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Mrsabuh1:
Please I seek advice from experts here as I'm lost and devastated over this issue, please bear with me as my story is a little bit long.

This is the 7th year of my marriage and the union is blessed with three kids, hubby and I stayed in UAE, but whenever I'm pregnant I come down to have my kids due to cost and also I ll be needing helping hands after delivery, it happened that when I came down to have my last child 3years ago as usual, I was preparing to return to UAE , I discovered that my Husband had canceled the resident visa for myself and our two kids, when I confronted him he said he is making plans to leave UAE and there was no point for us coming back and also business isn't moving as usual so taking care of us will cause a strain on his finances. At first I felt bad and cried about it but later I accepted my fate and moved on.

First plan was for me to apply for Canada study visa, the plan was to go with my last child and after sometimes hubby and my other kids can join me later, I got admitted into a Canadian college but when the time for visa processing hubby pulled out that we should go the express entry way, I accepted and started with registering for ielts tutorials which I did for 5 weeks, and to God b the glory I aced my exam. It was left for him to write his as he ll be standing as the primary applicant since he has lots of job experience but along the line he pulled out again and said everyone is going to Canada and he ll work out something different.

Last year he applied for US visa he was denied, he applied for Germany too, still denied. While he was doing all this I was alone in Nigeria with the kids while he stays in UAE but visits every 5 months. This year June, we had some issues that would ve resulted to divorce but we settled it with the help of some elders so he said he was going to make up for his mistake by applying for UK for both of us so we can just take a vacation to London, of course I was excited and looking up for the trip.

He applied for UK visa for both of us and lucky they granted us 6 months, I was already getting set and looking forward to the trip when he said he needed to rush down to UAE as he has some unfinished business, two days after he left I saw him updated his fb and the location was showing UK, he left without me and he didn't even inform me that he ll b going until he got there. When I confronted him he came up with the excuse that he needed to meet with some companies over investment so that way he can process resident permits for everyone at home so we all come over there at once, two days later he told me he got a job.

it's been 2 months over there already, we filed our stay for 10 days when applying for the visa and I know what he has done is messing his future chances up, now he doesn't do video call, won't pick my calls when I call at my own time, from 7pm he isn't active as no way I can reach him, before now the only time he put a call across is when he is in a bus .. I confronted him over all this and guess what,he has stopped talking to me, Wont reply my chats or even talk to me yet he reads them, our sons bday was 4 days ago and he couldn't even call to speak with him or wish him happy birthday.

I'm so confused, this is the man that I have lost lot of jobs opportunity for simply because he doesnt want me to work, I learnt fashion designing so it won't be like I'm staying at home doing nothing, I run a fashion store but trust me I'm not feeling it because its not what I'm meant to do ..

In two months time I will b 30 and you know how Nigerian systems works, the older you get, the lesser chances of getting a job I dont even know what to do with myself, please advise me what to do?

I'd also like those who ve an idea of how the system in UK works to tell me how long it takes for one to b granted residential permits in the UK so I ll know when all this will end or if it ll ever end so I can make my next move
also how possible it is for one to land UK and in two days he is already working .

I feel used, I feel like hubby used me to secure a visa and I was never in his plans..I reported the issues to our family already and he Told them all he did was for the future of myself and the kids and I shld endure but I do not know for how long..,I'm tired of this distsnce marriage ,its been 3years in distance marriage and its been hell for me.

MOD please help me post this

sorry madam i feel your pain, some people can be very selfish even to there immediate family, and this country is not fanimorous wen it comes to building a buisness and getting a good pay job. for a geniue visa application/ immigration search independent travel on google for their contact. good luck! referer : Stanley

James39:
What do we expect .when his oga gave him 10 billion to rig the election.

No be my hand writing oooh

this is our problem, we are too afraid to speak out the truth... May God vindicate us.

johnmba:
Fellow NL . Am bringing this issue to seek advice.

I come from a family of 7, we are all graduates except the first son who is into business. The second son is very very rich,he works with a big multinational company.

When we were growing up he hardly play with us the younger ones but he was close to the first son. But he totally changed after he got married 15years ago. Though our parents did not initially support his marriage because of the girls background (her father died and the mum went back to her house with the daughter) and her character too. My brother got angry and said nobody should visit him or ask him for money. He used to help us in school.

Later my parents accepted and gave their support but since then my brothers attitude towards us really changed. Each time I visit him , he does not give me money in the presence of the wife. Also he usually give me money to go and eat outside because she hardly cook.

