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ShakurM:
im not trying to be a smart alec or show off sorta, I'm studying biomedical Engineering in Unilorin and we treated this related topic last week.
It's all in the genes......

You are correct.
How is your biomedical engineering going anyway? Does it involve regenerative medicine?
I was at a seminar at my work place where the speaker talked about regenerative medicine and the talk pushed me into going back to school.
I ended up in the professor's school but funny enough, I'm not even doing the regenerative medicine, but pharmacology (pharmaceutical industry always draws me in). But I meet a lot of biomedical engineering people and it seems like fun.

ileobatojo:
Yup. All the reasonable people that watched the video and saw the other thread already knew this.....

Good for him for winning his appeal. That was the right outcome I think.

We have been vindicated! The serpentine cobra spat first.

AlphaDibia:
Intelligence being x-linked.

Why is it fundamentally wrong? Researchers found a specific trait is on the X chromosome and you say it's wrong. I don't get it. Do you have research to prove otherwise?

AlphaDibia:
It is interesting though. Excellent post but I think some of its info is fundamentally wrong.

How?

AlphaDibia:
I can't access the second one. E go need password. I no get am for password

That is why I posted the results. Because I have access to it.

AlphaDibia:
I can't believe that article. . First it's old. Secondly, it's totally wrong.

The second article was released Feb 25, 2014. Besides my references are authentic scientific research journals.

Brilliant topic!
I've looked into some research papers, and the papers point to intelligence being X-linked and on chromosome 7. When we say X-linked traits, it means boys would definitely get that trait from their mother, because the mother would donate the X while the father the Y. For girls (XX), you get one X from the father and the other X from the mother. But one of the X's in girls would have to be inactivated, I don't think research has been able to identify which X would be inactivated.

Don't know if you guys have access to these links

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1016917/pdf/jmedgene00032-0071a.pdf

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov.go.libproxy.wakehealth.edu/pmc/articles/PMC3933868/

A systems biology approach to identify intelligence quotient score-related genomic regions, and pathways relevant to potential therapeutic treatments.
Zhao M1, Kong L1, Qu H2.
Author information
Abstract
Although the intelligence quotient (IQ) is the most popular intelligence test in the world, little is known about the underlying biological mechanisms that lead to the differences in human. To improve our understanding of cognitive processes and identify potential biomarkers, we conducted a comprehensive investigation of 158 IQ-related genes selected from the literature. A genomic distribution analysis demonstrated that IQ-related genes were enriched in seven regions of chromosome 7 and the X chromosome. In addition, these genes were enriched in target lists of seven transcription factors and sixteen microRNAs. Using a network-based approach, we further reconstructed an IQ-related pathway from known human pathway interaction data. Based on this reconstructed pathway, we incorporated enriched drugs and described the importance of dopamine and norepinephrine systems in IQ-related biological process. These findings not only reveal several testable genes and processes related to IQ scores, but also have potential therapeutic implications for IQ-related mental disorders.

Results
IQ-related genes are enriched in multiple regions of chromosomes 7 and X

To address the genetic complexity of IQ score, we developed IQdb (http://iqdb.cbi.pku.edu.cn.go.libproxy.wakehealth.edu), a publicly available database for exploring IQ-associated human genes7. In IQdb, 158 experimentally verified genes from the literature serve as the core dataset, among which approximately 16% of the IQ-related genes are located on X chromosome. It is reported that only 3.4% of all human genes belong to X chromosome . The obvious contrast may indicate that the IQ-related genes are over-represented on X chromosome. To clarify in more detailed which genomic regions contain greater numbers of IQ-related genes, we adopted a hypergeometric test based on the gene content of each cytoband on the human genome. The further enrichment analysis identified 10 genomic regions with significantly larger amount of IQ-related genes. Among 10 regions, 4 belong to X chromosome, including Xp, Xq, Xq28, and Xp11. A previous gene expression study showed that the genes on X chromosome are more likely to express in brain regions and reproductive tissues13. Our results may be consistent with the idea that genes on X chromosome may be associated with the quantitative IQ score12. Since X chromosome is important to sexual differentiation, the enrichment of IQ-related genes on X chromosome may provide an incentive to explore differences in the IQ scores between the sexes14,15.

