₦airaland Forum

girls! girls!
Lets take it down a notch! No trouble in the kitchen.

good nite virtual friends. i too must go watch mel b win dancing with the stars!

who says men cant do without it. david your biblical interpretations are really funny. .
The poster is really unfortunate .wifey needs to get with the program oh because agro na bastard! . . I remember the time wey i get belle. Hmmmmmmm!

davidylan:
You have to surround the walls of jericho and blast it down with a joyfull noise!

davidylan are you advocating sex with an unconcious being?
you think because she's asleep she wont know someone or rather something has entered her jerusalem?

@ nwando
baking meatpies my crusty feet. ROFLMBO

The poster will tap his wife awake because of davidylan  and quote the scripture to her before taking what is rightfully his!   my hand no dey oh!  

people have learnt that its better to be alone than unhappy.

davidylan:
is that why you are complaining?   The man sef try to wait jejely . . . other men will be hurrying you up sef.

so while im bent double washing the garawa of beans he'll be behind me with a 'gun' in his pocket?  

davidylan:
The violent taketh it by force!

Davidylan you don come oh!
unless bros doesnt mind doing 'lamancha' with a comatose person!

nwando:
not all o or shall I say not all the time.
Some of our men have Naija manly culture entrenched in their DNA profile
He will watch you wash 25 pounds of beans,make moi moi,fry akara,braid Ada's hair with beads.
Even harvest cassava and process it to drinkable Ijebu garri
He'll just jejely wait for you to take a bath and hop in.

take which bath and hop into where? he will wait till dooms day if he doesnt help with the chores!

nwando:
chei almond,spoilt and the other ladies,this guy is it!
Any woman would wear a hijab plus burqua for him
kai menene!

he does sound romantic.but a guy will do any chore around the house quickly as long as it will get him some.

I hear  sweden is very women friendly. The pay is good, women get a year of paid maternity leave etc . That will be good to explore really.

nwando:
This wife needs to get with the program.

she does. I will do anything to keep my man. Even if i'm having sextuplets.

ADICK:
Whats wrong with him wanting the poster, one way the other, for citizenship?

typical thinking!
with this kind of mentality that's why she should be wary!

i swear her arch nemesis will surface anytime now .


@nwando
whats up with you guys changing your names all the time? anyway no matter how many times you change your names i can detect the spirit behind each poster!

@nwando
Did you really ask if she was pregnat in the mouth too?
You FREAK!! Didnt know you had it in you.

Sweet T:
@Spoilt

Nigerian women and their advice. Most Nigerian relationships will last if Nigerian women can stay out of couples business. Even western women of today are learning a bit of submission to their men. But no be Naija sisters. Agidi ti po ju!!

@ mr nigerian women basher.
If she didnt have her own serious doubts she wouldnt have come here on nairaland to ask for advice and opinions. The guy may like her but her having the right citizenship definitely makes her more attractive! she is being pressured into marrying him. Its making her suspicious. Its making me suspicious. Why the haste?

when i said run for your life it wasnt in jest. I meant it. When in doubt, DONT!
Dont want you coming here to start another thread on how some nigerian guy, broke your heart, and fled.
His aunties and uncles will all be syrupy sweet even calling you "our wife". Of course they want him to stay in this country! Lol.
The only way you'll really know is if you dont marry him till his student visa expires! Just dont give in before that visa expires woman! Watch him. The more you hold out the more desperate he may become.
and yeah some men pay to marry for papers ,others will just sweet talk some unsuspecting woman and get it for free.(with lots of free sex and nice hot free meals thrown in for good measure!) And dont you let him knock you up. You know better than that!!

i know. im a cynic.

@dablessed
kpele oh! God will be with you.

when a woman dies it really isnt an issue.
All her belongings transfer automatically to her husband and children by naija standards. No body really jostles with him for ownership. maybe i am wrong but i never really see anybody giving the husband hell.

D328babe:
In my Temple or church where I worship my GOD once your wife is pregnant no more sex till she put to bed

abeg which temple be that?

good question drrionelli .

nwando:
Sadly spoilt,many women are very ignorant about money.

why would any able bodied woman want to depend on a man? that has proven to be dangerous oh.
what i actually meant in my post is that when a man dies and its time to distribute his assets his relatives surface and no matter how educated and a good manager wifey is, they feel they can manage the money better all in a bid to enrich themselves.

thinking of what to do with my hair

a number of men beat their wives. I dont think its culturally accepted anywhere. The bad thing is that battered women in naija arent afforded much help.

ha!

adetina run for your life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! . He's already admitted to a little dishonesty. He'll do more as long as you enable him. We've seen this scenario so many times. marry some sucker to procure residency status.
There's something called woman's instinct. It's talking to you right now.

@ olanajim
excuse me but why do people always assume that the wife cannot manage money a man leaves behind? then his hungry crayfish brothers will arrive to manage it. which skills do they have? Im not even talking multi billionaires here. just ordinary folk like you and me. behind closed doors most women are the managers of the money in the family anyway.

[s]when nigerian women start taking out life insurance on themselves wont the murder rate for women go up [/s] ?

nwando:
There are a thousand and one ways to Cotonou my dear sister,this wife may need a little help.
I will not say it even though I'm tempted to.

my sister i was soooo tempted to break it down but i'll just .

redsun:
It is not uncommon for a man to beat a woman in nigeria,it is part of the culture,a macho thing

Not part of the culture my friend. where are you from?

Shame on any man who will not make provision for his wife and children when he passes. A crying shame if his relatives surface from board works to reap where they didnt sow.