₦airaland Forum

1: why can't some women quit controling their kids and families after marriage? Why can't some women just accept a fellow woman easily without causing trouble.

2: what sort of man masturbates when he hasn't satisfied his wife, beats his wife? Brings male partners to his matrimonial home to shag? These rich kids eh and their expensive marriages wey no dey last.

3:the rich also cry. We ladies have to realise when you go to a home and mama of the guy no like you or your background, dust your heels and scamper for safety. Don't put yourself in such a situaton where after marriage, you start runnng from church to church for prayers so your husband's people like you. That's the whole essence of courtship, go and balance where you're celebrated and accepted not where you're tolerated.



4: if when you should shine your eyes to see and notice things in courtship, you use it to attend societal gatherings that show you in papers and social media, no come back begin cry o!

You too get a plan C,D to Z.

LesbianBoy:
What of her ancestor husband sef

Babes, the ancestor husband don die! He dey drink schnapps, eagles dry gin wey dem dey pour for ground to greet ancestors and kola nut join.hahhahahahahaha. Kai! NL no go kill person with laughter.

The power of glutathione pills at work and bleaching creams and soaps. Upon all the skin colour change, toke can't stand genevieve, stephanie okereke linus and ini edo in terms of beauty. The bleaching doesn't stop them bleaching girls from being african and nigerians and being accepted as americans and british. So why all the wahala?

Make she sha get off birth control pills and born pikin, before ex gf releases baby number 2.

If a staff of IDP camp can steal and sell food stuffs meant for the displaced people. I only pity these dogs, their bags of dog biscuits and packs of pedigree would soon start to disappear. Then hunger that is slamming 9ja police would begin to wire the police dogs also. Na then the dogs go know say na african continent dem dey now for obodo nigeria. In a few months, these kernel and dogs would become an abandoned project like the dilapidated police barracks everywhere in the country.

Na like this Bruce (the brucer) jenner start o! Sneaking to wear kim's clothes and using their make up, now to total transformation to woman. Guy abeg stick with your man clothes and shoes and paraphernalia.

The girls face and mouth in that hijab cracks me up anytime. Walai! That Yinusa abi na yellow or black should be locked up in a maximum prison.

I laff! So now your wife is feeding you a taste of your own medicineand you can't take it? Anuofia! A cheat got caught red handed and he wants to demand hs right? Go meet sde chick or side woman tocome cook for you and your kids now, afterall you fancied side chick enough to bang and romance, so you should fancy her enough to cook now that wifey is on sabbatical annoyance.

Dude , you better wake up and smell the coffee before the milk and sugar for drinking the coffee go finish before your korokoro eyes. And thank God wifey hasn't killled you yet like the woman who klled her hubby for getting sb pregnant in Ibadan,as you know that 38yrs old man kokoro no function again inside coffin. Beware o! Repent, now is not to time to flex your mucskle (intentional) as man, dey beg and pet her till you get your wife back o!

Some nigerians and africans are so gullible when christianity is mentioned. Don't they have their bibles to read for themselves? Which prophet in the bible was served naked biko? Which prophet in the bible molested the people they are supposed to win as souls to the kingdom of God? Thank God I know better to study my own bible for myself and have my own mouth to say my prayers for myself to a God who answers me.

amunkita:
Since ur papa no fit use him post then do road, e good cous no be only we the common man go dey experience accid
Just get well sha.

LWKMD.my aunty once said as a leader the road you refused to do while in power, you'd ride on those road as a taste of your leadership strength and weakness.

For females who continue to consult pastors/ prophets on whom to marry, make una continue. The God that speaks to them pastors, He no fit talk to una expressly? Abi cotton wool block una ears? I wonder why u women choose to remain with abusive spouses, so who takes care of these kids now? Marriage is sweet depending on the cutlery you used to eat it( depending on who you choose to spend your life with it)

5years dating? He hits you and you are here asking if you should forgive him? You're so dumb! A guy who beats you before marriage is only showing you the bigger picture of what to expect in marriage. If you like be doing love wantintin inside your dysfunctional realationship. You might want to google "titilayo arowolo", the banker killed by her husband. Flee while you still have the chance alive now.

ozy4christ:
Please who is this siena or clara abi wetin be her name self?

No be only Siena na Quest and mitsubshi. LWKMD. Ciara is an american singer and actress

kITATITA:
I haven't found where church wedding is ordered in the bible. What's even required is paying of dowry and the marriage is complete at that time. Church wedding; like a piece of paper from the marriage registry is just symbolic.

I have also been looking for church weddng in the bible o! The wedding in cana, Jesus attended and performed his first miracle wasn't stated to have happened in a synagogue or tabernacle, even Isaac's marriage was the payment of dowry abi na bride price. Still looking sha o! My question is that is God not present during traditonal marriages to sanction the wedding? But wait o! What is the real essence of the Pregnancy test? You test a female and the test comes out negative doesnt neccessarily mean that she hasn't being having premarital sex with her husband to me na. Because now it seems the church now use the test result as their own yard stick, instead of counselling, teaching and encouraging adherence to godly principles. So in the end, what we have are people who only make sure they don't get pregnant so they can be wedded in the church.God help us all.

In every rumour there's an element of truth. Kathrine obiang denied everything in 2007/2008. Now frank edoho is remarried. How long would all these charade of marriages last? Am not freaked by romantic photos on social media again.

BigJakie:
Nice... but this her husband sef no get work?

Maybe the husband don become her Manager.

