will attend a burial or not.

Oga Junkie pleeeease, quit this line θf argument! Obviously you know nathing about what you are arguing!

okpara ugo: My pastor preaches from an Ipad every sunday. Infact there is no modern phone or gadget the guy doesnt have. Name them, latest gadgets from Apple, Samsung and HTC. 8mega pixel double face camera phones brekete. If you are not careful, you would go green with envy.

It doesnt concern me. My own is to make heaven.

How do you know he has all these Sir? Even if you be chief protocol officer. Hmm watch it man! The Spirit θf envy has silently crept in and you aren't even aware!

Hian! As Nollywood would ask,"have you seen it na"? I have had fun you guys, Caracta, I like you. Darlen thanks for all the fun( talkin to my bro.) Lara wit y'all. Am out, peace

Lol. I gotta turn in for the night! Abi na midnyt. Lara wiv you.

. You guys will cause the Mods to move this thread to the jokes section. Caracta yes, I am a witness to the fact that you set my brother loose

The feeling is mutual darlen . By the way, hubby says to ask where you were when he came to pay his dues?

Fluid it ain't a small mara o! Hmmm Caracta! Caracta!! You see what you have done to Acid?

Awww, , go take over dude! Expecting updates on your success

Awww, you must really love this friend θf yours. But leave her be! There really isn't anything to settle

Acidosis: Is that suppose to be an extra curricular activity or a core course ? ?

baed boi! Mehn na serious course be that o! And a major departmental course in the faculty θf matrimony! Carryover aint permitted neither is anything less than an A