₦airaland Forum

martineverest:
what if u are impotent? Will u advise wife to meet another man?

Yes I will advise she have her own children. Why will I use my own biological handicap to artificially handicap my spouse? It doesn't have to be actual sexual intercourse. Same with mine too, I don't necessarily have to marry a 2nd wife to have children that are biologically mine.

She can have a sperm donor, but her own eggs must be useful to her. Just as I can have an egg donor or surrogate mum, but my own sperm must be useful to me.

I repeat, if I can have my own children, I must. If she can have her own while I am handicapped, she must.

Rather than having complete aliens as our children when one of us can have his/hers for the family.

CC: khiaa.

Webman007:
Hmmmmmm...is God that gives Children...if you believe so then no problem....

The wombs will be open...and the sperms that's not there will be restored divinely
..

Enough of all these religious hypocrisy. Children are borne out of an already established biological sequence of events.

If there's no medical solution, then biological health problems persist. Go to the hospitals and see misery and despair when science has no solution to some of these health challenges.

For those who have been lucky to have fertility problems that science can resolve over time, they get their multiple birth of triplets and quadruplets after paying through noses. Then they go for thanksgiving in a church that never offered a solution, rather than provide awareness and philanthropic funding for other parishioners who need the same solution they got in the hospital.

I will if I truly love the woman, but on the condition that I will marry a second wife who will have my own children.

I don't have sperm cells for fun. I must reproduce since I am biologically capable.

Adoption has never been an option with me, when I am biologically fit to have my own. If both husband and wife are infertile, then adoption becomes the only choice.

safiaapussy:
"On how he arranged to bring those girls, Mike said that there are agents who bring them from mostly South-East, Middle Belt and South south States."

You wicked ooo.

You no fit forgive that guy for that comment on the Humblesmith virginity thread?

banmee:
I have a question. Why are people congratulating a man for doing what he is supposed to do? You all realize that defrauding the government is a crime right? In a normal country, you wouldn't be told to return it. Hold on to it and see if you will not spend time in jail.

In a country where there is no patriotism and no law, the microscopic few who aspire to the ideals of a sane society are worth celebrating, to serve as the light that might guide the majority out of the darkness that is easily becoming a natural habitat.

I'm proud of this fellow.

There is still microscopic hope in a useless generation of youth.

You interpreted his response based on your own preconceived opinion.

He simply means the scourge of boko haram which is reality, is more scary than the unknown fear of the consequences of restructuring.

No matter how you dice it, boko haram terror has more Northern and Muslim casualties than Southerners who are resident in the North.

The Northern leadership condoned it when they felt they would use it as a bargaining chip, only for it to spiral out of control and engulfed their own abode. Same way South East politicians condoned IPOB activities, hoping when it turns to a bargaining chip, they would be prepared to cash in on the political returns thereof, like the SouthSouth politicians did with militancy. However, what the SouthEast politicians did not count on was the Kaduna declaration, that has suddenly made all the blind and deaf politicians and elders from the SouthEast to begin to caution the utterances and activities of IPOB.

IpobExposed:
Expose them and be called an afonja

Dude, fear for your life.

These Ipobic plague zombies will not spare you for all your expose on their hypocrisy.
Be fearful of the mob motivated by hate.

Rather than accept that the talkative director is the obstacle, they rather see you as the obstacle for showing them their hate in 3D.

sean1000x:
Afonjas....and their divisive tendency

Shame!

Director Kanu has asked that he be killed anyday he fraternizes with Yorubas, Orji Kalu, Rochas Okorocha, Ohaneze leadership. That is the directive from his own words.

Yet same Kanu was as humble as a baby when Orji Kalu was meeting him in prison to help facilitate his release. He was relishing in the support of Ohaneze while in prison, and was received from jail by an Osita Chidoka who is actively campaigning for the Anambra election that IPOB want to prevent.

So Afonjas are divisive because Nnamdi Kanu made a death wish that is on record?

You are a generational zombie.

ERockson:
We learnt that the first VC of UI and UNILAG were igbo appointed by Nnamdi Azikwe.
It was also alleged by Akintola that about 98% of the appointment or recruitment by the then VC of UI that happened to be igbo were given to igbos.

Can we say this and many factors responsible for why Awolowo forbidden Zik to be the first Premier of Western region.

What would have happened to the Yorubas if Zik was allowed to govern the Yorubas?

Certainly not! The Igbo greed events your stated happened after and not before the regional elections of 1951 that led to the indigenous regional governments of 1952.

