Thank you for calling my attention to your car’s issue. However, I would suggest you get a high end scanner that is capable of scanning and diagnosing transmission too. Your scan report shows your scan tool has limitation with this regards. If you’re in Abuja and it’s okay by you, feel free to contact me to perform a scan and other diagnosis. Thanks.
Please can I contact you? I am in Kano and can send the car down to Abuja if need be.
kingreign: This is a thread created for people to tell us their vehicle faults and we on our part can give solutions to their car faults. Where applicable, we may make references using pictures, videos and others to provide answers and solutions.
Please, state the name, model and year of your car, type of transmission and engine, and the location of the car to enable quicker response.
Happy motoring!!
Good morning kingreign
Please I use a Honda Accord 2009 model base model.
I recently noticed that the gear stalls in changing, especially when the car is hot/driven for long. I did a scan and some codes came up.
FalseProphet1: Great Oracle declared his support for Peter Obi earlier today, few hours later he got invited by the police for cyber stalking someone and other allegations.
These people are working really hard. If Peter Obi has no structure and is as irrelevant as they have claimed why go after his supporters, why try to silence people using their resources to support an irrelevant person.
I see the great Oracle walking out of the police station a free man, I see Peter Obi winning next year's election.
This I have seen.
The guy knows how to play with Nigerians intelligence.
The letter was dated 24th Jun and he posted it today just after he claimed to support Obi, only because he wants to emotionally blackmail NPF. Let him go and answer the query irrespective of who he supports
DaniDani: This story just doesn't add up. If someone was driving his bus for town service shuttling and ran into gunmen who ordered him to carry them to a location under gun point, only to get there and assassinate someone, how is he supposed to be the kller? There should be proper investigation to ascertain whether what he said is the truth, if it's, he's a victim of circumstance.
Did he in any way after then go to the police to report the case and give any useful information or since then they have been threatening him?
I shed tears of joy last year. I was working as a live in housemaid and earning 15k salary as a university graduate, there was no job and I hate been lazy, so I started from somewhere, I was encouraged by a great friend I met here in nairaland, John. Can't really remember his moniker, Sunshyne200 he celebrated every job offer I got like they were huge, from the 8k per month job to the 15k per month job. His words of encouragement made me buckled up. After buying groceries for my daughter, I barely have enough to pay for school fees. Pocohantas God bless her sweet soul. If I keep typing, everywhere go full. But she's a blessed woman.
Thanks alot. God bless you greatly, you are always amazing
Am not here to condemn any oil . Again majority of the cars in Nigeria are from the USA , 20w50 engine is not common with USA cars anymore.. The most common oil is 5w30 and car engines are now moving to thinner oil like 0w20 .. These are all facts..... When u talk about the car running tempt.....Texas, Arizona, Las Vegas etc do have the same temperature as Nigeria, so we can't use Nigeria temperature as an excuse to use 20w50.....
As I mentioned to you ,the cars u mention that are built in SA do not have the same engine as the USA spec.. The USA are built better and have better option .. They are much safer and built safer due to the USA strict crash test, other countries don't have that strict crash safety requirements as the USA.. So these cars will cost more ,compare to cars from SA or cars built for African market...
There is a reason why parts of these cars cost much.. Bottom line is owners should read their manual at all times, if it is written in the manual of any particular car that 20w50 is ok to use , than am fine with that .. But if does not state so I advice against it. .. ..
In reality 20w50 sells more than other oil ,it is cheap for a reason..... ..
Hello boss.
Having read most of what you said, I think I may have been servicing my vehicle wrongly. I use the Honda Accord 2009 2.0l engine and after reading all these I checked my owners manual and the recommended oil for our temperature is 15W - 40. How can I correct the wrong practice I have been doing all these while.
* won't changing oil affect the engine again?
Just your professional advice please and if you are in Abuja, I don't mind coming for servicing in your workshop.
Good morning Gazzuzz, I use a 2009 Honda accord base model. But my AC had issues and in changing the compressor, the mechanic noted that my car came with a single cell radiator, and he is suggesting that I change to double cell
Please won't fixing the double cell radiator affect the car?
