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UncleSpiner:
I have been dating this Canadian lady for sometime years although long distance relationship.
She told me some of her addictions and initially I was ok with it. Few months ago she came down here since I asked her to come. She's really a nice person but her smoking habit is really getting on my nerves. I have been looking for solutions here and there. I equally told her she needs to put in some efforts to stop it.

How vaping can help you stop smoking
https://www.ceetimax.com.ng/how-vaping-can-help-you-quit-smoking/

Once I googled it, the above query came up. I told her vaping can help her stop smoking. She said she knows but loves the feel.

Omor I don't want to look like a gold digger cause she has really helped me financially. Since I can't keep such people, should I let her or will she change.?

You can’t have a positive relationship out of pity. My concern is this addiction could become so expensive overtime and also could degenerate the health later on.
She has alot of work on herself. You can only but help. Marriage is not part of the help or support. It is a life time decision

Blueace247:
1. A salary won't make you wealthy
2. Your boss doesn't care about your career growth (debatable)
3. A business pays you the least amount possible to maximize profit
4. Company loyalty is a dumb decision–changing jobs pays more
5. People go to jobs (mostly) cause they don't know what else to do
6. Most people have no idea what their passion is, so they lie
7. Hours worked has nothing to do with value created
8. Most of the stuff you buy keeps you tied to a job
9. Working long hours leads to burnout
10. Job titles are meaningless. They're just ego.
11. You're not entitled to a raise, promotion ... or anything
12. Those who get the best jobs are the ones that network the best

The people we lie to the most in our career is ourselves.

Stop lying. Face the truth. Then change your life.

100 100 100

faithfull18:
It is well.

Well asin?
Say two people die?

Franzinni:
I dey talk like your papa... Lets do the maths.

If I dey talk like your papa and you say I just dey talk like mumu

Answer = your papa nah _______

A. Mumu
B. Big mumu
C. Insignificant certified mumu
D. All of the above + E.
E. Father to a brainless mumu offspring.

Eleribu !

Person papa dey online dey talk like idiot

Franzinni:
she was a hoe... And it is a well known occupational hazard!

Check your time.. millions of girls just turned 18 so you are already downstream and you pissed... Well wait till you turn 35, have you heard about the WALL? It's coming o

Just dey talk like mumu

Kenneth10110:
English is always my problem anytime someone tries to defend a SIMple man.

you reduced everything op wanted to sex for 60k. And I corrected you op wanted more than that. And I went ahead to say the lady is nothing close to anything of what op wanted.

What is your exact problem?
This one you’re always claiming redpiller when no one asked you

bedfordng:
Sim hosting is the sure way out to sell cheaper. Most of those using simhosting process are buying the data directly from MTN and then sim host to share it.

They usually buy the highest terabyte plan that cost millions to enable them sell at cheaper price. So if you don't have that kind of cash, then you have no choice than to use API from them. You will lose if you buy lower plan directly from MTN to use simhost. You have to buy the expensive plans and also have other portals to use your portal via API to really make it in this space.

how do you currently sell?
mobile phone?
if yes then why not create a collection portal and your phone collect this data and process it.

Kenneth10110:
You sound like your the lady OP is talking about. Can you allow your brother place a lady he his not married to on a 60k monthly salary as relationship allowance.

Go back and read what you quoted, I don't think you did or maybe english is your problem

Kenneth10110:
Even a girl who bleeps you without anything is using you for her sexual gratification too.



You use her cure conji and she use u too that is 50/50 unlike when you both enjoy and you still have to pay her. Now a broke nigga will pay no shi shi and they will both use each other for sexual satisfaction then OP will pay 60k every month to renew when a nigga is getting it free hope u understand me.

Well as the way OP sounded, he ain’t just looking for a fuckmate only . He is also looking a potential life partner and mother to his kid. This girl in OP story is everything but none of that

Kenneth10110:
The worse even as the Simpleton nigga is paying her 60k monthly another nigga would be smashing her without paying a dime.