Previous studies have identified 46 genomic regions involved in IQ using a linkage approach7. Though none of these regions are located on X chromosome, six of them are from chromosome 7 in humans (13.04%). Among the ten genomic regions with enriched IQ-related genes, six are not on X chromosome, including 7q, 7q11, 7q31, 8p12, 15q14, and17p13. Except for 8p1216, none of these genomic regions overlap with the genomic regions in the prior linkage studies. Three of six regions are from chromosome 7, accounting for 8.86% of the 158 IQ-related genes (Table 1). One previous study showed that 7q31–36 may be linked to verbal IQ based on 361 Australian and Dutch twins17. Our results may uncover complementary roles of the genes on chromosome 7 in general intelligence.

fr3do:
solutions to Nigeria's problems would be tested and come from within not from a Nigeria-hating-Nigerian who thinks Nigeria would be a testing ground for his unfeasible foreign gotten ideas.

Cry me a river!

Sagamite:
Fair enough!
You do have an undeniable and unarguable points about black men there.
But you have to understand after all your frowning and pristine words if they have little interest in you afterwards as they get older and/or as their choices expand to other races if they move to new geographies.

Like my own interest doesn't expand the 7 continents and beyond? I wish every black man peace, love and happiness wherever he finds it.

Where are the 'no place like home' crew?
So all you Naija Nairalanders have been applying codedly?
I thought there was no place like home.

pearlzy92:
My friends sister is a full house wife and she can't do anything without asking her husband. Personally I feel a woman should have something doing even if its a small shop where she can sell to support the family financially and will also be able to care of the kids too.........

What's your opinion....... Happy Tuesday!

Our opinion? Really? Are you part of the head and neck crew? If yes, you sister SHOULD OBEY HER HUSBAND. She is on the right track. Don't know why we keep forgetting the tenets of being the quintessential African wife. In case we have all forgotten...

From the emeritus prof himself Ilekokonit...

