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Who said she did

OyinO:
He never raped her

I hope you typed a lengthy reply to educate him otherwise. I am surprised you have a nerve to quote me when you basically do not know that an escort can be raped during the course of her job!

Daboomb:
He made an OBSERVATION, he never said it was a beauty contest.
Is his observation valid?
Is it relevant?
Does it have any correlation with the truthfullness or otherwise, of the allegation ?

These are questions we should, as brilliant minds, be interested-in.
Africans have a tendency to hush that which they dont know nor want to know/discuss.

Do you think it is wise to reduce an allegation because of physical features? Are you also a rapist?

winj3:
why is it that most victims of alleged rape are not good looking?
I mean what state of mind you have to be in to rape a women who is below what you can normally get?

When you contract a carpenter to work on your roof and he refuses to work after payment, do you put a gun to his head to get him to work?

In the western world, a prostitute can accuse you of rape and you can go to jail if convicted whether prostitution is legal or not. If you paid her and she doesn't want to have sex, ask for a refund.

If ou get an escort to have vaginal sex with you. The agreement is vaginal sex. If you decide to have anal sex without her permission, it is rape.

In a country where prostitution is legal like the Netherlands, if your escort does not want to have sex with you, you can ask for a refund or better still, sue her!

However rape is part of the risk of working as a sex worker. It is much haeder to prove lack of consent. It doesn't mean you can get away with it if the odds are against you!

Daboomb:
Escorts (glamourised, paid prostitutes) are women who choss to be paid, to provide sex for Men.
So, if she takes that job, knowing she has to provide "service" (sex) for a fee ........... implying a contract has ensued.

Now, after collecting the money and having sex with the customer, (fulfillment of the contract) , under what conditions can she claim rape, since she cannot refuse performance of the contract and such "performance" is sex?

I want to learn.

You don't really use your brain much, do you?

When did rape become a beauty contest?

winj3:
why is it that most victims of alleged rape are not good looking?
I mean what state of mind you have to be in to rape a women who is below what you can normally get?

Escorts can be raped too

Mandrake007:
This is why I tell my rich guys doing well,Bleep an escort girl instead of a random broad and even if you did,make sure you secretly record the whole thing just in case,if you’re a rich male stay tf away from females,there’s a war going on against men universally,we shouldn’t remain calm,women want to dominate us..

Sexual assalt allegations can easily ruin anyone's image. I can understand celebrities paying hush money to attention seekers and hiring fixers to protect themselves.

Also, we shouldn't be bothered by the accusations of an adult who collected money to keep quiet. Sounds harsh? Yes. It muddles up the affair and greatly diminishe's the severity of the offence. If we continue to take such accusers seriously, they will collect money, sign NDA then come out and tell us how and why they have a change of heart.

onegig:
Are you guys this dumb?

Why would Ronaldo pay her hush money to keep her silent in the first instance and request she signs a non disclosure agreement?

He has been charged with rape previously and at this point I would believe what this lady says over what Ronaldo says.

It is not witch Hunt if she feels still bad and affected by the actions after years. She may have been naive and scared as at then to have signed such but nothing stops her from seeking justice or more money if she feels violated and thinks the more money would soothe the pain she feels.

If Ronaldo didn't want his name all over he should not have gone all the way with her.


Even excerpts from the reveal directly from German DEL Spiegel which is one of the most reputable German newspaper states clearly this.



"That Cristiano Ronaldo hired a team of “fixers”, known as “personal reputation protection specialists” (defendants DOES I-XV and ROE Corporations I-XV, and hereafter referred to as the “team”), to:

Develop and implement a strategy to delay, diminish or eliminate plaintiff’s claim for civil damages arising from the sexual assault on June 13, 2009."


So what in hell are you fan boys trying to label the Lady a gold digger when she was actually raped and Ronaldo did agree she said no at some point?

Sounds like an attention seeker

Those victims of rape must be nuts. Kavanaugh was not accused of rape. There is nothing to prove that he was the one that attempted to rape Ford other than she said he said. Her story's ems credible though but to could have been someone else. She could have remembered things wrongly....memory can be tricky. It happened a long time ago. I doubt if any investigation would help either of them. I feel for Ford but unproven and uncorrobarated accusations should not be enough to ruin other people's lives.