Topmaike007: speaking up is for him to kill my brothers serving in Nigeria police and Army abi?
Speaking up is for him to make my younger ones orphans, speaking up is for him to make our women widow, speaking up is to make our parents cry for loosing there sons serving and making a living in Nigeria force in the east?
May you people supporting him suffer and die the way Nnamdi Kanu ordered the killing of those people..
Before you react and quote I am an igbo man from Ebonyi state.
One of the most sensible post here. I am from Ebonyi too.
MERCHANDISER: **NOTES to IPOBians From ;Nnoruka Udechukwu SAN** "I, like many other Igbos have stood on the side lines for far too long, wishing this Biafran breeze fizzles away, but it’s now dangerously turning into a major storm that constitutes an existential threat to Igbo civilization as we know it. Those of you IPOBians, Sympathizers, Rumour Mongers, Facebook Warriors, Facebook megastars, Opinion Leaders and Propagandists escalating the already tense situation must understand that in the end, you'll all be losers, victims and at the same time in more bondage than you ever were. Not my wish anyway, but the perceptible reality. No war ever got won by emotions. Preparation and strategy does, ask any battle-tested soldier. Even the best of them get eaten. Little by little you guys are doing everything possible to attract avoidable conflict to our region hoping that the international community will intervene. You'll be in for a shocker when this meal you've cooked for so long is served up. Understand this, I have monitored many revolutionary conflicts around the world and know this for a fact, the international community foot-drags at less than a snail pace, if at all, before attempting any interventions in internal conflicts in a sovereign nation and that includes America and Israel you're hoping on. War is a huge liability and no Country wants to meddle. The best they give these days are reliefs not military aids and that is after many must have died including those who started the fire. I watched it happen to Libyans, Yemenis, Syrians and till now they still don't have peace. Besides, you’d be stupid to believe that those countries, if ever there is any, promising to support Nnamdi Kanu are really in for it. Some of them want to use him to initiate conflict and sell their weapons to both sides and make blood dollars. War is an all-comers affair and all kinds of demonically vicious players come to the slimy field to play the hellish game of blood and death. In this case, Boko Haram that has largely been caged by the army will break free to roam with ambitions to finally establish their Caliphate across Nigeria, all because the Army now fighting on two fronts can no longer concentrate on them having become too stretched. Guess what, they’ll come with ISIS on their back. Nigerian Army will be fighting to keep Nigeria together on one front, Boko Haram (ISIS Nigerian Branch) with Caliphatist ambition on the other and Biafra with secessionist ambition on yet another front. That was how Syria got so complex till date and any war in Nigeria today will have a similar picture. Whoever gets overwhelmed will face the other. It will be a long and difficult journey and unlike the first civil war without Boko Haram in the equation, no one can predict the tortuous end. Other Jihadists from across Africa and Middle-East will join in as they always do wherever there’s instability to advance their different brands of Islam. In the end you’ll leave Nigeria and discover you’re fighting other strangers you don’t even know how they came into the picture. The big boys (international players) like Iran will be there to get there pound of flesh from Nigeria in revenge for the Shiites, Saudi will be there to defend Nigeria, and all will play. Weapons merchants will the start smiling to the banks. Guess where the theatre of war would be, Igboland. We must not allow this! Libyans thought they were fighting Ghaddafi but after Ghaddafi, they discovered other strangers fighting them to establish their different brands of Islam. Same thing in Syria. The words of Saif Al Islam Ghaddafi (Ghaddafi’s first son) keeps ringing in my ears as he forewarned Libyans of these grim possibilities, but okuko nti ike nánu ife n’ite ofe. I never took him seriously at the time but in retrospect, I now see he knew better because it panned out just as he predicted and Libya still isn’t out of the woods. That’s the way it is these days of jihad consciousness across the world. If you ever experience war, you'll never take peace for granted. War is not a movie as some of you think. You could be the first victim. Can you stomach watching your loved ones maimed, killed, raped, tortured, starve to death under slow and painful circumstances? Those are the grim realities of war and in Africa, it is executed with luciferous savagery and psychopathic sadism. The worst of peace is still better than the best of wars. Funny enough, most of our chest-beating IPOBians will likely die off within the first month or two of the conflict leaving those who knew nothing