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whenever i am in nigeria, i use both hands intentionally and freely . when people tell me to use my right hand, i tell them that if their left hands are cursed, mine is not. what about left handed people?

sickle cell has been succesfully managed in developed countries with drugs and good medical care. Its in nigeria/africa that its still big deal. (no pun intended ejo)

next time you are travelling, pack yours!

betraying which sisterhood? ive been working for as long as i can remember. I worked all throughout my pregnancy. i am on the brink. Right now i would be content to tie wrapper and sit at home while loverboy makes the money. never thought this day would come when i'll be saying this but juggling motherhood and career has me frayed at the edges.

davidylan:
.Trust me, i know the difference. the "independent" ones are generally loud.

Nope. The loud abrasive ones you describe arent independent. They are the typical ghetto chicks on welfare. That's dependent right there.

My husband would probably shrivel up and die if i as much as asked him to stay home while i go out to shoot our dinner every day. he's an alpha male and will not have it. I on the other hand am overworked , over strained and will be overjoyed to stay home for one year and mind the kiddo.

apparently the ones you've been seeing are hood rats not strong independent black women. Dont get it twisted!  

The idea of the strong independent black woman" is actually a misnomer. It is simply a cover up for loud, abrasive, headstrong and abusive woman.

@ DAVIDYLAN

where did you get this from ejo?

na wa oh. Male offspring are taking over from where their dads stopped. The torment will not end for some women ever. 

and since when did his mother need his permission or consent to get pregnant?

hehehe
she fell twice. i'd die of shame pox!

I speak pidgin english to other nigerians here. some try to front like they dont understand. shame on them!

another thread about virginity. much ado about a hymen.

your post made no sense. The grammar wasnt good.

he has no right to send her packing from the house. It is her house too.

@ poster
Sorry you had to fall for a bum. Some nigerian men will travel abroad without the family and seek out the warm laps of other women to fight loneliness. They lie through their teeth to these women. Gets me mad i tell you!!!!
Go ahead and have your child. We have single mothers who are like troopers and juggling raising a child with career. No mean feat i tell you.
Right now meeting his family will do you no good. Most nigerian mothers really discourage their sons from " 'messing ' with those white girls" when they go abroad to study or work. This whole thing is too fresh. If anyone should spill the beans it is him. Its his job to tell his folk not yours. Should he provide upkeep for the child? absolutely! Should you take steps to make sure he does? of course. File for child support if you have to. Why a man will have unprotected sex and then think he has been trapped into fatherhood is beyond me and beats me hollow!

Pls even if he offers to marry you just run for your life because that would be making you wife number two. You dont want to get into that. Right now you should end the relationship if you havent already. He's a liar!

A lot of families are stuffed into one room. There's no privacy anymore.

let me tell you something woman.
Sometimes its better to be alone than unhappy. He knows you want marriage. He'll continue to dangle that carrot before you. Let him leave!! he wants things to be on his own terms because you are ashamed of having a child without being married? His child for that matter? Quit playing with me!
my dear, if he doesnt see your worth you should get astepping. Another man will want you, child and all!
When one man doesnt see your worth and treats you like a rag another will come, pick you up and treat you like a queen. Good luck to you oh my sister e no easy at all.

@ lawerchap
well, lets wait it out and see what happens. Hopefully her sister has seen it and is getting her team together for showdown as soon as she steps foot out of that house. shame on biggie for plying them with alcohol. 

blah blah blah. are you 12?

the bad grammar made me cringe.
seriously cudn't make sense of the post.