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UnaToto:
Just an advice: Make sure you smash that Toto before you let her go.



UnaToto

what is the deal in this smash TOTO one more time Except one is starving of food that is when he will go and eat ekunje

GreatResearcher1:
hit's android

if it can come up use ADB or some advance android kit, it can help you dump your files

adexpa:
I can't disagree brother, maybe I was talking from the point of a strong guy, only weak guy will subscribe to such card and anyone who fall for such will still be trapped back by the girl even if he walks away without saying a word or letting her know.

I get you but if mama ifeoma come join beg you nkor plus mama Chibuzor and chidera. By that time na you go turn to devil with horn for not giving in.

Brilliant7:
Something strange happened today at 3am I was viewing some status on my whatsapp and I saw a caption "I still love my ex" I later looked at the person that posted it, my people the person is my elder brother fiancee I was shocked that nobody can please nowadays lady despite all the money my brother spent on her, how can still be in love with her ex...
This eventually gave me a sleepless night, I was thinking that is there any way someone can use to please a lady, to my own view I knew she pretended to love my brother. I don't know whether to tell my brother or to sit down and watch the love story to the end..
To be sincere I don't just like the girl self...

Save it for evidence sake but don’t tell your brother directly. If you and your bro na OG then don’t wait too long to tell him. If not just do things little by little, help your bro watch his back small.

FatherBona:
The more reasons the should not find out.
What are guys for
If you like go and run your mouth like a sister, and watch the trust your brother had for you which has taken years to build, go down the drain.

Receive sense

This case is a little case but if it more grievous forget about those brother things o. Family is more important. A guy was stealing and the younger bro know but didn’t say anything until they almost lynched his elder bro. Wise up

freeman131:
But the act is a sin and it's already an addiction and mind you we're from a Christian family,my parents would really be disappointed if they get to find out.

sin to who. Oga better go front

argent412:
Mine will be worse, because I might break his head.

I hate been played. If his not interested with the relationship he should tell me, not him playing and wasting my time.

A good player never leave their partner broken.

adexpa:
You already have answer my brother, a mature mind don't jump into action, take your time to hear from her through the chat and know more things. Information you will get will also help you in your next relationship/phase. If possible you can arrange a date through the anonymous chat and you can spit out during the date n then move on with your life. Please, do not allow emotion n feelings attach you back to her cus the present evidence is enough but the further step is to have room to prove to her so that she wouldn't jump around and be telling people that you dump her for no reason.

have you heard of what we call the victim card? She will play that card now and would win the game

primesoccer:
I met my girlfriend about 2yrs ago and we've been doing pretty fine. Before we met, she was in an abusive relationship and she had to quit.

In trying to understand ourselves, we've had to agree and disagree on some things, which I believe is normal. I love her and she loves me too.

I won't say I have the cash, but I'm always there to support her when she has a very pressing issue. Aside that, I take her out, we go shopping, and lots more...

She is this type of lady that if you try to correct her (in a very respectful manner) she will just get angry and may not even talk to you for even 2 days. Anger is a big part of her life. I respect her a lot and have never used abusive words on her.

When we just met, she was kind. She hardly comes to see me without buying something, even if it's N50 corn...a gesture that I appreciate so much. About a year into the relationship, her character changed. She became somewhat stingy. But I didn't take it to mean anything because I hate to even depend on anybody for anything. It didn't stop me from supporting her and doing the much I can for her.

She doesn't ever allow me touch her phone. What she does now is that whenever I'm to see and spend time with her, she turns off her data. She rejects some calls when we are together. As someone who wants peace at all times, I've sat her down to tell her my observations and ask what the matter was. But she told me nothing was the matter.

So, I decided to buy a new SIM card. I started chatting her as a stranger. She chats with me (the stranger) till even 2am. She has opened up everything about herself to the stranger. Her name, where she's from, what she does, where she lives and lots more. I'm just wondering why someone who just chatted you today is already getting to know everything about you.

Now to the reason I opened this thread: she told the stranger guy that she isn't in any relationship. Though, she added that she just met a Guy last week through her friend and they are both trying to work things out. She even sent the picture of the new guy to this stranger.

I'm still wondering why she will do a thing like that. I'm not in her life to waste her time. She is very aware of that. I told her last December that we shall go see her people this year and seal everything, but she told me that we still have time and no need for the rush.

Personally, I had no reasons to suspect her of possibly cheating, but her actions when we are together made me get a new SIM card and started chatting her up anonymously.

On my part, I'm a guy that ladies even open up to me that they like me. They also say I'm very intelligent and all that. I'm very transparent to her. I don't hide nothing from her. I can leave my phone with her without any fear because I don't have anything to hide.

I've never had anything to do with any lady since I met her. I so much believe in keeping your body and soul to just the person you are with...whether relationship or marriage. If you can't do that, why not just tell the person that you are not interested again than going your way to deny the person before another guy.

Ladies and gents, why on earth will a man or woman do this to someone who had dedicated his or her all to you?

I will gladly welcome your contributions, including bashing...