https://www.nairaland.com/1980592/tips-keeping-good-african-man

Tips To Keeping A Good African Man - © Ilekokonit - 4 Nov 2014

· Recognise that not every westernised idea or norm is good for the longevity of an African relationship
· Respect your man, respect his African values
· Don’t rubbish African culture for the sake of feminism
· Know or learn what being an African man is all about
· Recognise that a woman living alone for a long concerted time reduces a woman’s compatibility with a proper African man
· Don’t puncture his balloon just to get even or drag him down
· Don’t be hateful, spiteful or seek revenge
· Be forgiving, Don’t be mean and Don’t be wicked
· Recognise that even Beyoncé who sang “independent woman” is still holding tight to her man, likewise the Queen of England and Margaret Thatcher before her death
· Keep the parts of your body that are meant to be hidden, hidden and not on public display
· Serve as a good role model to his children especially his daughter(s)
· Don’t by your way of life / dressing set bad moral examples for his children especially his daughter(s)
· Don’t stop him from bringing up his children with good old school African values
· Never antagonize him in front of anyone especially his kids even behind his back
· Recognize that a boy’s first and everlasting hero is his father and so, never belittle, curse, shout at or castigate him in front of his children especially his sons. Remember that in almost ALL cases, the boy will remind you in later years how you maltreated his dad when he was young and he couldn’t do anything about it
· Recognise that a woman’s crown is her man
· Be DRAMA FREE, Don’t be rude, saucy or stroppy
· Don’t be selfish or self-centered
· Don’t be addicted to TV, fashion, jewelries or your career !!!
· Don’t keep up with the jones
· Believe in for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health because he seriously does whatever the situation
· Don’t be evil or fetish
· You Don’t need a pastor or imam to tell you about the future of your relationship
· Value his opinion above that of your pastor or imam or even your parents
· Realise that 2 cannot work together unless they agree
· Don’t compete with him financially or otherwise fully realizing that he is willing to share everything he has with you
· Don’t have the erroneous belief that "his money is your money and your money is your money"
· Don’t keep secrets from him
· Don’t be crafty, evasive, deceitful or manipulative
· Don’t try to manipulative him with anything (not even religion)
· Don’t be combative, cantankerous
· Don’t tear your own home apart with your very own hands like the woman who does just that with her own hands in Proverbs 14:1 and is described by the bible as foolish
· Realise that a foolish woman keeps talking but a wise woman understands the power of her words as well as her silence
· Realise that it is a FACT when Proverbs 21:9 says that It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house and as such keeps your home peaceful
· Don’t be moody, unfriendly or stubborn to him
· REALISE THAT PART OF WHAT PUTS A MAN OFF HIS WIFE FOR GOOD IS THE FACIAL EXPRESSIONS YOU USE WHEN QUARELLING WITH HIM
· Realise the difference between slapping your man in a film and slapping your man in real life
· Keep friends who are family orientated and want to last in their relationships with their other halves
· Don’t threaten to harm yourself or drink bleach just to get his attention or win an argument
· Faces issues head on without hiding behind non issues
· Don’t deny him his conjugal rights
· Want to grow old with him together, be in the relationship for the long haul
· Don’t be crafty, evasive, cagey or secretive
· Don’t have unnecessary male friends
· allow him access to your phone if you are not hiding anything
· Don’t be deceived by your being young or by your beautiful face, realise that the real beauty of a woman is in your character
· Don’t believe that because you are beautiful then you cannot be corrected
· Don’t lie to him
· Don’t be a combative feminist
· Don’t indulge in being married to an inanimate object
· Don’t smoke and if you do drink, do so rarely, moderately and only on social occasions and Don’t form the habit of drinking alone (Even most men Don’t drink alone except for alcoholics)
· Don’t do drugs
· Value the old school family values that our parents held dear
· Treat him like your mum treated your dad (hopefully, your mum treated your dad well)
· Realise that no man wants to live with a combative quarrelsome woman
· Don’t hide behind crocodile tears just to get your way
· Don’t always have an answer for everything (nobody does)
· Don’t talk at 1000 miles per hour just because you can
· Think before you talk
· Don’t monopolize the conversation.
· Conversation is a 2 way thing. You talk, keep quiet, let him talk, and you listen, then ponder his response before forming your response
· Don’t be over-ambitious or money motivated if you want to keep an African man
