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Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww Idris Elba pic needs to be removed and the twerking gifs as well. *Yuck*

Awww, these stories touch the heart. I've never witnessed such in my life. Hope that day never comes.

Nothing wrong in being a virgin, let me just make that clear. Left to me everyone should be virgins before marriage.
But I question a society that promotes virginity in females, but the males are encouraged to hound the females until they give it up . That to me is counterproductive.
It's either we are all held to the same standards of being virgins or we get rid of the whole system.

Ishilove:
What?!?

It's funny o. Oliver the coque, hahaha, your brother rocks abeg, that's a good one.

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I've only been close to one pregnant aunt. She had always been nice prior pregnancy and she did not change one bit.

Ishilove:
You should see my chin now. Mum says it is "nkriki-nkriko". Bumps, zits, ingrown hair and other nasties. So rough.

I don't allow most peeps touch my chin because I don't want them to feel the sharp edges of the biabia. Except my mum and sibs, when they want to inspect the beard. Bro calls my enemy 'Oliver de Coque', and threatens to rub hair fertiliser on my chin when I'm sleeping. Lol

My admirers and toasters alike have no issues with the biabia. I'm very hairy, so it isn't a surprise that the hair extended to my chin. Mum says "whoever will like you will like you, biabia or not." Even my eyebrows sef can plait shuku and base. It seems God gave me all the hair on the production line that day. Smh. God is great

Lollllll.

Kanwulia:
I am not quite there yet, but watching my "Eastern-Blooded" mom do battle with MANY RAZORS!
I see a few "pluckable" FEATHERS on my chest and chin(toto bia-bia no count o ). . . .SO, I PLUCK AWAY!!!!
Beware of BLACK HEADS! Don't try waxing if you have ELEPHANT GRASS as mOIStache on your chin, lip and chest o!!!!
NA DIE!!!!!!

Buhahaha!!!!!!!!!!

Haaa, the Igbo curse. I guess it means having more testosterone. More testosterone, more sex.ual prowess, stamina, flexibility, action, power, etc . If you dunno ask Jennykadry.

EfemenaXY:
Preach it sister!

I even got told once, "You can't marry your father o!"

I've luuurrrvvveed that man to bits!

Yes! I appreciate him every day after reading posts from people whose fathers allowed their mum to suffer, age before her time and pass it off as 'African culture' with the intention to continue the tradition of frustrating the unsuspecting girl they marry. No wonder African women have this stern look on their faces.

iykedare:
busted! you are not nice at all.


who is that nkem?



so you are not fine...

You wish!

Mandume:
Race loyalty is what got white people where they're at today (that's why they created the one-drop doctrine, so they didn't have to give their inheritance to black folks), so there's nothing wrong with that at all. In fact, it's common sense if you value your culture.

Tell that to the birds. I'm a realist. The black male d1ck can never ever be loyal to his race or culture. It is a wanderer and is determined in populating the earth with other races. Every black woman should know this. There is something absurd in a culture where only the females are bent on preserving it by insisting on only procreating with their men while the men don't show a preference for their own. Statistically, this does not favor these women because the numbers to pair these women up are not there, and you have a dating pool that is constrained, limited to a few numbers. Common sense should prevail over loyalty.

An0nimus:
Lol Stillfire. GMAT won't be so bad. Whoever scores higher in the test gets to pay the bride/groom price and all the other perks. After the wedding that person is then crowned 'Head'

Exactlyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

moca:
A virgin guy better come up with his own testimony abi is it reserved to women alone?
Baba with two wives will still be looking for a virgin to marry as third.

Buhaha, I cannot be fooled by all this. You cannot promote female virginity, while the other half of the human species does everything within his power to take the virginity from you and is even praised for it. Totally flies over my head.

In fact churches or courts should begin aptitude tests to test the leadership skills of any couple about to be married.
It should no more be an automatic ticket based on the length of a sexu.al organ. Because time has shown a particular gender has ABUSED the position of leadership. The rest of the human population has to be protected from such tyrannical elements.

The one who is capable and has shown to possess leadership qualities should lead. But I know logic is not one of Nigerians strongest forte, so it would be hard to understand this.

I would be more impressed if the guy was a virgin.

This is the kind of sentiments the emotional masculinist entitled divas of NL want to use to avoid doing work in the home and gullible unintelligent women will fall for this crap. This is why they want their wives to suffer, run around like a headless chicken and continue being the entitled brats they are, because their mothers did the same.
Times have freaking changed and every damn hand must be on deck in rearing a child and doing house work.
I honor both of my parents, but I prefer my fatherrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!! Whipping up the typical sentiments of how you pushed in the labor room has never worked on me. I'm a practical person, sentiments don't work on me.
Daddy's girl times a million in the house!!!!!!!!!!!

