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vybzkartel:
I get this lady I proposed love to, but she said I give her time. Yet, we spoke and messaged a lot. She was sending me her pictures a lot even when I did not ask. Sometimes videos, I would ask about my proposal and she will say I give her time. I once visited her (she is in a different state) and she took me out, we spent the whole day together and took pictures. Years later, she asked if I got the pictures but I had lost them.

Now here is the problem:

Barely a year will not go pass and she will DM me with the message that I should call her since she has lost my contact. She has done the about four times in the past. It's been months since we spoke and she has just DM me that she has lost my contact again and that I should call her.

If u were me, would u call her again?
What does this girl want?

Thank u

Let her know you are a moving train.
To her you seem like a dead old train who need her as an engine to make the move.

What else, giver her the number, the number ain't the problem, the fact she knows that no girl can help your career is the reason for her repetitive behaviour.

PrimadonnaO:
It's cheaper for single individuals who don't eat heavily.

For people who eat lightly once or twice daily, buying out might be cheaper... but only in comparison to local bukaterias.

If they want to eat from places like Mega Chicken, The Place or Radisson Blu, then of course cooking is way more affordable.

Who the hell wanna eat everyday in Raddison blu? or Mega Chicken. Those should be on occasions.

AdolfAboki:
She's just a minor.. Too bad the perverted farmer mistook her for a hoe...

But Nigeria go better...

What sort of sympathetic statement is this?
You and your cohort will all rot in hell and bitterness

Martinez39s:
This has nothing to do with red pill or gender war. If you are a decent human being, you will readily shun any mindset or thought processes that marginalize certain victims because of their gender.

The OP wrote with the implied presumption that paedophiles are males and little girls are their victims. This is wrong. Male paedophiles can also prey on little boys, and female paedophiles do prey on little boys and girls. My point is female paedophiles should be recognized and condemned as male paedophiles, and little boys who are victims of paedophilia shouldn't be ignored.

If I create such a thread, I will never imply that only females are paedophiles and only little boys are victims. Also, I wouldn't imply that anyone pointing out that little girls can be victims and men can be paedophiles are misandrists/feminists.

I rest my case with you.

No No No! it has everything to do with gender war..

OP did not at any point infer or suggest, neither did he disagree that paedophiles do not hunt for young boys. So I don't see where the argument could have started. You just from nowhere want to hijack the discussion into gender war as you and your likes has always been doing all over the thread.
Anyway suite yourself.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
He is a pussy ass niggarr......real niggarrrz don't cry

In a situation like this ...a real niggarrr relate the news to the rest of his real niggarrrrs.....those ones will console him by booking hotel for him......arrange some paid runs babe for him, supply him with enough bottles and weed


Then his real niggarrrrs will put head together to make sure the father of thier niggarrr is buried....
Probably on the day of the burial...every niggarrr bring out his glk, benz, lexus, voltron

Funny enough you ain’t a real niggar.
Real niggarrr don’t call others out
Atleast not like you

SegFault:
Bros, the misogyny on social media is terrible.

Funny enough most are just stunt men, in reallfe they could be as docile and reserved than a sheep

Martinez39s:
The topic is about paedophiles and it implies that only female kids are victims. Little boys have been documented to be victims of paedophilia, do they not matter as well?

Cut the stunt already. I know who you’re and what you’re about.

Simply create a thread for young boys and we would comment.

Coldie:
The kind of people who do that you won't find them on nairaland

So you now have a way of tracking them right?

ShadowCracker:
Why is the topic about young girls not about young children ?.
Is it only girls that can be defiled or you guys just don't care if it was boys that were defiled, simply because your darling women are the culprit.

Double standards at it's best it can only come from a sissy man, little wonder manipulative women are exploiting it to the fullest.

Bully on Nairaland has twisted your mind. Please cut the stunt already.

From young girls we have gotten to manipulative women and sissy men.

Is it not clear this Redpill thing is making you act a little Mad??

stonemasonn:
As long as the girl has grown breast and can carry a child it is not abnormal, it is actually in our primitive nature...it goes down to the beginning of our very existence.