· Don’t strive to keep up with the Jones, Don’t copy your friends especially their bad behaviors including haughtiness and pride towards your man
· Don’t copy the way loud, foul-mouthed Nollywood actresses abuse men. Copying them is a recipe for quick divorce
· Don’t feel superior to your man and never treat him with disdain or arrogance
· Don’t be stingy to him if he is generous to you
· Realise that him loving you is not a sign of weakness
· Never try to give him orders
· Make respect your watch word
· Love a harmonious home
· NEVER keep grudges, never bottles things up
· openly discuss issues as they arise
· NEVER discuss your marital issues with your parents, friends or any 3rd party
· Be in the relationship for the long haul and Don’t be a serial man changer just because you think your beauty will last forever
· NEVER EVER feel that there are many fish in the ocean (not all fish are good. Some are poisonous in the short or long run)
· If you get a good man, do your best to keep him irrespective of what your “friends” say as ENOUGH African men are delaying marriage because of the aggression and wild ways of the potential suitors currently available
· Realise that the phrase money is not everything did not just fall from the sky. There was a reason it was coined those many years ago
· Realise that a lot of “proper” African men see educated African women as too combative and so tone down your “gra gra” when you are in his company
· You may be a manager of teacher at work but drop those badges at the door before you enter the house as no African likes being lectured by his woman. You are his woman and not his lecturer.
· If you meet a new guy who is honest enough to tell you he is currently unemployed, never assume that he is going to ask you for money as REAL African men never ask a woman for money nor collect such if offered
· Never get used to living alone for too long lest you become so used to your freedom, space and singleness that sub-consciously you frustrate every new man you meet because your spirit wants to remain free
· Realise that NOT everything that helps you climb the career ladder is helpful to your marriage. Some of them are destructive to African marriages
· Never use sex as a weapon
· Whenever your hubby chooses a late night hubby away from the home or chooses to go alone to the beer parlor repeatedly instead of staying with you at home and only comes back at around 2am or later on a consistent basis then he is trying to say to you that his love for you is dying a slow death and he can no longer bear your company as you are making his life miserable at home and/or you are no longer listening to him
· Don’t neglect your man supposedly because of religious duties, realise that there is a time for everything and Don’t spend too many hours at church/mosque leaving your man lonely at home
· Don’t hide behind religion or religious phrases just to control your man, Don’t choose to pontificate and sermonize him instead of discussing real issues with your non-religious hat on
· Don’t adopt a holier than thou attitude with him
· Don’t lecture him, Don’t sermonize when he is discussing something with you with his rational mind
· Don’t form the bad habit of lying to him especially if he is truthful to you
· NEVER put your career or business above your relationship !!!
· Don’t feel your joint kids are your property or a meal ticket for you in the future and never use his kids as a weapon or bargaining ticket with him
· NEVER turn his children against him
· Be kind to him
· Don’t practice NLP - neuro linguistic programming (or any other type of mind control techniques that Westernised women use to climb the career ladder) on him as most smart men know when they are being manipulated
· Never use NLP techniques on him when discussing issues with him in a ploy to put him on the defensive so that you will win the argument
· Don’t argue with him unnecessarily or argue with him just to tick your log book of arguments you have won with him
· Don’t try to control him IN ANY WAY
· Don’t give him orders
· Don’t argue with him just for arguments sake
· Don’t wind him up or stress him when there is no need for it
· If you try to control him or play unnecessary mind games on him or try to control his mind in the first few weeks of meeting him, then chances are that that relationship will not last (that’s even if it starts in the first place)
· Remember that unnecessarily or repeatedly stressing your man only quickens the end of that relationship
· Realise that “Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man” is just a book that Steve Harvey made loads of money from.
· A lady should always be a lady in her actions and in thoughts and “Acting Like a Lady and Thinking Like a Man” is not just difficult to maintain, it is deceptive, it portrays the woman as unnecessarily competitive and aggressive and is a sure fire way to a quick divorce or separation
· Wishing you all the best as you search for that “Good” African man of which there are loads IF YOU KNOW HOW TO KEEP THEM INTERESTED FOR THE LONG HAUL

