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Foreign Affairs › Re: Pope Francis Says NATO Started The War In Ukraine By "Barking At Putin's Door" by TenQ: 7:21am On May 04, 2022
Rugaria:
I'm happy that The Pope understands the unending wickedness and pugnacious nature of NATO.
NATO is useless to modern world other than to provoke conflicts to loot other nations resources and to funnel funds into the "military industrial complex"

Putin was right to respond as he rightly did, but now that lives are being lost and Ukraine being totally ruined, anything that can be done to save lives is welcomed. Part of that should entail the global criminalization of NATO and the designation of the association as that of vandals and bloodsuckers..
From the objectives of Putin at play, we know what he wants from Ukraine. The claim of Ukraine trying to join NATO is just a ruse.

Putin wants to annex the whole of Ukraine if possible and if not to annex Eastern Ukraine from Dombas to Odessa with the Gas fields, Iron ore and sea port.


Can you please answer this question:
In 2014 when Russia annex Cremia, was it because Ukraine desired to join NATO?
What was the excuse of Russia?
Politics › Re: Why Buhari Should Support Jonathan’s Candidacy (Open Letter) by TenQ: 8:13pm On May 03, 2022
AnonPoet:
https://ourdailywire.com/open-letter-why-buhari-should-support-jonathans-candidacy/
Northern Taqqiyya at play!

You didn't say that GEJ can only run for 4 years after which you Will say it's the turn of the Northern Fulani for the next 8 years
Education › Re: Emeka Nwajiuba: Striking ASUU Members Shouldn’t Be Paid – Education Minister by TenQ: 9:40am On May 03, 2022
adenigga:
The Minister of State for Education, Emeka Nwajiuba, has said it doesn’t make sense for members of the Academic Staff Union of Universities to continue to earn salaries while on strike.

The PUNCH reports that ASUU began one month warning strike on February 14, 2022 and since then has not suspended its industrial action.

Speaking to The PUNCH in a telephone interview on Sunday, Nwajiuba said, “The lecturers have continued to earn salaries while on strike; it doesn’t make sense to earn salaries when you have refused to work.

“If you refuse to even pay them, by the time they call off the strike, they will still come back to fight for the payment of the period they refused to work.

“You can air your grievances, come to the negotiation table without refusing to work. The issue of the strike has become a thing of concern. I have four children; two have graduated while the other two are still in public universities. I feel for them, I feel for other students who are at home. I feel the same way other parents feel, but can I bring money from my house and give it to ASUU?

“The Ministry of Education isn’t the employer of the lecturers, we are a supervisory body, and there is no way we can fire or hire someone. Universities have governing councils that supervise the activities that go on, our job as in the ministry is to supervise, we can’t meddle in.

“On the issue of the Integrated Payroll and Personnel Information System, I am also paid via the IPPIS, it is owned by the government, there is no way you can tell the government to throw away its platform and pay you with another platform.”


Meanwhile, the President of the Senior Staff Association of Nigerian Universities, Mohammed Ibrahim, has accused the Federal Government of focusing on frivolous things and neglecting the education sector and the youths.

Speaking during the 2022 May Day celebration in Abuja on Sunday, Ibrahim said the universities were forced to shut down due to government insincerity, adding that the standard of education had continued to go down.

He stated, “Our universities have been forced to shut down due to the insincerity of the government to keep to its promises. The standard of education continues to go down due to the insensitivity of the government and the inability to provide a good teaching, learning and work environment through lack of basic facilities that will make them compete favourably with their peers in other parts of the world.


“The morale of university workers is dampened by the poor pay package and the government appears to be paying lip service to education. It is very clear that government pays more attention to frivolous things and has neglected youths that are said to be the leaders of tomorrow.’’

The SSANU President lamented the condition of Nigerian workers whom he said were going through perilous times in form of insecurity, economic hardship and other challenges.

He noted, “This year’s Workers Day comes when Nigerian workers are passing through perilous and dangerous times. Nigerian workers and indeed members of our great union are confronted with diverse challenges like rising spate of armed banditry, kidnappings, insurgency, economic hardship and worst of all, the inability of the government to keep to agreements it entered into with all the university-based unions in 2009.

“Our members have been denied payment of new Minimum Wage Consequential Adjustment arrears and backlog of earned allowances in addition to other violations of our rights and privileges. Our universities have been forced to shut down due to the insincerity of the government to keep to its promises.”


