₦airaland Forum

Spicywify:
@ op, we need more of your dad in this world. Raising proper men!
And the op is simply saying the truth. If you love a woman and show it to her, as far as her head is properly screwed on, she will worship you!

I pray you marry a woman that will appreciate your love and please raise your boys the same way.

NerdyRudeGyal:
Yessir. If a man loves a woman genuinely + shows it consistently, she will go to the moon and back for him. It’s not rocket science. However, the caveat is that she too must love him genuinely to begin with, otherwise oyo is his case. In other words, the loves needs to be mutual, but the man takes the leads. Kudos to your Dad (+ your mom — RIP to her) for being an excellent example.

periphetes:
Dear op, what may work for A may not for B.
There are no golden rules in getting the best from a partner. Pray you meet the right bone of your bone.

You might love, cherish and respect a partner wholeheartedly. But, If he/she does not have same vision and feeling towards you, it's a waste of time and emotions.

Some days ago, I read a story on NL about a woman considering to dump her husband because of his spinal injury. Her reason been she is not getting sexual satisfaction any more.
What can you say about this?

For our generation today, It is a required task to get a right suitable partner that is willing to stand by you in thick and thin without conditions.
Your parents generation time, they had a good purpose for marriage and stuck to it.


As for perilous times of now, it's either your physique is perfect or you have got lots of money or you are sexually good in bed. Before a woman or man can stick with you and call it love

Just pray and hope you meet the right partner that shares your views. In other for you to avoid becoming an emotional slave.

Lilgabby:
U sha want to prove yourself that you're single and searching.... Stop beating bout the bush. No worry, if them see your post... Them go come!

yvelchstores:
What can i say, your future wife has been blessed by God.

PS, most of the stupid replies u will get for this beautiful piece you have written will come from men and boys from dysfunctional homes, with no real sense of value to what you uphold.

Kudos to u, most importantly to your father.

Amb1045:
Not this generation ladies. They're way different. Stop copying to be a simp, if not it will end in tears

tesseract:
Instead of these f00ls to applaud the FBI, they are making silly noises. The actions of these bad eggs affect every decent person from the country. Smh

Gerrard59:
You seem to have a belief that only blacks suffer from racial discrimination or slurs whereas anyone of any race can suffer from same. Blacks can be racist and also suffer from racial discrimination. The notion that only blacks are the sufferers of racial discrimination is entirely false except the word - racism - now has a different meaning. Just like "we" are meant to believe that gender and sex are two different concepts and there are more than two genders even though gender inequality exists between two genders.

To your point, Latin Americans are not blacks except you mean those who were taken from Africa just as the vast majority of Latinos are the descendants of their forefathers who left or fled Europe. This is different from those who inter-married between or amongst different races. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race_and_ethnicity_in_Latin_America https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_Latin_Americans

So yes, they are right by being indifferent.

MatuzMilla:
Me mother and I,
We hate colorful people.
Damn English and Dutch bring them in and now all African come.
They not belong to Hungary Europe!
We make club againt them and againt gypsie. Write if you join!
varnagy.lilla@fejerszgy.hu

WICKEDfucker:
Bro!
Stop assuming nonsense and stupîdity.


The colour black we know is the colour of charcoal
While
White is the colour of cloud or snow.

As far human records is conserved, NO HUMAN BEING alive has ever and will ever have such colours.
Bring the Sudanese man out. Compare the colour of his hair with his skin, it can never be the same.
Human being are relatively BROWN AND PALE in colour in different shades and never BLACK or WHITE!
-Why are Latinos not given a colour?
-Why are Koreans just called Koreans?
It's only dark skinned African with low functioning brains they can belittle with such nonsense.

DARK SKINNED PEOPLE are relatively BROWN! and that's what we should be called. Otherwise, human beings shouldn't be categorised with colours because they have given the black colour a bad name.
Evil
Dirty
Unholy etc and white is the direct opposite. That's why they call themselves Whites instead of pale or pink which they actually are.

The brainwash is so deep and it has even been instilled in people's brains through religion, literatures etc.

THAT'S WHY YOU WON'T IMAGINE YOUR JESUS, ANGELS OR GOD TO BE A SO-CALLED BLACK OR SEEN WEARING A BLACK ROBE.

You will always think in your head that Jesus, angels and God are whites while the devil id black.
None of that is true. It's just a brainwash.

saintol:
I have been looking around and I am still looking around to see if indeed we have white and black humans, but I have found none.

In our elementary schools, we were taught types of colours. The white colour I was shown then was like the celestial garment while the black colour was like charcoal. And if I am not wrong, the white we were shown is still white while the black is still black up till date.