alutacontinua:
I just had to quote this.
why do y'all think I just spread mat and chop popcorn?
It doesn't worth it, really!
and the loud-mouthed ones are the 'emptiest' ones
mu che che che che che

Rotflmao! They are the ugliest too.

coogar:
rise up by not going to work from tomorrow....they should all sit at home until that decision not to indict is reversed.
all african americans should burn their passports & return back to africa. there's DNA technology now, they should be able to now locate their roots.
these white folks ain't messing about anymore. obama's "4 more years" chant has gotten them riled. how do some parents raise black male teens in that country?

Pele o, if not for thanksgiving break I would be going by my business tomorrow.

coogar:
are the ladies any different?
don't let me go to the recent miss NL pageant event o.

Lolllllll, Coogar show me your pic abeg. Make I know who I dey talk to? All these my typing must not waste o.

okzcorp:
This should be the only rationale where we should use the term "equivalence" not equality. Women, just like brain and pinky, wants to take over the world. The preservation and continuation thing, do you produce sper.m, a core element of the process?

Core element ko, curry ni. I knew someone will fall for the bait.
The power is our hands to eliminate or preserve the human species.
Female animals can produce offspring without the need of sp.erm. That is how you get cloned animals.
It is for ethical reasons they haven't tried it on humans. If the science improves women might not be needing men after all. If feminazis need to go renegade one more time, this is a perfect cause to pursue.
As I said we are pitying you, hence the 'equality' stance.

Chillisauce:
Kanwulia o, come and see this thread.

See our boys oh, wey we dey follow argue.
See their effizy

https://www.nairaland.com/1562723/picture-nairalander-looking-sharp

It all makes sense now. Before I reply any man here, I should be asking for their pics, for real!
All these grammar wey person done waste all these years, chai!!!!!!!!!!! See the kain people I dey talk to? God have mercy!

carefreewannabe:
It is against nature because men are inferior to women.

Classic, reverberating post!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Is it because we are pitying them by preaching equality?
For the preservation and continuation of the human race the female is the superior species!

Sophyrocks:
You see what im talking about? Its this macho, chauvinistic thing thats the problem. If not for the ridiculous scare tactics being sold to women to hold them ransom in bondage, nigerian women be a lot more like their white counterparts. Upon all the suffering they go through here, they are still not appreciated. Isnt it best for them to start looking out for themselves?
[size=14pt]When we see a painful truth, lets just say it as it is. The angry black woman is a reflection of the black man. The average black man loves drama. His destructive psyche and tendencies are what attracts drama to his life but he doesnt wanna accept it because of his inflated ego. The earlier the blacks change their destructive psyche, the better for their generations.[/size] All these money thirsty baby mama wannabes had better try to be independent. If their men keep slacking and filling up all the jails, let them spread their tentacles to other countries. Let them take a cue from their white counterparts and quit all these baby mama, side chick/main chick rubbish! Wow, Stillfire did a good job bringing out that survey. Nice one.

Bloody hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

KanwuliaJara:
Well. . . .
Good news.
We as black women have CHOICES!
The reason I CAN NEVER LIVE ANYWHERE IN AFRICA. . . not with all the money in the world bank at my disposal!
About time we started excercising them.
No need to stay angry for ever!
Amen.

We shall educate out daughters AND SONS more!
It is left for the MEN to play well their parts.
WE CAN'T DO IT ALL!

I thought I was alone in this fight. I made one comment one time in the link below, Fulaman wanted to cut off my head.
https://www.nairaland.com/1853487/love-eastern-european-wife-she/11#25524045

I have studied this people very well.

Please continue to spread the GOOD NEWS. Every black woman must know who she is dealing with.

KanwuliaJara:
Oooooooooooooooooooooh? What's that your plan?
[size=14pt]Hah! No wonder some 'EKITI' EGYPTIAN MAMAS ati dedi bodies resurrected from their graves![/size]
You jam rock!

I go show you say I BE APROKO(THICK SKIN #1)

Kam try ya luck!

Who is derailing the thread?

Please. . . If you don't like it . . . . . LEAVE!
It is either you are gonna be the main bytch or the side bytch!

Such is the game of life.

So. . . . Like my darling "Lorretta the side bytch" will say. . . .

"Get with the program. . . go think abourrit. . . and let me know"!

Let's keep it moving!

I missed a lot of quality posts for real!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lemme go and start from page 3 abeg!

KanwuliaJara:
Oya. . .stop dreaming!
Back to Africa!

PHOCKING PERVS!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJJiVxA69yY

Buhahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

KanwuliaJara:
This same white men have realized we need LOVE. . . aka HANDLE WITH CARE.
And will do ANYTHING TO MAKE AMENDS FOR THE PAST.
Black man still dey lock women for 'crates' under ships to sell to EURASIA for ashawo work.
NA BINI MAN GO FIRST SELL IM OWN SISTER TO GO DO ASHAWO WORK FOR ITALY!
Gba be!

I saw this clip from youtube. . . I WAS CRYING UNCONTROLLABLY!
White people make US BETTER. . . BLACK PEOPLE MAKE US WORSE!
Fact!