He admonished the government to resolve the ongoing strike by university workers and also tackle the challenges facing the country.

“Toying with the future of our children will spell doom for our dear country. I call on the government to look into the demands of all the university-based unions and take urgent steps to address them so that our children will go back to school,’’ the union urged.

Source: https://punchng.com/Striking-ASUU-members-shouldnt-be-paid-Education-minister
If they don't go on strike, you ignor them. Now, they are on strike, you say no payment of salary.
Evil Government!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ukrainian Forces Liberate 4 Villages In The Kharkiv Region by TenQ: 12:21am On May 03, 2022
topcatking:
Bro...read up on the root cause of the conflict.

Start from NATOs expansion, and move to the Minsk agreement
You speak like a proud soul!
Not impressed!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ukrainian Forces Liberate 4 Villages In The Kharkiv Region by TenQ: 9:49pm On May 02, 2022
topcatking:
Yes, It looks stupid and indeed wasteful but Ukraine has been bisected. Port cities ,the wheat fields the gas pipelines... all taken
Honestly, I don't know what the pro-Putin,
That Ukraine will keep quiet and not defend itself!?

You just stated what Russia wanted by invading Ukraine. To take over the gas wells in eastern Ukraine, to take over the iron ore mines in eastern Ukraine, to take over the port of Odessa. To do this, Russia has to give a dog a bad name.

What was the offence of Ukraine AND what does Putin expect from Ukraine?
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ukrainian Forces Liberate 4 Villages In The Kharkiv Region by TenQ: 8:14pm On May 02, 2022
topcatking:
Take back? Lets be realistic. They were never held by Russians, they were only occupied in transit.

Who will hold something that is of no strategic importance?

But well... Ukraine and Ukrainians also need some "feel good news" , so...


PS - For those who might feel led to respond, I would appreciate objectivity and clear counter arguments. There are no insults in my post , so please, let's be guided.

PSPSPS- for those asking why Russia laid siege to kiev, why they withdrew from kharkiv and what I meant by occupation in transit,

My response- If you play the game of chess or if you have an understanding of chess, you would understand " distractions, deflections, subterfuge and the use of a cats paw"

You would understand attacking a rook with a pawn, just to distract him from his queen that's being targeted by your knight.


Hope you get it
Same thing the Russians did at Kieve. Invested so many lives of Russian soldiers only to withdraw after a month to eastern Ukraine


It's not the first time Russians will make such stupid move
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ukrainian Forces Liberate 4 Villages In The Kharkiv Region by TenQ: 8:12pm On May 02, 2022
Bluntguy:
American backed Ukrainian forces you mean. This is more like the biblical hand of Esau but the voice of Jacob.
Are you sad about this?
Politics › Re: Strike: Osinbajo Begs Labour Leaders To Intervene In ASUU/FG Impasse by TenQ: 7:18am On May 02, 2022
TheRareGem1:
https://independent.ng/strike-osinbajo-begs-labour-leaders-to-intervene-in-ASUU-fg-impasse/?
Oshinbajo should beg the federal government to tow the path of dialogue and not ASUU!
Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie To Critics: I Will Sort Out Issues In My Family Amicably by TenQ: 5:30pm On May 01, 2022
shankara7:
No woman deserves total loyalty from a man.. If the table should turn women would treat men as trash.
Unfortunately, I have a different report. My wife is the most trustworthy person I know. I have not been one day disappointed with her loyalty as long as we've been married. I have no regret whatsoever for marrying her.

On a serious note:
If you do your foundational work well AND you are a good man, you will find a trustworthy woman as wife.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Vladimir Putin Set ‘to Declare All-out War On Ukraine In Days' by TenQ: 5:18pm On May 01, 2022
baralatie:
I advised Ukraine to tread very carefully with it's powerful Russia!
That is why France and Germany brokered the minsk2 agreement!
But what did ukraine do?
Ukraine did what you said you did...Ukraine through zelensky said if it was war that Russia wants ,Ukraine will fight war
Now war is here!
Is zelensky not been foolish?
And he has yet to even realize his mistake sef?
He thinks this war is a comedy and he is the main actor?
Oh well!
At a certain point when he looks around and sees 20 million ukrainian refugees and a western Ukraine in rubble's and the east and south of Ukraine gone!
He will reflect properly
It looks like you don't understand the premise of this war.

