When the girl you are dating and hoping to marry told you,after calling her on phone,that why should you call her when you know you don't have credit.That if that is tway,you should not even be calling her.
This happened after you called her,not knowing that you were short of airtime,of which she picked.After asking her how she was doing,your airtime got finished.Which you later call her after recharging,that was wen she said all that.
How can you address such lady being your girlfriend?

Lovewhisper:
4 boy attractive secrets

So, really, what are the things that first come to mind when a woman thinks of a bad boy? Bad boys are often perceived as more confident, adventurous. Bad Boys present a challenge or a project to the women that date them; they're rebellious, non-conformists, perceived as more masculine, emotionally unavailable. You know, there's a widespread understanding that relationships with bad boys often lead to hurt, disappointment, and are generally unsatisfying. The aura of Bad Boys is often rooted in fantasy and media portrayals which glamorize their behavior. So if bad boys are bad, why do they constantly get all the attention? And what can good boys learn from them to 10x their personal attraction, or perhaps what can good boys learn from them or use to their advantage to get ahead of bad boys? Let's talk a bit more on the couch.

So today, we're diving into the secrets of bad boy attraction and how good guys can use them to their advantage. The good news is you don't need to change who you are; you just need to tweak how you present yourself guys. Let's get into it.

Now, the first secret I want to talk about is confidence. Bad boys exude confidence, and if you want to exhibit confidence in a manner similar to the so-called bad boy allure, you're going to have to do it as they do. This is the cornerstone of bad boy appeal, but remember, it's not about being overbearing or cocky; it's about a quiet assurance that you're valuable, you're capable. So how can a good guy harness this? First, it starts with your mindset. Confidence is often a self-fulfilling prophecy; believe in yourself, and others will follow. Have the body language of a winner; stand tall with your shoulders back and head held high. Now, this posture signals confidence to others and, surprisingly, to yourself as well. It's amazing how our physical posture can influence our mental state. Note, Bad Boys don't flinch when you talk to women; maintain steady eye contact. It shows you're engaged and confident in the interaction. Guys, believe it or not, your voice is also a reflection of your confidence. I'm not talking about that deep baritone, Barry White kind of voice. I'm talking about your ability to speak clearly and at a moderate pace. Avoid filler words like "um" and "uh." You know, it's not about being loud but about being clear and concise in your words.

let me move into secret number two, and that is Mystery.

So, bad boys often have an air of mystery that's intriguing. There's a reason why the mysterious stranger vibe is so captivating; mystery creates curiosity, and curiosity is actually really attractive. It's about striking the right balance between being open and maintaining a bit of intrigue. So first, let's talk about conversation. For instance, when you're sharing a conversation about yourself, you want to leave certain things unsaid. It doesn't mean being secretive or deceptive; it's about not revealing every detail of your life in one go. So let her ask questions and be somewhat measured in your responses. See, your story is like a book. If you give away the entire plot in the first chapter, there's no reason to keep reading. Let your story unfold gradually, share bits about your life over time. Let her discover these layers naturally. Being mysterious also means being unpredictable in a very good way. Break your routine now and then. If you usually text at a certain time, mix it up a little; suggest an unexpected activity for a date or a meetup. Small surprises can make a big impact. Another aspect of creating mystery is managing your online presence. In today's world, it's very easy to find out almost anything and everything about someone on social media. So you want to consider being less active or be selective about what you put out there.

Now, secret number three is Independence. Independence is key. Bad boys are often seen as lone wolves who don't need anybody. Now, even though this is a trait often associated with a bad boy image, it's actually something that everyone can cultivate. Independence isn't just about being alone; it's about being self-reliant and having your own identity. Now, there are a few things I'd like you to consider. First, let's talk about emotional independence. This means not relying on others for your happiness or your validation. It's about being comfortable with who you are on your own, no need for anybody else. What you want to do is practice spending time alone and enjoying your own company. This builds a strong sense of self that women will find attractive. Financial independence is also key. It doesn't mean you have to be wealthy, but striving to be financially responsible and self-sustaining is important. It shows that you can take care of yourself, and that's a highly attractive quality. Having your own interests and hobbies is another aspect of independence, where you engage in activities that you love, not just things that you think will impress others. When you're passionate about something, it shows; it makes you more interesting and attractive to others. Independence also means making your own decisions. Don't just go along with a crowd; have your own opinions, don't be afraid to express them. Of course, this should be done respectfully and thoughtfully as well. And lastly, don't be afraid to do things by yourself. These experiences build character and show that you're not reliant on others for social activities or enjoyment. Remember, independence isn't about isolating yourself; it's about building a life where you are your own primary source of strength and fulfillment. It makes you more attractive because it shows that you're a complete person on your own, and you can take that to the bank.

Guys, now this is often misunderstood as being aggressive or dominant, but true assertiveness is quite different. It's about expressing your needs and opinions clearly and respectfully without overriding others. Firstly, assertiveness begins with clear communication. It means being able to express your thoughts and feelings openly. It requires self-awareness and the ability to articulate your needs without being confrontational. It's also about setting boundaries. This means knowing your limits, not being afraid to say no when needed. It's crucial to respect your own time and commitments, and this, in turn, gains respect from others. Assertiveness involves negotiation; it involves compromise. It's not about always getting things your way but about finding a middle ground where all parties feel heard and valued. Finally, assertiveness is also about taking initiative. Don't wait for others to make decisions for you. If you have an idea or a plan, step forward, share it. Taking the lead in a respectful way can be very appealing. Remember, assertiveness is a balance; it's about being confident in your self-expression while also being considerate of other people. This balance is not just attractive; it's a key to healthy relationships and interactions with women.

