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kaya09:
But i cannot be termed a bad boy right?

There's a tinge of misogyny in bad boys, it could be a slight hatred for women or a full blown one. The ideology is that women are pawns to be used and trashed. If you don't imbibe these qualities, I guess you are not.

kaya09:
Am shocked the way u just described this,seriously its erroneously wrong,am entirely d opposite,quite frankly i can b classified as handsome,u wont even know i use marijuana unless i tell you

Lol. No problem if you think you are handsome. After all people react differently to drugs, abi. That's what the whole study of pharmacogenetics and dynamics is all about.

Rapsainot:
the gods are my witness, I smoke and eat weed

Oh yeah, I will like to see how you look.

naijaboiy:
hahaha...

You have no point I tell ya.

If you don't know,,the number of guys that smoke weed on a daily basis is uncountable.
Your boyfriend may even be among but you won't know

How won't I know? That thing stinks to the high heavens.

Tallesty1:
Lemme check ur dp, you sound like you are under the influence of jegemi.(A strong idoma/kogi weed)

Naa I don't need any 'cannabis' to be witty, my wit comes naturally.

naijaboiy:
And how does wizkid or burner boy look like?

Burna boy? Looks lazyyyyyyyyy, slow and boring! Wizkid is still a baby, he will soon loose his baby looks to weed.

Tallesty1:
I said "Tuface was a smoker".

He doesn't smoke any more.

He smoked during the plantashun era and his head has always been bald. As for his face, you don't expect him to remain a boy forever

How about wizkid? DON JAZZY? 9ice? MI?

Do they look ungly and unkempt?

Whether he still smokes or not, (which I seriously doubt, because I watched an interview where he obviously was under some influence post plantation era) the effects of the weed has displaced his looks and they will never come back.

Seriously 9ice? Lol, that one that looks like a crow with sunken eye sockets and obviously very dry, ashy skinned?
MI with his burnt, black lips which is a good evidence of smoking some crazy stuff? I pity his girlfriend.
Don Jazzy that looks like he needs a bath every time I see him and his sleepy, dead eyes? That's why he wears glasses.
Wizkid is still young, the effects will come up later like tubaba.

naijaboiy:
LoL,,thats not true

Really? I've not even spoken about their charred, black and unappealing lips. Double ewwww!

Tallesty1:
These are the ones you know. We have skinny guys that aren't smokers.
Snoop won't look any better if he doesn't smoke.
Tuface was a smoker, do you know that?
I bet you never noticed.

Skinny healthy guys don't look sickly in the face with dead eyes.
I know Tuface smokes, that is why he went from a baby face to a hardened, sickly face with bald head. His eyes are freaking dead now.
Compare tuface of plantation boy era to now. And don't tell me it's age. I woke up one morning and found out this guy became ugly overnight.
Faze too smokes, that one is almost looking like death now.

Nigerians and their razz relationships. *Pukes*

Tallesty1:
You mean poor and hungry smokers?

Is Snoop dogg poor? Wiz Khalifa? What do they have in common? Looking so dried up.

Ewww weed smokers are not attractive. They often have dry faces and look like they are two seconds from death.

There is nothing sexy for me in a man that smokes, if he likes let him be James Bond.

Your girlfriend must really love you to put up with it. Good luck.

bukatyne:
Thanks a lot

Lol! @ petite: why?

You sound like omo mummy online.

Most humans fall in between, the extremes often turn out to be serial killers or psychos.

rofemiguwa:
As in!!!! It annoys the eff outta me!
Atimes i just dont bother commenting,people really comprehend tinz differently!!!

Op i understand where u are coming from, in every relationship sometin has to give.

U guys have to reach a compromise. Know dose things u cant share attention with in his life and find how to deal with it, for the ones that can be meddled with find a common ground
Eg when my baby handles his ps4 pad jus dont bother, at first it annoyed the heck outta me but now am his cheerleader lol! #teamYM# , i will just hang around if i really want to be there and ask him to spell his opponent name for me. Of course he will make sure he gives the guy like 5-0
Meanwhile during this period i jus play any game or nairaland on my pad. We are spending time togeda doing different tinz everyone is happy.
All u need ask is do u love this person enough to see forever with him? Once ur heart answers that honestly, everyodr tin can be worked out!!
U jus have to find a way.
Also learn to consider him too? Is ur request convienent?
U cannot be asking for metime when he has a deal to seal?,he will definetely go for the deal.
Like ur airpport case, assuming u are in lagos ,u jus arrived and he was in lekki,knowing lagos traffic. Picking a cab home is a beta option for both of u becz before he gets to d airport like 10flights go don land and also comot.

Jus know wat u want and learn to build ur home. Arrange is one heck of a journey, just make sure u are travelling with the right person ,then learn to jump over all speed breakers, navigate all bend together.