It started in 2014 (there had not been any issues about the Minsk agreement). What did Russia do?
They invaded Ukraine and Annexed Crimea.

Once beaten they say, twice shy!

Ukraine is now wiser. Or what do you think Ukraine should have done. Cremia was taken in less than 3 days away from Ukraine in an unprovoked war from Russia in 2014.

What do you honestly think Ukraine should have to to Russia who intend to take Odessa, Dombas and Marieopol from Ukraine?
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Are The Dead Taken To Church For Prayers; Does God Forgive Sins After Death? by TenQ: 10:54am On May 01, 2022
Thestormisover:
you are not bigger than the church
If it is not commanded in the scripture but the church does it, such is a tradition of men


Jesus said:
Mat 15:3:
"But he answered and said to them, Why do you also transgress the commandment of God by your tradition?"

Mar 7:9:
"And he said to them, Full well you reject the commandment of God, that you may keep your own tradition."
Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie To Critics: I Will Sort Out Issues In My Family Amicably by TenQ: 9:49am On May 01, 2022
shankara7:
Yes because he paid her bride price and brought her to his house.
Please how much did he buy his slave?

Let's compare with how much her parents spent on her!
Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie To Critics: I Will Sort Out Issues In My Family Amicably by TenQ: 9:08am On May 01, 2022
Omicronvaccine:
Second Wife: "I Will Sort Out Any Issues In My Family Amicably" - Yul Edochie Replies Critics



https://www.instagram.com/p/Cc-tzTUqck6/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
Very selfish man
If it was the wife that commited adultery, he would have long filed a divorce. Now, he is claiming amicable settlement!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Vladimir Putin Set ‘to Declare All-out War On Ukraine In Days' by TenQ: 9:05am On May 01, 2022
baralatie:
Ehn nau!
Is it Russia that is loosing or the mumu ukraine president that volunteered his country to be a testing ground to know wether Russia is competent or not.
The people sponsoring can not use their own country to conduct the experiment?
Or is Ukraine the only place for bomb experiment?
I once stood up to a much older and bigger bully in my secondary school. He couldn't believe that I could challenge him to a fight. I was ready for the worst BUT that was the last time he ever picked on me.

When Russia took Crimea, where were you? What was your advice to Ukraine,?
Now, Putin want to take Dombas, Odessa, Marieopol you want them to do what?
Romance › Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by TenQ: 4:25am On May 01, 2022
DaveDGreat:
Don't mind the Buffon (yes I called him a Buffon).

He went to church to fornicate and is now cursing church girls.

Doesn't the Church preach preach against fornication? People in it should at least not complain when their fingers get burnt.

Chai! Our God is a merciful One indeed. If Na me eehn ...... undecided
I wish the times are still like that of Ananias and Sapphira, we'll not be talking this kind of nonsense!

A child of satan making a daughter of satan who goes to church as a past time to cum everyday!!?

Shame with no limit!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Vladimir Putin Set ‘to Declare All-out War On Ukraine In Days' by TenQ: 4:22am On May 01, 2022
baralatie:
Don't worry Ukraine is winning!
grin grin
Zelensky continue the mumuness

We are going to round three

Round one destruction of Ukraine :you say he won in kyiv
Round two increased destruction of Ukraine total loss in eastern Ukraine;they say noo zelensky won in kyiv
What we are going to round three


You guys will help zelensky destroy ukraine well well
I bet you still don't see it. Even if Russia wins this war, it's still a big loss to them. The war shows how militarily incompetent they are. Apart from nuclear bomb and hypersonic missiles, their Army is rag tag!
Romance › Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by TenQ: 10:23pm On Apr 30, 2022
RickSanchez:
I'd like to start by saying I'm serving, Sorry if the story is all messed up as my mind is F'ed up right now.

I got into a corpers lodge which used to be a lounge. I didn't want to date anyone but this hoe kept disturbing me to. Gave in.

Usually I'm a crypto investor, I have money, I look good, I dress good. I'm not saying all these things to hype myself up but I'm okay.

Sexually I can last hours, I made her cum consistently. The only problem I have is delayed ejaculation. Which she complains about.

Now, I'm not the type to love hard as I'm already used to heartbreaks. So we dated and broke up after 4 months or so. I was okay with the breakup.