I'll wrap up this now. There you have it, bad boy attraction secrets that can work wonders for good guys. Remember, it's not about changing who you are but enhancing the qualities you already have. Be confident, be yourself, let the magic happen.

If you want to level up in life don't forget to show some love until next time

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It's like u are oblivious of the trending trend.

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That was so heartbreaking.The painful part of it was how the parent, even her father supported her. Anyway, I bliv all women are not the same. That's why one need to do some background checkup before tying the knot. Pls forgive her, as far as she isn't cheating on you. Let her start fending for the family, thereby having a part to play as per the finances.

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MadeInChina:
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Yes o. Still a virgin. Went through the university and graduated been a virgin. Was a President for my CDS and music director for NCCF during my youth service (2017). Still i came out a virgin. Even till now, still upholding virginity. It was not easy sha

Kudos. Keep it up. More inspirations

I will use it to learn a tech skill, which i need urgently

One of my dearest goals- Getting in line with my passion. I am really grateful to God for the platform. 2022 is be far better for us

ubunja:
I forgot about this question until my bro responded triggering a mention.

A woman has two hearts. One between her legs and another in her chest. When you love a guy because he's smart, kind etc it's the heart in the chest talking. That's the heart that complies to society's standards of what a good man is. Its the safe choice everyone approves of.

But things like muscled men, bad boys, thugs etc, when they turn you on its the pussy taking charge and making selections based on evolution etc. Usually these choices are frowned on by Society so women feel guilty making them and usually tend to these in secret. These have a pull on the woman especially in her early years, 25 to late 20s. Hope I'm not being cryptic.

would i also say dat a guys also have two hearts? in the sense dat, if a guy falls for a lady just by checking out her sexiness- glaring clothes and those seductive ones, he tend to go with his heart between his legs. but if a guy falls for a lady via her decency,this connects to the heart in his chest. just my personal notion,which i believe is true to a certain degree.

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What of me wey dey over 30 years,i neva kiss or sex a lady.Make nobody think say i no handsome o.if na to fine,i no carry second class. Despite d green lyt i dey receive.

Izido:
As a wife Wat will u do if ur husband reject ur food

are u talking about ursef or someone else,cuz i see u as a guy and not the opposite.or u be gay?

bro,i wish u well.abeg make u distant ursef from dem distraction o, and stay humble

where is the link? or you meant, to call or chat the number

HOW YOU EXPECT THIS MY GUY WEY DON REMAIN FAITHFUL TO ONE WOMAN ALL HIM LYF MAKE HE LEAVE BARCA WEY HE DON GIVE HIM LYF TO? MESSI IS GOING NO WHERE.BARCA FOR LYF!

Happy belated birthday.Enjoy grace

You have been a fool all along.Love ought to be reciprocated.But why the 18+?... Just to catch our attention e

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donvoice:
I read the story of a guy who accommodate an insolent girl but some people seems not to believe his story. Believe you me, I have been in that shoe before

https://www.nairaland.com/6526382/accommodating-insolent-girl/22#101192598

I worked as a manager of a firm and after covid-19, one of our major staff didn't return for any reason whatsoever. We have to put out an advert for the position. We shortlisted two (A boy and a girl).

Truth be told, the guy is more qualified than the guy and I prefer working with him because it will make my workload more easier but the CEO (female) prefers the lady and said I will have to bring the lady up to speed. All efforts to convince her to take the guy were abortive but I have no choice.
The lady on the other hand said she lives with her step-mum as she has lost her mum years back and the step-mum do maltreat her and she wants to be leaving home by all means. I told her that was not an enough reason to employ her but my boss thinks it reason enough.

This lady started well but her speed was too slow for my liking, so I have to be adding even her own responsibility on mine and share to other staff most times. Instead of her to learn, she will always be on her phone listening to music and games. She will complain the office is boring as everyone was busy.

She got my number one way and she added me up on WhatsApp and started flirting with me. I was not comfortable, so I have to show my wife the chat. My wife trust me but she cautioned me. I tried to avoid this lady till she sent me her nudes (someone who claim to be a virgin to everyone in the office) and said 'Mr. Sam, this is what you are missing'.

I was mad and wanted to report her but my wife said I should be able to control the situation.

I got to the office, invited her to my inner office and gave her a Stern warning but she bluff it off.

I decided to abandon her totally and blocked her on WhatsApp, so as to keep things official.

She longer stay at the office but to the next office office to gist. The CEO who do come once a while met her there on two different occasions and was mad with her, could you imagine this lady claim I was harassing her sexually and that why she has been avoiding office. My boss didn't say anything but went to invite two soldiers to come and pick me up and deal with me. When we got to the barrack, one of them asked me why I have been harassing my junior staff, I was shocked and I was given a fair hearing. The lady was brought but I didn't say a word, I just went to my email (because I do screenshot our conversation and save them in my draft box) and brought out all the chat.

My boss was shocked to the discovery and started apologizing. People of God, the lady was fired but I later resigned too

You are indeed a matured man.You carrying your wife along was a lovely move.Your wife also,is one of a kind.I love her calmness.

My brother hustle o make ur shoe no come dey give u bow leg as u walk.