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Rich4god:
Am lending my voice to this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7922406/wife-why-life-women-complicated#127165126

A couple of days back, my wife put to bed using CS. Initially we had a baby before, I a know how complicated and painful the pregnancy and childbirth was.

Now I was in the theatre during the CS and I saw first hand how someone's abdomen was sliced open and the baby pulled out. I also saw how doctors were putting their hands into someone's abdomen and how they finally stitched her up. It wasn't an easy sight to behold. Right now, she's recovering, but the pain she's passing through is much.

To me, this is the highest form of sacrifice that someone can give for the family.

So to the men and husband out there..... before you ask your wife to be "what she is bringing to table", kindly think about the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world.

If you are ok with a woman who's only contribution to you is to give birth to your babies, good for you. Some of us want and expect more from our woman. Hope you know that even a mad woman in the village market is capable of giving birth.
I would go for a woman who is wise, a good mother, hard working, creative, kind and virtuous and not just someone who can give birth.

joyandfaith:
Both belong to legal profession. Bench to bar and vice versa. The same system.

Unless you think that criminals do not have a right to a defense only then would you have a point but that still wouldn't make you right.
The right of lawyers to defend their clients is in no way the cause of your countries problems. Do you understand?

joyandfaith:
Let me explain. No nation can prosper without peace and justice. Our judiciary system is a joke. Some lawyers like wole are making a fortune from high profile political and corruption cases. Who are those paying them? Corrupt politicians are using common treasury to feed lawyers. That is the reason for mantra 'let us meet in the court'.
There is no integrity in bar and bench. Do you think politicians who bribe inec, police and judiciary to attain power will care about people.

Yes our judicial system is a joke but you should learn to differentiate between that and lawyers.
In every country lawyers are allowed to defend their clients corrupt or not. In fact, that's the mark of a fair legal system.
Everyone should have the right to a defence so I see no reason for you to blame the failure of the Nigerian state of lawyers as if lawyers in every other country are not the same.

joyandfaith:
You are a shallow thinker

No sir you clearly did not think this through before typing. And no need for insults just learn to think before typing. Have a blessed day

joyandfaith:
Lawyers like you with no conscience are the reason people are poor.

Yes because Buhari and Tinubu are lawyers

christejames:
Let's go back to our ancient architecture or modernize it like this... ☺



I don't even know what our architectural students are being taught in our universities 😏, nothing exceptional in their designs, always that 'square design' with 'send down the rain rooftop' that is prominent at almost every estate in the country




You guys can do better, be more creative abeg, architecture is more of an art, and arts are unique representation of life, so guard it!

Very easy to say and to preach to others.

temmyyem:
Jesus said in Luke 21:24 that the Israelites shall fall by the edge of the sword, and shall be led away into captive into all nations (World wide Slavery).

Christ specifically said Israelites shall be led away into captive into all nations. This prophecy was fulfiled in 70 AD. Only the blacks have been led to captive to the four corer of the world, please provide evidence confirm that any other set of people have experienced this. Also, the bible says the curse shall be a sign upon the Israelites from generation to generation, Deuteronomy 28:46 And they shall be upon thee for a sign and for a wonder, and upon thy seed for ever.

The jews have never experienced this and they are not expericing it today, i have shared videos of Jews confessing they were convert, they were never the people of the bible.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j-d0AMY_oxA


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P6xCtWvIt5U


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=06yGGLWEkKQ


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TqUN5zjXijE


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fV0ZNujRfhU

With the exception of india, Blacks were not slaves in south east Asia. Please do your research.
Also, at different times, we have had white slaves across the world. White slaves were sold to India for spices, they were traded by Arabs too.
There is just too much we don't know about the history of slavery.
The Jews have been slaves in Europe Asia and Africa. Also, we have 10 lost tribe who's history we don't have. When you finally discover these people and learn their history, you would learn more

panpan:
Nigeria should find a way of dissociating itself from the World Bank.
"World Bank" is just a name. The World Bank does not care for the world. The World Bank gives conditions or advice that are in the interest of the United States.