or are on the sidelines to defend themselves. There will be nowhere to run to as no country in West Africa will agree to accept the ocean- sized volume of refugees. When the Rwandan genocide was looming, everyone was running his mouth until the death hurricane they courted so hard swept across their country, they wailed and shouted for international community to intervene but none came. That's the way it is. Paul Kagame, their current President it was who ended it. And they vowed to “never again”. They learnt from history and have completely removed tribalism from every facet of national life and are admirably making astounding progress as one of Africa's best. My advice, agreed, Buhari hasn't treated us as well as we wanted, but wait till 2023 and make amends. I have listened to Nnamdi Kanu on several videos and my conclusion is that he is plain naive on how things roll in a conflict situation. On one occasion he bragged that it would take him only two weeks to reach Sokoto in the event of war. I don't know what weapons and extra- terrestrial strategies he has to execute that. War is an unpredictable undertaking that you'll be ignorant to estimate which direction it goes. As it is, he has no weapons just yet and is bragging. Many of you believe him and even ascribe infallibility to his words. I have lived a couple of years abroad and what some of you don't know is that many of our people there egging you on don't have immigration papers and are praying for an outbreak of hostilities in Nigeria so they can claim asylum on the back of it. We must advise ourselves on this current path of self- annihilation. Some of you think Biafra will be the end of all your problems, so South Sudan thought, as did Eritrea, but sorry it will be the beginning of new ones. Now take this to the Bank, it will even be far more difficult for any country to touch any conflict here with a long spoon than it was in the sixties. Reason? Then there was the prospect of oil but today oil is out of fashion and even as it is, Nigeria is begging for buyers and nobody's buying. Osinbajo said that much a few days back. Now, tell me, if they spend their money intervening in your conflict to save your asses, what will they get in return? The best they can do for you is to condemn what is going on, then more out-pouring of condemnations and then more unleashing of floodgates of condemnations, but NO ACTION while you die in numbers. You often argue that a call for referendum is not a call for war. I agree completely! Very true! Referendum is a right not a privilege. Even Buhari asserted that much in favour of Palestine when he addressed the UN. However, it is plain naivety to assume that all that is enshrined in international law is enforceable. UN has no mechanism of enforcement. Countries and Dictators constantly flout it and nothing happens. Even if something were to happen you’ll all have decomposed in your graves by then. A show of bravado will not lead you anywhere Umunnem. Call me a coward if you like, but Chinua Achebe told us that we often stand in the house of a coward to point at where a brave man ONCE lived. In any case, isn’t it foolishness to challenge an army that has been stockpiling arms since 1960 when you on the other hand haven’t bought a bullet just yet? Papa Achebe puts it this way, “Only a foolish man can go after a leopard with his bare hands”. As impulsive and as tempting as it may get, tone down your rhetorics, invectives, acerbics, and cursing on social media. Cherish the peace you now have at least Igbos are not worse-off than other regions despite never being in power. While there is grinding poverty in other regions, the highest income per capita in the country is posted by Anambra and other Igbo states ain’t doing badly. Our people live well, build better houses compared to other regions and it's all a miracle given the scratch we started from after the war. Why do we want to throw all that away because of ego and start all over again? Is it a curse? The Hausas though having been in power do not even live a better quality of life than Igbos. Let's be wise and not give opportunity to destroy all we've achieved as a people. I condemn in the strongest of terms the killing of unarmed people by Nigerian soldiers, killer herdsmen, and do not by any means say Nigeria is what we want it to be but understand Biafra wasn't Ojukwu's first choice. At Aburi his choice was a return to true federalism which he knew was a better deal for us than secession. Nigeria failed to honour that agreement and continued the killings forcing him to declare a Biafran Republic to save his people from slaughter and it's understandable. Nigeria owes us tons of apologies, I agree. But brothers, let's think again! A Biafra today will even be far less economically viable than it would have been then. Reason is because then we would have used oil money to jump- start the new country but today oil is so unsellable to the extent that Venezuela with arguably the largest reserves is grappling with severe economic problems. Kick-starting a new country from the basics would be painfully