Watch this:



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7eXMV8Cc6s

It is history repeating itself.
The black male rarely thinks about his future, he is interested in immediate gratification.

That video...no words!

coogar:
stillfire is a comedian.....

she forgot the simple concept of hypergamy that is in the genetic code of our black women. less educated couples and couples with a high degree of disparity between education levels, are more likely to divorce than well-educated couples. so it's tenable for one to assume that intelligence and compatibility are crucial for having a successful marriage.

no black woman with college degree would marry a white man that is less educated. she's more likely to marry a white man that is on the same level(at least) or higher than her thus she's more likely to have a successful marriage.

due to the gulf in class between the black folks & white folks in america, [b]only the left overs only really settle for the black men. [/b]it's a step-down for any white woman to go after the black man(unless he's stupendously rich). the average black man is not hypergamous - he can date a white senator or stoop low & date a white trash chic. the disparity in their intellectual level or educational background would lead to disparity which would then ultimately lead to a divorce.

So even the creme de la creme of White females refuse to have anything to do with black males too? You are left with the left overs! God of mercy! See how you kick yourself in the bumbum!
I find it absurd you cite educational background as a factor but would suddenly forget that this argument is better suited and works in favor black male/black female relationship in America. Black females in America are more educated than their men. If the socalled educational disparity cannot work between black male/white female relationship, why on earth should it work between black male/black female citing the 'hypergamous' traits all women are entitled to exhibit?

I posted two links. One where I took the pic and another link showing the actual research. One of the points in the summary

.
The influence of gender, specifically the elevated
divorce rates for White female interracial marriages,
highlights important aspects of what makes interracial
marriage socially distinctive. We consider two
explanations. First, differences in divorce probabilities
may be linked to the differences in the incidence
of intermarriage. Since the 1960s, NH Black men
have married White women more often than NH
Black women have married White men, which suggests
that the intermarriage barriers for NH Black
women are greater than those facing NH Black men.
Therefore, NH Black women and White men who
choose to intermarry may be selective of an especially
high degree of commitment to their relationship
that reduces the potential for divorce. This is
beyond the scope of the data at hand but should be
investigated in future research.

Despite the numerous barriers facing black women/ white male compared to black male/white female, BW/WM riseeeeeeeeeeeeee above such barriers to preserve their relationships. Bloody hell we need a medal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

KanwuliaJara:
Me? I nor kia o. . . .France o. . . RUSSSSSSSSIA o. . . . .Belgium o. . . .Anyone!
OYINBO MEN DEY PROTECT THEIR WOMEN.
I think Germany!
There are 2 girls I grew up with in Nigeria as next door neighbors. . . .
Very good family! SERRRRRRRRIOUS AJEBOS!
Well brought up girls o. DEM NOR EVEN SABI SPEAK PIDGIN ENGLISH SEF!
Not flasshy. . . very level-headed. I never, ever heard them raise their voices as children.
Once wahala start. . . them go just carry dem shoes enter house je-je like them mama tell dem to do!

My dear. . . dem find husband taya for Nigeria. . . .
AS SOOOON AS DEM REACH GERMANY. . . na wedding bells o.
WITHIN ONE MONTH!
My sister gist me last month say she jam one of them for Abuja!
The older one. . . she narrated her woes with the 'husband' shortage in Nigeria and went to GERMANY TO MEET AN ONLINE SPOUSE!
Then got her younger sister to follow suit!

Omo!
If you see this girl now. . .HER HUSBAND(VERRRRRRRRRRRRRY YOUNG MAN) NA DIPLOMAT abi na BUSINESS TYCOON she call am?
She dey carry GUCCI-VUITTON BAG DEY PARADE FROM PLACE TO PLACE FOR ASOKORO! Hiahn!