Regardless, I really hope Kavantage is not confirmed sha

Behind the charade of their 'fit and proper' are hypocritical bastards and bunch of corrupt swines

royalads:
LMAO (SMH)
Fear no go let you try this one when being called to the Nigerian Bar. Imagine dancing shaku shaku (or whatever) before the BoBs.... Your OWN don finish be that. Fit and Proper things.

Well, you will also agree with me that all those boys and girls that alleged that they were molested by Catholic priests are all liars and destiny destroyers if this is how you want to play it.

If you don't understand, the least you could do is ask. Victims are scared, they want to forget about the experience not relive it. If they report they are forced to relive it again and again and again until the accused pays for his actions.

We all know that this type of allegations can to be attention seeking from bitter women but in this case, Bill Cosby had already confessed that he drugged women. He had often times told a couple of jokes about it. What more do you want?

sharp2dacore:
Nowadays, rape accusations have become a tool in the hands of women.

I find it really difficult to understand why a lady who lives in a country like America which has too many laws to protect women, will wait for 10 ,20 or 30 years before coming out to accuse someone of rape.

We are talking of America, where a lady can wake up one day and claim that she doesn't like the way a man looks at her with seductive eyes, then the lady will quickly go to court and get a restraining order to prevent the man from looking at her or coming 100 meters near her.

This is the reality in America, and yet some lady will claim that someone raped her 30 years ago and she is now coming out to use the power that have been available to women for many years now. Tell me, which human being will wait for 30 years to report a serious offense.
The usual excuse is that they (ladies) don't want their name/image to spoil, but the truth is this, if they can hold it in for 30 years, then it never happened. Women are emotional and emotional people don't hold stuff in for 30 years.

Many of these rape accusations happen just before a big political appointment or a retirement from a successful career.

Look at the total nonsense that happen on CNN everyday.

If it's not porn star this, it is he touched my boobs and kitten 30 years.

WTF.

Is you kitten and boobs now equal to landed property or Ferrari or what.

Okay, why not report it 20 to 30 years earlier

Okay why not report all you past boyfriends from high school till date for touching you, since your body is now gold and diamonds.

I don't support rape if a man actually committed it, but I won't also support lies, falsehood and frame ups, simply because women know that

people suddenly throw away their senses once they hear the words, "He raped me"

Men should wise up and begin to take serious measures to protect themselves from all these new method of frame up with sex accusations.

Remember that women are greater in number on this planet and a time will come when they will even beg you to take the sex for free.

To all the feminists here on Nairaland, know this, the moment men release the enormous power they have and stop looking at girls, but really focus on improving themselves, then you girls/feminists will realize the painful truth that 1 rich man is worth a thousand girls who will be fight each other for that one made man. Enough said..

When they strike, it is mostly for stupid reasons . Like this NLC strike now.

Some topics though

How did Memory or Mushaf become a debatable topic?

I will MURIC on this!

You would know that he isn't going through this because he is black

You would know that these allegations are from more than 30 women

You would know he also confessed to some of them

sucess001:
what does google have to do with this?

He confessed...what do you have to say about that?

Why do you need to compare it to serial killing? Is it your own way of reducing the severity of his actions? Is that how you justify a serial rapist?

I am glad you think good deeds should prevent a man from facing justice. A crime is a crime. If he were genuinely good, he wouldn't have drugged and raped those women. The court sent him to prison not to death. It is called justice. Old age will not and cannot prevent justice from being served.

Perhaps you should propose to countries to free those criminals because they have done so good.

jaxxy:
People are generally and naturally hypocritically so I can’t blame them when they distance themselves. It’s all about image and self preservation. Nobody wants to identify with u when u fall/fail. It’s normal

As much as u may love to condem this man which I also do bt I don’t love it. I don’t want to go into how Genuine sm of those claims are bt I do know sm people also took advantage of him cos of his position also because I know they are not saints bt nobody talks about that aspect.

He has to pay for his crimes bt I have a right to appreciate his very obvious good deeds also even if sm others choose not to. He wasn’t a serial killer and his crime can be judged with sm leniency.

Not one or two or three or four or five or six women.......


And


He also confessed.

manikspears:
What if it was a lie? Drake just filled a case against a lady who even went as far to say he impregnated her.

