₦airaland Forum

seizethaBae:
I don't even know where to start or how to explain what my problem is, hopefully i get lucky for the 'problem' to be 'diagnosed'. I'm a 27yrs old lady, finished university very very early and i've been extremely lucky with almost everything in life, but to get a suitor and settle down na palava. Friends/family members keep saying I'm too choosy or not serious.

Honestly, I AM NOT choosy. When the one thing i fast/pray for is for God to link me with the bone of my bone very soon, I even gave up my travelling plans in order to increase my chances of finding a future patner (i know you can meet ur patner anywhere, but na just to shut up people wey don tink say i no dey serious), a close friend even suggested i pend my 'work-from-home business', look for job so i can be leaving the house, and i got lucky within a month or two of dusting my CV i got a fantastic high paid job with no connection (honestly i've always been so lucky when i ask God for anything but i have no idea why he is delaying this). I just dont know how to explain it, the ones i like doesnt like me and the ones i dont have single feelings for will do anything to wife me. I'm not desperate or something, i just want to reach out if I'm the only one having this problem.

There was even a time i made up my mind to accept an ex proposal even tho i have no single feeling for him, i kept hoping/fasting/praying for a miracle to happen so i can at least like him (even if its 20%) bcus hes just too PERFECT, but it didn't just happen. My type of man doesnt need to be extremely rich, tall, handsome like most ladies dream man. He should just be neat, God fearing and have something upstairs biko (i love intelligent guys). Back to the main reason why i created this post; Married women/mature lady out there, has this ever happen to you? I really envy people that love their partners and they are loved back equally. Married women, please, I'm waiting to hear from you.

And for most people that will think I'm looking for a rich guy, believe me i once met a guy that was willing to sponsor my M.Sc in UK if i can be his Mrs, but i will never engage in anything that will bring curse on my head. So my problem is not even money. I'm so sick and tired

Bambita:
I don't even know whether I should be happy or sad.. I m just indifferent about this news.. I am scared of resuming because of how inconsiderate and wicked my lecturers are. I m heavily pregnant and I know the pressure will be much on me. When I was ready they didn't call off the strike. So many questions lurking in my mind, I just got a new job in another state.. how do I navigate all these with my condition and my toddler.. God..

OgbeniOja1:
Who said?? We are getting our salary arrears plus increment. Strike is the only thing govt listens to.

Prettygirl200:
He didn't state it that way? Did he say he was heartbroken? I have experienced same from your gender too at this my age. When I made a thread about it I didn't insult or call men names I only let out my pain. So why is reverse the case when it comes to u guys

Wealthbrain22:
Have you people ever asked yourself that question sincerely? What’s so special about you that makes you think that your so called babe is dating just you? Is it your money or car or house or looks? Why are you special? You think you’re the only one with whatever qualities you think you have ? Bro trust me , 95% of you are in a relationship with yourself or best case scenario you are sharing one girl with at least 5 other guys, take it or leave it.

As for me I have made my peace with this, I don’t expect loyalty anymore, I know that the only time I’m truly with someone is when I make it official between God and man and we get married, till then let the games begin. I never mean what I say to any girl, I don’t love anyone, I’m just flowing with the tides, and I know any girl talking to me now is definitely doing the same and it’s cool.

It’s when you start deceiving yourself that you have found your dream girl and she loves you, that’s when you become the clown. Whatever you have, there are 6 billion guys out there with more, so if that girl isn’t wearing your ring, bro you’re dating yourself or in a polygamous relationship with a girl who has other boyfriends too. Many of you won’t agree but deep down you know your babe has other babes.

Guderian:
Far from the truth. I wont go back and forth with you

I have my taste

Kollins11:
MEN! Try and get yourself a foreign girlfriend when you're ready to mingle. Even if it's a beautiful girl from Bangladesh.

Stay away from Nigerian girls. They are nothing but sex objects and slaves always walking around with overused kpekus and damaged womb.

Foreign girls are hardworking and very supportive.
Nigerian girls are liabilities and very lazy.

LonelyLucifer:
My cup of tea is your hypocrisy all over the education section....

Let me ask you? Is industrial strike constitutional or not?

maryjames9:
Honestly, I wouldn't attend a class that I know an ASUU member is teaching if I were a student. They would simply frustrate students. It is better if FG can find ways to either give them what they want or completely overhaul the system and inject qualified jobless graduates with PhDs. The aluta spirit inside ASUU members is just like a virus which will drain and suffocate life out of our tertiary Institutions coupled with the nonchalant attitudes of our Government officials who don't care about Education or future of Nigeria youths. Nigerians are now in the middle of two big evil. The Federal Government and ASUU.

May God help Nigerian students.

LonelyLucifer:
But you do not wish for your selfish government to be disbanded?

NOETHNICITY:
ASUU is about to be cornered.
As it stands ASUU are left with just 3options; 1, to respect the court and immediately resume academic activities, 2, Or to appeal the ruling at the Supreme Court, 3, Resign from their jobs as lecturers in the federal institutions.

You can’t disregard the ruling of the nations top court, and continue to claim to work as lecturer in an institution owned by the federal government.

Treasuredgift:
But they have not being paid. Consider their families too

faceland:
Nigerians are cruel to orphans. I am sure there is small scale looting going on right now in their home.

Nwaotu10:
The lapee specs you highlighted can't run video editing proficiently.
Video editing needs a high-configuration laptop.
These are the basic specs of lapee for editing
corei5
256 SSD storage capacity
2g NVIDIA or Amd graphics
8gb ram card
2.50 GHz speed
6th gen.
Ok. Mine is for my project. I no dey do pass my sef

Laptop with these above spec is 200k +

Nwaotu10:
He can't use a laptop of 49k for video editing.
It will take him 4 or 5 days to render an hour video if the laptop didn't crash during the process

Zonefree:
Those are not men. Having a gbola doesn't make one a man. It takes more than that.

No real African man will ever kneel to beg a woman to start having babies for him.

Zonefree:
See how the girl distanced her face from the guy's mouth odour. The Mumu SIMP is trying to force a kiss on the fish brain. Onye iberibe!

Mad generation!

mediclife1987:
Clap for yourself.

You've done a great job in ensuring PO surely wins- in your dreams

You guys wo simply turn Nigeria into a comedy theatre should you be allowed to rule this country.


No wonder na una plenty pass that part of the entertainment sector.