Don't get me wrong, I am not an advocate for child marriage and molestation...but it is very hypocritical of us to deride older ladies, calling them evening newspaper, Olympus have fallen etc...or attack women with breast or buttocks or skin stretching surgeries.

You choose one, round lemon/mango breast and be called a pervert and rapist or Olympus have fallen and have peace of mind, no hypocrisy.

Geta fûck out here. Premitive kill you there.
You are not primitive anymore and our society don’t support many of our primitive nature. So calm down.

Long ago people kill others for trivial things like sex, food and space. But now Goan try it and use primitive to defend yourself

Martinez39s:
Why do you think little girls are the only victims of paedophilia? Why imply that paedophiles are males? Were you not kept abreast of the paedophilic scandal in the Catholic Church in which a lot of boys were discovered to have been repeatedly abused by Catholic priests?

You’re digressing, the topic as explained above talked about young girls

MufasaLion:
Leave that stupid H.O.E.

Two people where having consensual sex and at the end the day it was the lady that became the hoe

Or am I missing something?

DonSmith123rr4:
So i met this babe in January 2020, we started getting along, she visited and went but in March during Covid 19 Lock-down, i told all my staff to work from home which most of them ignored. She came visiting and due to the lock-down locked down with me. She began to assist me in some works like taking calls, sending mails and so many, then I realized that she had talent in customer care and gave her job in my company as a customer care support. Meanwhile she had a job that was paying her 55k as a chef but i offered her 70k then she accepted.

Then i noticed she doesn't want to go back to her sister's house where she used to stay but i let her live with me because she was adding value by working with me not just the girls kind of occupying a man's house. Along the stay i saw her pushing in love and to become more than what we were, i decided to confirm her genotype before i could reciprocate since am AS and must settle with AA to avoid SS saga, but disappointingly her result came out AS as well . I tried all my best for her to see reasons why we can't be together as husband and wife but she refused to take it referring back to our parents who got married without knowing their genotype and still lived fine.

Well we continued staying together and me pretending like i was happy because she's really doing her job in my office. Whenever we are mating, she complains that condom is painful and going fresh then pulling out to cum is maltreating her cos that is when she cums too and enjoys it more (wahala). Truth be told, we aborted twice till the 3rd time when we found out about an unborn baby genetic test which cost 300k to confirm the genotype of your baby.

Meanwhile before the 3rd pregnancy, i had to get her a conducive and luxury mini flat of 700k with total package of 1.3millions just for us to keep distance and for her to find a suitable AA suitor but shockingly, i never knew she was pregnant and decided to keep it to her self but surprisingly scan confirmed the baby's heartbeat stopped at 8 weeks which means the baby is dead and needs evacuation. We evacuated the baby last week and she as been acting weird because i have been denying her sex.
Flashback to December 2020, i increased her salary from 70k to 100k starting January 2021 based on her new position as the company HR. Due to the stress and expenses getting her an apartment and furnishing it plus she has been spending from me on 100% of her personal expenses including tfare to work since we were still together before she moved to her apartment, I decided to pay her 50% of her january salary (50k) but shockingly to me she went gaga saying i have to pay her full payment and when i refused, she tendered a resignation letter.

Please I am yet to respond to her resignation letter because I am confused. WHAT DO YOU THINK

1. Sell my ego and plead with her which i believe is what she wants but the aftermath result wont be funny.
2. Accept her letter and retrieve all i got her from the apartment, interiors, phones, laptops, human hairs, designers, etc
3. Accept and let everything go

Let everything go for good. Withheld nothing
You only need to learn your lessons. Meanwhile you created your own problem.

You’re a Drama king

Adakintroy:
Ideological feminism is different from actual feminism.

Ideological feminism is strenght of the "fem" (You get) in opposition's to"

While actual feminism is a complementary position of the "fem" in relations to "

How is this related to this topic

Bar1941:
FEAR FEMINISTS

Are you not afraid of your ignorance?

Naso mtchwww

maureensylvia:
They are just fortunate tonight nothing much

same till we win the cup

Dissap:
Yo Hommies!
Who have noticed this about nigerian girls? Those ones with small/average packages tends to be more brilliant and intelligent than the ones with big packages.
Is this a fact or not?