The way he talks to the first son is degrading and he hardly pick our calls. The first son business is not moving at all but he does not care though he has given him money and car some years back and they don't talk to each other again. On several occasions people have told the third son why his brother refused to help his family. They said he helps people alot in the multinational company and he is a very nice guy.

Please what do we do? I don't want this separation to continue till death.. Our children are watching and I want us to relate as brothers and sisters.

Nb.
Nobody is calling him to ask for money. Am an engineer but works in a hospital. All we want is that brotherly love. Since I finished school I have not asked him for money likewise some of my siblings.

How do we bring him back

Two things are behind you story, is either the wife and her family has used juju to turn his face against his relation or he belongs to a cult were he sworn an aoat not to help his siblings and relation. The solution is compulory family liberation by a true man of God. May God liberate your home.

IamHeWrites:
President Muhammadu Buhari, on Friday, received the leadership of the Nigerian Association of Chambers of Commerce, Industry, Mines and Agriculture, NACCIMA, Igbere TV reports.

Our State House correspondent reports that the delegation, which were drawn from Nigeria and other West African countries, were received at the Council Chambers of the Presidential Villa, Abuja.

Speaking on the closure of the Nigerian border, President Buhari said the aim was to put an end to smuggling and dumping of substandard items from other countries into Nigeria.

He lamented the impact of fake drugs and foods on the Nigerian citizens, including how fake electrical items have led to fires in homes and loss of lives and property.

The president said since the border was shut, Nigeria has witnessed a significant drop in the volumes of counterfeit smuggled goods in Nigerian markets.

Buhari, who was conferred with "Grand Patron" of the association by the delegates, equally used the opportunity to thank the NACCIMA for the honour.

Read the full statement posted on his verified Twitter handle, @MBuhari, as obtained by Igbere TV.

Today I met with a delegation of Chambers of Commerce and Industry from Nigeria and West Africa. I assured them of our administration’s readiness to work with them to bring an end to smuggling and the dumping of substandard items in West Africa and on the continent.

It is regrettable there there are traders who simply do not play by the rules; who choose profits over patriotism, and
whose selfish practices in perpetrating smuggling and counterfeiting help keep foreign factories working while closing ours.

We have all heard stories about the dangerous and sometimes, fatal impact of fake drugs and foods on our citizens. We have also seen how fake electrical items have led to fires in homes and markets thereby destroying lives and property.

Most of these substandard and illegal items are smuggled through our land borders. After many years of diplomacy and aggressive regulatory oversight which yielded few results, we decided to close our land borders for a limited time to assess the impact of this measure.

Within a few short weeks since the partial border closures began, we are already seeing a decline in the volumes of counterfeit smuggled goods in some of our major markets across the country.

This validates our action as a Government when we insist that the African Continental Free Trade Agreement must not only promote free trade, but legal trade of quality made-in-Africa goods and services.

We will soon finalise the National Action Committee on the implementation of the AfCFTA. We expect the organized private sector to continue to support us in achieving a Free Trade Area that employs Africans to produce high-quality made-in-Africa products.

Let me also thank NACCIMA for the honour done to me with the investiture today as their Grand Patron. I will not let them down. Trade is central to our economy; we are a nation of traders,and have been for centuries. I will ensure that we continue to give the sector full support.

http://igberetvnews.com/980219/border-closure-buhari-receives-chambers-of-commerce-in-abuja-photos/

that is why they still call you clueless president, The continuous screening of corrupt immigration officers would have solve this issue instead putting the struggling citizens in a very tight coner. and
you still claim you are fighting corruption.

starbuck:
Believe this story at your peril



Maybe she is tired of taking care of the man and no longer interested in the marriage, the reason they might accuse her falsely...

I have seen enough in this life, abeg cook another story

is not a reason to take his life.. she should have left the marriage peacefully and move on.. I know if it were your brother you woun't say this trash..

