₦airaland Forum

I am not surprised there are still many men with archaic beliefs out there. I dont know why some practice double standards. Telling me a man has the right not to be with me anymore- but why is the case different when the table turns, and the woman also decides to exercise her own right not to be with the man any more? That is when we hear things like- ha she is w h o r e, after bringing her out from her village blah blah blah.

Some men refuse to allow their wives to work or make sure they (women) are in an employment that pays less than theirs (men). At this point the men promise heaven on earth that they will take care of all their needs, make sure they will not suffer and other stories that make you wanna throw up in the mans face. The women are naturally more involved emotionally in the marriage and spend countless hours taking care of the home-front (which is their duty anyway), and also put up with all the insults of their husbands. Now when it's time for divorce, and the woman demands something off you, you all start ranting. That is when you remember she did not contribute anything to your wealth. What happened to all the promises made some previous years Definitely the man is to blame in such situation cuz he refused her to be employed. So you expect her to go out in the cold with nothing to hold on to, probably worse off than she was before marriage, all in the name of not contributing anything

I will continue to say it- some men are just ungrateful!!!

Wonders will never cease on Nairaland. Na by force to have intimacy ni I have never heard of someone dying as a result of lack of intimacy. You better control yourself, before you do something you'll later regret.

With the way women are being treated, I dont think I will get married o, because I cant tolerate all the rubbish men dish out to women. After suffering with a man when he was a nobody, he suddenly wakes up one day after becuming somebody and decides to get married to sum1 else, and tell u to ur face u didnt contribute anytin to his life.

I tell people that care to listen that if I eventually get married and then smell a rat, I wont hesitate to leave the marriage. Many women suffer in marriages especially in Africa but refuse to leave because of their children. Honestly the best is to leave, because the children you claim to be protecting will not forgive you later if the situation gets worse. After leaving, I will make life difficult for the man and the so-called new woman.

Some men are just really ungrateful

fodiyo:
If you ask a child to bathe for himself, he will only wash his stomach (Igbo proverb)

Lol, dats kinda true sha

@post, that is really bad of the woman. I'll bathe for my children till they start growing hair under, especially the boys cuz I know dey wont feel comfortable

I really pray we win, we need to win this match, and we will by God's grace. Please does anyone have an idea of where I can watch the match live online?

D'banj may have some attributes of Fela, for instance his energy on stage, but he definitely does not have the acting skills. This fact is so obvious in his videos- Fall in love and Suddenly.

Sentiments apart, although I have not seen Ejiofor in action, from his list of awards and what people have said about him, I feel he is better for the role. At least the role was not given to a complete foreigner.

Dont worry, they wont put us to shame. They shall succeed by God's grace

Tcrack:
i really hope the eagles will not put me to shame because i have made too much mouth.

Frimoore, the admission list was uploaded today and I was given a provisional admission. Hope u've also been admitted?

To start with Rugged man should not have released the recording on the internet. I understand he is trying to clear his name and all that but that is kind of childish. I learnt Toni Payne posted something about the issue on facebook and Rugged man too abused some people who are in support of 9ice- now this was a very wrong move. Toni Payne should not have even said anything, it is her private life which involves a young innocent child and should not be brought to public.

The song was probably composed before they separated, but he may have known something was fishy. Although I feel 9ice should come out to clear the air at least for the sake of his child, his refusal to comment may mean there is more to it.

And on the issue of people saying 9ice used Toni for his career, and dumped her now that he is well known, I laugh in Chinese. I believe they both used each other, because that is what marriage is for (to uplift each other); it's not like Toni too was well known in the first place.

I support 9ice's insistence on keeping quiet- it is his private life and can refuse to comment. The other problem I have with the recording was when he started bragging about being a star- just one sentence for u 9ice- YOU ARE NOT A STAR YET, YOU ARE JUST WELL KNOWN, and dont forget your fans matter, and after God, they (fans) made u

He is being delusional as he has been brainwashed by the British culture. I agree there are some wrongs about Nigerian culture and some of its practices, but definitely not this one. Instead of them to admit they are abnormal or that they have being rejected by the opposite gender, they hide under the freedom of privacy.

He should not even bother coming to Nigeria cuz we dont need his sorry a.r.s.e polluting the country

KC Presh always make me laff, dey always look ridiculous to me
Nice wedding pictures by the way

The guy is just being silly, what has football got to do with all the dust he is yarning. Total nonsense, it obvious he does not have anything tangible to write.

Allahu Akbar for this story

Casfan123:
bleep d quran.bleep all moslems.u are all terorists and evel men.i hate u.infact u are not qualified 2 b in nairaland.i wish i had a gun,i wil kil al of u one by one.

It means there is no difference between you and the so called terrorists, and as a matter of fact a gun is not dat difficult to get so what are you waiting for? Almighty Allah will strike u down b4 u pull d first trigger. Seun or the moderators are not here to delete the comment quoted above ni?