What is your definition of intelligence?

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

your wife is not your mother and your mother is not your wife.
Both can’t really advice you on how to love the other.
A word is enough for the wise

Karleb:
This is strange.

Have you sent paystack a mail about it?

Are you using the sandbox account or the real account?

Maybe you don't quite get how paystack calculates it values in Naira and Kobo.

in paystack wallet?

Slimdan360:
house pls I need your help on this one,there's a girl in my church that I always catch staring at me and each time our eyes meet,she just stylishly looks away,am an introvert and starting conversations with people is one of my cons,but I think I have fallen for this girl. she works in an hair salon and today I just walked up to her and asked if they sell her products and her reply was no,then I walked away,if only I could be friends with this girl then I can continue from there but establishing the friendship is the main problem and I want to do this without making a fool of myself because I kinda hold myself in high esteem,pls I need ur help guys.
@HARDDON pls I need ur help

meet a dating expert

Fuckyoumod:
As wicked and heartless as her father.

How can you steal such amount of money at a time Nigerians are begging and managing to feed and live.
Poverty and hunger inflicted by your useless father.

There is no good time to steal public fund. You get that?

HypeManIsaac:
Please i really need help because I'm very confused right now.

I've been dating this girl now for 6 months now, she doesn't work and she's kind of lazy. I take care of most of her bills and stuffs. The 2 phones she's using, i bought it for her. Recently she came to my house and i tried calling her phone to see what she saved my number as, to my greatest surprise she didn't even save it at all, not even on the second phone, like she doesn't have my number saved on both phones.

When i confronted her, she first said she had issues on the phones so she cleared all her contacts and since then she haven't saved anyone's contact, she later said there's no need saving my contact because she memorized it and can call it any day any time.

We had issues and she angrily left my house and ever since then she has refused to apologize saying that she did nothing wrong to apologize to me.

Please what do i do now? I really love this girl and for the time we've been together i can see she loves me too.

You’re taking her too serious. Meanwhile it was petty you have to make her apologize for not saving up your name on her phone. SMH

You paid her two month bills and bought her phone, now what has she done to deserve that kind of treatment? Did she earn it in anyway? If yes then you wouldn’t be insecure about her not saving your number, you would instead think of all the things she has done and why she deserve your money and time.

But with the way it is going, it seem you did those spending out of false sense of responsibility, now you’re feeling she owes you something due to your spending spree..... watch it bro.

Get your principle right bro.

9jaRealist:
The US government did not “discover” nor fund Zuckerberg or other successful entrepreneurs...
Ordinary PRIVATE individuals (either through VCs, equity funds, etc.) provided the capital and took the risks.



Government does NOT “create jobs” in advanced nations, the PRIVATE sector does...
Government’s role should be limited to good policies and staying out of the way (the so-called “enabling environment”).
>

Government promoted their big industry is what I said.

I never said Government create jobs.

Your last quote, how many part of Africa is it happening?

You really should info yourself about the role of government. They are to create a secure and enabling environment.

“Secure and enabling” did you read that clearly?

Queenlovely:
While I was doing my doctorate at Leeds university,I noticed Nigerians always make first class, while the white kids just wanted a result.

That is why all our politicians kids studying abroad cannot make an impact on society with their expensive education. They will still come back to Nigeria to drag government work with ordinary folks

This stupid Nigerian man thinks white babes will flock around him if he was a first class product, but the white Chicks don't care about first class

What they wanted was a man with chuzpah and daring, risk taker, a solution finder. That is why I am strongly against these idea of celebrating first class.

What is the need of buying something you will never use, what is the need of acquiring expensive education when you will still end up as a POS terminal operator.

All your focus is just to get a job, that is why job is scarce. 10million people are struggling for 1,000 jobs.

What separates you from the illiterate if you will still come back to work under an illiterate.

Why haven't the African continent produced inspiring Entrepreneurs like Zuckerberg? because they are just focused on the short term.