AbikeDabiri:
Una see d difference between Yoruba and Igbo now

please tribe has nothing to do with this, moral up bringing is Everything..

troublemakea:
This is nothing but pure open day Edo Witchcraft

There's not a day past without accident on this road.....God saved me last week and made me a living soul as the road almost claimed me twice i guess God is juast tryna warn me not to pass this highway again and ever since then I promise myself never to pass thr this route again in my life

I'll better go frm Lagos to Ondo then Ondo to Edo my life nor get duplicate

I thank God for your life.. but know thar the route you followed has nothing to do with your testimony, just that your time to leave this sinful world has not come. we must be ready always to make heaven..
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troublemakea:
This is nothing but pure open day Edo Witchcraft

There's not a day past without accident on this road.....God saved me last week and made me a living soul as the road almost claimed me twice i guess God is just tryna warn me not to pass this highway again and ever since then I promise myself never to pass thr this route again in my life

I'll better go frm Lagos to Ondo then Ondo to Edo my life nor get duplicate

I thank God for your life.. but know thar the route you followed has nothing to do with your testimony, just that your time to leave this sinful world has not come. we must be ready always to make heaven..
.

but is far better than this shit hole country..quote author=chocolateme post=77190080]Of all the places na India.[/quote]

it was his selfish over ambitiousness that is why the peope of akwa ibom kick him out. to become senate president no be bu force.quote author=JosEast post=76230657]The National Chairman of the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC), Comrade Adams Oshiomhole, has alleged that Senator Godswill Akpabio was rigged out of the senatorial election in Akwa Ibom state.

Akpabio of the APC lost his senatorial seat to Christopher Ekpenyong of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) in last Saturday’s National Assembly election.

He also said that Atiku was never destined to be the President of Nigeria

Oshiomhole, who reacted to Atiku’s press conference on the outcome of last Saturday’s presidential election, said his party will challenge the results of some National Assembly elections declared by the Independent National Electoral Commission.

“We have petitions that we have written to INEC – how we were rigged out in Akwa-Ibom State and it is interesting that it is PDP that is complaining about the outcome of election in Akwa-Ibom state.

“How do you explain that INEC cancelled so many units not only in Akwa Ibom state, so many other states in order to be able to declare PDP candidates as winners. That is how Senator Akpabio was rigged out in Akwa Ibom state,” he said.

Oshiomhole, who maintained the earlier stand of the APC that INEC was working for the PDP, said, “whether INEC helped PDP or APC, that is neither here or there.

“I also mentioned that if Atiku decides to go to court, I also reserve the right to file cross petition because there are also areas in my local government for example, 15 units were cancelled due to the carelessness or collaboration or mischief of an Electoral Officer that was deployed to my local government knowing that, that is my stronghold.

https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/how-akpabio-was-rigged-out-oshiomhole.html[/quote]

Requote that APC will ruke your generation for 40yrs ole jati jati yahoo yahoo prophet...

The highly gifted Man of God whose new Prediction book, ‘REVELATION 2019 is presently making wave after launching it two weeks ago, declared that ‘THERE IS NO TENSION for the election as God already picked President Muhammadu Buhari of All Progressive Congress (APC) ahead of his People’s Democratic Party (PDP) contender, and former Nigeria’s Vice President (1999-2007) Alhaji Atiku Abubakar.

The very gifted Prophet widely known as ‘The Nostradamus’ came clear as he revealed so many indices that will give the win to Buhari, a former Military ruler turned politician against Atiku a former customs officer turned politician.

The interview is quite revealing and exclusive as the Nigerian presidential election is few hours to reality.

Find out why Prophet Tibetan says ‘NO TENSION’ in this clip

https://www.newsheadlines.com.ng/opinion/2019/02/15/buharis-victory-will-shock-pdp-and-apc-will-rule-nigeria-for-40-years-prophet-tibetan/


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_FZYTEULDTw[/quote]

[quote author=free2ryhme post=73389576]http://thenationonlineng.net/sars-officer-shoots-lastma-official-dead/[/quote not every armed uniform person are mentally stable, please let avoid them.

Okpala Iberibe= IBERIBERISM

AcuraZDX:
Manager of the defunct Psquare music group,
Jude Okoye, has also shaded Lola Omotayo who is wife of one of the Psquare twins, Peter Okoye.

Recall that we reported that Lola Omotayo-Okoye took to her Instagram page to celebrate the twins’ 37th birthday, and also prayed that God speaks to them individually and softens their hearts. Sharing cute a photo of the pair posing together with their children..

However few hours after Paul Okoye shaded Lola, Jude Okoye also dropped a cryptic post which reads;


Lola Omotayo had also been shaded by Paul Okoye who asked his followers to beware of people who preach love outside, but plant evil seeds inside.

