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ebosed: You truly need help to overcome this. email me at prudentpentium@yahoo.com

You will be next, na Aljazeera network dem go table your matter! Are you a qualified psychiatrist? If no then don't say I no warn you oh! Hmmm.

sammyzacks: This is trash.the aim to to discredit the young pastor . Why share it on Nairaland? Why not with people that can influence the situation.Everything about this is total crap. Put it on facebook, let other church members confirm that tgey truly know you as a member.

She used to go to COZA. She is also very troubled. She desperately needs to see that she needs professional help.

baslone: From Towergate to Wonderland, what do you expect from a church that has its roots from beer parlours.

Nonetheless, Hate him or Love him, as for me I always give my props to peops that understand their hustle.

And Biodun does!

RESPECT!!

Errm, bros or sis or brosis, please read about Simon peter and Saul who later became Paul in the bible. Read about who they WHERE and who they BECAME when they encountered CHRIST.

Thank you Sir/Ma

@ topellasu: I find it really hard to believe the story! Not just because I KNOW the girl is unstable but because the story is flawed!

If you ask her now how long she was trained before she entered workforce, erm, erm, go enter!

Can you believe that sometime ago, I overhead a young lady encouraging another to visit COZA, saying all sorts of wonderful things but categorically stated that she went only once, thoroughly enjoyed the service but will NEVER go back there! When asked her reasons, she refused to give any but kept saying the pastor is sooo young, in a silly manner. Only for a brother to tell me that the lady said whenever she sees pastor Biodun, she has lustful thoughts! Choi!!! At least she advised herself and jejely quit visiting.

Imagine if the lady kept visiting and is also mentally disturbed, she no go begin spread her fantasies as reality? Na waah! Oturugbeke!!!

babyosisi: Thank you
The man must have dumped her or moved on and she can't handle the rejection
That is what women typically do

No oh! Why are you twisting the marra like this na sista? She was in a trance, she was hypnotised and now the hypnosis don clear so she wants to save other women as the super woman she has now become.

You need to see how this girl displayed on the pulpit of the church she started attending when she left COZA(she has also stopped coming to church, since early this year). She go give testimony come begin display dey cry, repeatedly shouting, "I have forgiven all of you that abused me"!

Choi! See drama! That was a couple months back o. He is very bitter and disturbed, going through intense torment. She is always quick to say I have forgiven only to plot evil. I know sha, say she is not really alright but why she is refusing professional help is puzzling! Treating mental health is not a stigma abeg, people dey codedly do am for ABJ. And they live a normal life.

Its so, sad, fine, smart, sharp looking lady oh! You would never suspect anything is off, observing her from afar.

joeace2020: [ese walter]

http://esewalter./2013/08/22/my-affair-with-pastor-biodun-fatoyinbo-of-coza/

https://m.facebook.com/ese.walter1?v=timeline&refid=17

ask urself if any1 will put his or herself out in d open lyk dis considering that virtually all Nigerian Christians and Nigerians as a whole are bigoted hypocrites and pastor worshipers

Yes! Someone who is psychologically imbalanced would do this! You obviously have not had personal experience with mentally unstable people! You go CHOCK at what they can do!

They can confuse their fantasies for reality and persuade people to believe in the reality of their fantasy!!!

This Sister Ese can lie oh! you don post another "fabu" abi? sheybi she said she came to the church because she was bored with her previous church? And she was an active member in this new church for a whole year before joining the workforce? So all this time you still didn't know your left from your right? Inspite of all your WORDLY experience with men of the WORLD? Lol!

You have forgiven him yet you want him to apologise to you. Babe, bone this blogging thing jor,Wale Adenuga productions dey wait for you. This could be the next block buster award winning super story!!!

homesteady: Stop been dumb! Don't you understand what I meant! Okay let me break it down for you! He's a celebrity, he's a role model to up coming pastors, he's like a father to his church members! So we are supposed to know stuffs like this


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Is a man of GOD supposed to be having such controversies trailing him all the time?

