₦airaland Forum

pol23:
E don happen.
Can it be excess calcium situation?

Nazgul:
When God start picking your call in Nigeria, there are few changes you must make if you want to continue enjoying your peace of mind.

1. Change your location: If you're living in a one room face-me-I-slap-you apartment at okokomiko and get a government or foreign contract worth millions, or a month watering job, the first thing you must do is to move out from that place. If you don't, people around you would hate you for your success once you buy a car and start living big and refuse constantly give them money (or show love as the street would put it)

2. Change your cycle of friends: If you're a Christian and read the Bible, you'll notice that from Genesis (the story of Cain and Abel) till Jesus time (Judas). Betrayal and killings were done by those closest to the victim not strangers. Sadly this reality still plays out till date. There have been countless stories of people ganging up to kill their friend, who go a visa, won a bet/lottery, got a great job... etc.

If your friends aren't moving in the same pace with you, it would be wise to keep them at arm's length, cos you would never know their thoughts towards you.

3. Live a low key life I read somewhere on Nairaland where someone said if he updates his status to Got paid dozens of strangers would slide into his dm to beg for money, even though he was just catching cruise.

My point is, the more you flaunt your success on social media, the more beggars you'd attract to yourself. The more you keep to yourself, the lesser beggars you'd attract.

skultrick:
The op made a very valid point. To those condemning him, you're free to continue deceiving yourselves.

Leaving your parents house doesn't mean you're competing with anyone, it gives you that opportunity to be a complete man.

The logic here is that free house, food... means staying in your comfort zone. And staying in your comfort zone may never allow you reach your full potential.


Again, you can continue staying in your papa house.

Ibechris2:
Congratulations to everyone of u out there. Welcome to 2023.

And if u know u are 30 and still in ur parents house...pls,do everything possible to leave them. It can never be easy at first but I am sure it would be easy as time goes by.

I was privileged to have left my parents at the age of 19 and I never came back except I want to visit them and spend some time with them.

To be honest here,i really suffered when i relocated to a new environment with not enough cash,no brother ,no sister no one to advice me except me alone. I squatted and things became rough that my parents urged me to come back and manage with them,but eventually it became a success story.

This is 2003,take the bold step and leave ur parents and fight ur way to success and see how life would be with u in the near future. I don't mean to insult anyone here but it is imperative to help oneself before it becomes a thing of regret.

Time waits for no one and if u don't take this actions,the thing is,u will regret not taking an action if old age eventually catches up with u.

Thanks and may God bless u guys.

Pat081:
the guy is on drugs did he want to tell us that is Nigeria police and he sees back he want to dead

alobright17:
if na Messi made similar move you won't find a good reason for it. You pendu fans ehhh

alobright17:
if na Messi made similar move you won't find a good reason for it. You pendu fans ehhh

StrongAlphMale:
I don tell God say make he no make mistake give me girl Pekin, say na just 2 sons I want and they'll be footballers. One will Play for real Madrid and the other one for Man u or Man City