Meaning:
Gender equality, also known as sex equality, gender egalitarianism, sexual equality or equality of the genders, refers to the view that men and women should receive equal treatment, and should not be discriminated against based on gender, unless there is a sound biological reason for different treatment.

People who don't believe in the above should be burnt on a stake. They are not fit to live in this century.

5minsmadness:
Took you a while to return with a fitting comeback. Guess you had to rap your head pretty hard to come up with this one.
If anyone is being emotional here miss, its you. A lady states very clearly her stand on a particular issue and instead of taking it for what it is you resort to misinterpreting her statement to calm your frayed nerves.

You were the one who brought up the 'she inferred women are inferior to men' thing to whip up sentiment. My dear omotola said nothing of the sort. She simply stayed that men and women are not equal and you came out with guns blazing, citing Google/Wikipedia to try and bring the successful, popular and I might add well liked actress to your side. When that didn't work you resorted to trying to call her unintelligent.
Sounds emotional to me.

Men and women are not equal.
You cannot have two captains on a plane.
A team can have only one leader.
A home can have only one head- the man.
That doesn't make the woman inferior, but she is definitely not the head.
Its that simple.

Absolute rubbish! This guy defies logic over and over again. Men and women are not equal and you think you don't infer that this creates an imbalance and puts a gender at the forefront at the detriment of the other? Do you just choose not to understand logic? Really what did you study in school I seriously need to gauge your intelligence. Only stu.pid, unintelligent women will fall for this crap.

A fitting comeback? I've not even started with you.

lightoftruth:
Marriage is not an option but breeding is a sure thing . Out of thousands of shallow minded girls like you out there I will pick one, get her pregnant she will bring out several little me, that will in future pick any of your unsuspected daughter and get her pregnant thereby creating more me....kill yourself if it pains you... You and I know it's a reality.

Buhaha you still want to breed with something as shallow as myself? What does that say of you? So the itch in your groin must be scratched whether you hate women or not.

5minsmadness:
Sigh.

You are extrapolating. [b]Inferior is a far more unacceptable word than less[/b]. But anyway, show me where she said a woman is less than a man in terms of less being inferior.

Again only unintelligent women will nitpick every spoken word to see if an offence has been committed. Bitter people. Always so bitter and old and single ,

Don't tell me you are using emotions to argue. This is logic. When you infer an inequality, there is an imbalance that places one at an esteemed edge over the other. If you cannot understand that, go dust your primary 1 exercise books.
So less is a better adjective to inferior? Buhahaha. You really must think you are talking to your ten ten girls and boys.

5minsmadness:
Fixed.

There are a lot of decent girls out there bro. Most of them however are too busy doing one thing or the other to come online.

Buhaha. I don't know why you guys bother us. When there are millions of Nigerian girls desperate for marriage, busy
praying and waiting on their lords and masters to show up. Why is it the ones on NL you keep bothering yourselves about? Feminism is here to stay! Ain't going back, rotflmao!

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The future wives of Nairaland men, waiting on the Lord.

lightoftruth:
If really u meant what you said, your type of girls is the reason why I don't want to marry and sadly 95% of present day girl are like you. SMH

Please don't marry. It is also important you don't breed as well so as not to continue the cycle of unleashing bratty entitled boys into the society to frustrate the life of my unsuspecting daughters all because of marriage.

5minsmadness:
So in other words you are saying Nigerian girls in primary school are stupid? I don't think so.



Once again, her words:






She simply explained it based on the way she saw society (especially women) interpreting it. I see you quickly browsed Google to get the definition of gender equality, however the way you women portray it and carry on about it is not in any way reflective of the definition. You ladies feminists throw it in the face of every and any man the moment you want things to go your way. If a woman hits a man the man should be understanding, if a man hits a woman he should be crucified. Feminist hypocrisy has been their worst enemy since inception.




You are the one bringing deciet into this matter. Show me where she said a woman was inferior to a man.

Intelligent women will see the wisdom in what she has said and use it to their advantage in managing their lives and their homes. Unintelligent women will keep being bitter and single and seeing attacks where there is none.

Again logic!
You don't believe in gender equality, so you believe in a dynamism where one is unequal to another.
What does an inequality mean, something is greater than or less than something.
When something is greater than something it posits a sign of superiority over the other. So that leaves the other as inferior.
Again only unintelligent people will fall for this crap to continue the abuse of power by patriarchy.

See Joke Silva with much more stellar career and much more longer marriage, if not the longest marriage in nollywood

"I'm Not A Cooking Kind Of Woman & My Husband Is Fine With It' - Nollywood Actress, Joke Silva

http://www.naij.com/66593.html

The couple who have been married for 28 years are still very much in love and have remained inseparable.

