₦airaland Forum

ritababe:
marriage is about making vows, to be truthful to your spouse, so what are you saying?

Am saying that christians make their vow with a pastor as a mediator. Maybe there were some fetish stuffs done in her presence and it compelled her not to make vow there. You know the saying "give to God what belongs to God and to ceasar what belongs to him" Some people are so religious that they check alot of things. That's what am trying to say

ritababe:
you said religion, don't Christians make vow inside church before they get married?

Vow in the church for christians. But traditionally, some people won't do it.

ritababe:
funny

What is funny?

War is not good. It starts from perceived hurt nursed in the heart. Just look at all the good things that has been destroyed

She look so flawless. I like

Came:
The husband for first swear as the head of the family that he will sleep with no other woman before the woman go swear. Leadership by example.

You could be right. Maybe this was what prompted her actions.

ritababe:
why cheat? if you are not ready for marriage why not spare the man some change.

I don't think a sane woman would sleep with another man aside her husband. Its not in the nature of women to cheat like this. Maybe she is religious.

Diplomaticbeing:
Yes, one can find a decent partner. This is so because attitude (persona or superfication) is not always direct reflection of attribute. The former can be learned or faked but the latter is innate.

So, one who is able to differentiate attitude from attribute can sure find a decent partner. Using standard-base of 100 percent, any partner that possesses from 70 percent upwards of the attributes one desires in a partner can lay claim of having a decent partner.

However, tell me that one cannot find a perfect partner and I will agree with you 100 percent.

Yeah. So true

Op no woman forces a man to marry her. The guy was ready to settle down and asked for her hand.

Xensity:
"I saw a male underwear in her room that wasn't mine, and she said she bought it for herself, because she was trying to put herself in my shoes, in other to improve her degree of empathy, which would bolster her level of understanding and commitment towards our relationship."

This one gave me goose bumps.

Xpol:
Football age

I don't think so. Some people look bigger than their real age that i can attest to. They have maturity and knows how to handle situations just like someone above their age. Maybe had alot of experience or people that surround him are matured both in age and experience too. Its a blessing.

marcondo13:
If you need to be sure about any advice/suggestion on this thread, you can general info from the embassy at abuja-ob@bmeia.gv.at, in the case of consular issues, send an email to abuja-ka@bmeia.gv.at!
Good luck.

Sent a mail no reply yet.

nero2face:
it shall not be our portion ...IJN

AMEN

I congratulate her too! Any woman with true vision will never lag behind. The way she will be metarmophosed to success, people won't believe it. I tap into her blessings.

Oh my! Not even a good wish. Anyway, happy birthday Buhari. Wish you more life. But find a way to minimize the hunger in this country. Its too much.

Khd95:
Recession was/is a blessing in disguise,na small small pikin dey waka..we shall get there.




But why be say,for christmass,na rice every body must cook?

You know children nah, no christmas celebration for them without rice. Elderly people prefer the ofe onugbu with Akpu in every gathering

arabralph:
This is a joke,at a time we were getting this power stuff right, but I don't know what actually happened. GEJ I miss you. I now see the saying that the people deserve the kind of leaders they get.Nothing is just working except serving people with hunger as meal.

Lol but true. Everything i prepared that is in the freezer has melted. Using other forms of preservation will drain half of the nutrients. Nigeria go better

frankloloko:
This is not talent to me . I nor fit use this van toast any girl .

Toasting any girl is not an achievement in life.

Thank God no life was lost. The blood shed this year alone is so alarming.

HungerBAD:
Why na?

why them go deprive us the WAKA PASS/MOGBO MOYA Crew from eating the wedding food?

Meanwhile these Private Security Guards, should know what a Knee Pad is for. It is used by the Military for operations, or at the shooting range to cushion the effect of pains, when they kneel down to fire their weapons.

It is totally out of place in a wedding, especially considering the fact that no weapon will be shot by them or even any of them carrying anything.

Why are you this funny?

Freedom2016:
You started out well until you made the afonja move. Above in bold that his supporters cannot lay down their lives is not only false but a tomfoolery on your part and zero regard for Biafraan lives. So all the hundreds of Biafraans if not thousands in secret executions by this government as observed by Amnesty International, and shot in cold blood by Nigerian military as seen even here on Nairaland over 50 times are fake or figment of your afonja imagination? SMH for you afonjas!

Nnamdi Kanu is not a poor man, he is a prince. With his sweet mouth and knowledge of the bible, if he opened a church, it would be the largest church by members. But that's not his interest, nor is money. He said as long as Biafrrans will take care of him and his family, he will sacrifice himself. When he went to China, IPOBs there came and got him from the airport with a convoy of lamborghini, ferrari and Aston Martini. He said people thought he was a visiting head of state or celebrity...Lol. He joked that he is not interested in having any of these material things but he would gladly enjoy them as long as they are owned by Biafrrans. Most of IPOBs are not poor; they have businesses, jobs, educated and well informed. If you knew how much it costs to buy all those "sophisticated" Radio equipment all over Biafraaland and Nigeria they contribute to buy, you will collapse.