Only to find out she's been fucking around the whole time I was loving up, as she(in my mind) opened up to me about the guys that played her and broke her heart.

She goes to church frequently and if you see this girl outside you'd think she's a saint, she doesn't party, she doesn't usually drink and no smoking.

Anyway I found out that she'd be fucking her our fellow corper guys and was getting passed around, while still pretending she still loved me(after the breakup).

When I knew and she came to my side and I told her to go Bleep the guy she usually goes to she said she doesn't care.

This person who I thought had a conscience was probably a covert narcissist who wants male attention from anywhere she'll get it.

To be honest it pains me to say this but I felt foolish for actually loving the girl and started to doubt myself as a man.

I'm usually the one girls cheat on their guys with(when I was in uni) but this time around I got my share(after I became a good guy), it hit hard and it disgusted me how I got to know she was being pounded by other niggas.

Funny thing is now she doesn't hide it, she blows kisses to the nigga openly in everyone's presence.

Don't want to bitch all day about this but honestly it feels evil how someone can switch like the devil cause I had nothing but good intentions for her. And she not only did all that but boldly told people I was the one disturbing her life. Lol. It is well. I know it's the times we shared that's causing me to feel undeserved.

The one thing on my mind I Sha know is that at the end of the day I'm still an awesome dude, no matter how a hoe wants to pay me back I'll still make bank and get back out there. Thanks for reading and if you have things to add, both good or bad I'm willing to read through.

Addition ; wanted to marry her as I had enough money to and we shared(to my understanding) the same values and dreams. I doubt I'll ever fall for words or even actions of love again as I was genuinely convinced she was good.
I'm not sure I Heard you correctly
You said:
Sexually I can last hours, I made her cum consistently.
A church girl that you make to cum consistently, is that one a church girl?


I guess you don't understand who a church girl is!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Vladimir Putin Set ‘to Declare All-out War On Ukraine In Days' by TenQ: 10:18pm On Apr 30, 2022
baralatie:
Zelensky is disgracing Putin? grin grin grin
So all the 20 million Ukrainian refugees na to disgrace Putin?
All those cities that are lost is to disgrace Putin?
Abi the beg that he gas turned into is to disgrace Putin?

Zelensky is a comedian walahi?
It's just like if Anthony Joshua cannot beat me in a boxing match until 16th round, I am still the winner.

Small Ukraine that is 10 times smaller than Russia in EVERYTHING, yet more than 60 days now the cow is still threatening everybody with nuclear weapon. Shame!

The comedian won round ONE in Kiev, we are on round TWO!
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Passes PDP Screening (See His Provisional Clearance Certificate) by TenQ: 7:53pm On Apr 30, 2022
TwitterGists:
https://twitter.com/PeterObi/status/1520467451787493376
I wish it can be between Peter Obi (PDP) and Yemi Oshinbajo(APC)

Either way, Nigeria will move forward. But......Peter Obi cannot spend like Atiku, therefore, I'm afraid
Foreign Affairs › Re: Vladimir Putin Set ‘to Declare All-out War On Ukraine In Days' by TenQ: 7:42pm On Apr 30, 2022
baralatie:
A comedian who disgraced a veteran comedian abi which veteran?
Okay!
The thug that stole Cremia from Ukraine.
The warlord who humiliated Georgia.

It's the same man Putin.

Zelensky has never fought a war. He's a comedian but he is disgracing Putin!
Foreign Affairs › Re: The Guardian View On Putin’s Nuclear Threats Russia Is Losing In Ukraine by TenQ: 7:39pm On Apr 30, 2022
Shoodboi:
Russia hasn't even declared a full all-out war in Ukraine and yet, NATO is fearful of a nuclear war.

Russia barely talks about nuclear weapons. It talks about being able to deal with NATO if they dare get into Ukraine and then NATO starts screaming about nuclear weapons.
Some countries are thinkers while others bully with military power.

Shame on Russia!
A comedian has given him a bloody nose!
Foreign Affairs › Re: The Guardian View On Putin’s Nuclear Threats Russia Is Losing In Ukraine by TenQ: 7:37pm On Apr 30, 2022
Dalil8:
You think?