Really? You should learn to use Google.

sucess001:
for an 80 year old man. this is dehumanising. he is only going through this because he is black

I will definitely not feel bad for them. He had definitely used his status to affect others negatively. It was a choice not a mistake. It was not A mistake...it was several and several mistakes. Years cannot wash off the sting of his despicable choices. His victims definitely haven't forgotten, why should he?

It is interesting that you have never mentioned anything about those women he drugged and raped. To you, he is the victim because he had helped so many others. I like your reasoning and I hope you can apply same if you are ever faced with what his victims had undergone. Justice must prevail and I am glad it has prevailed.


I hear some institutions he has directly helped couldn't wait to distance themselves from him.Makes me wonder why you are so concerned about a dirty old man?

jaxxy:
Yes I feel bad for him doesn’t mean I approve of his behavior. If sm1 close to u was involved in a crime will u act like u never knew him in ur life?

Bill Cosbys affected millions of people in positive ways also and that will always still stand for him. He made a mistake long ago and is paying for it. He wasn’t a complete menace to the society.

But Lagos state is not Osum state

You feel bad for a rapist abi? Are you one too?

jaxxy:
I feel bad for bill bt the allegations were huge. I hope he gets his sentence reduced cos of his age and sobriety

As if old age should reduce liability. He was accused and convicted of sexual assault and drugging women by multiple women. Fortunately, for them, the old fool also confessed.

Common sense you no get. If dem rape your mother, make you tell am to forget it. Rubbish! You can always volunteer to be his bunkie

Immaculatesnow:
So na women dey carry this molestation for head baa, carry on women you all have succeeded in bringing this old man down

Abegee I want to buy a verified Nigerian AdSense account

This is for Nigerians. We abuse drugs a lot especially pain medications and antibiotics.

It is called life and free market. We would do worse if we're in his shoes.

Ehiscotch:
Zuckerburg is turning social media into his own empire , where he reigns supreme.
His monopolistic style is killing healthy competition and innovation: if he can't buy you over, he steals your ideas and makes whatever made yours attractive, well, less attractive.

Big Ups to the Snapchat dude for not letting Mark completely take over.

In as much as I love Zuckerberg's personality I think he is overreaching, trying to over-achieve. He is trying to make others do what he never did: sell his creation.

I disagree. Animal protein is expensive in Nigeria. People don't eat that much meat that often. Bloated tummy is a result of over eating, too much carbs, genetics, preganncy and alcohol. Why also does fitness instructors recommend lots of protein?

Yes. I will let my pregnant neighbour breastfeed my baby if need be. Actually, do you know that some mothers donate breastmilk and also that it is possible to buy breastmilk? Do you also know that in some cultures, they have the Wet nurses who breastfeed other people's children?


Your experience with diary does not translate to milk is bad or don't drink cow''s milk etc etc. We are in the 21st century, people are beginning to develop intolerance to a lot foods including potatoes. Stop reading conspiracist articles. Milk is a source of protein and it is good for growing children and it can also contribute to an adult daily protein intake.

Bitterleafsoup:
You get a test done. I was having skin blemishes and went abroad just to take test and found out it was dairy products.
Those bloated tummies that most 9ja pple sport is from meat and dairy consumption in fact over consumption.

Would you let your pregnant neighbor breast feed your own baby.

Cow milk is for calves to grow up and be big cows
If you give another animal's milk to a goat or puppy they will be throwing up diarrhea etc ;
Humans are weirdos.
That can crap is not milk anywho.

90%? How did you come up with that? How come people don't know when milk affects them? Last I recalled a good number of Africans were consuming milk and its derivatives before colonialism.

Bitterleafsoup:
Don't. We as Africans are 90% lactose intolerance and most people don't know.

I was really curious when I read Dano filled mik ingredient list. Why on earth would you add fat or oil to an already skimmed milk. When I want skimmed milk, I want skimmed milk. If I wanted full cream, I know he difference.

I will not trust their full milk either.

Have you gotten an employment letter?

Have you spoken to the HR personnel of that company with the email or phone number provided on the website?

Have you confirmed that the job link is not a scam?

Have you confirmed if that company and link actually exist?


It is suicidal to leave your family and a well paying job only to be stranded or trafficked.

donsiqua:
Thank you sir
I have a great relationship with my parents but they have there fears- that I may go there and not return and worst still marrying a white woman lol
I have tried to convince them but to no avail