Addition: I am business oriented. To make her depend less on any man for money, I have created a passive income source for her that generates about 20k for her monthly

dont confront her o, patience is a virtue, learn more about her

nashito:
I Just Found That My Gf Who Always Says She Doesn't Like Sex Is Porn Addict

Needless to write long articles, I met this girl recently, who I met online and prior to that, she has always portrayed to be a good lady and I must confess I somehow see her as someone I might marry soon.

But to my greatest surprise, this afternoon, I wanted to check something with her phone (Google Chrome) and I saw over 3 opened porn pages, infact, her first bookmarked page is a porn site, guys what do you think about this?

I've never seen this part of her and during sex I kinda don't want to hit hard cos I have this mentality that she's gonna be my wife soon & to be frank, I'm not much into sex and I don't want to marry someone that's a sex addict.

Should I be worried about this? Please I need matured and rational advise guys. Thanks a lot

Don’t tell her anything o if you like yourself, you still need to know more things

GreatResearcher1:
before i loan her the money we made agreement via facbk chats. So d sceenshots i do send her is evidence dat i've paid d money and wen she get alert she wil send me a text dat she has recivd it and i wud tell her to go to facbk and confirm dat she has receiv it.

Y i do it dat way is because dis isnt my first time i gave her loan cash. I once loan her cash and wen i requstd it back she said i shud pay her for all d sex i use to hav wit her. (she was my gf). Since it was money i can let go, i let go.

This time around it involves bigger money and since we stay in different states we did d agreement thru facebk.

I was on dis forum last yr seekin for 2dvice dat am about lending money to my ex.
I was advised against it but since she gave me ful asurance to pay back i lend her d money bt dis time we did agreement.

Eyah you went against the advice of the elder and see now. See if that phone is android find some that can use Android debug bridge or ADB. It can fetch your photos backs

Crimpsy:
me and my girlfriend just finished discussing and she suggested that I find a nice paying job or else our marriage plan might not work.
u know how the country is, based on the CORO situation on board.
So I thought of indulging myself into online browsing (blogging) but I don't know how to go about it.
Can someone suggest a School and it's location were they teach blogging or were they have practising bloggers that are willing to teach me.
precisely in Lagos because I live in lagos
Yours contributions will be appreciated
thank u.

If you want to make Money better bring your head low learn a skill and then money can come. Even blogging could take 2 years to start earning don’t let anyone deceive you.

GreatResearcher1:
I just spoke with the person. I stylishly told the person to go to facebok from those screenshots of deposit slip and receipt of payments, d person should check d receipt i made payment with dpos dat i want to get d firstbank mobile moni agent phone number and call the agent to help me with transaction due to lockdown. She first askd me y i dnt go to facbk and do get it from my inbox i told her i deleted it. She told me she use to delete our chats that she doesnt have

mad o. How come you were sending those chat to her. You story is fishy...... You could hack her account using phishing.... I have the script but aside that get your old phone fixed

GreatResearcher1:
d phone got spoilt

That phone is your last hope o.
Get it fixed

baralatie:
contact deleted his side also

contact Facebook help center and tender your report. Tell them you need your conversation. If it can’t be recovered, o boi nothing can o.

Last hope is the phone you use to snap the said picture

GreatResearcher1:
from my old phone.
would have said let me use statement of acct as evidence in court but;

1. statement of acct only tells who paid d money and not d purpose of payment so d person might say d money was a gift.

2. on three ocasions i've used POS from a business centre to make d transactions and these do not have my name as sender.

I alsways save my chats and text messages with the person on facebook since i can change phone anytime.
Even our whatsapp chats i used to screenshot and save on facbk.

If it a bank transaction go to the bank and get statements

GreatResearcher1:
Please how do I retrieve messages from Facebook?

I mistakenly deleted a Facebook user from my inbox.
I just realized that the messages I do send to the user contain vital info which I am to use in court as evidence.

please I need help on how to retrieve those messages back.

get it from the user... contact the person you were chatting with

Pheals:
u can try visit any technological or computer centers not cafe o ...they may b of help probably

mtchew

fearless247:
This is an insult to Africa, be careful.

lets tell ourselves the truth. Make a point to prove him wrong.

Ijeleigbo:
Eko o ni baje oh!!!!
My fellow Lagosians, you shall all survive!!!!
And to a poster above me calling someone an animal because some people came out, I guess you are the Animal!!!! So because of lockdown, you expect Nigerians not to come out?
Is it not Ireland giving their citizens €350 a week to stay at home? What has your Government done for you rather than tell you to wash your hands with sanitizer!!!
Because you have the resources to lock yourself inside does not mean others does....

Stop being sentimental. It counter productive to put people in your locality in trouble. I understand the rate of poverty and calling people animal for looking for food is uncultured but bia my brother corona is very deadly and is not logical with all this our talk. Let us cooperate and ensure we keep the advice even though we are looking for food.

Better stay house.
Some Nigerian don’t even understand the complexity of Corona Virus and how it can put innocent people in trouble. I understand there is no food and hunger is looming everywhere but to dey waka waka if you not get any better thing to do(journalism or medics) or sell (e.g food)is counter productive.

