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I once followed a gal for 4 yrs without getting her, then one nit around 11:30pm, she said yes and i was very happy, bt the following morning around 7AM she said it ws over. Dats like 8 hrs rit

Its the trend, you know, women naturally go where the wind blows, thats y dey fall for anytin.

The strangest thing is most people dnt see anytin wrong in dressing almost naked, i once heard a pastor's wife telling ladies to put on curve revealin cloths so men can see them.

Pls ladies, wat are you selling, wat are u advertisin?

With the way tins are goin gals wil walk naked one day. Bt thankfully, some gals are jst decently different.

jeffizy: What is wrong with some ladies these days? Dating an obviously married man.
Hanging out yesterday and i saw a man in his 50's with big bulging tummy and a lousy personality hanging with a 20 + girl.
Is it money? Is it sheer promisquity or fun?

You will hardly see a gal/lady/woman who had not dated a married man before.

There is this thing i tell gals around me, and wheneva i say it they will keep quite for like 5 minutes. I tell them anyone who dates a married man is making her wife unhappy and destroyin her (the man's wife) home. So when she gets married too she shdnt expect a happy home, Infact, it will be unfair for her to enjoy her marriage.

My question is, what kind of children wud she and oda gals like her raise? The future of our generation is in trouble

Where do dey alwaz get these N5,000 gals from, so cheap

Nothing is wrong with kissing, but when u do it with someone u are emotionally attached to, chances are high that some other ungodly things will follow.

Nothing is wrong abt going to a club house, bt in order not to be lead into temptation (our lord's prayer), dnt go there.

A normal meal shd include 3 meats, so u can eat each before, during and afta the meal.

And wud u expect a gal to say "YES" that very moment u ask her out?

She has her own life to live too, she is probably in a relationship, she probably wsnt ready for a relationship at a particular time, so understand their angles too.

But this sounds like a movie to me sha, how wud dey all turn u down about the same time and then call you bak to say they are now ready, about the same time too, are they sisters or friends? Abi dem do meeting? Then a Nigerian gal ( in this case 3 gals o) called u bak 2 say she is now ready for a relationship, Kai, pls wats the title of the movie.

Their is this course i did in my early years in school, the title is LOGIC AND LINEAR ALGEBRA, and it says the picture you are painting doesnt follow logic

benzion72: Being a stammerer is not your making. But the explanation for stammering is that your brain is faster than your mouth. All you do is listen to your brain and keep your cool. You can overcome it if you will allow your brain to harmonise with your mouth

No one had been able to explain the technics of starmmering like u jst did, guy, u have my respect, please step out to recieve a hand shake.

@ Poster, try to speak as slow as u can, dnt make it look funny bt you can rehearse it overtime, it works wonders, thou it cud be difficult to adapt to

Singlehood is to be enjoyed bcs once u lost it, u can neva be single again, so enjoy it while it lasts.

Im enjoyin mine. My house is too big for me alone, i dnt even have a relationship at all bt im enjoyin ma singlehood.

You will hardly see a gal who hadnt dated a married man b4

Make God forgive me, iv done dis tin b4, i boarded a bus around 10pm in Kaduna one nit, men nothing wey i no do wit dis hausa gal o, and she didnt even say anytin.

Maybe the poster shd define both. Who is a nice/bad guy?

I dont know where i stand bt let me paint a scenerio that describes me.

Gals naturally reject guys who love and care for them and chase guys they THINK they love, bt over time they wud realize how wrong they have been. At that point, they wud come up wit a black eye, a broken heart or start a story that can make Jeremiah's lamentation sound like a love song. I have established this over time and i alwaz tell gals around me that i will neva pity a gal who comes on to tell me how unfair guys have treated her or how unfortunate she has been with relationships. Weneva i say this, gals will keep quite oooooo for like 2 mins, then ask, ha, but why na?

So where do i stand? Let me know so i can defend it.

Meeeeen, dis guy get mind o, ah ah, him no dey fear

nelie: Yeah. Tnx jaco. Am sincerely thinking of breaking up wt my Gf. On d average I make 130k in a month, but I can't even save 200k in 6months. Pls I need more comments from u guys, d girls too can make their view known

Guy, if u really need advice from me, contact me.

This is what young men do when God blesses them early in life.