slow and may outlive our generation to even get the basic things in place. Arewa youths know that, the reason they have asked Nigerian Government to let Igbos go, only for Nnamdi Kanu to start asking for Benue and Rivers because he knows that Igboland alone isn’t viable. Asking for Benue is laughable because they were never part of Biafra and have made it clear to all, as did different Rivers groups that they don’t want Biafra. A handful of his collaborators from those regions pledging allegiance to him does not equate to an entire people. Majority of their people hate this Biafran idea and have made that much clear. Some funny IPOBians are also hoping on Asari Dokubo and FFK. What a funny bunch being used to fight other people’s fight. Why won’t they take up the gauntlet or is it only us that is suffering injustice? Don't even think corruption will suddenly disappear in a new Biafra as some naive IPOBians hope. If they give you Biafra today, your eyes will open up to new unpleasant realities many of you haven't even factored-in in your agitation but then it would have been late. I know voices like mine are often loathed and cursed by IPOBians but some of us who know the truth can no longer keep quiet while you drag us all into avoidable chaos. I owe our people the truth as I see it. Curse me all you want, it's OK. Umunnem, ka ako’n’uche na udo chianu biko! Patience solves all things, with time. Let our people think again and know what is looming. Stop your facebook and social media vituperations, cursing, grand standing and join me to educate others. De-escalate this situation and speak words of kindness to others. Even mighty America de-escalates after tensions with Russia. It’s called wisdom. North Korea provokes South Korea most times but the South always de-escalates tensions knowing that the North hasn’t got anything to lose in the event of war but beautiful South Korea will lose quite a lot. In our case, all the beautiful houses and streets in Igboland will be razed to the ground. Why should we be starting afresh all the time? It will even be more painful if we lose again as was the case in 1970. As it is, it’s not looking good! One more thing. We can join other ethnic groups to demand restructuring. Let us not face our common enemy alone. Britain is our enemy using minority Fulani to enslave Nigerians. We can together liberate Nigeria from Fulani if only we can unite. Let's stop all these provocative language and join forces with the West and the Middle belt. See all over where Igbos are killed on daily bases.
I cried reading this. Thanks alot. God bless you for posting this here....
The Chief of Naval Staff, Vice Adm. Awwal Gambo, on Monday charged officers and ratings to be loyal and professional in the discharge of their duties
Gambo gave the charge during the commissioning of intervention projects at the Nigerian Navy Finance and Logistics College, Owerri, in Abia.
The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that the projects were provided by the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN), as part of its social/corporate responsibility.
Gambo said that training constituted the best form of welfare in the force, and he would continue to accord priority to it in order to raise the bar of performance.
He said the Nigerian Navy, under his watch, would continue to support the college as well as provide the wherewithal for its training activities.
The naval chief lauded the CBN for its intervention projects in the college and its support for the Nigerian Navy generally.
“This infrastructure development by the CBN has not only enhanced the aesthetic outlook of the college, but also significantly improved the learning and working environment for officers and staff.
“I wish to express my sincere appreciation to the governor, management and staff of CBN for these monumental intervention projects,” he said.
In his goodwill message, Gov. Okezie Ikpeazu of Abia thanked the Nigeria Navy for its contributions toward maintaining peace and order, not only in the host community but also in the entire state.
He called for the inclusion of financial intelligence in its curriculum, towards strengthening the war against insurgency in the country.
Ikpeazu advised officers, staff and management of the college to make good use of the facilities that had been provided for them.
His Imo counterpart, Gov. Hope Uzodinma, congratulated the Nigerian Navy for its robust achievements, saying it could compete favourably with its counterparts globally.
He commended the CBN and urged it to continue with social intervention in other sectors of the economy.
Earlier in his address, Rear Adm. Kamarudeen Lawal, the Flag Officer Commanding, Naval Training Command, said that the facilities had enabled the college to admit larger number of officers.
According to him, it had helped to clear the backlog of officers and ratings that were yet to undergo professional training.
In his keynote speech, the CBN Governor, Mr Godwin Emefiele, said that the facilities were provided to enhance the environment for teaching and learning in the college.