What you’re asking for is quite complicated, not celebrating first class too much is something I quite agree to an extent but as for the young man getting his first class. What else can he do? It is a good thing for him to achieve and probably the only tangible goal in site.

Meanwhile as for the mark Zuckerberg of Africa generation, please forget it, Africa as a continent has not its environment to discover it entrepreneurs. Is it with our corrupt practices and gross mismanagement we want to promote industry to the world. Or do you think USA didn’t have a hand in help most of their big industry to the world?

It is not about the entrepreneurs now in Nigeria, it is about having a thriving environment which is almost not visible right now in Nigeria.

The paradox in the programming industry.
coding that feed you to be sincere takes time. And there is a big lie out there on the internet.

No one, I repeat, no one ever becomes financially stable by being a web developer or a programmer overnight, In fact most people who comes to YouTube to tell this story are basically nothing but marketers, marketing their content, most of the have no clue about he situation you are in and really have no practical advise for your situation ATM , you spend alot of time on their content, getting mesmerized and feeling happy. But when you're on your own, you have just no clue on how to move ahead.

You-Tubers, Bloggers, speakers and eBook sellers. In case you started web dev and you haven't started cashing out quickly, it is entirely normal and nothing is wrong with you.

Some Google genius you see today, coding big apps at 21, many of them started learning how to code from age 5, 7, 11 and it means they have been in the game for about 10 - 15 years just being at 21. You need to understand the implications.

Cashing out don't have to take so long every-time but you need just a lot of experience, after learning how to code, you need to also learn the experience of how to code a working application. In fact in most cases you need not code most part of the application, you only need to specialize in one part. The journey is not that straight forward but it is not as just so easy nor it is too difficult beyond reach. it has a process and if you don't follow the process then you may never fit in.

chatinent:
You:

Stop sexting with random girls.


Wake up.

Build your life bro. How can you be financially unstable and yet be talking about marriage...and when you are rejected, you quickly shelter your handicaps under the guise of the generic no-money-no-love junk so the court of public opinion can support your motion?



Who is deceiving who really?


Because a popular quote supports what you have in mind doesn't make both you and the author reasonable.


Besides, there are numerous girls who are mature and understand what true love is. Stop searching for gold in a refuse bin.
Her:
Sb who hasn't sent you money has no right to call you stingy.

Her sorts are usually lazy and feeling entitled to things she cannot afford.

Well, that's what a flirtatious guy will also come across; a girl who needs the legal tender for any chat services she offers.




Verdict: Both of you need to get a life.


Sorry, I don't mince words.

You are welcome.

Have a nice century.

Nailed it.

jbbalarabe:
Meet Sa'adatu Aliyu, founder of Shamrock Innovations, Women Youth-Centric Tech Innovation Hub in Kano, has developed an android application 'Helpio App' for reporting cases of Sexual abuse.

She said she acquired IT skills from her brother and subsequently became a self-taught developer

Amazing

Venzee:
Please, help know how this site looks
What should I put or remove

Just review and rate please
Thank you!.

Link : http://smarthack.club

The sliders are too fast Haba.

Meanwhile The slider text are kinda centered. It should just be defaults

I don’t think you have touched the SEO

lapo:
Hello all, please I can't pinpoint what I am getting wrong here. Someone help please.

public class Myclass{
public static void main(String [] args){
Inventory.trophy = new Inventory();
trophy.getlastbalance();
//Inventory.goldberg = new Inventory();


trophy.name = "trophy";
trophy.initialbalance = 20;
trophy.bought = 40;
trophy.sold = 10;
System.out.println("Stock of Trophy is "+ trophy.getlastbalance());

/*goldberg.initialbalance = 10;
goldberg.bought = 24;
goldberg.sold = 10;
System.out.println("Stock of Goldberg is "+ goldberg.getlastbalance());
*/
}
}

public class Inventory{
String name = "trophy";
int initialbalance;
int bought;
int sold;


public int getlastbalance(){
return (initialbalance + bought - sold);

//System.out.println("Stock of Trophy is "+ trophy.getlastbalance());
}


}

Show your imports, what the heck is trophy?
Is it an object?