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Newborn27:
Thanks so much for all the bashing....I never regret any way for posting my personal story on NL....the people trying to blame me for not going back home....I don't blame.....*he that wore the shoes knows where it hurts* I should go back home to be a liability on my parent's with two kids or start begging and prostituting to cater for them as there is no ready made job for my arrival.

My accepting my Boss's plea was not because I wasn't thinking in my right frame of mind, but this is my Boss, the man who still pay my salary and accomodated my kids and I for 12days... saying NO will make me look like an ingrate and give me a bad record at work for being adamant...I wanted Folykaze to prove to my Boss how beastly he can be under his sheepy clothed look....if many of you reading this sees Folykaze one on one, you'd never be on my side and will even scold me on his behalf cos of his *GENTLE* and calm looks.

Who bashed you?

You call constructive advice coming from a place of tough love bashing.

No disrespect to all those who are typing epistles... This OP doesn't value all what you have been saying so far...it is only best to wish her well.

BENEAMATA:
As in , what are guys feeling like these days ? You sleep with various ladies , anytime you feel like and still feel entitled to having one " decent " lady to settle down with one day .The OP should worry about why he hasn't found a decent one among his many girls .
General advice : a drum filled with water shouldn't complain about horses and donkeys flocking around it .

You will live long

The OP and his fellow pit toilets are just showing themselves for who they really are.

Bunch of dirty pigs who find pleasure in sleeping with anything that as much as breathes.

Their fate will soon be like that of the fellow taking 4300 injections because of sexually transmitted infections.

Rada Rada

Smh for the mod who moved this thread to front-page.

Anything for traffic, I guess.

As for the OP, you are what you attract. If she's a public toilet, then you are a pit latrine.

Achievements or not, let him face the allegations levelled against him. FBI cannot wake up one morning and frame up charges against him.

Nonpartisan1:
We will still appeal the case to the Supreme Court..No space for terrorists in Nigeria.

By all means, go ahead. Nobody is stopping you.

SageX1444:
Thank you for this but isn't the RPC against having a business as a lawyer?
(I'm asking as a curious person).

Lmaooooooo.

This one RPC......I am yet to see one lawyer that has faced LPDC for having a side business.

SageX1444:
I'm still considering my decision, I have this believe that I was making a huge career mistake deep down but again, it's better to ask from people who are already in the stage. Queen.fav, Teespice, MrM.cJay, Dav.id, Litigat.or and Davide.sq.

I'm in my year 4 and wish to pick a skill in tech(Programming). I have started. But my concern is with the way things are now will you advise me to continue or I should face my degree squarely.

You can combine the two together ie Law and Programming. With the current economic realities, it is best to have two or multiple streams of income.

Do the programming course at your spare time say weekends.

Chineke meeee!!!!!!

Klass99:
Enlighten me, what do you and Sleekyshuga always talk about?

Your last three paragraphs plus other issues generally.

Klass99:
Seven blessings to you.

You're so on point with this post. The first time I met my new neighbours, Sandra asked me if I was married and I said no.

She responded to my answer saying "I will be praying for you to get married and if you will join your faith with mine, you'll see that in no time at all it will happen. You'll get married and have your kids."

In my own mind I was like, why do people do this? Why do they meet someone for the first time and without knowing enough about that person, they begin to prophesy things that you may not even want, things that do not excite you or things that are the least of your concerns?

I guess they assume every woman's problem is marriage and children. Meanwhile, at that time I was in a job where salaries were no longer being paid reliably, my financial security/stability were at risk I needed to find new work and get out asap. But, madam thought the absence of a husband/children was worrying me and they would be the answer to my prayers, whereas I had an entirely different prayer for myself .

Anyway fast forward to 2 weeks later (exactly 2 weeks after they moved in) I heard screaming and shouting from their crib one night around 11pm. Husband and wife were in a war of words and I heard Sandra say "If you ever slap me again, my people will track you to this new house and deal with you, I have given them the address to this place. Try it again and you will see what happens to you." Richard (the husband) was on one side shouting "Useless woman I helped you by marrying you, you're very stupid yada yada yada. Then I heard doors slamming, a car starting up and driving off.

I laid on my bed thinking to myself, see wetin person been dey pray for me, sey make I enter! Indeed, misery loves company and it seems like the women chopping shege in their marriages are the ones who often meddle, pry and encourage others to get married. Women who are happy in their marriages hardly ever do the sort of thing Sandra did. In fact, they don't push or question others about their marital status, their marital bliss is so evident you see it for yourself and want to have it as well.

For the two years we resided in the same compound that couple regularly fought like that till they moved out. Endurance and submission will not change a man like Richard and I told Sandra one day that if I was married to your husband we would have been divorced by now, because of the way he talks to her alone. The verbal assault no be here o!

I think the fear of what her people will do to him, if he ever hits her again forced him to stop the physical assault. But, it looked liked he took all that physical strength, pressed it down, shook it well and ran it over, into his mouth and words. Such that his words were like Tyson delivering two upper cuts, a jab, then a knock out blow to an opponent.