Emefiele, who was represented by Mrs Amina Oni, Head of Projects, CBN, said that the college was important for the development and sustenance of the capacity of officers and men of the Nigerian Navy.
NAN reports that the projects commissioned include fully furnished 60-room male and 24-room female hostels, academic complex, auditorium, kitchen and dining, gymnasium and swimming pool.
The apex bank also donated a 300KVA transformer to the college.
winning101: So the 900 million naira doesn't contain monitoring tracker, voice recorder or GPS? It doesn't kill Africans too?
This greatly shows that poverty and hunger is the highest cause of people whipping up weird conspiracy theories and abnormal stories.
A person who is handsomely employed or has a profitable business that yeilds good money will know how it feels to have financial freedom and time and then understand that nothing, I repeat, nothing, will ever make a $100b+ retiree like Bill Gates to even have the weirdest thought of having to inject monitor or whatever they call it inside some poor Nigerian or anyone at all. The technology to do such is not even available. If available Bill Gates will have to spend of $200bn to inject only Nigeria with 200m people $2000 trackers each. His networth is only $150bn or so.
The most embarrassing part of these stories is the that people spreading it took polio vaccines donated by Bill Gates at infant, they didn't die, only to grow up and think Bill Gates or someone somewhere wants to eat their destiny or monitor their movement. Same person owns a smartphone with GPS, Internet connection and a gallery full of his photos, has a Facebook account with all his information, and then a bank account with all his accurate personal information/biometrics and financial details and history - all stored with computers running on Windows operating system that was developed by...wait for it...Bill Gates.
Omuaro38: Like play like play some demonic elements are hell bent on turning the SE (which holds the enviable position as the most peaceful region in Nigeria) into another Borno! how did ESN go from flushing out criminal herdsmen from our forests to attacking security agents majority of whom are probably Igbos? now I expect the unknown gunmen to exert revenge and go on a killing spree of more security personnels that will trigger more bloodbath... UmuIgbo we don't need this madness right now, if ESN is responsible for all these attacks we need to seriously call Nnamdi Kanu to order before it gets out of hand. I support ESN but I'm afraid they are beginning to lose the plot... they were created as a vigilante security outfit mearnt to protect our villages, farms and forest not to become some ethnic militia that were unfortunately beginning to see now...they can't win this war against a far better equipped Nigerian army, they lack the sophisticated logistics of Boko haram or ISWAP, much less the type of fanaticism required to successfully fight the state army.
I read all you wrote with so much faith that at least, there is someone with a mind created by God and I wasn't disappointed.
God knows you said the exact truth, my brother, the ESN would soon lose support of the people, you can't declare a guerrilla war on state troops been recruited bi-annually, with an oath to die for the nation.
We are not fanatics, we are not barbaric, things can change but it doesn't have to be war.
No country in the 21st century had gone to war and made it out wholly.
Please I want to buy a car, but I don't want the options of Toyota or Honda as the euphoria and chase in Nigeria just made me not like any of the products.
Please I ask for other options(models) of cars that are good and reliable in this country.
Iamafinegirl: Did you tell them that when we are talking “You are not serious is a big INSULT for you” Did u tell then that when u say I like trump and I say “me I hater trump because of this and that” it is already an offense and you admitted that maybe it’s true you having issues with me airing opinions because you are boss or what I don’t know? That was one day holyspirit made you admit...so you knew you had the issue all this while but you would be shouting I am the person arguing (I never knew different opinions was argument. I heard it first from you). Did you tell them a simple conversation or difference in opinion even on a gist is an insult to you?
Did you tell them I think of quality and wen a frying pan was needed I was saying the new expensive ones sef are not good, they burn. Second new is better in this case and we got a second new one? Because it’s not necessarily about cost but most times you won’t even be able to understand the depth of what I suggest sometimes.
Did you tell them I explained something one day that I paid money to so and so person to avoid a problem and you tried to give me another solution to have taken and I was like “me I don’t want wahala oo thats why I did what I did@ and because everything is fight and arguement for you you had stood up stormed out of the house because you felt i said I don’t want your wahala etc when all I was saying is that I didn’t want wahala if d issue boomeranged and so I didn’t even look for other means I just did d surest method in question” did u settle down to listen or because you never patient and always ready to call everything an argument or fight you had kickstarted your nature?
