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Ishilove:
Hire somebody to pose as your husband, take photos of your 'traditional wedding', and then when you start showing, he travels to Libya and dies while crossing.

End of story.

bee17:
thanks for that great response, am not using a fake soa to show for my proof of finance though, but I just want to know the essence of going along with a bank soa.
...I really appreciate your quick response.
God bless us all!

dadalicious:
Hello house,
I keep dreaming of seeing myself in the USA,
the only thing is that I go there illegally.any ideas

shadeyinka:
Happy new year. Missed you

More grace this year in Jesus name.

marttol:
cob webs of course

marttol:
cob webs of course

muehonyx22:
HAPPY NEW YEAR !!!!!!!!!!!

Cc nnamdiosu shadeyinka 701ecilana CharlyG1 tjayjosh temi4fash hananhezron TRADELYN providence338 NnaNna4 and the rest of this wonderful family. your profound contributions has helped me to an extent. so I thank you all

May you continue to enjoy the fellowship of the spirit and by God's grace, many more new years to come in jesus name.

marttol:
please,how can i make this invincible cobwebs of a thing stop,completely...if my prayer is answered,will the person sending it to me,feel anything about me...heaven is my witness,it makes me depressed,each time i experience it...please help a brother,i have been praying about it,but it yields no effect.

Ishilove:
Story. In bed, you should be able to make me scream and gibber like I'm undergoing deliverance

What's the use of having a husband who can afford a private jet but lasts only 1 minute in the sack. Mscheeew

However, that doesn't mean he should swallow the spirit of poverty of his father's house

Scholastica16:
Look for another recommender. The letter-headed paper gives the letter a more formal feel which can sway adcoms.

If he is this protective of the company's letter head then he probably will not recommend you well.

PS: some schools do not mind. So if this one does not mind, then still use him.

Roseey0:
African Salad

freeman67:
Yes but make sure its money market fund you subscribe to.

MsNgo40:
Sorry about that. When I want to be discreet, then I am discreet.
When I choose to be blunt, then I do so...hopefully in a respectable manner.
My posts today may be a mixture of both.

MsNgo40:
Oh, nevermind then.....was trying to convey a message discreetly to you.

MsNgo40:
Hi brother,
Long time. Please check my sig.

MsNgo40:
Brother,
I didn't purchase the laptop for him.....just so you know.

Mobsync:
Would have loved to. But it is not a one-way stuff. I will need to write a detailed article since my responses are usually dependent on the lady's response. And I do'n't think I want to type something that long.

LagosismyHome:
There are a couple of links compiled

https://www.dropbox.com/s/tkt7zz6y583qhna/APPROVED_VISAS_Part_7.pdf?dl=0

https://www.dropbox.com/s/dawoicv7y9cofif/COMPILED%20VISA%20TRANSCRIPT%20Part%2011%20-%20Up%20to%20Pg%20331.docx?dl=0

https://www.dropbox.com/sh/vv0a0sfgaysztiq/AADbiS4UG7q57b0qcFPjaPkna?dl=0

link to delayed visa transcript

https://www.dropbox.com/s/3nq0ft9sr52twe7/DELAYED_VISAS_PART_7.pdf?dl=0

Mobsync:
I've been following the asewo thread for almost three years -- followed it from the old thread to the new one. I saw it evolve from just sharing contacts and sexacapades to more sensible discussions (even though numbers and sexacapades are still shared), HIV awareness and the likes. In fact, at this moment, they're debating over whether pussy is gold.

That said, regarding the first bolded: it isn't that you won't ask the lady out. You'll ask her out but not directly or immediately. You see, regarding those two ladies I talked about earlier, I left one part out. The first one that told me she was thinking about my proposal (after accepting), told me something when I reminded her that she had earlier accepted. She said "Hope you know you are not the only one asking?"

That line is true with most ladies. In today's society, even the ugly ones get hit on several times a day. Now imagine how many times the semi-beautiful ones get hit on. Not to talk of the beautiful ones. In fact, there are some categories of ladies that these drills won't work on, no matter how you do it. One of this category of ladies are the slay queens. I mean, the real and hardened slay queens, not the 500 naira tight wearing broke girls claiming slay queens these days.

Most ladies are used to hearing the same thing. "Tell me about yourself," "have you eaten," "I love you," "I see my children in you," "Can you be my gf," "Can I get your number," Let me introduce myself to you" and so on that they have gotten tired. The whole agenda is how to be different.

In fact, I have a strategy that I use to chat ladies up on Facebook and get their numbers in ten minutes or less (if they're quick in replying) and it works 85% of the time. I don't follow the useless strategy that most guys use. They say "hi," she replies, then they ask whether she has eaten. Thereafter, they tell her to tell them about herself. Ladies black out from these kind of chats and I would too if I were a lady.

The major idea of this thread is "how not to give a lady the upper hand (your balls) in a relationship." You as the man should call the shots and not the lady. The moment she starts calling the shots, you'll run into problems. I allowed those two ladies call the shot for sometime and I ultimately regretted. I just did not allow them punch me into the maga zone. The one that told me she was still thinking about my proposal was even telling me to take her to "Dominos."

Another night, I called her and she started talking to me rudely. I hurriedly cut the call and didn't call or chat with her for some days. She later chatted me up and apologized. The first thing she asks me whenever I call is why I haven't been calling -- irrespective of when the last time I called her. I always ask her why she herself doesn't call and she says she doesn't have airtime. I tell her I also didn't have airtime and our discussion proceeds from there.

At that point, most guys would have apologized and promise to call regularly or even everyday. I didn't. Had I done that, I would have given her the upper hand in the relationship.

The bottom line is: a man will definitely ask a lady out. But don't make it too conspicuous else she might start misbehaving.

That said, regarding the second bolded, Harddon (the OP) already stated that in the first page. To quote him, he said:



This thread was created for weaklings in mind. But at the same time, those who want to improve on their game or change/adjust their strategies will find it useful.

supersystemsnig:
Hahahaha

supersystemsnig:
I implanted it with serious prayers when i was back in secondary school...When you're a whiz kid, smart hustler.... the ladies no dey gre us rest, do i implanted dangerous prayers into my being... though complement it with staying away from outdoor things.. Abeg, i no get power for woman wahala...

DavidTheGeek:
1. You are the guy, you are in charge of directing the conversation.
2. "Wife to be" is different from "wife". No girl should have a full seat in your life unless you've wifed her. Keep her on her toes.