₦airaland Forum

doe82:
They are everywhere,around you,in your place of work,neibouhood,club,church even in the internet maybe u ve been looking too far for what maybe @ your finger tips.I m sure u ve met a dozen but just failed to identify them.

Meanwhile thanks for your understanding as for the promised story

I mean there are good guys around but most are friends, there is no romantic interest but I don't mind they make really good friends 2

doe82:
are u into music?

yeh it's been a bit of an obsession since I was little actually lol  

Pataki:
You don't know what you are missing by my not managing you oh.

10% for me? I was actually thinking of seeing what you are capable of for a 6months probation, then I can partially consider a 30% share for you a year, then we can negotiate for the subsequent years.

What you say?

Pataki you can't exploit me  
30%   I won't get out of bed for less than 80% take it or leave it.  
As for probation make that 1 week, that's all you will need, trust me

doe82:
Its simple, real good men come simple,little,steady, and sometimes scared because they don't want to loose the damsel,
unreal men always have a siren way of letting their "motives" know.Its takes a real woman to see the handwritting on the wall!

_{and what about the stories u said you'd give}

MY FREIND SAID HE WILL KILL ME IF I MAKE KNOWN TO ALL!!I m sure u don't want me to die yet! lol
May b i share it with u on chat sometime

I agree I can sometimes tell when a man's motives are not pure, maybe not straight away but soon his actions tell it all. I'm afraid I'm yet to meet a real good man but when I do hopefully I'll know Lol

Was it that bad? Ok no probs

I can be your manager then.

ok o we'll share the profits equally 90:10.
Or is the 10% too much for u  

I'm fine, exhausted, but fine

Yes I play instruments, the violin, piano and harmonica I also sing

How r u? hope u r well

Pataki:
Siren, you are still on this matter?

Yes Pataki, only with doe82 tho, your welcome to join in anytime

doe82:
I know u ll agree with me that most women don't set their priorities rigth when it comes to what they want in a relationship.Many want "to eat their cake and still have", this doesnt work anymore.As for TRUST u can certainly not trust such as u may be heading for a collateral emotional disaster.Intelligent Ladies that doesnt fall innto the above category most times do not make such mistakes
REASON:"unreal " men are easier to detect

OK I see your point but what would you say is the difference between a real good man and the a man that "seems" good or is "unreal"

_{and what about the stories u said you'd give}

Gees what can I say about some of the "adults" on this forum?

doe82:
@
syrenDONT You THINK THAT THIS TRUST THING WORKS BOTH WAYS.I THINK I AGREE WITH UR SUBSTITUTION OF REAL MAN WITH GOOD MAN.BUT THE SIMPLE TRUTH IS THAT EVEN WHEN THE "GOOD" MAN IS RIGTH IN FRONT OF A GIRL,SHE DOESNT KNOW IT.THEY OFTEN GO FOR WHAT SEEMS A GOOD MAN, ?

hmmmm When that's the case, the girl may not have her priorities straight in terms of what she's looking for in a relationship or she may not fully appreciate who the right man for her is. But if the guy seems nice to her why won't she? Maybe at first he treated her right but later turned cold and she was so emotionally atttatched she couldn't leave. Or perhaps she's superficial and the genuine good guy doesn't have the money or the looks so she overlooks him. As for trust, yeh it should always work both ways, are u saying women like that can't be trusted?

Pataki:
Hmmmm. . . . .

Why hmmmm again? If i'm ill I will need rest. He must cook

@ post

As long as there is something that can get rid of it from day to day, I'll try sha. But if it's constant like the chronic one you know the one that will melt soap sef then I can't

dabriggs:
My woman cooks fine.And so do I.Especially our Ijaw native soup with sea foods.

Aaaaww

@ post

I don't mind cooking but I don't want it to feel like a strenuous chore. If I am not feeling up to it my husband should be able to atleast help from time to time.

onyiidon:
Basically virgins are not experienced, it can be frustrating when making love with them and you know sex matters alot in marriage. To me oooo, is better to marry an experienced person(non virgin) for total satisfaction in bed.I don't want someboby to keep in a cool mood when it comes in love making.
A lot of problems follows in marrying a virgin, be it man virgin or woman virgin.

So how long are you going to be married that he/she won't even have time to learn abeg? Will it be that short?

Pataki:
Learn to tell your fellow women when they go overboard with their nonsense.

Will do, Pataki    

@ Hannibal

At the end of it all the threads don't exalt one race of men over any other the way you do with women, we all have faults jare.  

ibkaye:
cheiii, some black women do have natural long hair you know

exactly! I don't know why he won't listen.  

Hannibal:
So u are comparing tanning to BLEACHING?? ??
Come on. . . . . You need to come out with a better defense!!!!
To these Caucasians, tanning is almost natural. . . .  .few hours in the sun makes em tanned!!!!
They don't squander their savings on bleaching cream like Black Women do.

Of course, we all know Black Women choose long hair to look White.
Tell me u have not seen Black Women with blonde wigs and what not??
Why do y'all do this??
Some even go the extent of fixing blue contact lenses to look like Cats. . . . .
Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

Yes I'm comparing tanning to bleaching, tans fade bleaching effects fade but they all continue to do it inspite of the dangers for each race. Like someone said before just like big bums, lips & boobs are what black women usually have the other races that have plastic surgery are trying to be black are they? Long hair is not a race thing, for some black people it's natural.