Did you tell them you wanted a car and I said this car is too expensive tell someone who we know imports to bring for you although the person could delay and may change the car you agreed on but I said do a written agreement with him so it would be cheaper for you and that way he won’t do anything funny ? And you would spend less and get a better grade or level like the one I got instead of paying for something lower at the same price as the one you paid for in town. Out of love, did you not turn it to fight and say I am wicked, and louded the issue and dramatised it as being evil. Did you tell them you lied to me that you don’t drink or smoke? But you drink and lied from foundation of a relationship to win a girl? When I realised out of anger I said you lied to me you don’t drink but you are a drunkard. Did your remember saying my father who doesn’t drink at all and you know fully is the drunkard You have called me demonic woman You have called me stupid woman You have called me very stupid woman When you were trying to win me and I was saying no no I didn’t want, leave me and you were ever persistent didn’t I tell you I am scared the depth of what you feel is more of obsessive not love? Then I should to shout I would say cause am not a lier that you should leave me, is it by force etc etc which u refer to today and I do tell you then your pressure was too much and I didn’t like you which is normal to any woman who didn’t initially like a man that kept pressuring her...knocking her gate over and over on different occasions etc.
The list is endless but if we discussing and you don’t understand what I am saying and I am frustrated talking and I say “you no dey understand English” you just flare up that that is a big insult. Things that aren’t insults you made them insults to defend yourself. Did you tell them the most times we went to Shoprite then I use to be the one buying things...and you usually pick nothing. So why should Shoprite be so expensive if I buy water “nestle water” and other things from there even before we ever dated and you used to follow me there to win me and I never asked you to pay for me or use you as a toaster?
Did you tell them that you are building and I am also building because we had started the seperate building plans before we started dating?
And the months you spent all your salary not even on the building alone oo. Busy dashing people and at 3rd of the month you were broke and I was like how would we handle the house you said I am there and I held those months because that’s what a good woman would do. I know men can have extended family responsibilities but women too have and it’s still ideal to plan inclusive of extended family
Did you tell dem that wen you arrived at the counsellor we told them we had a 60k and 40k rule as at then but we just weren’t piling it in the same account and the pastor said ok we should do it as a joint account so no one would feel he is bringing all the money” and we stop spending differently. you told them it’s the pastor who proposed it or he told us that ok you people should just put the money in a seperate account and the wife asked what else is making you angry and you said contributions for repair should be added”.
Did you tell them that when your drivers license expired and there was a delay with joint account , you said you would keep some part of the contribution for where you stay but I must submit all my own contribution to your younger sisters account while you submit just some to her because you don’t trust me with money. The younger sister would now be the one dishing out the feeding money to me who is the one working? While you comfortably keep part of your contribution as a boss. Did you tell them I said you should give her all if i would also have to submit my own all to her since she is the chosen financial manager of our own institution so she can be dishing out money to both of us as at when due since distance is not a barrier to bank transfer so I would also monitor u because you don’t trust me with money and you want to monitor what I am eating when u aren’t even there with me.
Did you tell them you don’t live according to your means and you always borrowing and financing a lifestyle heavier than you inclusive of feeding (because you eat 70-80%) of all the food in the house? Did you tell them you have collected above 14 million naira loan and you haven’t completed any house you are building aside still having normal money people have used to complete their own houses.
Did you tell them you give them babes money and say send me your account number Cus I have seen it but to buy Apple extra for me out of a budget as per my love this one na for u from my pocket? Did you tell then as we came back from your location you had meeting with your babe asking if hostel has resumed and all by 6pm same day?
Did u tell them that I had been using clin-cap face cream, benzoxide peroxide face cream, and you have been using it with me and I have never said this cream is 2000 and the other is 1000 let’s contribute from budget but you bought olaybact for me 400 naira and you were balancing account for me?
Did you tell them I did a soap mix of 13000 naira to 15,000 naira and you have been lovingly using it With me since January and I have never in my life said your contribution for soap but you won’t even do it, if you did sef you would have been asking for money by now.