Cc sleekyshuga.

What is it we always talk about

Your last three paragraphs....nothing but facts!!!! I do not have anything else to say.

cococandy:
In our society, Women who fight are vilified.I blame those who take a back seat but at the same time, I don’t blame them. They choose to be non-confrontational. To fit in. To avoid being labeled as feminists and what have you. Honestly It’s easier. they don’t have to deal with the venom that inevitably comes your way when you’re woman who is known to question the status quo. Nobody really likes stress sha

Our society places premium on female docility. That’s what makes a good woman to us. Sometimes other women will drag you down because you’re too vocal. Too opinionated. Too much in general. It will be hard for us to collectively as you said push for our rights when amongst us we have those who value male validation over the best future for the coming girls and women.

Per your second sentence in the second paragraph, you are absolutely spot on. I experienced this few weeks ago and since then, each time I see a woman who vilifies other women in order to prove a point albeit baseless, I know instantly that she has deep rooted issues.

Congratulations to all who passed.

To those with conditional pass or failed the exams, no hard feelings. You guys did your best but sometimes it is what it is.

I was going to Epe last week Tuesday and on Eko bridge, the bus broke down. As the driver was trying to fix the problem as well as give money to those who were not patient enough, two scruffy looking boys came out from nowhere and began to speak in Yoruba.

The fear, the apprehension on my face was so obvious that myself and another female passenger had to beg for lift, if anything to get out of that place ASAP for fear of being robbed even in broad daylight. Normally, for safety reasons, I do not get into cars but this one was borne out of necessity.

Thank God I got to CMS in one piece. To that lady who gave us that lift, thank you so much.

Munzy14:

Your instinct di egwu....The sharp reply got me laughing...ya racha efere ya..

Listen to Equipment by flavour....I ga ghota udi efere onye ahu choro i racha...

In essence it's a street way of saying performing MouthAction on a lady's local government..

Re your last paragraph

You are a clown. What name have you guys not given our down south?

cococandy:
Oh I think I know what you are talking about. Yes.

This is a pretty common problem among guys tho

You are right. It is a common problem among guys.

I was wondering why the voltrons on that thread couldn't advice a brother accordingly since they seem to be gurus where ED and PE are involved.

Happy Sunday Sis.

Cococandy,

Does this topic bring back memories of that thread?

Your leadership is the worst so far. You and Ahmad Lawan.

You are not called a rubber stamp legislature for nothing. Take lessons from your predecessors, then come back and do the right thing. Then Nigerians would be inclined to take you a bit seriously.

Legislature for mouth. Mtchewwww

Then restore twitter if you are that concerned about our sensitive data going out.

Bunch of idiots who cannot think ahead before taking sensitive decisions.

Asinine human beings.

E reach to ask. If it is not Heinz, e no fit be Heinz.

The ones in the market are rubbish especially that laziz.

Sincerely, the strike has made me lazier than usual.

I really feel sad for my colleagues who are not finding it easy. Really hoping that the strike gets called off before month end.

Ntorrrr.

Whatttttttttttttt!!!!!!!!!!

This one is slavery.

cococandy:
Many guys would rather chew Alaba market jeans than accept responsibility for things that happen in their relationships.
If you’re a woman in a relationship with the typical naija dude, know that everything is your fault

Before the matter is even tabled, accept responsibility on their behalf and move on.

Abi nau. Even when they feel less motivated, still a woman's fault.

It is well.

I laugh in Spanish.

Women are the cause of men having Erectile dysfunction. Chai.

After placing laptops on your laps, wearing that very tight boxer that you say makes your bum and dicck more pronounced, drinking beer like a mobile brewery, smoking like chimney, you will still say that women are the cause of men having ED.

Whatever makes you lot sleep at night.

BlueRayDick:
Does anyone have the perfect Singapore noodles recipe? I have a pack of rice vermicelli that has been sitting in my kitchen cabinet for 4 months now and counting ; I want to make Singapore noodles but I don't want to mess it up.

There's this Chinese restaurant I do eat their Singapore noodles, I've been tempted more than once to ask them for the recipe but I know they won't tell me.

Anybody that has tried Singapore noodles before should share the recipe biko

Make this the way you would make stir fry. Use hot water for the noodles and leave for at least five minutes. Let it not stay in water for long to avoid being soft/soggy.

SwiftxChange:
Thank God you didn't reject the offer because of what you think your mates were earning. I am glad it all ended well for you!

Comparison is the thief of joy people. Live in the moment, enjoy what you do while seeking better prospects. As long as there's breath of air, everybody will eventually find the breakthrough they seek. There's still hope. Amen.

I buy bitcoins at super cool rates. Do well to check out my signature. 0.8.1.3.1.6.4.5.7.7.0

Your second paragraph is nothing but the truth. Sadly, many people know this but choose to put themselves under unnecessary pressure forgetting that people's journeys are different.

OP, Congratulations. More juicy briefs and renumerations to you.

I am not part of the Nigerians asking you to run for president.

How can you be president when the state you govern is in shambles?