I wish u luck.

You are a woman of experience.

OP, listen to this woman. Some people's relationships here won't work for the lack of foresight on how to have longevity in relationships. That is why some will remain single till tomorrow. I mean if you have to lay it down in simple terms that you have to be attentive to your wife, indeed many here will not be able to keep a relationship unless with desperate girls. Men cherish sex, women cherish attention. Of course there are outliers. It's not that we don't want the other but one is of more importance than the other to the sexes. Successful relationships apply this principle, all things being equal. That is why it looks as if you have to please the wife from morning, till evening to set the mood for sex later in the night. The money issue is a distraction from the detractors on this thread, because both male and female love money that is why we are all thriving to be rich.

That show is too much for me. I wonder how they remain sane with all those negativity among themselves.
My reality shows are vlogs on youtube.

bukatyne:
Thanks a lot dear
Mental image: really?
Nashville said he is too black. ;

Happy birthday! I thought you'd be petite though. And Nashville would be light-skinned lol.

We don't need their help. All we need is the law prosecuting the criminals involved.

@OP
I'm an attention freak as well and it's all because the love is still 'shacking' you.
I guess when realities hit, we'll both wake up from the honeymoon phase.
If that's the only character flaw, you can work your way around it.
You can schedule the times you meet that would be solely for both of you, no phones or distraction.
You can also get to know what he likes doing and get involved in it as well. That way you kill two birds with one stone.
This will only work though if he indeed cherishes the relationship and is committed to it. I'm of the school of thought that if your partner raises complaints you find ways to alleviate her/his hurt. I hope he's that kind of guy.

swaggzo:
See them.. Fighting for the justice of the girl child. Yelling all
sort of crap on TV about gender inequality and other trash
talks that i can't take anymore.


I wasn't there when you bore your daughters.
I wasn't the one who made them do all the kitchen work while your sons were busy laying around the house like sick dogs.
I wasn't the one who constantly reminded them that someday they gonna be a secondary subject to their husbands.
I wasn't the one who always made them feel that they don't
need to study hard. Infact they don't even need to study at all cuz no matter how much they read a man's gonna come pick them up someday, and all that will be a waste of time, money, and knowledge.
When they clocked 30 years of age, I wasn't there to tell them ugly stuff like "As old as you are, you're not yet married",
"what are you waiting for?, do you want to marry your own
father?".
Even when they got married and there was no child in the
house after sometime, you started to feel she was barren.
Forgetting the fact that the man also has a role to play in that aspect.
She took her marital issues online, hoping to find some help
there since she felt its rather disgraceful to discuss with
anyone physically, your only comment on her post was shiit
like "you're a disgrace to womanhood". Making her shy away from sexuality, hiding her sexual life from the whole world
including herself cuz she feels its not right for a woman to even have sex in the first place, not to talk of talking or even thinking about it.
You made the life of your daughters so poor, that all they had
to think about is marriage and submission to a secondary god (their husbands) from as early as age 16 or 17. That they cannot stand alone cuz they're too weak and always need men to represent them. Protect them. Talk for them and even decide for them.
Implying that the male gender is superior and supreme. And
suddenly now you want all these things to change? By what
means, magic?

So you see, from the start of their lives this is what you have
been teaching them. Making them from a very early stage,
realize they ought to be a man's tool. Telling them that they have nothing much to offer in the future apart from being a
man's life companion and bedmate, to bear and carry his
children and to take care of the family.

......now that's feminism!

Start the Gender equality from there where you're standing, cuz every little thing you impact on these little souls (children) in our society counts.

I rest this case for now.

Bravo!

carefreewannabe:
Annette Ehiemere
THE NAME OF THE CHILD SNATCHER.

How on earth did this woman think she could get away with this? The world is now a global village. What was she thinking kidnapping a child? Who advised them to do so?

nenergy:
Successful women have plenty men in their lives
*Disclaimer*
1. This piece is not in any way inferring that women need men to succeed.
2. By MEN, i am not insinuating sexual relations.
3. This piece is not a matter of FACT. It is an observation, an opinion.

A female friend recently told me that; “she’s glad she knows me”. Why? Well, it was part of her Ode in appreciation for my assistance whenever she needed it. From helping with laptop/phone issues to helping with job search and being her personal Google.

Men play vital roles in the lives of women; as fathers, brothers, uncles, cousins, school mates, crushes, mugus, magas, lovers, pastors, assignment boyfriends, neighbourhood acquaintances, university degree project assistants, NYSC camp body guards, NYSC PPA pals, job search advisors/assistants etc

At every point in a woman’s life there is always a MAN willing to offer her assistance (voluntarily or with a motive). It is the major reason most girls prefer male friends/company to their other females. They can gist about E! News and Kim Kardashian with their girlfriends, but when it is time for ‘business’, they know who to approach.