No shouting. . . o
Flying first class from Nigeria to Germany like no man's business!
She says she has ABSOLUTELY NO REGRETS!
My sister say if you see this babe. . . .YOUR MOUTH GO FALL OPEN!
Very educated o! VERY, VERY QUIET!
BEHOLD! The Nigerian 'female rejects'!

Wow I missed a lot of quality posts. About protection, do you know that when the Whites arrived our unemasculated African men willingly gave up African women as gifts to suit the loins of the invaders? Africa was known as the sexu..al destination for the colonialists to engage in animalistic se.x spearheaded by the wise, ageless unemasculated wisdom of our men. Meanwhile these same colonialists had set up policies to protect their women from the django unchained menace of the black male. Our own dashed us out like the way Esau gave up his birthright for a plate of porridge!

[quote author=Sagamite post=28338211]In Nigeria, we used to call it "Shakara".[/quote

Sagabobo, call it shakara or whatever.
It is a defensive mechanism that every black woman MUST adopt otherwise she will be sure to be left with little bastards to cater for!
Growing up, I frowned my face well wellllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll, like an arrogant boss!
Those who were not firm in their shakara, have to deal with little rascals to cater for ALONE.
It was highly, highly important to do so as a teenager. As a grown up, my pristine words are my weapon! The hypersexuality of the black man cannot be curtailed. He is on permanent HEAT! Every black woman should be careful before he gives you baggage to carry.
The race is in serious trouble because of the little rascals unleashed into the society without fathers!
I will not be part of that statistic!

coogar:
no, our black women are still ignorant about contraceptives. 70% of nigerian women don't even know their safe period.

.....or sëxually abused by female relatives. it goes both ways.

we are a bible believing continent & the bible says you should be submissive to your men. when black men don't go to church, you compare us to the sons of eli. now that some of us have embraced religion & we found out that your holy book instructs you to submit to us, you are calling it pënile erëctions to exert authority.

what exactly do you want from us?

Governmental policies and how accessible one is to education spearhead the knowledge of the public on the use of contraceptives and other health requirements. In a country like Nigeria that is obviously run by the 'unemasculated' men, how come it has not gotten into their thick skulls to create public awareness on contraceptives to alleviate problems that stem from black men's hypersexual, django unchained, manic disposition to sex. The black man indeed create civilization women can never enjoy.

Can you explain to me why the divorce rate between black men/white women are twice as likely to end up in divorce?
This pic places it at 200% more likely to divorce. Jesus Christ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[img]http://thoughtcatalog.files./2014/05/divorce.jpg?w=584&h=358[/img]

http://thoughtcatalog.com/jim-goad/2014/05/2-cute-handy-charts-on-interracial-marriage-divorce/

http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1741-3729.2008.00491.x/pdf

NH Black husband/White
wife marriages were twice as likely to divorce as
White/White couples, and NH Asian husband/
White wife couples were 59% more likely, according
to Model II. Highlighting the role of gender in
interracial dynamics, the reverse combinations actually
showed a lower or similar risk of divorce. White
husband/NH Black wife couples were 44% less
likely to divorce than White/White couples, and
White husband/NH Asian wife couples were only
4% more likely to divorce by Year 10

pickabeau1:
No..u don't have to answer
That's your prerogative

KanwuliaJara..classic exhibitionist..nothing new...

I have to answer this time around o, cos people think when you ignore your posts you dunno what to say.
I don't have energy to fight people, I'm a quintessential 'non-angry' black woman o.

coogar:
in that same era, there was polygamy.
so it means even if i made a mistake as a teenager to impregnate an orange seller & was forced by the law to marry her, i still get to have another chance to marry who i really desire....

that option has been taken away now. if i were to impregnate an agbalumo seller now, i won't marry her simply because i can only have one wife due to the stigmatisation of polygamy. she then becomes a babymama as a result of that.
if you want babymamaism to stop, you have to remove the stigma attached to polygamy.