Are you glorifying God wit the blessings He pushed your way? What you are doing wudnt produce anything positive and im sure you know that.

Young people have the tendency of destroying their own future, and its too risky damaging the future wit the actions of today.

Jst imagine, if u are to live for 90yrs, nw u are less than 30, thats one-third of 90, and those years have been spent doing this, meaning you have not even spent half of ur years yet, so how do you expect those 60yrs to look like?

Tell yoursef to change and return to God. Start a serious and Godly relationship wit a responsible gal.

Then you are good to go.

I will rather blame some guys for this kind of reactions frm gals. When you wanna start feeding a child that has been feed with milk for the 1st 5 yrs of his life, with garri, there will be trouble. I always tell my friend that wateva u cant keep doing for 10yrs dnt even start it with your partner, and this explains the cause of most trouble is many homes, women alwaz beliv men change afta wedding. If u attract a gal with money or materials, keep doing it, bcs the day u stop is the day you start loosing her. The koko is, love shdnt be conditioned on anythin for it to last for eva.

kimberluge: Probably the same reason guys are neva satisfied with no sex in a relationship! Mayb d gal has refused 2 giv him wat he wants til he giv her wat she wants!! No one is a fool!!!

Please how else do we define prostitution? You jst confirmed wat a guy said last week.

So men shd have it at d back of dia minds that dey are paying for sex, as a matter of fact, the quality of sex you get depends on how heavy you pocket is.

Thats lamentable and shambolic, our generation needs to turn to God.

From the comments im reading here, its very glaring that most ladies will disrespect their husbands if he cant provide for his home.
It’s so hard to admit that our generation has lost it and this issue will only get worse. Come to think of it, how many gals will agree to date a jobless guy? Guys please share your experience, how were you treated by gals when you weren’t financially empowered. I am a living testimony, only very few gals will listen to you wen u cant meet their financial need. Now, are we expecting miracles? These are the same gals we are talking abt. A gal who wouldn’t accept you as a bf wen u are broke will only frustrate u as a wife wen u cant provide for her and will call u an infidel. Only God will save us. Guys, stop dating gals who chase money, they are nt hard to identified, If u wanna have a happy home, run frm such gals, na dem plenty pass.

I once said on this forum that women are naturally disrespectful, one mumu was tellin me trash. You need to ask yoursef why the bible says wives should respect their husbands. Pls go through the responses from ladies here to verify this ascertion. Why shd u disrespect your husband bcs he lost his job or wateva reason? The issue is most gals have bin configured in a particular format ( by media and friends) and even b4 gettin married they have told themselves what to do at particular times. Pls look up, respect is nt conditional.
Bt like iv alwaz told mysef, its nt impossible to find a decent and respectful gal, dey are out there, locate one and appreciate her. Bt for those rude ones, listen up, u have chosen a failed marital life and only God will deliver the man that will fall prey to you. Men need to watch and pray. Na those disrespectful gals plenty pass
Marriage is to be enjoyed and once you marry a rude gal FORGET IT.

This guy is a born comedian, funnier than Gandoki

I will like to know the ages of those who said age is jst figures, bcs im ice sure gals in their late 30s wudnt say dat, nor will dudes in their 40s. Age matters so much in marriage, it might not, in bf/gf relationship.

Have u eva compared a 45yr old man with her female counterpart?

May i ask a question pls?

Whats the purpose of your post? I wish to know

I dont subscribe to gender juxtaposing and disparity, its a clownish thing to do.

Nothing, whether positive or negative, can entirely be ascribed to a particular sex, it depends on who you are dealing with, the individual.

Going forward, the question of faithfullness in relationships DEPENDS ON YOUR EXPERIENCE.

It depends on your experience, and wateva you experienced shouldnt be used as a general template for every other person

adabeke12: Every tyme marry marry marry! mschewwww. Everyone is not meant to be married oh!

You sound defeated gal. what have you been passing tru? Eya,

You dont have to do this boy

In those days, it used to be 21 states and thats what i still remember

sokoto - sokoto

kaduna - kaduna

kano - kano

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Pleateu - Jos.

10/10 very good

Iv kept all these commandments since birth, so what's next?

Gals dnt deserve 2 be viewed dis way, its unfair.