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Ineedhelp10:
I have nothing..done different jobs and businesses but nothing to show for it...no achievement...led me to desperation...my friends left me when I refused to join them to sleep with men for money and they are making it big...I just don’t know what to think again..

Sorry to say o.
Don’t you think you’re just being desperate? Haba how old are you self “25”! and you’re depressed about not making it.
Don’t you think you’re in a rat race competition all in the name of “my friends has made it”?

Or is there something I am missing?

Ineedhelp10:
I had to create this account out of shame,I’m well known female in this platform and I’m seriously fighting desperation...I really need help please...I’ll be 25 this April and I have nothing..absolutely nothing to show for it...not even a kobo in my account...please I really need help cause I’m contemplating suicide to end everything.

Seeing my mates graduating and doing so well for their self,I can’t help but shed tears each time...I base in awka..any job will do...please I need financial help and a job...please!!!!!
I’ll send anything to assure you that I’m genuine...I’m not chasing clout either...please
Lalasticlala...mynd44..seun ..please push to frontpage..I beg y’all help me..

Is it finance or depression that is the problem now?. I don’t understand

untainted:
I believe 100% the pastor is innocent unless further evidence implicates him.
It could be a case of getting trapped due to vehicle's child lock.

Or someone killed and hid the bodies there.

I will go with the first scenario

What is 100% that you’re believing

It is fine to say there could other sides to the story but what in the picture is saying the pastor couldn’t do it?

timota:
The only wise person in this forum,if the man is to do ritual will it be in his car,the children got stuck in in the car till heat and hunger killed them

does a boy struggling in a stuck car sits and die?
It is like you don’t know what the Situation you’re talking about sounds like.

Do people just get abandoned in a car?
The person who drove the car has a short term memory abi?

Please always think in many folds please

lastburn:
My girlfriend and I had dis talk about what she consider cheating in a relationship. Guys you should ask your girlfriends or wife and you fit shock! She said what she consider as cheating is sex! So long as you guys didn't have sex then its not cheating no matter what you guys are doing!!!! I weak... As for me? If you play, you play to win!

No sex before marriage simple

chatinent:
It depends on you.

Just do your part. Don't bother about the other person leaving.

Find sb who understands marriage not some beauty queen without brains.

What makes a perfect relationship is when two mature minds are together. There is nothing like doing your part o.

needanswer:
You still dont get my stance. Been GREEDY is an impulse that if not controlled can turn to a bad habit. Many ladies growing up never LEARNT to be CONTENTED with whatever means they have or their families can provide. They CAN'T resist MONEY even if it is from a SOURCE they shouldn't collect it from.

Now since GREED is now part of their habit, when someone who looks EXPENSIVE offers to spoil them, whether he us SINGLE or NOT, the GREED in them will kick in and they will act on it to the extent of having sexual relations.

They know MOST RICH AND SUCCESSFUL MEN can never be truly single but the GREED in them wont allow them reason ALONG that LINE.

Oh okay now I get your point.

needanswer:
I dont agree with you. Do you know how many impulses people have while growing up? You want to take what is not yours, you are tempted to jump off a high building or bridge, you are tempted to play with fire, you are tempted to run away from home when your parents offend you and any other wild thoughts that may cross peoples head while growing up. Those impulses dont DEFINE your ORIENTATION, those impulses are just A TEMPORARY reaction of your senses to different environments and emotions. The frontal part of your brain over time should be able to control such impulses ONLY if you dont INDULGE in them.

People who have weird fantasies where those who failed to control their impulses in their developmental stage. They are addicts now to their impulses in adulthood. So nothing, no character is inbuilt in a child, it is rather taught or learnt as they grow up and explore.

You just instantly agreed to my previous post. Some People never learned to control their impulses.
Anyone who tells you he/she cheats because of just money or some material stuff didn’t tell you the full story.

Ok sha move ahead.
But you didn’t see all this while the pussy cat still had spices.
There are always loads of reason when you want to break up and it becomes more glaring when the heat starts coming up. How did I know this? You barely mentioned any positive stuff about her

But since we weren’t there then let us assume you were saying the truth.

Ok it was a phase of life
You weren’t tied with any chain to anyone.
If you think you should move ahead then do

dodoisk:
I am developing a results checker. How do I set an expiring date for a scratch card when a student first used it in PHP. Like weac scratch card

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SegFault:
I swear, the guy need that kind slap wey dey reset brain.

Their type are the demons living among us because they find all form of justification for every sort of evil in as much it wasn’t pointing to them, in extreme cases even if it was them they would still be sympathetic to their jailer.

chatinent:
Amen..to everyone only who knows how to dress in feminine modesty, respect and cover their bodies..that's only when pervs and rapists would learn to look for better jobs.


