₦airaland Forum

crackhaus:
Lol, you still not getting the koko of all that gist I put up there. The problem is mentality, and that is what y'all should be trying to repair...not the consequences.
You don't solve a problem from the top down.

The mentality is an all-inclusive process starting from the fact that most Nigerian women tend to depend on a man's finances.
There is no arrangement, you know why? Because if it's an arrangement, then a women can also choose to be the one providing the finances while men do all the other stuff in return.

Lol, but who are we kidding here? How many Nigerian women will agree to that arrangement of being the one paying for everything and buying his phones and accessories?
Nada!

It is not trade by barter: in trade-by-barter, you offer something for an equivalent amount in weight in complete exchange...this is how trade-by-barter works.
When one person is spending the money, and all the girl or woman does is to have sex (which she also enjoys), cook meals (that she will also eat from), bathing/raising/attending to a child (that is also hers), tell me how exactly you want to quantify all this as an equal weight in proportion to money when she's also gaining from what she was supposedly offering in return?

The whole thing is skewed in favour of men at the end of the day whether we admit it or not - even if a woman says she won't do all this for a man, the man can go out and meet 10 other women willing to do all of it and much more...but the woman will not easily see 5 men willing to splurge finances on her just like that.

I give up.

I am happy my life no dey like that sha and that of my daughters will definitely not be.

Ezeamaemmanuel:
May God have mercy on you

He has to be in existence before he can do that.

BlackOnassis:
I like your signature. Abeg make i borrow am

Nothing do you my brother, carry go.

darkenedrebel:
As it appears, my impassioned pleas cum bargaining chip have cut ice with the Mods.

I don't think I can be a front-bencher in your slash-and-burn 'mobilization' scheme.
Not to worry, I would shore up your derring-do enterprise with a 100% moral support. And any other support that would not require me getting sent into another much-dreaded sabbatical.



Sarcasm and I are like Hausa-Fulani.



"Agape love can be showed to ALL".
Hello, my name is not ALL, thankfully.
So now the good book of the god you think is inexistent needs to give you an improvitur first?. Drop the double-standard.

And did you just say you're epicene?
I need to book you an appointment with Mr Marcus.



No, I did not. I said: "only when it is your time of the month".

It's been empirically tested that menstruating women like American civil servants have the propensity to SNAP and also have the tendency to be a thousand heartbeats away from LOGIC until their period passes. Don't take it personal, it's biology.



I don't mind getting slathered with a barrage of encomiums from my beloved inamorata



I'm a slavish adherent to Lex Talionis/mirror punishment - an eye for an eye; a tooth for a tooth; a böob for a böob. Get used to it



Photographic memory is a myth.

And I don't want you to give me your brains. What I said was: give me brains. Those are two very distinct sentences



Padre has a nice ring to it.

I missed you a tidbit too like. .ummmm whatchamacallit?. . .yeah, I miss you like a fat kid on a diet misses cake . I hope you had a fulfilled week?

I have read all you wrote and came to the realisation, you aren't my really friend, you are best described as a fair weather one at most, thanks for the support.

And since when am I your inamorata? Did I agree to that?

Come rebel, I hope you don't talk like you write o, people will be running from listening to you o

My week was great albeit stressful, looking forward to shaking what mama gave me at the club tonight.

Wanna come with?

Some men will die today, they don't think it's possible a woman can own her body and do whatever she likes with it.

excel101:
Be careful of your comments, cos in life when you might need the name, it nothing may happen cos you under estimated the name of Jesus.

Tah! Give me a break biko.

The name is as useless as the P in pneumonia. How does it work exactly? I need cash,I yell the name and the money appears?

amtaken:
By His Stripes we are healed.


He sent His words and healed our diseases.

Many people of diverse diseases were brought to Him and He healed them all.


Jesus Christ, the name above every other name.

At the mention of the name Jesus, every knee must bow and all tongues must confess that Jesus Christ is the Lord.

Jesus the same yesterday and today.

Worthy worthy is the lamb that was slayed.


Jesus is the Lord!

johnsonjosbles:
good, I tot u don't get angry @any insult trown @u, I'm trying to measure up the degree of humility u posess! Now that u react, I know u r a kid.
Thank u.

Telling you to use your brain is no indication of anger and as can be seen from your comment, you still aren't heeding the the sound advice. Just how does even showing emotions make one a kid? Dude please you need to do something about your mental state.

Change is the only constant so yea, he may likely change for the worse.

I still advise you to run for your life.

OLAADEGBU:
Do you worship yourself? Man is bound to worship something or someone.

No, man is not bound to worship anyone or thing, you just obviously think it ought to be that way.

tk4rd:
First of all, you don't expect the best from people at all times..
Secondly (and most importantly), he was actually asking if ghosts exist in that thread. Then he took an inclination to the "Yes" option to show us some events that made a lot of people to actually believe that ghosts exist.

He made it seem like they were facts.


Btw chillax, explorers is my man so we always chill, was just messing with him.

OLAADEGBU:
Who then do you worship since it appears we do not worship the same God?

Why would I need to worship anyone or thing in the first place?

crackhaus:
It changes a lot.

The way most Nigerian girls and women depend on the finances of men is enough for these men to want to claim right over them...but you females will never understand this.

Y'all always want to emulate and imitate the white woman in her struggle for equality and chants of feminism, forgetting that you both come from totally different places - completely different mentality that will never meet for a very long time to come.

The average western woman is an independent woman, she doesn't need her boyfriend's or sugar-daddy's financial input before she can make an expensive hair, go to a fancy restaurant and split the bills or own an expensive Michael Kors time piece or handbag.
The average Nigerian woman is the opposite - this is not much of a bad thing as men have learnt that this is the way y'all are and we live with it.
But don't just all of a sudden start talking about equality unto say wetin happen. Where and when did a Nigerian woman start practicing true equality?