Please, please you guys squash it! I apologise on Cooger's behalf please accept it thank you!

This is what Ese does, her matter dey always cause clashes, it aint worth it. She needs help! Real HELEP!!!

coogar: what ese experienced is not a disease or a natural hazard. she plotted and strategised every move to get into her pastor's boxers.....

She was in a trance, during the entire seven day rolling on the sheets episode! Don't blame her, blame it on the trance.

enatasha: So sorry dear for allowing yourself to be brainwashed all in the name of seeking God. I almost fell into the same trap but God saved me. This is a young, handsome pastor that sure knows how to deliver the word of God. He called to tell me that God said I am his wife.. LOL. He is a divorcee & he cheated on his wife on the night of their wedding. So I told him to give me time so I can seek the face of God. He started sending nude photos & asking for sex but I refused him & told him that it is sin against God & I also warned him to stop sending me his nude photos if not I'll use it against it. He said he is a prophet & that he is under a higher level of grace that will cover me, but I strongly resisted him by telling him the bible says I should not take the grace of God for granted. He got pissed off by my holier than thou attitude & said God has changed his mind that I am not his wife. This same prophet has not yet confessed but goes on the pulpit to condemn those that do the same thing while exonerating himself. Girls should be very careful cos most pastors are out to brainwashed & take advantage of us.

Errr, are we talking about the same COZA pastor here?

[quote author=tpia@]So this instance of consensual sex where a grown woman willingly went to a hotel to sleep with a grown a.rse married male, is the same as the other situations you described there?

Keep busting your vein over a most likely concocted story, you be mugu pass.[/quote]You are one heck of a funny lady! Kaii!! Also, the trance-like rendezvous lasted on a DAILY basis for a WHOLE week!!! See hypnosis o!

Acidiosis, loooooongest time! Okay, please I have a queshion for you sa, you said you believe the victim after "some confirmation". Pray tell, na wish confamashun dem be that?

While you are at it, post other messages of the pastor too, no be only such message he dey preach.

Also for Ese, you said you where strongly advised not to join the work force, what reason(s) where you given?

Tanz, Acid, I await your response. Its gud to see you too.

Ese Walter is a VERY disturbed lady who has refused to seek professional help but instead imposed it upon herself to"help" abused women. This girl can do ANYTHINg to get attention! Everytime she joins a new church, she wouldn't rest until she joins the workforce and is "noticed", if her voice is not heard, depression begins.

Seriously, she claims everyone has abused her, family, boyfriends, friends and now pastor? Haba!! Abuse na your middle name? See, you guys do not need to know this girl on a personal level to detect that she has mental health issues, just visit her blog and read her posts (even though that would mean generating traffic for her blog, which she would be so delighted about)

She hops from one man to another out of boredom then claim that she was abused by them! Really, I am saddened that her condition is deteriorating and she refuses professional help whilst causing others including people who have genuine love for her great harm.

Okay, let me even give you the benefit of the doubt, let me analyse this your story. I will pretend I don't know your history.

You claimed you once paid for his hotel room charge because his master card failed, and the suppossed affair lasted for ONLY A WEEK. So, the penthouse suite he stayed wasn't booked for abi? Na daily he dey pay for front office abi? That's why you rescued him that day abi? Nice one!

Again,he was away for a whole week and you where with him the entire duration because you said he had sex with you DAILY! Now, na which trip he go for abeg? Was it to preach? How come there where no protocol officers available to serve him? Because that kind of pastor wey dey host the likes of Mike Murdock, Mathew Ashimolowo,Myles Munroe etc, will not be given the kind of hospitable treatment that would require him to lodge a babe for one whole week for hotel!

Also, you claimed that your intention is to expose evil and save other vulnerable women hence, the use of real names, why not attach evidences of mails and text messages including the recorded message you have? At least, that would do a great job of exposing the lies and also convince those who know you are disturbed that this is not another attention seeking stunt.

Really, I am irked that you have made me take out time to type this lengthy post but if this post will somehow make you understand, just a little bit, the gravity of damage your actions and lifestyle is causing people who love you and accept that you need help, then it was well worth it.