The guy should be electrocuted without trial.

This is an apologist statement you just made.

needanswer:
"Cheating is a character" like it was inbuilt in some people. Nobody had cheating inbuilt into their character, rather people started to cheat for various reasons and after a while they became addicted to it, like any bad habit formed.

To be verbose, cheating is at the core of every human. The brain see anything it likes and goes for it but being civil we work by conscious thought and experiences and then by our law.
In Our primitive nature there is no such thing that you must stick to one partner but over time we could train our mind to behave in a particular way.

Now that aside our sexual Orientation works in several ways, some people are highly active sexually simply because their libido level is very high, that is one. Secondly, some people have wide range of sexual fantasies that even their partner can never meet, also some people just like varieties of different sex pattern (bisexual most especially). Some are purely just for adventurous, the act of cheating is the reward rather than the cheating itself. If they could fake it they can even go such extent just to get same drama.

But everything all boils that to self control and using the brain to do thinking rather than acting out of mere emotions and pleasures.

So in-conclusion there is a limit to how much external influences has on cheating, gender isn’t a very big part of them, nor material stuffs, take time to check the character of the person. Most time they choose to act out of primitive nature.

needanswer:
People cheat for many reason, but many ladies cheat because that man has lots of money. You can deny it all you want, still doesnt change the fact.

Cheating is a character. If only you understand then you would stop worrying too much when people cheat.
If cheating ain’t your thing, you wouldn’t be interested too much in it. It could happen but it would be very rare.

needanswer:
SOMETHING DRIVES people into doing those things. For ladies MONEY is the major drive.

if little things could make you do some certain things then it goes to tell you are kinda made for that thing.

Cheating is not easy, trust me, but it isn’t so for people who are made for it, people who are natural cheat do it so easy without too many contemplation. Saying money or materials was the cause is a far cry from reality.

Money and materials are just nothing but spices to make it sweeter

needanswer:
Please dont be in a haste to comment. The inference from this post is men and women are both equally responsible when it comes to cheating and MONEY is majorly the root cause.

No that isn’t the inference. He was trying to connect two things that aren’t.
No one is causing anyone to do anything.

Everyone love bad things. We won’t just accept it. Cheating is something adventurous and human love it.

Call boys out or girls out is not addressing the issues in anyway.

needanswer:
Their are many reasons why guys cheat, but the number one reason for me is because THEY HAVE LOTS OF MONEY TO SPEND.

Most ladies LOVE MONEY because they love having ALL THE MATERIAL THINGS that money can buy.

If you have money, you can Cheat with almost any girl you like without saying a word or even much.

So I mistakenly horned while in a campus environment, I was in a nice SUV, belongs to my family and a group of beautiful ladies in front came and asked if I was calling either of them, I replied no. Some of them couldn't hide their disappointment and it was even in the afternoon and not evening. I came to pick up my sister from her hostel that day.

Truth is even if I was calling them, at that moment they dont care my relationship status- infact most dont want to even know. Truth is no guy could drive that SUV and still be single. He must have a girlfriend, a wife, is a gay or if he truly is single he must either be a priest or totally despise women. So those girls never truly cared about my relationship status and yes I am not single.

So as long as most girls are materialistic and love the latest iPhones, wears, makeup, hairs, bags, shoes, you name it -CHEATING WILL ALWAYS EXIST.

Those goodies wont buy themselves unless with MONEY, and even the few girls that have money like my sister, DONT LIKE TO SPEND THEIR OWN MONEY MOST OF THE TIME. THEY PREFER DAD'S OR MOM'S MONEY OR BIG BRO'S MONEY.

Cheating isn't men's fault alone, women are very much involved and are enablers. If most girls can reject materialistic things, cheating in our society will greatly reduce.

Stop blaming gender for cheating baba... what is wrong with you all??

“So as long as most girls are materialistic and love the latest iPhones, wears, makeup, hairs, bags, shoes, you name it -CHEATING WILL ALWAYS EXIST. “

This quote is only sensible if we have more lesbians but hopefully we don’t.

Check the dictionary for the word consensual and after than check for the word Transactional.

You will see there are two side of same coin, there is no master an slave. They simply agreed to do and so it happened

ugom123:
Thank you brotherly.so grateful that someone showed interest to help me. Pls, can I add you on WhatsApp?

0 eight 1 72 eight 3 three zero 7 3

ThugBoy:
And she dey call them round, wetin u go buy give me as birthday gift. Maybe one of the client na Chairman of Keke park

hehehehhe

happybee:
Who are these fans abeg?
Where them dey gather do meetings?
I'm not understanding!
Every time, fans do this fans do that.
Don't they have a life?

we need to know the type of fan

stupidmod4:
ANYWAY , ARE YOU A MUSIC ARTIST? CHECK MY SIGNATURE

werey

ugom123:
Any help here please, will really appreciate. Been on this for more than 15 hours

I have written and animated two images and text tags using Css keyframe animation.