The only reason why Awo rightfully ensured Zik was put in his place, is because Zik was confused about his place.

He did not attempt to become premier in the North where he was born, or the East where his village was. Awolowo simply directed him to the position of opposition/2nd fiddle in the Western Region, at which point Zik remembered he had a village and suddenly became an Eastern Premier usurping an already prepared Eyo Ita who was his deputy in the NCNC party leadership.

The learning point here is that all Regions were eventually having indigenous leadership, but Zik assumed the Western Region would be stupid to embrace leadership of an Onitsha man from the East.

Another learning point is Zik proved that while he wanted to dominate away from home and not interested in playing 2nd fiddle on foreign soil, he was not prepared to let anyone dominate him on his own soil at home.

Don't cry for Zik, don't even feel sorry for a greedy fellow.

HIV didn't stop the guy from having a happy life afterwards. Maybe she had her HIV gifted to her from her recent past.

The girl is a slut who met her equal in the philandering boyfriend.

diMITCHELL:
so U felt Lagos state wasnt serious or what, make me understand??

Federal governement is unserious, and that is why Yabatech still remains a polytechnic.

How long did it take a serious Ogun State to meet up with the requirements, while the FG has officially began same process for Yabatech and KadPoly since mid 2006 without a conclusion in sight?

So the answer to your very first post is the absence of political will by the FG in the case of Yabatech.

diMITCHELL:
So U did not comprehend my statement before quoting me??

I did.

I just put it in proper perspective.

The state was serious, so they got the change done. The federal governement is unserious, so the change they have been formulating remains a hypothesis.

But a woman has the right to beat up a man ?

Some feminists argue like imbeciles.

If the Ghana police had arrested you and prosecuted you for the vandal that you are and for the assault on your mother-in-law, you won't have the time to be saying all this rubbish.

She who does not want to be assaulted, should not be assaulting either.

By the way, Tonto, it is obvious that you and most women are the ones that actually need therapy from the way you assault your husbands and mutilate your house maids.

diMITCHELL:
And yet they left Yabatech.


ok lemme be watching

Is it Ogun state or Lagos state that will request for Yabatech to become a University?

Has the federal government not been fiddling with the actual implementation since Obasanjo's regime ? When the federal government is truly ready to do same with Yabatech or Kaduna Polytechnic, it won't take 1yr to successfully implement the elusive change.

SuperS1Panther:
We cannot be totally homogenous. We have contiguous ethnicities we have interacted with for centuries and mingled for years.

The Nupes, The Eguns, and even the Igbiras or Ebiras. Spome even bear full yoruba names as First Middle and Last names. IT is extremely difficult to take them out of the Republic. Loyalty and patriotism to the nation is fundamental and not negotiable.

People should take time to read Awolowo's book on how he was sent to prison and we should be wary of parliamentary system. Every mistake in the constitution that the North and East fully exploited to connived against Awolowo must be blocked.

My major headache is -- what do we do with the issue of Ilorin (mind y word -- not Kwara).

Ilorin is not an issue. It is Yoruba land, and the yorubas there would have to do away with their Emir title that the yorubanised descendants of the expansionist Alimi hold on to.

The problem of the Yorubas there is the Islam that binds them to the Fulani minority. Even the descendants of Alimi all speak Yoruba and have Yoruba names to claim some legitimacy.

Omofunaab2:
I agree that i was wrong by inferring that the Eguns are ancestrally from a country that was not in existence then


But I think it's safe to say the Eguns in Nigeria can trace their origin to present day Benin republic.. While the yorubas indigenous to Benin Republic can also trace their origin to present day Nigeria?

The text in bold is true. If you consider where the bulk resides or where history confirms as their cultural source. In the case of Borgu kingdom, my criteria above is split between the Borgu of Nigeria and Borgu of Benin. The bulk of the kingdom is in Benin, while the cultural source is in Nigeria.

My own argument is if you maintain that the Eguns are ancestrally from Dahomey/Benin Republic, then you would have to accept that Badagry and Ipokia are ancestrally Benin Republic towns, which is not true.

I will only agree that yorubaland includes part of Benin and Togo, while Egun land includes part of Nigeria. The countries remain artificial and volatile, while the tribe and its land claims, culture and heritage will forever remain as the tribe remains.

Concerning a future Yoruba/Yoruboid country.

I will suggest a unitary republic where cities and towns have mayors for executive authority, but only one central government without artificial states. there should be no states/towns of origin classification.