See more:
https://zenithnaija.com/jude-okoye-also-shades-lola-omotayo-after-birthday-post/

cc: lalasticlala dominique Mynd44

OMT18:
http://saharareporters.com/2018/09/30/im-sad-and-i-feel-cheated-ill-listen-tinubu-says-akintola-he-steps-down

bros tell us the other side of the story.. what is your reward for been loyal stop forming holy!

you are just an attention seeking man.. grow up and stop behaving like a baby husband...

there alot mentally unstable persons living among us we must always remain vigillant...quote author=LifestyleTonite post=71099788]
A 30-year-old massage therapist and yoga instructor from Michigan USA, Cassie Blue, has shared pictures of the art work she made using blood from her menstrual period as paint.

Such art is known as Yoni paintings, Yoni being the ancient Indian term for vagina.

Speaking about why she ventured into such, Cassie said her menstrual cycle causes her discomfort, so she decided to find convenience by being creative during her menstrual period.





Amazingly, Cassie has received an overwhelming amount of support from friends and strangers.



https://www.wotzup.ng/2018/09/yoga-instructor-menstrual-blood-art/[/quote]

beauty without brains...

fabinfos:
The leadership of the ruling APC has devised a new pattern of political campaign using beautiful ladies, and this is working well, at least on social media.

To sway voters and ensure the return of President Muhammadu Buhari and his Vice, Yemi Osinbajo in 2019, the APC has recruited beautiful ladies to engaged in door to door campaigns.

According to rumours, a WhatsApp group has been created for the beautiful, curvy and busty ladies rocking APC-crested shirts and caps to hold meetings and mobilize others.

The ladies who are mostly attractive appear as volunteers while they are actually paid for the jobs they do for the ruling APC according to a Twitter influencer, Demola Olarewaju.

The alluring pictures of these ladies referred to as ‘Slay Queens’ have been creating the needed buzz on social media as Nigerians have been rapidly sharing them on their pages.

http://kikiotolu.com/hot-photos-of-slay-queens-campaigning-for-president-buhari-surface-online/

You are an ordinary attention seeker..

post=70738368:
Good way to go.......

Sai Baba we know.

GOD BLESS OUR PRESIDENT MUHAMMADU BUHARI.

Our President for the next 4 years.

Haters, live with it!

affordable iphone6s 64gb grade A uk used.. N95k call:08039506062 quote author=FunnyDude post=70643553]I'm thinking of getting iPhone 6s or 7. Should I buy from ALIEXPRESS or UK used iPhone?[/quote]

is no longer a news that baba like woman and he is staight forward..quote author=Nawaaoh post=70210622]Nobel laureate Wole Soyinka accuses Obasanjo of awarding oil blocks for sex.

“I now challenge you (Obasanjo) to search your soul, very deeply, and swear to this nation that you never awarded oil blocks in return for sexual gratification. I do not make accusations lightly and I despise snide insinuations. I believe you know me well enough. And I am no prude, I am not a hypocrite of sexual desire, nor am I interested in the seamy side of Power. Take your time, think deeply and remember that each day brings you closer and closer to your Maker and the Day of Judgment-going by your own professions.”

This is a serious accusation

More -
http://yahoopost.com/nobel-laureate-prof-wole-soyinka-accuses-nigeria-ex-president-obasanjo-of-awarding-oil-blocks-in-return-for-sexual-gratification-calls-him-a-degenerate-liar-predator-and-sadist/
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[your generations will be bondage by sai baba
.. quote author=madridguy post=69741579]God Bless You Sai Baba. [/quote]

true talk bro.. how you want see well after that visioness slap from those legalized armrobbers. #endsars#

Hardeybohwarley:
Hmmm. Check for Scorpion as if you will get time to check them out. Let us just hope we don't fall victims. Only those that have experienced their wrath can explain.

this politicians cannot decieve me anymore, don't know about you..

Days after President Buhari commissioned the Abuja light rail transport and said that his government was fulfilling its campaign promises, Dino Melaye who is a member of APC and is set to defect to PDP, this afternoon, took to his IG page to thank ex-President Goodluck Jonathan for inaugurating the Rail project and completing it to 85% before leaving office.

''President Jonathan thank you for the Abuja light rail transport. As Chairman Senate committee on FCT i can attest to the fact that 85% of the job was completed b4 you left office. God bless Nigeria''.

http://www.vondanews.com/dino-melaye-thanks-ex-president-goodluck-jonathan-for-completing-85-of-abuja-light-rail-transport/[/quote]

if don't know defintion of terrorists ask google and stop spilling out rubbish from your brain..author=bamidelee post=67587716]he should be treated as a terrorist[/quote]

lord i need grace 2 bring up my beloved daughter in a
God fearing way... quote author=stephenduru post=67222141]Read more. http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2018/05/see-what-nigerian-lady-posted-after.html?m=1[/quote]

[may the name of the lord be o praise...quote author=Priscy01 post=66966456]A Nigerian woman has welcomed a set of twin girls after a painful journey to motherhood.