Buhahaha, is the black man more hypersexual than other races?

coogar:
so you applaud their sheer violence against africans? you like the fact that african villages were pitted against each other & manipulated to trade their kinsmen for mirrors. what are the odds that the wives of these village chiefs were the mastermind of these illicit trades? there were more mirrors, combs & ribbons than guns.



where else would he show it? his ideas & opinion is not welcomed outside his continent. he cannot even cut trees or use fuel to develop his own land as he pleases - of course, if his opinion isn't respected outside, it should be respected inside.



the anger of the black woman is in-born.
we have highlighted the fact that black lesbians are highly violent......who's the man pushing her to be violent towards her female lover. i'm sure you know deep down that when it comes to "pull her down" syndrome, black women score 100%.

Many black lesbians have something in common, being raped by black men as children.

And no I don't applaud their violence, but for a category of men that gets erecti..ons from asserting his authority over women and making it a life mission to demand women respect him and kiss his black nyansh, he had better show that same power to the outside world, otherwise he is a coward, a weakling, a sloppy second, rotflmao! We are alpha females and we would take no less!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You had better walk the walk and talk the talk!

pickabeau1:
You are the first person admitting it
So at least there is progress

Why do you think the black man is responsible for that when he is subject to the same deprivation faced by his woman
black men have always being about family

Its even a modern thing to see people shunning their familial responsibilities

What changed

Pickabeau I hope you won't bruise like a peach by my replying you, because I notice it's only coogar that I can have a discussion with on NL. I'm not the first. Kanwulia did.

Disclaimer: I will not be talking in individual sense, but as a collective entity. Nobody should begin to say I'm not like this bla bla. I'm not even an angry person, but in the collective sense black women are highly expressive to put it lightly.
Anyway, about family... in the polygamous sense the black man is about family not monogamous sense. The babymama culture in the US is an offshoot of polygamy.
What changed? Shunning familial responsibilities stems from the fact that we don't live in communal settings with laws and customs that would have restricted black men from littering the world with little bastards. In the past when you impregnate a girl, you married her.

coogar:
how won't the white men hold the world down when they keep manipulating everyone to their own advantage? as at the time the white men were colonising everywhere & catching slaves, their female counterparts were subdued, spanked in public, etc. now that the white men have fully developed their own land, they are now talking about gender equality, rights for women, VAWA, etc.

it's the same in other spheres of life. tap any wall in american houses and its wood....but they want the africans to shun deforestation(after they developed theirs). now they are lying that the ozone layer is completely eroded & the world should go green.....just because they can't stand the arabs & OPEC countries making money.

how will the black men ever hold the world down when he's constantly restricted by White man's hypocrisy to do so. what do you think will happen by 2020 when all american vehicles are supposed to go hybrid? no wonder GEJ wants to die at aso rock. nigeria go hear weeeeeeeeeeeeeeen. india has refused to sign that go green treaty.

Oh yeah blame the white man!
While the white man was taking out able bodied men overseas for 'labor', your village chief was selling you guys for a mirror and seaman aromatic schnapps. Today schnapps is part of the bride price list and we shout it's our culture . Is the white man more intelligent than the black man?

So after highlighting all these, black leaders will still bow down to their superiors. What then is the usefulness of the so called unemasculated African man? He can't fight and create policies to favor his people but obeys his masters willingly? Is it only near a black woman he wants to show authority? How can a black woman respect that?

People here have admitted the anger of the black woman, now everyone should accept the cause of the anger which is the black man.

White women train their sons to be gentlemen, African women train their sons to be brutes.
African women should learn. All these preferential treatment to sons will not help them when they marry your fellow woman. Hence the anger.
It's not as if the black man has been able to build a sustaining civilization with such preferential treatment. He is the laughing stock of the world at the moment...most likely to be shot dead on the streets.
Kanwulia, wey that your fence jumping video...

About the emasculation of the black man I see coming up all the time, can someone explain what that even means? Because one would think from the African eye of course, white men have been 'emasculated' but still able to build a civilization and hold the world down. While the 'unemasculated' African men can't maintain a civilization that their women can enjoy.