Keep typing nonsense. How is your failing economy in the interest of the US. In case you don't know, the US wants your country to be richer so you would be able to afford more American product and less Chinese products. The US gains nothing from impoverished countries. China on the the other hand has so much to gain

caye:
The World Slavery Bank: Ẹgbẹ Alaropin ( the club of the mockers).

These predictions; apart from it being obvious sometimes, looks almost like their wishes for us; a sort of spell spiritually.

They put us EXACTLY where they wanted our country to be in : poverty.

These ppl worship only their pampered lives, and believe that black ppl should be their eternal slaves.

But God will redeem us from these monsters, and the black collaborators working with them, Aṣẹ.

Just because you have freedom of speech doesn't mean you should just wake up and begin to type nonsense.

smokinloud:
They got the land by genocide and ethnic cleansing.
Hamas, ISIS, AL-QAEDA, The Islamic regime of Iran ETC want back the Ottoman that's why they are planning to wipe out Israel first then they'll get to Spain from Morocco...
All they ever wanted is the world with one religion!.

Correct

STRI1:
Of you don't understand israeli-palestinian war, just keep shut and learn. Not say nonsense okay ??

Israel is another colonial project just as USA, Australia, Canada, New Zealand


Like it failed in South Africa

Actually no. Egypt, Tunisia, Syria, Jordan and the land of Palestine are all Arab and Muslim colonial projects. These places used to be christian land before the 6th and 7th century.
Please read up to learn when and how the Arabs got to the land of Palestine.

STRI1:
Israel is a racist and terrorist state


Some christains think the war is against Muslims, these idiots don't know there are over 3Million Palestinian christains .

Infact there are more christians in Saudi Arabia than in israel

See how your.slave master is killing you and your pastors

Please sir try to get a real education. What beer palor did you get your 3 million Palestinian Christians from.
Please click this link and get some education.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Palestinian_Christians

IVORY2009:
The city with the highest number of universities in Nigeria is **Abeokuta** in Ogun State. Abeokuta has 8 universities, accounting for almost half (47%) of the total number of universities in the state. Here's a list of the universities in Abeokuta:

1. Federal University of Agriculture, Abeokuta (FUNAAB)
2. Olabisi Onabanjo University (OOU)
3. Moshood Abiola University of Science and Technology (MAUSTECH)
4. Tai Solarin University of Education (TASUED)
5. Crescent University (CU)
6. Babcock University (BU)
7. Mountain Top University (MTU)
8. McPherson University (MU)

Abeokuta's concentration of universities can be attributed to several factors, including its strategic location, historical significance, and conducive environment for academic pursuits. The city is well-connected to major transportation hubs, making it accessible to students from across the country. Additionally, Abeokuta's rich cultural heritage and relatively peaceful atmosphere contribute to its appeal as a university town.

The presence of numerous universities has had a significant impact on Abeokuta's economy and social fabric. The influx of students and faculty has boosted local businesses and fostered a vibrant intellectual community. The city has also benefited from the contributions of these institutions in terms of research, innovation, and community engagement.

Overall, Abeokuta's position as the city with the highest number of universities in Nigeria reflects its commitment to education and its role as a hub for academic excellence in the country.

Correct me if I am wrong but Olabisi Onabanjo University (OOU), Tai Solarin University of Education,
Babcock University are not in Abeokuta. They are in Ogun state but not Abeokuta

tuzle:
Ogun and Lagos which also has many with a lot of private uni.
Let me list some in Lagos:
Unilag
Lasu
Lasustech
Lasued
Augustine university
Pan Africa university
Anchor university
Caleb university
There are some I can't remember sha

You know the difference between a state and a city right?

temmyyem:
Jesus said in Luke 21:24 that the Israelites shall fall by the edge of the sword, and shall be led away into captive into all nations (World wide Slavery).

1. Apart from the The Trans Atlantic Slave Trade where Africans expecially the Mbundu, Yoruba, Igbo, Bakongo, Fon, Mende, Wolof, Fula, Abron, Chamba and many more were scattered as prophecised by Christ, what documented world wide slavery event took place after the death and resurrection of Christ that fulfiled the prophecies?

Till this day, Africa remain the only group of people scattered all over the world and fell by the edge of sword or where can i find Ashkenazi jew slave in any part of the world especially in Nigeria?