Having taught us these colours with identification, someone came up with the application to human beings. But it is very obvious that the person that came up with this application has dysfunctional eyes and brain.

Have you indeed seen a white or black human? I mean a human white like the garment or black like charcoal. If we must indeed apply colour to humans, then the brown colour is more applicable. Everyone is brown having red blood within.

So whenever you are told there are white and black people, let them know that you see neither black nor white, all you could see is brown, varieties of brown. " We are all brown, varieties of brown".

If you hide under the white or black belief to perpetrate evil towards another, you are only deceiving yourself. You are brown perpetrating evil towards another brown.

" Black and white I see not, all I see is brown. Varieties of brown".

Gwan2:
I am black but you see all this protest by the black community and riots going on freely is simply because of excessive freedom and how liberal the western world had open up to people. I have traveled to 9 countries and I must say, I feel more attached and comfortable mingling with white folks than the blacks.
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Where in the world aside the western world can you travel from GOd knows where and give birth to a child and the child automatically become a full citizen enjoying same privilege as the indigenous people. Where in the world can you automatically get citizenship by marrying a citizen. I studied in the UK, your child automatically get access to free education, health care and a lot of facilities by the virtue of your student status in the west. A lot of students exploit the system especially those on scholarship by bringing their spouse and children while on study, thereby overstretching the limited resources. Go to the hospital and see indigenous white queuing for appointments that might take close to a month before they get access to see a doctor because a lot of people both foreigners and citizen had booked earlier. They were overwhelmed by such things and displayed decorum in votes to pull out of EU rather than following the path of fellow BLACK xenophobic South Africans displayed some time ago.
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See, typically the black man in a white man’s country is so sensitive to how the white react, speak or even look at him and point to racism at every instance. I had a friend who worked in a bar and was dismissed because of his carelessness and poor attitude to work...before he left the bar he made sure he created a scene shouting racism racism. They were so courteous not to respond or engage him in a fight because they know most of the black Africans use racism to cover their shits.

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Now we have phrases like black excellence, black live matters, I am black and proud, black history....flip the coin and say something like white supremacy, white excellence, white rules and hell will be let loose from the black community pointing racism. What sort of inferiority can that be?
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Lastly, you see this Arab countries or most Asian countries.. nobody do racism pass them, but why don’t the suppressed black population protest...because the freedom is limited and they make sure you understand from your first presence in the country that you are second class to them and nothing can change that. Anyway, as the saying goes...when you give somebody a yard he will later ask for a mile.

A man is only respected and modelled if he earns such. Look at the African continent, the poorest, the most docile, the most disease ravaged, the most corrupt, the most backward...who has ever earned respect by displaying such attributes??

Ariza:
I was expecting someone to make this a Nigerian Women thing and you didn't disappoint. The question is are Nigerian Men any different? How many can engage in brain stimulating conversations? How many can vividly separate platonic friendships from sexual relationships? How many value Intelligence over physical appearances?. If it isn't about sex, conversations hardly happen.

This thread is evidence enough to conclude that only few Nigerian Men can do any of those questions asked. On the same thread, a guy helped a girl to get into her skirt, A guy met an intelligent lady he could have kept as Friend but still insist on "putting hand in her hole" On this same thread a Guy ridiculed intelligent ladies saying they are mostly ugly and masculine. Such backward thinking!

Thing is: Nigerian men only have what they encourage. They place more importance on fine face, boobs, and bum and flashy things when it comes to choosing ladies, so why should a woman work on her brains when she will only be overlooked and termed Boring and Ugly. Why will a woman feel encouraged to expand her horizon when she will only end "in the kitchen and bed".

Lol yet these confused bunch are always the first to scream and wail that Nigerian Women are unintelligent or can't hold conversations... Men that hardly have something upstairs themselves. So laughable!

Sixfeetbelle:
That's why I pity men who want to marry virgins as a measure to hide their awful bedmatics. Women gossips about their sex life and before you know it, virgin wife will want to experience all these things but won't tell the husband cause 'she's a virgin and shouldn't know about those things'. Las las, na Okey, your driver that will educate her more

Jaqenhghar:
We are coping just fine. I work from home. It gets annoying not moving around much but it is what it is.
Its comforting to know that at least there are measures put in place in case we fall sick.
Functioning hospitals
Functioning drugs
Ambulances
Health workers who know what they are doing

QwarkdFerengi:
Due to the possibility of Okafor's law.
Again and again and again. All the female do is give you flimsy excuse for keeping the number but na story.