LASIEFAIRE:
at the moment, there is an increasing number of black women going Natural. It's a movement right now.
And what you are saying is quite senseless, and the comparison is unfounded.
Make it simple you like white women, Nobody hold your hand - nah you get your body
but to try degrading black females is totally rude.
You don forget say your mama nah black woman, and the mama before am.
Am sure you know alot of black females who represent. your stance no just gree you mention them.

some of them are degrading themselves o. But that's my point don't blame the whole race of women for some few who wear outragious weave and all sorts. We have punk rockers with a tousand tatoos, piercings, purple hair and what not, so don't act like one race is better than the other.

Hannibal:
I see. . . . .
Lemme understand you here, White Women use black polish on their skin to be black.
Pour chemicals in their hair to make it look nappy and they use brown contact lenses to mask their blue eyes.
Syren, u need to go and sip some coffee.

[b]While u are it, let me know the number of hair-relaxers u have used since u started making your hair.[/b]Ma educated guess would be 2457 containers!!

That's lame  
Do som not tan themselves to the point of looking like an orange at times colour is beautiful. Not only black people perm their hair actually white women do to though not as much. Now explain to me how having straight hair means your trying to be white when plently of black people have naturally long straight hair. You go and sip pepe soup jo.  

Queenisha:
b]how on earth could they write off a whole race of women who are just like them for reasons that sound so comical.[/b]

I know it's so unfair  

Not every black woman wants to be white Hannibal, this is very low, even for you.   Is every black man a criminal, deadbeat dad, and jobless?  

Hannibal:
@ Syren,

Black Men don't want to be WHITE. . . . . .It's even the white men that want to be Black.
I don't use weave-on. . . . .Black men don't bleach like y'all Black women. . . .
No Botox. . . . .No boob change. . . . .No tummy tuck and liposuction.
We keep things REAL as far as we are concerned.
Take a cue, Senora!!!!

Are you serious, were i'm from men and women are in competition, who can be whiter first abeg.
What's plastic surgery got to do with ethnicity, black and white people do it all the same.

whitelexi:
Black is beautiful oh, but black is still unrefined, its like crude oil, black when it comes out but after enough refining - it becomes useful.
The question now is are the black chicks willing to get refined? I think not

I hope you include black men in there too because they are far from perfect as well.



_{They sit on their pedestal judging everyone else as if we're all the same  .}

doe82:

@ Syren and Phileolove

HOW DO YOU KNOW A REAL MAN?

A real man?
Perhaps a good man is more appropriate just some who is understanding (most important ) sensitive in the way he treats his woman, patient and ready to help her overcome fears and insecurities. What would be unhelpful is someone who'll abuse her trust which may have been hard to give in the first place.

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=149680.msg2504426#msg2504426 date=1216047309]@syren
You have obviously got it twisted i am a NWA(Nigga with an attitude) where yall attitude ends is where mine begins on the white women thing lol you wish.Well the less chics like you i meet the better for me [/quote]Who said anything about me? Please don't put me anywhere near that category, I hate it. I'm as shy as they come

But you people sef, you generalize way too much. Not all black women are load and rawdy, swinging hips up and down because they think they are the sexiest thing since chocolate cake. There are the good and bad in every single race, so seperate the wheat from the chaff please. Don't get me wrong here if you think I am bitter because interracial dating/marriage isn't the issue, it's been a benefit to my life but belittling one race of women and acting like one is better than the other is unfair.  

PHILEOLOVE:
Yes,its not just the issue of romance,it damages the trust and affection of the person concerned which invariably will affect the relationship concept and love lifestyle.For instance, for a lady(true life case)- she find it difficult to trust men and she had horrible mental torture.The way out will be to relax,trust God for the best,seek for a confidant that will bring in hope and restoration where necessary.Dating such a person,you need to understand where she is coming from ,appreciate her fears and clears her doubt.It has to be a real man that will do this.

Very insightful PHLEOLOVE. I argree

Gamine:
Who is this foolish person.

what these moderators are supposed to delete, they wont delete oh

LMAO! abi ooo, it's true

@ poster

If you don't ask you don't get, simple. If she gave you her real number and she answers your calls then you stand a good chance. Give it a day or 2 and go for it.  

domwas2:
Calling her is not the problem but i just wanted to make a good friendship that could leads to relationship because i've try some others while nothing comes out of it.

I think that's a good idea, depending on the type of woman she is and what she's looking for in a relationship it would be wise to get to know each other on a platonic friendly level then progress, to avoid the outcome you've had in the previous ones.

Wiley (UK)

@ post

The one and only

Considering his age, Chris Brown is a great entertainer, i love watching him dance on stage and in his music videos, especially Wall to Wall.

But as an artist I'd go for Ne-yo. He's a great song writer for his own work and other artists' aswell.

I feel very refreshed and ready to face the rest of the week.

Hannibal:
What about this. . . . .I lost my virginity, can i have urs??

What else do you expect to hear when you hang out in the red light district