Considering all of these, i am of the opinion that the more MEN in a woman’s life, the higher her chances and speed of success.
Successful women are women with plenty MEN in their lives. These MEN contribute to her success.

n.b: Before you attack me, please read my disclaimer again.

Yours Faithfully,
Nenergy
Author; The Job Seekers’ Creed™

The premise here is utterly wrong! And it has potentials of misdirecting young girls.
The Nigerian society is still pretty much patriarchal with men having much of a head start than females.
So the likelihood of building a career network would most likely have more men than women. It's not because they are men but because of the positions they hold.
When Nigerian women bridge that gap, your conclusions would be useless. Living in the West, my career network encompasses both females and males.

Acidosis:
So ALL successful women made it to the top without favour from men?


I'm not surprised anyway, afterall no woman will ever reveal the actual number of her s. excapades.

Even Ojukwu's wife openly denouced FFK, despite FFK's explanations.


Before you draw conclusions, I personally know female first class holders. I didn't, and never will I assume ALL successful women made it to the top via testicles.

Stop clawing at straws to save face. And don't even try to shield yourself because your initial comments SUMMARILY reduced the abilities of women and you even went as far as naming women who are successful in their own rights. Is this a matter of beer parlor gossip after a drink or two?

Emmalot121:
Give me one thing you have benefited from feminism?

If only I never knew you are looking for cheap popularity(also a cheap means to chat on NL) like carefreewannabe, who couldn't tell Mysogynist2014 a single oppression she has faced as a lady in Nigeria; I would have called you a fööl for being a troll.



I just pray Mysogynist2014 comes back from maclatunji's meaningless religion suspension and pounce on unscrupulous commodities like you.

So this is what you could come up with after my calculated and well thought out analysis? I will call you daft, for being an lousy, fish-brained imbe.cile.

Acidosis:
Do I owe you explanations?

Yes you do.

Acidosis:
How?

For stating the obvious?

How did you arrive at the conclusion of shamelessness from the comments she made?

adorable29:
When will this local Nigeria cave men understand that this is the 21st century and women of this generation are smart, intelligent, powerful, bold, outspoken, and can excel in virtually all areas of life?!

When will this 17th century homosapiens realise that the days of patriarchy is almost fading out and women have come to prove to the world that they can no longer be relegated to the kitchen and if given the right condition and equal opportunity to strive, are just as good if not better than the men!

Wake up guys and look around your immediate environment, not necessarily globally! Look at your clasmates infact. Look at that girl that is gonna come out with a first class while you the man is struggling with a pass! Isn't that enough reason for you to know that a woman can be successful without sleeping with a man?!

Make una go buy sense, abeg...



Anyway, my comment is not necessarily for the OP! Its for the mofos displaying their low IQ on this thread!

This is an important point. Such girls should be very careful with who they breed with for the sake of the future generation and entire black race. I have not seen much evidence of the retardation of the average Nigerian thought process in one thread in my lifetime as shown here. It must be a sick state of things in that country for adults to reduce the successful abilities of women to seeking favors from men and debate it with illogical conclusions.

This thread is an embarrassment.

Acidosis:
Shameless woman; no one is saying ALL women use s. ex for success. Are you really du. mb? or is this post of yours a mistake?

How is she shameless?

What is the essence of having the police in Nigeria? Why are they so damn useless?

The dogs should be shot.

The victim’s mother, Mrs. Helen
Abraham, who was away when the
incident happened, said her son
had been injured by the time she
arrived at the scene.
She said, “When I got there, I met
a crowd. They asked me not to go
inside, but I refused to listen to
them. One of the dogs emerged
from the corridor with blood
stains in its mouth. I ran inside.
The other dog, on sighting me,
pounced, but I fought back. It later
ran away. I called on people who
joined me to take him to a
hospital.

Wow the mother confronted the dogs, but policemen stood watching 'helplessly' while a child was being mauled for over an hour? Whatever happened to our trigger-happy, bribe seeking policemen? Both the policemen and the owner of the dogs have questions to answer. This matter should not die. What a pathetic story! Those children must be heavily traumatized.

ileobatojo:
Bwahahaha!!!

I simply cannot pass by without giving this the standing ovation it deserves!!

*Thank you, thank you, daalu, ose, obrigado, danke, *

My sister is even dating an Ijebu guy. He cooked for me, so he has my blessing.

TV01 we might end up being in laws.

She had better get herself a reputable law firm to protect her assets and stop acting like a village girl posting her acquired assets online. I mean she should know better, Nigerians will praise you in the day and come and steal from you at night. She had better start thinking like a savvy businesswoman.