Finally o! at last. . .I pray dis is d beginning of good things to come in Nigeria

Eventhough he said we should not cry for him in his song, I am crying, because it's difficult not to. This is really really sad, rest in peace Dagrin

Abbygyal:
babes. . . .he his dead

OMG, may his soul rest in peace, still hoping for a miracle though

Just got a text he is dead, I seriously hope it's nt true. Tears are burning in my eyes rite now but cant let dem out cuz am at work. A reliable source please

Luckily for me, I have met relatively good guys so I think am good

Obinnaijezie:
Actually he's still unconcious for now, let's keep praying for him to get better. Thanks. If you want to see pictures of the accident send me text to 08024977451 or email me to obinna.ijezie@yahoo.com with zain 200 recharge card

Why are you so heartless? Trying to make money under this circumstance. People are saying he is consious, instead of you to say amen, you are there saying he is not and asking for recharge card. 200 naira is too small, why not ask for more, NONSENSE!!!

He is always talkin about not wanting to die young. I pray God heals his body and soul quickly. He shall not die but live to give glory to God Almighty, amen

@post, many of us Nigerians get our priorities wrong. Grammatical errors, dress sense, all other flimsy issues do not matter. All that is important is good governance and development

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=430684.msg5898118#msg5898118 date=1271349523][color=deeppink]Please tell the dreaming star.
He doesn't even have a dress sense yet everyone is all making a big deal about him.[/color][/quote]What is it about dress sense mama gee has been talking about since sef? Will he rule the country with dress sense? So we can make a big deal about him if he had dress sense? There are far more important things to talk about please

Jonathan Goodluck has not done anything spectacular, nothing beyond the ordinary and expected. Maybe if he continues in the manner in which he started and increases the tempo, he can then deserve the post

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=428840.msg5880488#msg5880488 date=1271116061][color=deeppink]Obasanjo's outfit has nothing to do with a man wearing an Ugly hat and a Lace to go meet a Foreign President. . .
At least, Obasanjo's outfit symbolizes one of many Nigerian Culture. . .
What does Jonathan Goodluck's outfit represent? Nothing.
And look at the way he sits down, spreading his legs apart on the ground. . .
Compare his sitting position to that of Obama's, I mean on the second picture. . .the one where the journalists are surrounding them.
It's simple and official, Jonathan Goodluck hasn't got what it takes to be President.
A president should have style and Class and Jonathan Goodluck doesn't possess any of those qualities.[/color][/quote]I dont know if this is inferiority complex or something. Would you ever catch Obama in Yoruba, Ibo or Hausa attire, just because he is visiting Nigeria? We should be proud of what we have please, this idea of copying oyinbo style is killing us. Even look at the Indian Prime Minister, he is always dressed in his native attire, and there are so many of them like that, so there is nothing to complain about

Good image for Nigeria, but on the other hand I noticed that the Americans had notes, but the Africans (Nigeria and South-Africa) didnt. Does it mean they were just there to admire Obama, no information to take back home?

Religious leader or not, a paedophile is a criminal. Those that cover up the crime too are accomplices, and should also be prosecuted. You people calling holy father, ask yourselves this question- if this dastardly act is committed on your child by your holy father, would you let it go unreported? Let us call a spade a spade and not a farming tool, abeg! If true, what the Pope did is wrong, chikena!

The main problem in that church is celibacy. Marriage was ordained for all by God, for God's sake or did not read that in the Bible. Until they accept it as their problem, nothing will change. It is only normal they crave for sexual satisfaction, because God Himself created it

These Atheists sef, they refuse to belief in a God, yet they go about disturbing others. On the other hand, if an investigation suggests the Pope is guilty, he should be arrested. The actions he is accused of are great and if true should not go unpunished just because he is the Pope. He was placed in an authoritative position with responsibilities and should have reported those involved instead of covering them up.

All those that are saying he cannot be arrested should not be surprised. As it has already been mentioned, the Vatican is not recognised as a state in the International community, so the Pope is not immune from arrest just for his religious position and reasons.

Wonders will never cease on this Nairaland o, what did I say on this topic that warrants my post being deleted? People have said worse things, yet their posts are not deleted.

I thought Military rule no longer operates in Nigeria (where there is no freedom of speech), but it seems a mini military government is developing here. Na wa o!

Frimoore:
Does that in any way suggest that this years May/June 2010 Bar Part 1 may be scrapped or not be held this year

This is possible, but may also mean it will be very late in the year.

Thank you Frimoore, this has helped.

Apparently, my friend said she called them and was told they do not know when the application will open. This is because there is a back log of Bar II students, so intead of admitting Bar I students for May/June, I think the remainder of Bar II students are being admitted.