DammyLucy:
She resemble witch

From a fellow female? Lord help us

I once had a Glo line, I used for internet purpose, the service was epileptic. Can you imagine the signal going off for a week in ilorin way back 2012? I didn't waste time in breakng the sim myself. I wonder why they have many Ambassadors when the money can used to improve their service delivery instead of over 10 celebrity ambassadors endorsing an eplieptic service provider.

Even with the second chance given to him, he comes back to demean women not knowng what circumstance led to them sleeping on the floor. When he was in the theatre having the tumour in his head abi brain removed, did he remember the Vita foam, mouka foam or spring bed in his house? He's just indirectly begging mattress companies for endorsement deals jare. Why do I even feel he's reasoning backward? Just maybe the growth is growng back in his head and it's making him insensitive and reducing his reasoning ability

CecyAdrian:
Pure truth, Men of God should be respected and appreciated but not to be worshiped like what we find in almost all churches

Thank You Dear, you seem to recognise what he's talking about. Many people now quote "my pastor said" not "the bible says". Inshort they fear and worship the pastor more than God.

Pls no need confessing, enjoy the sex. Infact continue and while at it, make sure the both of you speak in tongues so the sex would be holy sex pleasing and acceptable to God in heaven. Stupid ndi ara

I got married December last year and its been pretty good so far.
when I was single I hardly cooked so I would say cooking everyday has been the biggest thing I have had to get used to.
DH is also from large close knit family so I have to always call all the siblings and their spouses often to "greet" them. I am Igbo and he is Yoruba, I also come from a polygamous dysfunctional family where everyone is minding their business while secretly hating and competing with you. He makes me call everyone often, says I have to get used to it, as per youngest iyawo. but his family is very easy to flow with, and they are not in our town, so if na call them want.....
I am barely 2 months in the game so sometimes I cant even believe I am married sef. till I go and look at the large framed wedding portraits hanging on the living room walls.
The most enjoyable thing is that I now have someone to share all my issues with, I am not used to that so its a very good feeling.
my hubby is over 6ft tall and huge, while I am about 5'2 and petite so I really enjoy the looks people give us when we are out together, I can also go out and look for trouble with all confidence now
Another thing is that I love the way people call me "madam" these days. My boss called me Madam yesterday and both of us burst into laughter. so yea, I am still transitioning into the association of "married women" and its been a smooth ride.

Congratulations dearest. Now I know you're a female. Learning from all you married ones.

My dear, for your pain and loss receive double in Jesus name. Amen!!!!

mart2k:
Her love for her late husband must b fake. How many men she wl fall for in her lifetime is a big question though

Wait o!she became a widow at 26yrs of age. So make she no marry again? If she hadn't remarried and was misbehaving up and down, you guys would still be the one to castigate her. Wait o! Do you even understand that sentence"till death do you part"? Jaiye chapter has ended, and she has moved on. Even Taiwo Odukoya moved on.

dacovajnr:
This one wey dey snatch another woman husband

Did she enter the man's house to snatch him from his previous wife? If the ex wife didn't play her role well as a wife and the man willingly with his 2 legs left with his brain intact, then he wasn't snatched.
I bet tomorrow you will soon write that Esther in the bible snatched the king from queen vashti abi? Abeg the earlier, we all learn and realize that when God gives you a position and you take it for granted, he always has a replacement for you, we will all sit up.

Stella carry on jare. Nothing do u.

So where is the picture of the guy roasted like chicken? Change the topic please. The guy is probably into Yoga and that is naked yoga.

Some girls be working in skye Bank but want to earn salary in Shell. Mschewww! So she wants to collect money from Jazzy to make the boyfriend feel loved abi? SMH.

This Ben bruce at times bolt and nut dey loose for him head sha. At 66 in the senate and he's calling out other people on age. Let's wait if he wouldn't pick up a governorship aspirant form for Bayelsa state come 2019. We dey watch.

RIP Sir. It's still a shock to me. This man was my landlord in aba in 2010. Though he visited our compound only once. Everything was between the caretaker. Easy going man. Life is all vanity, let's the living remember to impact people because in the end, nothing goes with us.

DandyWalker:
Lol, I have never patronised one before, and I would never. Did u just say a return of sex for a favour?I Have never even slept with anyone before and that's not because I'm too young or too poor or too ugly. I'm a medical doctor in my 20s with a well-paying job. My point is simply that the trend of sexual recklessness is becoming alarming, and in my opinion is detrimental to our society and the future of our children. This is just my own of way discouraging it.

My Medical doctor bros, how far na? I just want to say if this is your OWN way of discouraging it, then you aint doing enough. As a medical doctor, u know what you see daily in your ER, consultation/examination rooms. So why not team up with other medcal doctor colleagues of yours and form a movement educaating teens from 10-19 yrs of age on sexual topics like knowing their bodies,causual sex and its consequences? I think if you did this, you would be fulfilling a greater purpose in your life knowing you're impacting lives. Rather than some claiming team foreign girls. I bet the team foreign girls don't know that the foreign girls start contraceptive use from 12-15yrs of age and when they finally get married they struggle to have kids. Giuliana rancic in trying to concieve lamented on their reality show"we spend all our lives trying not to get pregnant and now I want to be prgenant and I can't have a child". My humble suggestions /opionion as a Microbiologist. Thank you Doc

How long does it take to grow dreads to that length and even colour it? I should be asking Omotola when last she saw her son physically and interacted with him? Na twitter and IG some people dey do parenting o! All na for show. Before we know now, the son would be a face for a salon that does dreadlocks. Make we dey watch, we know as e dey go.

Pineapp:

Please help Nigerians to help you.
Come down to our level.
Because after the days heat and scourging sun,we tend to understand the simpler Englishes better.

God bless you. I come dey wonder whether Chris Okotie or patrick Obahiagbon brother don dey NL