₦airaland Forum

Sammy07:
I agree.

After the 9 things comes

Character which is the 10th.

From both partners

Hmm

Girlfriend above everything else.
Date a girl that has future.
Date a girl that don’t see life as ludo game

ibinaboonline:
Agreed. Which still reinforces my point. It's who they are based on life experiences, upbringing, even genetic molding. But I'm no fan of excuses. You see, some fall forward while others fall sideways or backwards. My point is, someone may be abused, for example, but instead of falling backwards, they fall forward. They get stronger, wiser, and better rounded. Not everyone who went through what the stripper went through chose to strip for a living or for whatever motivates them to do it. Ultimately, we all have to be sympathetic and non-judgemental because we're all in this race of a life together. We're not all strong and we're not all fortunate.

Strongly agree all you said.
But I don’t quite agree with your conclusion though. I think we can still judge to an extent and sometimes we can still be sympathetic but it has to come with some knowledge about that specific person.

But as for people we don’t know, we actually don’t and it is better to remain on the fence of being judgmental or being sympathetic.
If there is anything we could do to reduce the occurrence we can as well do them.

ibinaboonline:
It's always the 'money' excuse - always. But even these women know deep down it's just who they are. I once asked a very young girl if she's using the money to pay her school fees. She said her parents are still alive and paying her fees. So, why do this? To meet my needs, she said. Go figure. Many, I mean, many Nigerians find themselves in extremely difficult situations but they'd never turn to prostitution or stripping to make ends meet for the simple reason that they abhor it - it's just not who they are. Some will rather go inside market to sell food stuff. Ask the hookup crew if they're willing to sell crayfish in the market. Some women will rather sell pure water than prostitute. While others will rather prostitute than sell pure water. I'm not saying their challenges aren't true or valid. I'm saying that's not at the core of why they chose that path. It's who you are.

Why your point are solid don’t forget that some this is the only life they know.

There is a part of child and woman trafficking. Some of the result is what you see here.
There are also cases of child abuse, abandonment and lack of proper parenting.

It’s not all black and white even if it is for some cases. Some has a lot of gray areas and some are just a mix of everything

Dshocker:
Like they say; You can never shame the shameless...

Tomorrow now, if the husband finds out that was the life she led and wants a divorce, some girls will rush to social media to defend the girl, by saying that was her past and if there is love in their union, let the guy overlook it and bla bla bla

I Dshocker will not and can never overlook it, even if discovery was after 20yrs

Just take a look at the 20yrs old girl from Taraba state that was striped and flogged by her friend's brothers and professor father, which was caused by prick matter

Below was when the two friends were dancing to Kiss Daniel's Odoyewu challenge.

Well anyone who hide that part of their past from their partner is to be feared

mu2sa2:
Even at official rate one million pounds is a whopping 507 million naira. Just for a house on earth!
Some people say the naira is weak, but which sane person will reject #507m for €1m?

I will

Zee0007:
I was having a conversation with a friend and he said, " he cannot marry someone who doesn't know how to read or write.

Can you?

what happens to learning? is it that person had opportunity to but didn't? or life never gave a fair chance of trial?
if the person has the personality and interest in learning

edogu:
Three things were revealed in that story.
One, he was a final year medical student.
Two, he decided to engage in other side hustle.
Three, he died after a brief illness. No details was given as result to the kind of illness.
Which leads us to the earlier submission, if the strike wasn't embarked on would he still be alive? Alot of factors could contribute to that brief illness which resulted in his death - depression as a result of frustration, frustration as a result of staying at home or may be terminal disease.
In summary, I was trying to say that strike may be or may not be responsible for his death.

Then you never said anything at all. It was always “maybe” and “may not be”

victorazy:
Was he the only one that has suffered ASUU strike?
Bros! Believe it or not, he died out of black magic (evil men of the land) just because he name has been mentioned nationwide.

you speak like you know something!

edogu:
It's not as if I'm blaming the strike for his death but I've this strong feeling that if schools were in session, he would have been alive. Who knows? Frustration may have contributed to his death together with lack of money. People are really going through alot.

Now am confused, cause you just did

seunak2016:
if you stay in South West, don't dare some shit otherwise you pay the consequences.

have you seen a situation where they cut the tree and the following day, they met the tree standing again with no sign of cutting it down previous day?

Any documentation or reference of this incident or it is just hear-say?

DropsMic:
Black man can’t even manufacture his own cough syrup

black man wey never even fix basic security issue and road. mtcheww

workchopNG:
Sowore is stably unstable. Sometimes he's doing right to the extreme, next time he's all wrong at the extreme too.

Such a man can not be trusted with the position of the country's 001.

And the ones who don’t deserve at all are there

Let Sowore be sowore

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Look how she stupidly embarrassed her shit hole... like WTF?
Most Nigerians can be so rude and uncouth.. acting like black monkeys on social media..why on Earth will you address a dead lady in such disgusting manner..