Exactly

Am saving

vicflexzy:
u were scared of Melisa and not SDTs ..
smh ..

I tire o.

I wonder what she has done to this person. This is Seriously alarming

Elchappo:
Banning okada at Apapa is like going into a lion's den nd forcing it to sleep...
Its a pity he paid the price of another who made such law to bring hardship to the poor...

He was only doing his job.

HungerBAD:
A problem acknowledged is a problem half solved.

At 27+ what you are doing is not strange to people in that age bracket,and as you get older,your evenings(older days) start to bother you.

I don't know about the substance abuse,but at 27 I was into heavy drinking and girls too. One day I just grew up,and walked away from such life.

You are on the right part,as your self realization is the first step in making you walk away from such lifestyle.

Do not be discouraged. You can do it. You can walk away from the things you mentioned.

You are a man.

Kudos to your advice.

Congratulations. You are my motivation. Happy induction. Being a professional is the best thing. You truely worked hard. Its not an easy road.

Elchappo:
Akan not understanding this man...

Ur bishop pursuit killed scores nd u say u re not interested again, oga u must come collect am ooo..

Bishop ndi uwa mmebi...

You must be a comedian. Can't stop laughing since.

repogirl:
Serving her husband to be fura de nunu, issokay!

....Abi na kunu?

That's exactly how God programmed marriage. Wives, submit to your husband as the head. Feed him the food of the soul and the body. Husbands,love your Wives and lead your household. God says that he will never depart such a family. He will never let any temptation bigger than such a union to befall them

Now is the time to buy a lot of tomatoes and make it a puree.

marcondo13:
The only help that your "uncle" can give you is to send an EVE to cover the need for a bank statement, and a house contract to cover the need for a letter proving a secured/reserved place of accommodation!
Apart from that,you are on your own because every document emanating from Nigeria must be validated by the Ministry of Education ( all educational documents), Ministry of Foreign Affairs and the Austrian Consulate,Abuja.
Don't get it twisted because the rules is different compared to the UK and US authorities!

Thanks pal.I will enquire

Anuoluwapo3054:
I want to use this to encourage you not to lose hope and keep believing that God still work wonders.
I am a fresh graduate, I finished from one of the best federal University this year... July to be precise and I did my convocation around October. I fell victim of excemption from the Nysc scheme due to age ish and I wasn't ready to change my age and swear a false affidavit to that effect even when I could get it changed in 2mins... I refused and my mates were saying all sorts to me... In the midst of this, I remain unshakable.
I obtain other things from school like my student copy of Transcript and my certificate then I began to send applications out to be considered for a Job... In the process I traveled down to Lagos two weeks ago to say hello to this company I did my IT with in 2013 and fortunately for me I met the MD in the office with my former bozz and I greeted him even though he couldn't recognize me again.
I left my former bozz cabin and I went to see him... I introduced myself and he said he couldn't recognize me... My former bozz told him I was posted to Ikoyi office to assist her then and that I was very active and hard working throughout my stay... The MD was just knodding his head like agama (Lolz) the next thing the MD said was I should submit my CV with a written application to his secretary at their head office at Marina.... I did the following week and that was the beginning of the whole thing.... Let me remind you that during my IT programme I wasn't paid... But I never allow that to weigh me down... I did my best to grab as many knowledge I could.
Just last week I got a call from the MD to see him last Fri... I got there and he and one other man began the oral interview which I wasn't prepared for.... God took control of the interview session and he handed me over to the other man not knowing the man is also an MD of a big company... The man collected my number and that was all..... I didn't hear from him cos I was thinking even if something will happen, it would be in Jan cos every company is closing for the year... Monday was public holiday and by the early hour of Tuesday I got a message to report to Lekki office... I got there and the security guards were not nice... I was kept in the sun for several minutes before the MD arrived.... E pain me die.
When the man arrived, I was led to his office and he said welcome to our company... He chose me because of the commendation he received from my Former MD that I am very hard working..... And that because of the experience I have gathered... He is placing me on a senior managerial post
... Na so I became oga over all other departments I met.... We had a meeting yesterday and I was asked to preside over it.... I introduced myself and I challenged other departments to give their best.... From then I resume office with immediate effect, not only that status changed to the point that the security guard that kept me in the sun started saluting me whenever I move around to inspect.... I was given a free accommodation and other benefits.... I am not saying this to puff up, I am just encouraging someone out there not to lose hope... God is on the throne.... Within the space of 4months that I left school, God landed me a job.... I declare and decree to NY readers that before the end of this year, your status will change for good.
Gracia.

I tap into your blessings