A few weeks ago I was having a conversation with a female friend, and as a very saucy chic she showed me her new iPhone 6 combined with the S6 Edge she now uses and was like 'how come I'm still on the 5' and bla bla bla - it was just light fun though, we play like that...lol.

All I did was ask her one question for her face to change.
I asked, "which of these two phones did you buy with your money?" lol..
That was the end of her noise o, and it's not like she doesn't have a job. She works and earns a living but like most Nigerian women, y'all prefer to have a man buy those expensive shiit for you than get it on your own budget.

And that's the point.
It will take a while for a lot of Nigerian men to start seeing women on a completely equal footing, no thanks to scores of your sisters doing you proud.

Linda Ikeji bought a bag and people were lambasting her that it's a fake just because she bought it with her money - if to say na one man buy am for am, the 'fakeness' will not even be thrown into the mix...it will be "oh, the man wey buy that bag for you go don tia tia your pvssy oo"

This is how women have given themselves a certain image as far as Nigeria is concerned.


Anyway, make una keep up with una equality fight oo, but don't rush it - what you need is total mental reconditioning and not just awareness.

Sadly I agree with you about women depending on a man's finance a lot in nigeria but you must know that, these men and women have some sort of arrangement, where the man mostly pays and the woman does all his chores/is almost always at his beck and call, she gives something in return, so you see? It's a trade by barter sort of thing.

If we are to judge based on him spending on her, how about all she does for him?

Please note that I am not in support of this practice, just stating the obvious.

kevoh:
Your ineffective prayers won't help him, the man needs the money more for medical treatment. Feel free to take his case to your various local churches, raise some money for his cause during service tomorrow being Sunday and wire the money to his account. That will go a long way to help him instead.
@sweetcocoa Dem want to swallow ya?

Lol.

They can't fit na.

analice107:
You're dying to have me have a conversation with you. i still don't talk to reprobates.

You read this one? You my bish make for a good laugh, that's all you are to me.

johnsonjosbles:
weyrey! Do I know u?

The irony! Someone quoted me first, yet is asking if he knows me.

You have a brain, try using it, I promise it doesn't hurt.

analice107:
Didn't read it.

Didn't I just say you can't keep up? This one na lost cause sha.

analice107:
You want to have a conversation with me? I'll pass. I don't talk to perverts. The mouth you use in sticking into another woman's cunts is too defiled to talk to me. Ask God for forgiveness before it becomes to late.

See person, like I knew you existed till the day you quoted me.

You are so slow you can't keep up in a conversation with me, even a blind man can see it.

Like we don't know you are dancing in your heart that I quoted you, rejoice, this might just be proof your god answers prayers, we know you prayed I notice you, bish.

pulsa:
you have just shown me the level of ignorance in this country,
see how they are all falling over themselves to prove their stupidity.

My dear, I'm so tired I can't stomach it anymore, it's really saddening.

Nature129:
Yes, he's Nuella's dad

He isn't o but I get the feeling you were being sarcastic sha.

Sempumping:
Huh ..... What are you saying

I am saying that, with some cash to get this man good medical attention, we may be able to save him, instead of waiting for just a name to do what has been proven it can't.

johnsonjosbles:
I won't tell you to go to hell, u know why? You are aready there.

Thank you my brother, I love this hell so much that I'm so sure if you experience it with me, you'll never wanna leave, cheers

Oyind17:
Are u not a Christian?

Not in a million lives to come, thank you.

BBluv2015:
What name? Hope u re not referring to the name of Jesus because if u re, u lie. Even with d whole money & medical care, it is only d name of Jesus Christ dt can heal & save. With dt name, u need no cash. Pls mind what u say.

I actually am and if you would quit deceiving yourself, your little cash may yet help this man.

His name saves, yet people are dying in their dozens at prayer houses?, na wa o, what do they feed you people in church?

george4CHRIST:
I have seen the level of your mentality. Believe it or you leave it, GOD heals. To the sick man, you are healed. God has taken your sicknesses and your infirmities away, by his stripe you are healed

My friend go and donate some money and stop talking crap, you think you are the first person who's said that to him yet he is still sick, do you know how many pastors must have prayed for him with nothing to show for it?

Hospital works faster and better than whatever name you claim, use ya head.

chikids:
You don't know what you are talking about. I really pity your poor soul.

I do too.

My body and mind is in perfect condition, thank you very much.

Btw, Its likely I don't have a soul.

Donlouise:
people wey die after all d medical care Nko?

So many factors may have been responsible.

-They didn't get medicare in time.

-The doctor made mistake.

-Their bodies rejected treatment.

-There's no known cure for their ailment etc.

Osinachi1:
The name, JESUS CHRIST is above every other name, situation, sickness, trouble.

It can't be proved or disputed, It's just what IT is.

And now that I've disputed it? Just donate some cash in this case please.

chingydaboss:
I feel pity for you..
Y hav u decided to sell your soul to the devil?




Nairalanders..please put this sister in your prayers aswell.

Don't worry about my soul, worry about yours that is likely to die in ignorance.

I may not have a soul btw.

pretydiva:
He will not die buh live. Ur healed in jesus name

It's been proven that medical care can do a lot better than that name.

Just donate some cash to the cause if you can, thanks sister.

guiddoti:
igi iwe!

Lol.

I do that to enable me start with the easy questions before trying the ones I may have difficulty with, been doing that since time immemorial.

Very efficient method.

analice107:
You too, this girl though, smh.

But you dumb o and you too lie on top, you better repent cos Jesus is coming next week.