I think she's a professor in a US University..then she's f**ked..she's a black racist but her fellow Nigerians might see no wrong in this.. is this what she lectures to her black students?
Most Blacks with their dirty attitude.. imagine if it was a white who made this statement..the BLM and nairaland branch of wildos would have been screaming racism and all..Eww..no wonder her ancestors sold themselves out to the colonial master..

naive....

Quintopia:
ABEG SHUT UP. Power supply takes a long while to get right for a huge population like Nigeria.

South Africa has been building power infrastructure since the 1800s while Nigeria's first power plant, Kainji dam, was commissioned only in 1964 after independence, since all the British colonisers did was loot.

If they elect you, you will encounter the same difficulties of previous leaders.

Na dust you dey yarn

Stallionhorse:
So I'll just keep this simple and neat, I just need opinion cause sometimes our judgments can be a mess. I met this babe a few months ago and we started dating, she is not my kinda woman in terms of beauty and body structure, I love petite girls, slim with moderate assz and boobzz. But this one is petite but chubby with big ass and boobs. We have been getting along very find, infact I've never had a more peaceful and mature relationship in my life. But recently I've noticed she has mostly male friends some she calls her beauties.. Lol.. You know the story with all this male besties how it ends. Since we started dating she has attended two birthday parties of guys and had to sleep out. I've really been mature about everything I've allowed her to live her life, I don't even feel jealous or hurt about the fact she has male friends. I just want to ask if is wise to trust her and build a serious relationship with her cause she talks to me about us being serious even moving in together. Financially I foot our bills when ever we go out, but the truth is that she gives me money and since we started dating I've been able to save most of my salary while she gives me money and cooks for me most times with her money.. This girl is a rare one but I still have my doubt's based on the fact she has many males friends.

No one can answer the question for you.
You need to pay close attention is the name, until you do then and maybe then you could notice something more.
But for now don’t appear suspicious, this kind of girls a lot of times are flirting around.

From the looks of things she kinda like you but not in the sense of she been completely committed to you.

If she was she would understand she shouldn’t do that now you’re in her life but now she is doing it. Then total commitment isn’t part of the game for her

coolerz:
Hello Nairalander, hope we are all doing good?
I have intentions to relocate to the US in a couple of months to a year, i have a little background in IT with plans to take an IT course that could help me get a decent job here in nigeria and when I eventually relocate abroad. I have some options below please Local and international IT experts in the house can you help me make a choice and advice me right.
Thank You

1. Data Analytics/ Data Science
2. Web Development
3. Block Chain Technology
4. Business Analysis
5. Cloud Computing
6. Cyber Security
7. Software Development
8. Digital Marketing

Everything is hot as we speak now.

But 3, 5 and 6.
They are rising and only senior roles are available locally.

But for 8 you need loads of experience to cash out big.

At the end of the day, it is not cool for anyone to tell you which to do. It never fits it.

Do a fundamental in two of three of them at a go and pick for yourself. You will excel in anyone you are willing to go extra mile for

care4you:
Believe the woman side of story at your own peril!

Trust not this gender!

...

Na dust you just yarn
Even your guys go dey shame for you.

Rest Abeg

xin5:
she must have done something.

Ok

Grace045:
Why is it difficult to have peace in countries that are predominantly moslems? I come in peace, just wondering y, and this is the clear proof for those who think all terrorist are muslim if they are true muslim how can they attack in a worshipping place and kill a priest those attacker dont have any religion

Some Muslim e.g the Wahab thinks other Muslim as infidels.

So when you think of supremacy in religion you could understand why

PerfectStranger:
Truth be told. Men benefit nothing from relationships with a typical Nigerian girl.

Guys, know this and know peace.

Naso it’s a game of two.

Konji hold you and dem bill you.
Real women and men are everywhere but they are harder to find

Mtchew

Arrangee comments

gaby:
Scott Parker is the definition os "Lifeless"... Zero charisma and ideas.

He should go into farming.

He won't even succeed in coaching under 5s

But he was successful to bring them to premier league.
You don't know football

Jagabanofafrica:
I am blaming the two sides , they should negotiate rather than playing politics with education .
Also the request of ASUU is much, where do they want federal government to get 1.1trillion naira.

Educational sector is very important, but we have other sectors too.
The two of them should consider the innocent students.

use your head to think

day what now?

Emerald04:
Lol people like you can never be saved. Your type will probably worship my girlfriend Ass for the rest of your life.

Well continue simping it’s your choice man. As for me and my fellow redpillers we don't do slave shit to pussy, you either be with us or buzz off.

Says someone posting whatsapp chat of him and a girl. The most immature 21st century behavior. only God knows if that is even your chat sef.

So what else does redpill says again aside from bitchess? and simps?