They have nearly the whole of eastern Ukraine under control but you think they're losing? Well we'll see...
Russia is ten times bigger than Ukraine in EVERYTHING and there special military operation that was to last 7 days is more than two months: you still think Russia is winning!?
Foreign Affairs › Re: Vladimir Putin Set ‘to Declare All-out War On Ukraine In Days' by TenQ: 7:30pm On Apr 30, 2022
ken6488:
I wonder why Putin is slowing things down
Some people are sad that the military operation failed woefully!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Vladimir Putin Set ‘to Declare All-out War On Ukraine In Days' by TenQ: 7:30pm On Apr 30, 2022
baralatie:
Well zelensky has himself to blame
Why should Zelensky blame himself?
He's now a hero:
A comedian who disgraced a veteran!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Vladimir Putin Set ‘to Declare All-out War On Ukraine In Days' by TenQ: 7:28pm On Apr 30, 2022
baralatie:
It is disgusting to read what the West has been reporting about this Russian Ukraine war!
What do you really expect Zelensky to do?
Beg Putin who is interested in annexing Ukraine?
Celebrities › Re: Uche Edochie: My Family Is Not In Support Of Yul Edochie's Second Marriage by TenQ: 10:19pm On Apr 29, 2022
AyomideOG01:
Bitterness? Lol. Just a mere flip of words indeeds. Feel free to flip the action as well
Sorry dear!
The flipped words were not meant for you but for a certain Kriss216.

He said:
Kriss216:
The truth is, a real man does not need the support of his family in his quest for happiness and peace of mind.


Dear men, don't allow your wife stop you from finding the love of your life. If two or three wives can bring peace of mind to you, do it! You owe no one any apology.
I flipped his quote (unfortunately you responded to it): it was meant for Kris's ,not you

Dear Mrs Khris216, don't allow your husband stop you from finding the love of your life. If two or three husbands can bring peace of mind to you, do it! You owe no one any apology.
Celebrities › Re: Uche Edochie: My Family Is Not In Support Of Yul Edochie's Second Marriage by TenQ: 6:44pm On Apr 29, 2022
AyomideOG01:
Feel free to marry a thousand men at a time and no one will judge you. Make history darling, do the impossible and write ur name in gold. Your bitterness makes you see urself as the eagle meanwhile you are just a little chicken. There are so many privileges that comes with bn a woman and you should be contented with that. This is Africa and this is our orientation about marriage and women, we can marry as much as we want and their is nothing like an adulterous man in Africa. We first became Africans before some chose to be christians and not everyone here is a Christian so this tradition is never changing till Jesus Christ comes and ur tears can't change it. It's our right so dry ur tears or cry harder in wasted effort. Everyone is forming righteous even the abortion specialists....lol
Waoh!
So much said for a mere flip of words,!?

Dear Mrs Khris216, don't allow your husband stop you from finding the love of your life. If two or three husbands can bring peace of mind to you, do it! You owe no one any apology.

Why the bitterness?
I thought this was what you want!?
Celebrities › Re: Uche Edochie: My Family Is Not In Support Of Yul Edochie's Second Marriage by TenQ: 3:42pm On Apr 29, 2022
Kriss216:
The truth is, a real man does not need the support of his family in his quest for happiness and peace of mind.


Dear men, don't allow your wife stop you from finding the love of your life. If two or three wives can bring peace of mind to you, do it! You owe no one any apology.
Dear Mrs Khris216, don't allow your husband stop you from finding the love of your life. If two or three husbands can bring peace of mind to you, do it! You owe no one any apology.

Pure wisdom applied!
Family › Re: Chrisland School: My Daughter Fooled Me Too by TenQ: 3:33pm On Apr 29, 2022
DopeChick:
ChrislandSchool- My Daughter Fooled Me Too

https://dopereporters.com/chrislandschool-my-daughter-fooled-me-too/


I saw the video of that Christland girl’s mother online; you know, as a mother, I felt sad for her. Especially when I read that they suspended her daughter.

But something in me said, “hmmnnn, the children we are raising these days are “wiser” than us their parents. I said ‘wiser’ because that is what they think of themselves.

A few days after, when I now saw the video of the small girl that was said to have been raped…I said, oh, these children will not kill us, o��. This is what my own daughter did to me too. How I wish the girl’s mother had just quietly sought help for her child because now we all know the girl isn’t the little innocent the mother thought she was. I am not judging o but everyone who saw it say the girl isn’t as innocent as we think. My own daughter did me the same shege!

Children of these days? Forget them, they can fool you into the well, cover you up and not even blink.