2. Deuteronomy 28:49 Most High (Yah), will bring a nation against you from afar, from the end of the earth, as swift as the (eagle), a nation whose language you will not understand.

Note that the national, symbol of America and most european countries share the eagle symbol.

3. Why do ancient european map such the following refer to parf of West Africa as Judah?

a. Emmanuel Bowen Map 1747 details the same Slave Coast area, naming it "Km. of Judah or Whidah" ( Kingdom of Judah).
b. Del'Isle Map 1600s details that the area known as The Slave Coast was also known as "Re. De Juda" ( Realm of Judah)
c. Homman Heirs Map 1743 details that West Africa was known as "Dahomey Juda"

4. Deuteronomy 28:50 A nation of fierce countenance, which does not respect the elderly nor show favor to the young. Till this day Europe and Asia still control and oppress our people.

You have a very limited knowledge of history and you need to read more.
Please study the history of the Jews under the Roman Empire.
Also you used the phase 'world wide slavery' please explain what you mean because slavery is not unique to Africa.
Do you know that white slaves where taken from Europe to the Arab world.
There were also slaves captured in India and sold to the Arab world so please can you explain better?

Triangles1:
The international Media wouldn't hype this but when it comes to crime issue concerning Nigerian they'll rubbish us.

Are you on cheap weed? Is Jimmy Fallon show not international media?

Jewessgratitud3:
He's seems to be smarter than her. He wouldn't come out to brag about this show of shame. Impregnating a minor is not something to be proud of..

Na the girl Mumu

What if it's a minor that got her pregnant

Templee333:
thanks. All is well.

You welcome.
I love the fact that you humbled yourself and admitted that you don't know what you were talking about.
But then it's not late to start learning searching and asking.
It's not late to make an effort to learn. Only then should you write a post about people's false notions about God, only then.
For now, seek the path of a student not a teacher.

Templee333:
@tctrills
I'll like to say that i don't really know what i'm teaching. As for the source of my information, i agree that i don't know,tho, u can help me. Please just answer: who taught u to breath thru ur nostrils? Who informed u to fart thru your anus? Among all the holes in a woman body,y did u choose to be birthed thru the one b/w her tights? Who taught u how to sneeze? Who taught u to close ur eyes when sleeping? How did you learn to make tears come out from ur eyes when crying? Who taught you how to make ur heart beat endlessly? I'm sorry to put all these questions to you, but i feel that if u can give an answer to them, then, u already have an answer to the question asked me.

Good let's discuss
I get you are trying to be smart and to equate some of these activities you wrote above to your personal interpretation of who and what God is. But being smart does not make you correct. In fact it's just a deflection.
So to the answer to your question, these activities you mentioned are learnt via human instincts.
For a definition, human instincts are tendencies that humans have innately, without having to learn them. These inclinations guide our behavior in a variety of situations, often without our realizing it.
So you mentioned a few human activities that are learnt by natural instincts but it is totally deceptive to compare these knowledge to your knowledge about who God is and here are some simple reasons why.
1. It would be foolish and unnecessary to create a post about how to shed tears when crying or how to breathe from the nostrils because we all get it. That's why it's called natural or human instincts. The fact that you needed to create a post explaining your understanding of God shows that is was not a knowledge obtained via your instincts.
2. All the activities you mentioned above are universal. Most normal and healthy humans are capable them. On the other hand, your complicated views about God are not universal hence we can't classified as such.
3. Thirdly your ideas are prone to change. You have not always believed in these ideas so what would you say is responsible for all other believe systems that don't align with your present ideas. Again, as your ideas and beliefs continue to change and refine would you also call that natural instincts?

SIONKPO1:
UK it's just about Packaging which we also can do but we have inferiority complex and we Love foreign things too much.

This package excuse is the reason why we keep failing. Instead of us to learn from those who are better than us we continue to claim that it's a packaging problem.
It's simple, the championship is at a higher level than your local league. This has nothing to do with package.

ThunderFireAgba:
Since it's so, what are you doing here.. on a Nigerian forum?