So, I want to be able to control these same animations using Javascript via two buttons I already created. I have researched and researched, can't solve this logic.

The animation I did via css keyframe happened this way:

When you load the page, the first image slide in from left, stayed for few seconds and slide out via left and the second image slide in and remained on the page. The texts tags animated for each of the images.

Now, I want to be able to use the buttons to slide the images in and out after the css animations have completed. Help me, pls if you can. Thanks

You’re talking of event. Attach an event listener to the button.

Create a function to do what you want,
Create an event listener

So your codes go like this

function doTheAmination(){
}


myButton.onclick => should call doTheAnimation

McLizbae:
I still insist: Bro Adesanya was way above his league. He took the challenge out of his weight's category and straight to the very champion of the higher weight (not even one of the underdogs in the higher weights category o).

Thank God he loss here, else he may go ahead and even out of the UFC to challenge AJ and one punch fit be my brother's funeral

Haba a whole Joshua. Na die be that one na

ShadowCracker:
I saw this question on Twitter, it was quite controversial so I have decided to bring it here .

8 / 2 (2 + 2).

Order of Operations
1. Perform all calculations within parentheses and other grouping symbols
following the order listed in Steps 2–4 below, working from the innermost
pair of grouping symbols to the outermost pair.
2. Evaluate all exponential expressions.
3. Perform all multiplications and divisions as they occur from left to right.
4. Perform all additions and subtractions as they occur from left to right.

O1 : (2 + 2) = 4.
O3 : 8 / 2 (4) => 8 / 2 * 4 => 4 * 4 => 16.

At O3: I know some people will get 1, it is wrong .
8 / 2 (4) => 8 / 8 => 1 -------------- wrong.
Evaluation is from left to right.
The only scenario you will get 1 is if it is structured this way => 8 / ( 2 * (4) ).

In my opinion, 16 is the right answer, not 1, I would like to see other mathematicians' opinions on this.

cc: Martinez39s Mrshape luv2rolly Kylekent59 donaytexx1 stanliwise.

I think the answer should be 16
8 / 2(4) = 4(4) = 16

Also the answer could also be 1
8 / 8 = 1

It all boils down to how we write and how we communicate, this really has nothing to do with right or wrong answer, both answers are correct based on their interpretations, but in modern mathematics where we have clearly defined our mode of operation.
When someone in modern days gives you a calculation of 8/2(4), then simply assume you were told (8/2)(4) rather than 8/(2(4)).

seunny4lif:
https://student.computing.dcu.ie/~ca106-133/index.html
Must of everything was done by me
Our 100L first semester project

Looks clean, although not responsive. It doesn’t look well on mobile

Slimslimqq:
like u said I don't know much about her but I was only worried the kinda life she's living and I decided to help her leave the hell fire, atleast with the little her offered her in Lagos, she can finally stand her ground in years to come rather than risking her life with a Yahoo boy

You actually had good intentions but remember

"Love is gonna get you killed,
Pride would be your death" - Kendrick Lamar

Not wanting to show love (pride) is death itself but also
showing love is a very risky thing and could kill you also, it is only better than pride because there is chance it could turn out positive, which was what you wanted.

Next time be realistic with the love you show, let people prove their worth before you press the pedal. Helping her with 1k as a stranger was fine.
But advising her about her yahoo boyfriend and saving up money for her with little or no information was a very big risk, I am happy you didn't go further than this before things turn sour

@Slimslimqq
Not everyone is good.
Also nice gesture are also a risk. it is a risk to act nicely, so you took the risk and then you lost.
it is part of life.

But my advice to you is this, next time help people with value.
From your story, the girl was only lacking money. You never mentioned places she has value except you mentioned she has a skill.

But at no point did you know anything about her kind of person. she was a complete stranger and you went in all out to place huge expectation on stranger.
Money was fine,
Advice her was going to a risky stretch
Saving up on hunger was going beyond normal

YOu actually acted abnormally in hope good things would come out, infact I am happy she left your over Samaritan attitude early enough. Else the disaster would have been much more painful

In other words,
"when dealing with strangers, always expect strange behaviours" - Stanliwise

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

Prolly she is following the advice her mom gave her but in an over sabi manner.
You said you have told her what you want and she says no.
Then simply move on

vybzkartel:
She is actually Asking that I call her

call her at your own time!, speak like normal, it is one of the naughty thing everyone do.
It won't take anything from you and it doesn't make you less of anything, just do it when you feel like.

But solve the real problem, get a happy life.