Aside from love fraud, naive girls and greed, There is no free sex anywhere. Stop posting lies on the internet. Even next door neighbor you Bleep. It will be transactional somehow. Even a girl who bleeps you without anything is using you for her sexual gratification too.

lordpf:
Long read


I met this girl (ill call her liz) during my year one in university, she was my specc specc, really beautiful and an A student.

I liked her but my friend beat me to it and they dated for a year plus. During that period i got to know her better, though we just kept it at friends level. at some point he treated her badly, she got pregnant and they broke up after she aborted it.

My friend dropped out and left for the uk after their break up. We became closer, and I asked her out. Her response was she loved me but dating me would be a bad idea since she dated my friend.

I eased off a bit and we both went apart and dated other people. Even in my relationships i kept comparing them to her, as she was MY IDEAL MATE. We maintained communication all through this period although it was just minor gist here and there and memes.

One thing i liked about her was She was hard working both academically and financially and didn’t demand much, untill she got an internship role at a big company where she dated a rich guy that spent crazily on her and even paid her per month. This opened her eyes that she could gain more from a relationship. After the internship they broke up and she dated another lower class guy which didn’t last because “he wasn’t really taking care of her needs” ( i know the guy and baba really tried spending on her despite the little he had but she wanted more).

After school we broke communication for a long time and we both had our share of good and bad relationships,

I was shocked when i traveled back to lagos some months ago and found out she was living in the-same estate as me.
(For context were both near our late 20’s, i work and I’m financially responsible and can take care of Myself, but she’s currently unemployed).

We got to talk and i got her contact again.
After some months of communication and meeting, discussions trailed back to relationship matter. we are both single and and talked about us dating, to which She said she still has feelings for me, but gave me a condition that ill need to spend lot of time with her, communicate and all, which I didn’t have an issue with, the then went further saying should also be willing to take care of her needs and prolly put her on salary of 60k per month. ive been helping out when she has issues though I haven’t spent close to that on her in a month. but i asked her again if the money part was necessary and she said yes.

Thing is i really love her but I’m confused if it’ll be the right decision to go all in for her or hold off as im worried if shes here for the benefits or not,

Anyone had this kind of experience?
What do you advice

Relationship is a combined interest. She said her interest clearly, what is yours?
This is pure business deal but you’re choosing to play it with feelings.
I hope your feelings can help you think.

My simple advice, you’re not in a relationship! Your undoing is when you think so. For now you’re friends with benefit. Don’t be shy about your own benefit

[quote author= post=118342591][/quote]so who do we vote?

Blessedmercy8:
God will punish and destroy you like he did to sodom and Gomorrah for typing this rubbish.

You chicken brain, why is it only prostitution you can think of?
Who has not faced hunger and hardship before? How many resorted to prostitution?

Are there no other jobs? Using hunger as an excuse to become a public dog is nothing but pure laziness and senselessness. So shut up!

I've been in hardship before but I went doing menia jobs where they pay 230 per day just to have something to eat. From there, I landed another one paying me 700 per day. Even in the midst of it I got offers from rich men to sleep with me and take me abroad but I refused and continued doing petty jobs until God gave me my major breakthrough after years of hardship. Why didn't I go into prostitution?

All this halfbaked humans coming here to justify nonsense. Which hardship you don face for life?

apt, you've spoken well.
who ever goes into prostitution for the sake of no food or money.
Was always a prostitute a long time ago, Na justification remain to unleash

zeuss:
Friend, who is not a slot? She only got caught.
Infact these days....l dnt want to talk too much but if you could seeb what every days girls do in secret u will be shocked......even u what moral right do u have to judge another's immortality? Are u not promiscuous dont u entertain yahoo.

So OP should pretend like it’s not a big deal and just should not “judge” and continue like say nothing happen.