Veteran actress, Joke Silva in a recent interview with City People magazine talks about why she doesn’t like cooking and how her husband doesn’t mind someone else cooks for him.

“I have never lied about this, I have never been ‘a doing the cooking kind of woman’. When my husband met me, he knew. He was the one who used to do the cooking because he is good at it. I used to do the cooking when I felt like. Sometimes, it comes out to be a huge success and sometimes a failure. Some years ago, I cooked vegetables and it was terrible and my husband is such a gem, he ate it like that. It is not as if my mum didn’t teach me.

For my husband, cooking is a therapy and for me it is a chore and yet he will always tell you that I look after him so much, I do that in other ways. We have somebody who does the cooking. I have taught them to cook the way I like and we have people who do the general cleaning.”
Olu Jacobs obviously doesn’t mind as his love for his wife as remained stronger as he was quoted in an interview saying marrying Joke was the best decision of his life.

Sophyrocks:
I can see u dnt understand english. Her success is because her husband is verrrry understanding and permissive. He wants her to take the limelight compared to some of u men that cnt handle the success of a woman. If her husband wasnt this permissive, their marriage wud have packed up. We here dnt know the ins and out of their marriage. But omotola herself is no saint. Marriages with most actresses are open. So just give it to her husband plus her hardwork.

Where's that Ilekokonit or something thread about the rules of keeping an 'African man'?

Keep the parts of your body that are meant to be hidden, hidden and not on public display
· Serve as a good role model to his children especially his daughter(s)
· Don’t by your way of life / dressing set bad moral examples for his children especially his daughter(s)
· Don’t stop him from bringing up his children with good old school African values

Buhahaha, Omotola has broken the rule o!!!!!!!!

iykedare:
Beautiful nkemooo, you deserve better than always pitching tent with feminists.

Nigerian men forever eating from my palms since 1900. Sorry to burst your bubble, that's not me.
Can't believe how nice you are after seeing a beautiful pic, buhahaha.
Men can't resist beautiful people even if they can't stand their character, rotflmao!
It's good to be fine o.

armyofone:
Tell us about the gadget that has made your life less stressful or idonbilivit that you are the most pampered lady of the century

Gadgets? Or human beings especially the same Naija men that say they can't stand my so called feminist views, Lol. Always seeking to be of 'help'. So yes I'm the most pampered.

naijababe:
Your are hereby christened Obiageli

Thank you, Father! *Makes sign of the cross*

5minsmadness:
You don't need to defend her. She knows exactly what she was saying.
Don't twist the topic either. This is what she meant.




Have you heard omaotola speak? Her English is superb. Stop trying to look for loopholes in her statement.

You must really think you are talking to one of the Nigerian girls you used to played ten ten with in primary school where logic was pretty much nonexistent.
Please let's apply logic here. If you don't believe in gender equality, you have opened a host of ammunition to place you at an unequal balance scale, meaning a man is greater than the woman, and the woman lower than he is. And yes Omotola did not do her research well to know the meaning of gender equality, otherwise she would never ever say such.
Weathering it down with psuedo-conclusions are just dismissive and deceitful acts to shy away from the depth of truth when you conclusively wade off gender equality that the woman is inferior to the man. Only unintelligent women would fall for this deceit.

bukatyne:
I guess the custodians of African culture in NL will have to help us here

Pavore9:
Abeg ask them! African culture is so diverse, like in Kenya u see wives not bearing their husbands name, are they not Africans?

This should be a topic on it's own, the way we just group everyone in Africa- the African man, the African woman, really when we all come from different cultures.

lightoftruth:
Read the post again, now slowly make sure that your brian is still inside your head. Then get back to me .

Stop being emotional. It was just a question.

@Topic
This crap has already been trashed. Omotola believes in gender inequality. I guess she was made in a lower degree to a man. Who am I to question what people choose to label themselves? In her defense, I think English was the problem

Meaning:
Gender equality, also known as sex equality, gender egalitarianism, sexual equality or equality of the genders, refers to the view that men and women should receive equal treatment, and should not be discriminated against based on gender, unless there is a sound biological reason for different treatment.

Gender equality is a human right. Any human being that fails to understand this should go petition the UN or preferably give up their rights to live in this century.
Feminism is here to stay, for the main fact that Patriarchy exists. It is highly important that these two systems check each other.

I always say it here and God will bear me witness that I have never claimed to be a superwoman, flying from Oshogbo to Damaturu, just because I am a hardworking, virtuous, industrious African wife. The women that can do it, God bless them and give them more strength, but for me, my body reacts negatively to stress. So yeah I'm the number one lazy and pampered woman of the century.

What exactly is African culture when Africa boasts of uncountable cultures?