What did you drink

SIONKPO1:
Calm down,i prefer to play in South African league than in UK

You may prefer to play in Mali but I was only comparing the Championship to our local league. I never mentioned South Africa or any other country.

SIONKPO1:
We have no standard in this country,imagine inviting a Championship players but leaving our Nigerian Premier League players.
This yahoo players,will give excuse that the pitch is Artificial and hot Weather.
Ibrahim Gusau and all Executhieves should resign
And pasero should resign

The championship is a hundred million times better than your league and every player in your league would give an arm and a limp to be in the championship

Templee333:
it's all your choice whether to take what we say or not. You are free to your idea/opinion/belief. We cannot force our experiences on others.

Oga, that has never been the issue. We know it's my choice to make but then it's not out of place to ask the source of your information.
Wouldn't you advise your kids to verify the source of any information before accepting it?
I believe if you really know what you are teaching, you should be happy to let others know your source.
Anyway that's just what I think.

OLAADEGBU:
What verse are you referring to other than the one at hand?

I am talking about the 3 men that visited Abraham.

tsdarkside:
without respect nobody will listen to you....

you dont insult people and await them to listen to you....
it doesnt work....

Only a fool would be looking for respect when his nation is decaying. If you will wait for someone to respect you before you learn to vote right then good luck to you.
You will never get the respect and you would continue to vote away your children's future.
Just keep waiting for my respect.

tsdarkside:
you will not convince nobody like this....

people dont like your disrespectful behaviour....

even if what you are sayin is true,they will still not listen to you....
learn to respect people,then they will listen to you....

respect is a must for anything....

If you need me to convince you about the terrible state of your country then you need a doctor.
So you are claiming that you voted for the wrong person because I was disrespectful to you? Is this what you will tell your children?

tsdarkside:
hahahaha....who you wan convince like this with your blabla....

yorubas,northerners....??

south southerners....??
we should continue listenin to your lamentations till next elections....

you must mention it on every topic on nairaland....??

wait....are you guys lamentin on romance section too....??

If the hunger in the land is not enough to convince you of your dumb choice, I don't think I can convince you. Is dollar cheaper for the Yorubas or the northerners, is fuel 10 kobo in Osun state or in Kano state. Oga, Dem no dey tell person.
If you need to listen to my lamentations to know that you are the problem of Nigeria then something is wrong with you.
I also noticed you did hahaha. Fela was so right when he described your people. Suffering and smiling.

tsdarkside:
....

is this what you understand under democracy....

campainin is over....everybody said what they think before elections....
why are you still draggin this matter on....??

apc is already campainin for next elections,you are still lamentin over a concluded election....
i dont understand....

you think pissin people off at every topic till next elections will make people vote obi....
the way you igbos think is strange to me....

I don't expect you to vote for Obi. You have shown that you can't learn and correct your mistakes so really I don't expect so much from you.
Again, this is the time to lament over the last election. Now we are living the reality of our choices. This is the time to witness the bad government you guys voted in.
Bad governance does not end after the election, that's when it begins

tsdarkside:
i repeat....:

wetin consign you who i vote....??

i dont care who you vote,why do you care soo much who i vote....??

listen to yourself....

....
do you realy think you have the right to tell anybody who to vote....??

Do I have the right to tell anyone who to vote for? Actually yes, and it's called freedom of speech.
That is why we need to educate people like you on who to vote for and the consequences of voting for the wrong person.
I hope you now understand?
Should I care who you vote for? Again I should because it happens that the idiot you voted for is putting everyone in deep shit.

tsdarkside:
chaii....una wan talk us to sleep....??

what is all this rantin for....??
wetin consign you who i vote....??

Now you show your stupidity more and more. The idiot you voted for is all of us concern. Let me teach you how it works, you vote in an idiot and his policies and corruption does not only affect you. It affects even the wise one who did not vote for him

tsdarkside:
kiki....take me to court....

hahahaha....
i have no right to have voters card because i dont vote accordin to how you want....

you igbos sha...

You have a right to your card even if you use it to kill your fellow Nigerians. I have no problem with your rights, only that you choose to be unwise. Each year millions of Nigerians die of poverty and bad governance all thanks to your rights.