People's origin should only be referred to based on where they live or were born, and should be the only franchise qualification for political participation.

Also a presidential political system ensures that both party and candidate have the majority support to assume office, and not a parliamentary case where an unpopular party leader rides on the success of his other popular party mates to assume a national leadership. The former is more expensive but more representative of the wishes of the electorate.

Under no condition must a Yoruba republic allow refugee incursions from the old East and North. Bilateral trade may be established for mutual benefits that proximity affords. But entry of old Nigeria into our new country must be well monitored to ensure due exit.

All trade must be done with a firm national mindset of economic security.

Lastly, corruption must be placed on the pedestal of concern it deserves. Coming from a rotten Nigeria, we would need to exorcise this vice from the national psyche, and promote a conscious work ethic in our youth. Law enforcement must be active and prompt but civil and above board. The Judiciary should be a positive departure from the clowns in cloak we have in the Nigerian courts.

No welfare state condition must be supported, rather government must be ready to help support the enterprise ideas of the citizens.

Lastly everyman should be a king. A country of equals who have same access to education, healthcare, justice, and employment/enterprise.

A country of patriotic citizens, different from a country of bitter victims that Nigeria nurtures.

givbitcoin:
Minority? You must be out of your mind. But don't worry, you will be paid in full for your treachery, backstabbing and all the vices you solely brought upon this country.

Dude, get lost and ponder on your future.

Omofunaab2:
Bro, Eguns in Yewa are regarded as Nigerians.. Those in iwoye ketu etc Egun is an ethnic group in Nigeria. .

Yes ancestrally they are from Benin Republic just like the Yorubas in Benin Republic are also from Nigeria ancestrally but regarded as an ethnic group in Benin Republic. .

It would be wrong to say ancestrally any tribe is from a country where their majority population is from, especially when that country never predated their migration or claims to their present abode.

As such, the Yorubas in Dahomey are indigenous to Dahomey as they own their towns and villages in Dahomey, just as the Gun/Egun are indigenous to Nigeria as they own their towns and villages in Nigeria.

The geographic description that is imposed on an international tribe by a country boundary does not in anyway erode the claims of the minority or less notable section of the divide to the country they have found themselves.

Same goes to Borgu kingdom that is part Nigeria part Dahomey, or Adamawa that is part Nigeria, part Cameroun.

The people retain ancestral claims to their own land of present existence even if they have a bigger kin across the international borders.

givbitcoin:
You people should keep on converging here like vagrant vultures that you are. That is the only leverage your education offers you, but I'll laugh over it so long your incoherent draft will end up a nonsensical piece. But pray! Pray earnestly that I don't ascend to power, which none of you can overrule anyway, because if I do, you will wish you never deceived people in this country.

Who is this inconsequential conquered minority?

AreaFada2:
Sigh. Are the masses better off now than during Jonathan's time?

I think that should be the objective discourse?
Every party eventually dies. Like all things, it passes into history. APC also won't be an exception.

The masses are suffering ooo, but I won't blame APC for global oil crisis that has refused to abate, or the fact that our economy was designed to rise and fall with oil prices, but we never made good of the high tides.

But on a party affairs level, the APC is as hopeless as the PDP and must surely be buried soon.

IJOBA2:
GBAWE WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT

I am not the great Gbawe of Nairaland. Some shoes are too big to step in.

But do you fault the factual history I have opined?

Slai1:
Okay.

Free and fair elections in Nigeria ended with Jonathan.

Jonathan managed to kill PDP with his cluelessness and very legal but unwise ambition of seeking a 2nd term.
Then he killed the PDP followership in the North by indirectly campaigning for APC with claims that APC is a Northern Muslim party.
By the time Jonathan and his supporters realized the self inflicted damage, they dispatched VP Namadi Sambo to the Muslim North to convince them that he his more Northern and Muslim than APC, and that even his name "Namadi" is a corruption of Medina in Saudi Arabia, and he has memorized the Koran.

Hahahaha! Shame on PDP.

bakila:
Jahun people voted massively for PDP. Why?

Lol!

Massively with 187 as opposed to over 19,000 for APC.

Guy you no get conscience truly.

Hahahaha!

eezeribe:
See her legs and hands... Bleaching like roasted plantain.
This kind lady fit use jahz grab man pikin,say na husband.
My God will always deliver me from Karashikas.
So the man never marry since

No bleaching observed here.

Natural complexion all the way through.

The husband got dark knuckles though.