Cause I am not getting where you’re heading to

Newman001:
I met her through facebook few months ago, we chatted and the rest is history. I wanted something serious with her and i told her severally because i wasnt too comfortable with the numerous calls she receives from guys. One day a friend of mine told me that someone he knows collected her number and my so call girlfriend slept over at the guys place after just two days of knowing the guy, i confronted her she denied initially but later owned up and apologized. I forgave her because i know no one is perfect. Few days ago i put on auto record on her phone and this night she is at my place sleeping so i open the records and there is this particular conversation where she travel to a near by state to see another guy.
Im just confuse right now. I have invested so muvh emotions on this gal and dont know what to do. Despite that she is working and the little time she has,she spent it at my place she stil got time to be meeting and sleeping with random men for money. im thinking of confronting and breaking up with her right now or just codedly place her on the level she deserves and let this slide

Until you’re infected with disease. You will not know and still be confused. Keep it up

Ephemmm:
I got the contact of my secondary school friend in Lagos and I started riding Okada around Egbeda, EJigbo, Ikotun, etc. They were six in a room when I joined them.

So, before I wrote my last paper in any semester, I have already packed my belongings because that would be the day when I would get to Lagos. Besides, there would be no food to eat if I decide to stay longer.

Upon every resumption, I will work for additional one week before I would join my mates in school. I remember December 31st 2017-January 2nd 2018, I worked non-stop and I celebrated it while transporting passengers.

You see, moving away from you parent terrain will give you much sense of responsibility and you will be more inclined to break even.

Okada ke!!
Maybe you actually needed the fund truely aside your parent doing funding.

Well sha it worked for you.

Moving away from your parent I see is a gradual process. There should be a foundation and if I will say it should be a skill and or education.

Going off too early without any skill or any fundamental education can be detrimental and even at some time totally a bad decision to make. Not everyone would survive that terrain you took

Op simply need a plan of a house and a small business or a job. He can borrow money if necessary or discuss with a friend or family member(base on track record sha)

PoliteActivist:
Sorry, I have no other way to say this: YOU SOUND LIKE AN IDIOT.

- It is obviously within the the purview of the discussion or you wouldn't then go ahead to discuss it!

- I gave anecdotal evidence from Biblical figures. We also know because they managed to overpopulate the world, doing no tests!

But you sincerely have no proof they didn't suffer the reason we are doing this test today.
You're just speaking naively without any scientific research nor medical literature as a backup
Overpopulating the world has nothing to do with sexually compatibility, which alot of children died due to this, even years back

You don't think realistically nor objectively, I am done with this conversation

JaskanFactor:
They say even the devil is doing Gods work. The more they show thier intentions hopefully the more people will pick race to improve their spirit.

For me as former 20 year long robotics engineer, i dropped the profession some years ago, in part cause i can no longer work on the products going in the direction this people are taking it. I mainly worked on manufacturing and medical robotics , avoided military stuff but did some , and those were the most horrible jobs , how do you work hard to make something for killing people.


I am just saying this to say, folks better start thinking twice about their career paths , so that you dont choose a career that will have you among those getting ready to fight God.

Cause all the blue chip companies and all large companies globally are really one organisation that is part of government.

So that google and Apple etc are really part of the Army, we are passed the time when you can be proud to be working in any of this places.

When you can see how mankind has lost thier way, maybe its time to get some pets and hang around animals to care for and observe them closely perchance you might learn what man has forgot .

I say this cause thier is an arrogance in youth , like when i was starting my career at 23 working for blue chip automation companies thinking big and ambitious. Turns out all those companies are just fronts for cults, and if you dont join your career will suffer , and even worse than the companies are the top name universities globally .

So that any attempt you are making to climb up the career ladder in big company big university etc is setting you up to fight against God.

So folks who dont think they have the bone to fight creator might want to think of career paths where you are your own boss, and can choose what you do. But to say you are going to work for some large origination is asking for trouble in this demon days.

The number of professions one can be proud of is now getting smaller by the hour, nobody has told all the arrogant doctors that people now despise them more than police since covid.

All the engineers that are helping them to build the digital prison are doing the work of shame, all the people in google, apple etc.

Cause at the end of the day the wild animals have proved they are smarter than people, cause people only use their intelligence to destroy each other , so the animals win the race, the debate is over.

And when i got cats to care for and learn from, one of the greatest things i learnt from them is sleep is power. Dot let anybody takeaway your right to get enough sleep. I noticed this cats and all animals as i investigated further, are never awake for more than 3to4 hours at a time.