Did you tell them that even to buy apple while taking me to were you lived loveingly as per this is my new location has to be from the budget and that you couldn’t say babes aside this budget this for you? Did you tell them I also contributed for the fuel as you were taking me lovingly to your new location? Location you dey go dey come yourself but as I go follow u go know d place I must pay for transport. I for kukuma just enter public transport. But I don’t even have a problem with that since that’s what he wanted. We just accounted for my path
Did you tell them...that I am not wasteful and you went ahead to do things you wanted to do and started blaming me for it. Like buying a new tv when your mum was around for them...knowing fully well I hardly look at a television and you did it for you and yours? Did you tell them this girl who doesn’t contribute lovingly gives your sis money and also give your mum at least in the best way I can afford within my means but you no send me message so that’s my business you are not even seeing it. Na me send myself? When last did you buy me a gift in a year and half? It was a wig when you were still trying to toast me. That was only when you were trying to win my heart. Did you tell them you don’t do anything for me I don’t ask you for money for cloth, hair etc or my own fuel as I am a responsible adult and not a burden on a man which you know yourself. Did you let them know that the food you eat 70% of and the house repair you would do definitely if I am there or not is what you would always come and stand on my head for when we weren’t yet contributing in a joint account. Did you tell them you don’t take care of me and you are just so self centered about the feeding part because you eat more of the food? Yet I was still buying food oo no be say I go out and don’t bring anything to the house. I still buy meat, tomatoes, onion etc but maybe not just up to the person who consumes the 80%
Did u tell them d day you took me out and water was bought which was like two years ago was a special day I think maybe Valentine or my birthday or something and “I was only asking to be treated special”. As per today na correct day, spoil me na. Did you tell them that I spoke of u buying some thing like blender or electronic because you need quality one to last. The cheap juicer bought did it last? No Was there not finally a decision where the expensive “binatone” blender was picked because for some things, quality is important so it lasts? Did you tell them I met condoms in your other room and you alleged it’s your boss that came to your house to use it? Because you couldn’t tell him no? Did you tell them that if I want to do something you would use my car and if you want to do something you would use my car and I said love should cover all this there should be no differentiating of car for activities and you can use mine when you want and viceversal?
Did u tell them I said we shouldn’t keep this house n let me go back to my empty house since you moved to new location. Did I contribute to the rent or not and you said you can’t or won’t receive the contribution so I won’t come and say I contributed to rent in future?
The day he said I said drug was too expensive did he tell you he spent all his income that month already by 3rd or so due to poor planning and I used my income all for the month for food. Ofcourse I am sure he borrowed as usual for fuel for his car that month and maybe some extra things like suya etc you may want to eat and that’s why I couldn’t afford to buy that cream or is it even tablet I desperately needed quality type of drug to treat that ailment because it use to be stubborn when it comes but couldn’t afford it that month ?
In addition I forgot. The generator I would tell you to put on when wet had a generator house while some or most Nigerians just make a metal cover or so for their generator. So rain fell and the splash I could look wasn’t much and I would say it’s not like water entered this thing in its house like Dt just few splash on surface. I owned a generator I ran without it having issue before meeting you and while you where toasting me. I didn’t know I am unqualified to run a gen. I stopped touching your gen because it was complain upon complain or I am arguing with you by having a different opinion about ah it’s small splashes. Ofcourse if a gen was drenched would I with my full senses say lets put it on? When Nigerians keep their gen outside with normal cover. The days rain was so much and it drenched, we carried out the gen outside to air.
You would go out and meet the true definition of a Nigerian woman. Take care of her is what a man does, send her money for hair, dress, clothes etc. And still buy food n do stuff. You would remember I was never a burden on u I hope you would have love enough for her to cover taking care of her abi u would start complaining and shouting on her too. I just hope you don’t faint then.
On the other hand I Wld meet the true definition of Nigerian man who knows he is to care at least and would appreciate that I am blessing and a good woman and not the typical African woman wen I also take up things at home. Simple
Wow. This is why it's best to hear both side of a story.
Car Talk / Re: Tell Us Your Car Fault Lets Assess And Fix Them by Sunshyne200(m): 11:52am On May 08, 2023 