ProfDview1:
Pls feel free to share your opinions


Could it be spiritual problem?

She did lost interest in marriage due to break up?

Cud it be attitude? I doubt this though Cox not all married woman are saint either



Pls what' could be the problem really?

Cc: Seun Lalasticlala Mynd44

Pls push to front page

lack of social intelligence.

fayded:
I'm dating an akwa ibom girl currently.
I dunno bout d sex part,she's a virgin so we haven't done it yet(yes I confirmed, and I'm sure).although, she looks like she'll be a freak in sheets when we eventually start.
She's actually wellbehaved and always dress decently,contrary to what y'all are saying bout akwaibom girls.
And yeah, she cooks well too.
And very loyal.

you confirmed she is a virgin ?? Oga better wise up

MelesZenawi:
Adeniyi no strong even as Major General..

Finally Babaginda was right " If I wake up and hear a Yar...ba man beating drums of war, I will just go back to sleep".


Imagine he was busy doing video call at war front while Boko Haram are raining bullets on them..

When did military start to allow owambe in battlefield.

See as you nor get sense. I wonder how your younger ones at home is surviving with you around them.

nakaman:
not my business

you can choose to ignore as much as you want but you insensitivity to men at the war front ensuring you stay safe is none of your business. Not surprised, we have many of you.

Jayslicky:
You quoted me first remember.

Oya sorry! I am wasting my MB you know. Since you are on a free basics you can reply me forever.

Have a good day

Jayslicky:
Dude na freebasics I one use, e concern you?

Why you come dey bark na! Use am I hold you?

Jayslicky:
I don't care man, I am above all that childish tantrums. If I want to sub I would do that right away, why will I use my data on Nairaland when there is free mode.

Maybe you do care. It’s well

AhlexOfficial:
Gbam! E don happen! Motor don jam am

Jayslicky:
Yes, when my sub finish wetin I go use.

pele I understand but try to hide it.

Nifemi889:
So I have this childhood bestie...we went through secondary school together and I really adore her..our parents knew one another and we are family friends
We are both same age...23years..

We go out and do almost everything together..
So it happened last year I was dating a guy though I wasn't really into him .at first I told him I only liked him as a friend and he said I should just try him and give him a chance...

one day he asked me to visit him but I didn't want anything to happen btw us so I told my bestie to go with me.. She agreed and we went there, cook, eat watch movies and when it was evening we left..fast forward to two weeks later..
My bestie came to my place and after gisting and all..she asked me if I was still dating the guy..I replied yes but we don't communicate often like before...

So after a while she slept off and her phone was on her chest..I took it and it was not locked so I went through her gallery..a message came in from WhatsApp and I checked and behold it was the guy...I found out they were in a relationship.. It didn't hurt much since I wasn't attracted to him but I was disappointed she did that behind my back..and besides she has a boyfriend and I know him..we chat sometimes on WhatsApp but I never did that to her...although I kept it a secret and didn't tell her nor her boyfriend.. We continued being friends...

Three months after... I ran into the guy and we talked for a while.. He said he was sorry for going for my friend bla bla bla and they broke up some weeks ago..said he want us to start over and I told him I have a boyfriend now...we still talk till date but just friends nw..

So now after my bestie found out about my new bf and I showed her his picture.. It seems she didn't like him cuz she doesn't greet him most times she sees him...there was a day he came over and she just waved and walked away which I don't relate with her bf like that...they don't like each other and my bf told me to stay away from her without telling me why...I asked my friend why she doesnt like my bf and she was just giving excuses..it got worst when my bf proposed to me and she told me I should have said no cuz he isn't trustworthy...I was really confused and I asked my bf to tell me what's happening btw them but he said he just doesn't like her naturally..

Just three weeks ago she told me there is a girl at her workplace who had a rich bf and the guy asked her out and she agreed cuz she needed money...I wasnt comfortable with it and since then I stayed away from her but my dad has been asking about her and her mum calling me if we had a fight..but I said we are okay...she also called to tell me she is sorry if she did anything that made me stop talking to her.

I still can't seem to cut her off and she is not really that bad cuz she is nice to some extent..
Is it really necessary I stop being friends with her or am just overreacting...I love her as my friend but can't tolerate her getting close to my bf this time around...
Should I have told her about finding out about the first guy?
Now am scared there might be something btw both her and my bf are not telling me?
And now she is going to stay here for two weeks with me and my dad since her mum isn't around .
her bf has been complaining to me that she is behaving somehow towards him but i didn't tell him anything cuz I didn't want to disturb the guy.

Pls advice
Thanks..

The fact is that you don’t know anything for sure, maybe patience is a virtue.

Carry your investigative coat and do some research between she and your bf. Haste may be a bad choice for you now, you have to put your senses on increase and study things properly from now. You were playing with a dog that bite other people now you’re paranoid you are the next on the list .

You have every reason to think the way you do but it could also just be you’re overly paranoid

Jayslicky:
Anyone that believes this troll account is gullible.

youre using free basic