La Diva: Hi spicy v , I have been trying to reach you. I want to discuss something important on career with you. Kindly avail me with an email addy or a contact to get across to you. Thx. Diva

Hi, I don't know how this PM thing works on NL, I see that a LOT of people have tried to reach me on NL yet I haven't received any message through my email account. I wish I could publish my email address here so all who needs to contact me can do just that, but I can't due to obvious reasons. So now I am thinking, I'll create a thread specifically for you Diva and all others with questions for me. How about that?

Your replies would determine the creation of the thread.

First, you need to ascertain the level of strength each talent holds. For instance, you may be a talented crafts man, singer and speaker but you may also not be very skilled in all three area because talent needs to be worked upon. Then, apply yourself to becoming an expert in the areas of your talent by identifying your crowd (that is the people in need of your impact)and consistently offering your service to them.

The major challenge is identifying each talent you hold and building them.

Woooow! This thread still exists and it is doing really great. Good to see the impact it has made.

Its been a while guys, hope y'all doing good.

Cheers.

timbros: I've seen the so-called food fights and i know foods are wasted in the process. Moreso, last time i checked, the word 'fight' has just one definition and it aint fun...

Sooooooo i repeat: I dont waste food and i dont fight

Yeah, yeah, *trying to stifle a yawn*, and when was the last time you fed the hungry? Here take this, * hurls a bowl θf steaming oatmeal at his face*

Hahahaaaa.
Ok. I'm a San/Phleg.[/quote]I knew it! Sensed the Sanguine in you from the very first day you started this thread! Remember?

Hahahahahaha, lol. Really cool joke.

Seriously Dopejemi, please quit acting like an ignorantist! I don't know which is more hilarious, the obviously jocular statement or your stiff argument in defense θf a glaring misuse θf grammar!

Whichever it is, I had a great laugh!

Btw, please desist from displaying crudity, haba, you're too cool for such.

Maria-G take this! *Hurls the egg θf an Ostrich at Maria's forehead, then hides behind Acidosis*.

[quote author=acidosis™]^ ^ Thats a good one


Sist, lets try a food fight![/quote]Lemme grab my helmet!

I do not expect too much from people, I have had to learn to give the benefit θf the doubt and I study people's personality to know how seriously I should take them. Hence, no surprises.

When I saw the topic, the first thing that came to mind was Akpu! But, the raw eggs suggestion got me.

Darlen, me too. I have been sooo immersed in work! Organized a major event and I am barely recovering from the whole stress! How you doing?

What exactly are you blabbing about? You need to seek to understand! I repeat, customers know that the value θf a product determines its cost, it doesn't mean they know the actual value θf the product, which is why you have to explain that to them!

And err, advertising is not a means to reach out to the uninformed or uneducated. Effective advertising is beyond creating product awareness or "lecturing" about the actual value θf the product.

I repeat again, we are saying the same thing but have different approaches on communicating the point to the client. If you aren't so consumed by your crudity, you would employ comprehension skills and spot that there is no basis for an argument.


Now, I have given you enough attention already, rude boy!

Obowunmi, we are saying the same thing, our approaches are just different. I don't know where you are speaking from, but I speak from being a customer and also from the experience θf dealing with multi racial/cultural customers.

Btw: I really do not enjoy any form θf debate with you, because θf your inability to be logical. So please do not start one. Just state your points and address the poster. Thanks.

The value θf a product determines its cost, customers know that! When a customer questions the cost θf a product, he already knows it is expensive but wonders why it is! He is asking for the reason behind the cost, he seeks to know the value. But then, you present that information to him in a manner that appeals to his interest. You do that by not doing what others like Obowunmi
would do, that is, ramble and blabb about the product! That gives the customer the feeling that you are being patronizing. But, when you answer him directly, he is impressed that you are sincere, would be open to hear further information and most importantly, you have earned his trust. Once you earn a customer's trust, you have closed the deal.

@ op: I hope you get the picture.

@ Acidosis, wasap bro.