If I have an opportunity to talk to the girl’s mother, I will just tell her to keep quiet, she should learn from me.

Few years ago, my daughter, she’s my niece actually; her mother died a long time ago and I have raised her since she was six years old…so she is my child. She was just 15 when this incident happened.

I sent her to one of these Model Colleges in Lagos state.

She was in boarding school. That school didn’t even allow phones or any of this yanmayanma that private schools allow, they are like the old Unity Schools of our days. That’s why I thought, she would be well disciplined and focus on her studies…

She was in SS1. They resumed that day and whenever they resume, the school insisted they returned in their house wears. This was way before Covid when parents and relatives were allowed to follow the returning students into their hostels and help them settle in.

That day, I went to drop my daughter in school…of course she was in her green check house wear. I went with my son, who helped her carry her box and bucket to the front of her hostel. I was at the bursar’s office, settling the outstanding fees and showing receipts for other payments I had made for books… you know that sort of thing.

My son came back to meet me on the queue at the Bursar’s and said his sister was settled…they call each other brother and sister even though they are cousins. Anyway. By the time I finished because there were lots of parents and guardians too who came to settle financial issues with the bursar, it was late. So I told my son to go tell his sister I would come visit in two weeks’ time. I also couldn’t even see her before leaving because it was about 6.30pm and the bell was ringing for students to go into their hostels for head count. The school always did head count every evening and especially upon resumption.

Many of the students still loitering around the premises ran into the hostels to be counted.

We left that day and I thought I had done my job as a mother.

Three days later, that was on a Wednesday, I was called by my daughter’s house mistress asking for my daughter.

I said, “Huh? What are you talking about?”

She said my daughter hadn’t resumed school and that she was wondering what had happened to her!

I said, “Haba! Are you dreaming? I brought her to school on Sunday, she resumed with the rest of her mates on Sunday!”

House mistress said my daughter hadn’t been seen in school for three days and though her bed was always made, she hadn’t been physically seen!

I almost ran mad as I raced to the school that day.

My mind was in a turmoil, I drove her to school myself, and she was checked into the hostel by the house mistresses’ assistant, where could she be?

We got to school, lo and behold, upon speaking to me and realizing something was off, the house mistress had summoned my daughter’s close friends to her office. She wanted to know who had been laying her bed and fooling her staff. Because you see, a laid bed means the child is around, right? So they had been laying her bed, making the hostel staff believe she was around. Empty beds or unlaid beds meant the child hadn’t returned to school.

She called three of my daughter’s closest friends and asked them where my daughter was.

They didn’t tell her, they kept silent but she delivered well intended backhand slaps and they began to confess like witches…she then took them all to the principal’s office, that was where I met them.

The girls were still crying when I got there. They confessed that my daughter had met one boy on Facebook who invited her to come visit him at one hotel. He had called her the following day to meet him at a certain place outside the school gate.

Unfortunately for us, they didn’t know the name of the hotel. They said when I dropped her in school wearing her house wear, she had gone into the hostel and changed to mufti. I had no idea she packed mufti in her box because you see, I packed the box myself. I did so not because I even suspected she would go to school with contraband, (the school allows provisions but there are certain items they forbid like phone, etc); they checked their boxes upon resumption. So I packed her box because when she packed the box, it was so jumbled up, I had to remove everything to repack neatly and it was in my presence her brother dragged the box into the car…so you see these children can fool you.

Anyway, that’s how we began to look for my daughter.

From hotel to hotel, we begged to search, some proprietors allowed us search, many said they didn’t have anyone that looked like her as guest. We went with her photo. Oh yes, we went first to the police before I began searching with my son and another relative of ours.

For two days, we got nothing. I didn’t sleep, I didn’t eat because I believed in my heart my child was deceived by some monster she saw on the internet.

But, my child wasn’t the little innocent I thought she was after all!! Ase, she had been chatting with this man and agreed to come and visit him. She had changed to mufti in the evening and gone out of the school gate disguised as a cleaner in the school!

Meanwhile, as far I knew then, she had no phone. I didn’t buy her a phone because I just couldn’t even afford it; I gave her an old one I had used before but she told me it couldn’t do internet and so she dropped it…I had no idea she had another phone!

Do you know how we found her?

On Friday, early in the morning, around 5.30 am, the evil boy she went to meet dumped her naked in front of the school gate!