Accoridng to a post she shared on Instagram, she battled with infertility for three years and in the midst of it, suffered four miscarriages and 1 ectopic pregnancy.

Read her testimony below
"From a girl who never loved twins to a lady who later started praying to have them ?. After 3 good years of fertility struggle. After 4 miscarriages including 1 ectopic that led to removal of one of my tubes. After so much tears. After sleepless nights. After so much trauma and pain. I prayed, i fasted, i lost hope, i had hope, i told God to give me double blessings for my trouble. I told him to bless me with 2 identical healthy and handsome boys. I promised him that only him will take all the glory. Yes he listened and did it when i least expected. JULY 2017 that happens to be my beautiful princess Diana kidmodeldiana birth month. HE blessed me with the fruit of the womb. August 2017, Scan showed me we have been blessed with identical twins.... Then i burst into tears, i knelt down nd THANKED HIM FOR ANSWERING MY PRAYERS. FOR WIPING MY TEARS AND SHOWING ME HE HAS NOT FORSAKEN ME EVEN WHEN I THOUGHT HE HAD. Fast forward to MARCH 16 2018, I welcomed My RAINBOW babies. Beautiful twin girls . Our God is never late. Olowo gbogboro I SAY THANK YOU FOR LOVING ME. I am proudly Mama Ejima. Iya Ibeji. My daughter is now a big sis. It can only be you LORD. HAPPY 32ND BIRTHDAY mum. "

Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/04/after-3-years-of-infertility-4-miscarriages-woman-welcomes-set-of-twins.html[/quote]

This Aboki still think his is from the east?

salvationproject:
Governor Rochas Okorocha of Imo state have purportedly shared the reason why he(Rochas) cries
every night.

According to the governor, recent voters registration statistics by the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) which shows low voters registration turnout from the southeast makes him cry every time because to him, it means the southeast have lost hence they may become slaves.

Okorocha shared this during an Easter Sunday service at the Okigwe Catholic diocese where he called on all clergymen and bishops in the southeast to encourage their followers to vote.

In his words,
“A particular scenario makes me cry; INEC’s data shows that South-South has nine million registered voters, North-Central, 12 million registered voters, North-East, 15 million registered voters, South-West, 14 million registered voters, North-West, 18 million registered voters, while South-East has just eight million registered voters.
“This situation makes me cry. I weep every night
because of this development. This means that we have lost out before the 2019 election. If care is not taken, we will make ourselves slaves.

“My lord bishop, please tell our people to register. Our
bishops must encourage Igbo people to register now. I
have started shouting again, the same way I shouted in
2015.

“If Yoruba people can jettison tribal politics in 2015 to ensure that the APC won, Igbo people can do the same in 2019. Today, the Yoruba people are occupying sensitive positions in the Federal Government. ”

Source : http://www.jagabanxclusive.com.ng/2018/04/04/i-cry-every-night-because-south-east-may-become-slaves-gov-okorocha/

APC= ASSOCIATION OF PASTE CRIMINALS.

President Muhammadu Buhari has approved the release of $1bn for the procurement of security equipment to fight insurgency.

The Minister of Defence, Mansur Dan-Ali, disclosed this to State House correspondents at the end of a meeting Buhari had with security chiefs at the Presidential Villa, Abuja on Wednesday.

The President was also said to have asked the security chiefs to intensify efforts aimed at securing the release of Leah Sharibu, the Dapchi schoolgirl still being held by Boko Haram because she refused to renounce Christianity.

Details later…

http://punchng.com/breaking-boko-haram-buhari-approves-release-of-1bn-for-security-equipment/[/quote]

same applicable to Nigerians in US

Megatrix:
They should go back to their countries and contribute to the progress of their own nations

You will do no such thing, resign honorably and you will forever remembered sir.

BeeBeeOoh:
http://punchng.com/ill-take-nigeria-to-the-next-level-says-buhari/

You must be a very big fool, it nw a crime to be industrious and creative..

Beejay3000:
Hand work of the igbo

They are the only tribe that can do this nonsense

She din't buy them nah

FreshBoss007:
too much make up... she's even got some on her blouse....


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