You become more relaxed and your sixth sense wakes up sharp, like someone turned up the volume. That's what the animals are doing when they take it easy whilst men slave themselves to fruitless ambitions that will end in not.

So i have increased my operations, to feeding birds too so that they can be around to learn from and care for. And i am learning from them too
like why are birds feathers and plant leaves similar shape. Since plants dont fly. But they do they fly in place dancing in the wind.
However my theory is you can turn a woman on a lot by stroking her gently with a feather unlike say with a stone.
And the birds are able to fly cause they stroke and turn on the chi energy field in empty space which results in erection that gives them flight, just like in sex its all electrical activity of the same kind.

And when you do to the empty space around you what the birds feather does to the air, you too become more electrically charged, they call that taichi. Massaging the field increases you and the field likes it too, plants do it, birds do it, so i do it too .

Next i am trying to improve relations with spiders, hard going, i hardly kill them anymore, i even bought something on amazon to catch them instead of kill them, but progress is slow and promising so far. But i hate to kill spider despite how much they scare me cause they are soooo intelligent , and i hate to kill something that show so much fear to die like spiders do , they play dead very well too.

The animals may yet teach us the way out of the hole mans arrogance has dug for himself.

Sat down and composed a lot of weird stuff. You need mental help

Blazinraj01:
You are measuring success in terms of bank balance.

You read “no job”, “still under my parents roof”.
Shey na eyes dey pain you Abi you sabi read?

Ephemmm:
You are the one narrowing down your chances in life. For goodness sake, how can you be under your parent at that age and how are you coping with the happenings over there? Telling my parents to hold on to their money upon getting admission into university is one of the best decisions i have never regretted till date.

Even after graduation when all was lost after two years, I held on tenaciously to my decision and the rest is history today by God's grace.

Move bro.

After getting admission. What was your source of income while being a student Abi na yahoo you dey do?
Or na part-time and work ?

okrikaboi:
All 35 year olds and up who have not made it have been on my mentions since because of my comment. Y'all are senseless why not accept the fact that your youth and now you will never make it. Well you might hit it but your chances have become slimmer. Don't quote me again.

Spewing rubbish. You don turn “make it” gateman Abi?

YourBestWriter:
Guys good morrow to you all.

So it's going to be my 39th birthday next year and I still don't have one Kobo in my bank account. Still under my parents roof and no job. In a scale of 1 to 10, what are my chances of making it in life?

“What is your plan” is the biggest question to your breakthrough as at this moment.

Please find a job or try start a business. Nothing anyone tells you here will make sense until you make effort.

gebest:
No WORK no PAY is as simple as ABC, Lecturers always think they are smart, you keep our Children for good 8 months at home and you want to collect salaries of the months that you didn't do your work, is that possible?

you nor get sense. True talk

habsydiamond:
The only people affected by the strike actions are always the students.. at the end of the day, the lecturers will be paid one way or the other... who will pay for wasting the students time too or are they not involved in the education process again.

The government should answer that question

PoliteActivist:
Ok, let's analyze:
OP said get a bunch of biological tests b4 discussing marriage.
I observed that olden time folks never did these tests and were just fine; I then wondered if God intended us to be doing these tests.

Please educate us as to how that is off point.

- olden time folks, is this time olden time??
- they were just fine, how exactly were you sure they were fine? did you know sickle cell ravaged people in old-days?
are you aware alot of children died long time ago?
So I just think you don't really know about what you're talking about. do your research

PoliteActivist:
Do you think God intended people to do these tests b4 they got married? Jacob had 4 wives. Didn't have any tests. Didn't lose a single child

What you just typed has nothing related to the topic. Basically off point.

PoliteActivist:
All I know is that China, India, etc managed to become ridiculously overpopulated without doing any of these tests

you don't know. Simple

PoliteActivist:
OP, how come our ancestors never did any tests and they were just fine?
While people today, after all these tests still die?

Why do you think?

little did you know our ancestor had so many issues that even they family have to help their daughter and son investigate who they where to marry. Still it didn’t solve many genetic problems

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