Yes.

They had raped her, used her…it was a painful sight. She had red blotches all over her body. They were many boys who raped her over and over again…for five days. She was barely alive when they dumped her at their school gate. Maybe they had heard police was looking for her, I don’t know.

The gate man said he heard a sound, like some crying feebly at the gate, he opened the gate and saw a naked girl…that was my own child. The child I sent to school telling myself she was safe in school! I would swear my daughter was well behaved. Quiet, didn’t even go out when on holidays. Many times I forced her to go do some deliveries for me; she preferred being indoors, watching Tv.

When they identified her as their student, she was able to say her name before she fainted again. They called me, I went to the school and took her straight to a nearby hospital.

They admitted her and began to treat her.

A few days later, when she had regained her strength, she told me what happened.

She was begging me and crying saying she had learned her lessons and would never deceive me again. I couldn’t even scold her because seeing her condition, I saw she had suffered enough. Her punishment was all over her body. She suffered several lacerations on her vagina, one broken rib, she said they were beating her as they raped her; her face was badly swollen and red with blood, her hands and feet had been tied during the acts… and I knew a great lesson had been learned.

What else was there to say to her?

She spent three weeks in the hospital after which the school suspended her for that term… Oho! I don’t blame the school. The story had gone out that she was setting a bad example.

Ha!

She herself saw hell that period. Walking and urinating was hell for some time; thankfully she didn’t get pregnant because that would have meant she would’ve had to stop school entirely.

But I thank God today. I made her go back to finish school. She was ashamed and didn’t want to go back, I said, “what did you say?”

She repeated but is just one year behind her mates and she is determined to do better. Sometimes, experience truly is the best teacher, now my daughter mentors younger girls and advises them against online predators and not telling their parents where they were going…

Today, I’m proud of my daughter, we both “bleeped up", but like that musician, Black Sherif said, “Of course, I bleeped up…Who never bleeped up, hands in the air, no hands?” # DEAR PARENTS, PLEASE LET'S LEARN TOGETHER. OUR CHILDREN SHALL MAKE US PROUD & NOT BRING SHAME TO US IN JESUS NAME . AMEN.
(written by Peju Akande and based on true story)
Unfortunately, this particular woman claimed she saw the video of her daughter from a neighbor before her dress rehearsal for her crocodile tears.

The mother of that Chrisland student is complicit in her crime. She knowing the truth had the audacity to claim victim!

Parent can only pray for their children after doing all they are expected to do in guidance! It is God's grace that help parents grow Godly and responsible children
Foreign Affairs › Re: Zelensky Rejects U.S Evacuation Offer As Russian Assasins Parachute Into Kyiv by TenQ: 3:23pm On Apr 29, 2022
haslaw:
Stop confusing foolishness for courage
And it's the same you who would claim that Zelensky fled the country after igniting a war that his killed thousands of his people.

Now that he didn't flee like a coward, his staying with his people is now foolishness.

His presence alone is an encouragement to those at the frontline
Career › Re: Ladies, Which Of These Can You Do For A Living? by TenQ: 11:16am On Apr 29, 2022
God1000:
I respect ladies that work for their money, this is how it should be, forget about pride and what people will say about you.

But I've seen a lot of aged women doing menial jobs and riding keke as well

For young ladies, don't rely too much on your school certificate, unlock your potentials in other areas, the world is changing rapidly.

And lastly, don't bother yourself with people's opinions about your "walk of life"
Over to you Toshybabs and Weirdlycute!
Properties › Re: Nigeria Should Ban Interment Of The Dead In Their Compound. by TenQ: 9:24am On Apr 28, 2022
hammermcc:
Only in third world African countries do people bury the dead in their compound.even south Africa does not practice such . burying of the dead in their compound is bad for real estate.
I have mentioned on my other thread that Nigerian needs real estate land reform. we can not afford the current method if Nigeria will be developed.

In fact , most Nigerians do not pay property tax . and yet you expect roads and street lights and public amenities to be fixed? there needs to be compulsory property tax which will deter people from thinking the land belongs to them forever and therefore burying dead on the land.
people should pay heavy property tax if they want to own a home. if you can't afford property tax then rent an apartment.
Unfortunately, there is no correlation between tax and infrastructural maintenance and development in Nigeria. Until Nigerians see where tax money is going to, it is difficult for government to ask them to pay tax!

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