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Persephone1:
If I find myself at this position i wouldn't date myself. Perhaps years ago when I was naive about how the world works.

I'm an advocate balance and I believe Relationship flourish when partners are equal or closely equal in what they have to offer. True Love and respect is borne when two individuals naturally come together without the 'need' to. Needs which may be materials and none material. You enjoy true companionship when both partners genuinely look out for one another and that can only come if you as an individual is satisfied and relaxed within you. If you are struggling with a demon within you, it's only a matter of time before your partner becomes your baseball stick. If you aren't satisfied with your achievement as a man it's only a matter of time before you see your partner as an hindrance to your progress. If a woman isn't accomplished within her, in years to come she would see her husband as an excuse for her failure. So what time do you have to achieve some things for yourselves if not when you are youthful and single?
Again, I do not believe in a relationship where I have to respect my man because my next meal ticket lies with him or where he would have to cope with me because I'm the least he could get. You dig?

That said, who is a ready made man? Does a ready made man have no potentials? Has he exhausted his potentials? Answer this and I would respond with my thoughts.,

damn! Insightful. So you're indirectly saying an individual be it female or male shouldn't go into a relationship until he or she is financially bouyant?

I doff my hat. But just to satisfy my curiosity, is it that you aren't dating anyone currently because you're trying to build yourself?

Rozross:
May God bless you abundantly in no distant time. Keep working hard and play by the rules of life and Godly wealth.

amen. I'm doing just that I don't believe in cutting corners. Thanks dear, I appreciate you.

Persephone1:
What is potentials?

lol. Haba. Let's say a guy working on his craft, already making a bit of money, but barely enough for his rent and feeding and sustenance. He has a huge dream and is making small small progress. Don't be mean please. I'm trying to understand you better.

I don't drink, smoke or womanize. Nawa

Rozross:
but what?

I neva get money na I wish you all the best things in life though. I admire your realness

Persephone1:
BTW why does it look like guys are seriously trying to convince ladies to "build" with them. Una no do "forget hoes chase the bag " anymore ni? Abi Buhari economy don bend una

Build yourself, get a woman that has built herself too, meet at a middle ground and get married. . Life no hard.

so you wouldn't date a man with huge potentials, even if he has all the qualities you desire?

Rozross:
Amen amen and amen. May the unending blessings of God be showered upon you and your family.May all your heart desires be fulfilled in no distant time amen.

realest G on the app. I for marry you but..

ukaface:
I no dey look for trouble

but you do look like trouble. A gorgeous trouble. You got pretty eyes. Can you see the future through those big beautiful bulbs?

ukaface:
I don't understand
So me speaking for myself is synonymous to being a feminist?
Wahaleaux. Must I talk back? Yes I must, if you talk I go talk I'm not mute or dumb.
Did I curse you? And where did I attack men?
And I'm also not a fighter.

I don't need man, and being a Londoner isn't enticing bruv.

This lady be like you go like fight for real life.

Korah67:
Wow

this criminal don't you ever give up? With your jminer app

Good day giys. Although not hard as steel..or not completely hard when I'm on my own. Just slight touch, my preek don dey rise. I don't know if it's hyper sensitivity.

Anytime I just think of erotic stuff, my dick don dey respond
Its annoying. Can't I massage my dick in peace? Just looking at it sef can trigger rising. Which kyn mumu thing be this? I used to masturbate a lot in my teen years and early adult years. I have stopped. I'm trying to wean myself off porn too. Nairaland isn't helping though.

Btw I'm a virgin.

dauntless15:
Ann

God punish Ann toto. She stingy with toto too abi

Slynation:
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OP how far this?

Prettygirl200:
I love Jason Statham movies, which I can have some.

Omo this girl Sabi o. Omo dada

Prettygirl200:
Everyone knows that when it comes to physical strength we all know men are stronger. So I see no reason why they should be brainwashing ladies like that.

e get wetin dey at play. Dem won ruin the next generation just like the LGBTQWSTRVUX nonsense wey dem dey force down our throats now.

Prettygirl200:
lol abi??

I swear. She fit dump she sharp if she fit see am

Prettygirl200:
Lol na the upcoming ones, na dem con make me no dey watch Korean film again. I wish lee min hoo can just come back to the movie set. The guy is just what I like in men.

oya find am go Korea nau the way our Naija girls like that guy. Even my babe dey make me feel insecure

Prettygirl200:
yeah thanks. House of the dragon self na better rubbish, all those kind film I no dey watch once a woman is the lead.

most of your fellow gender won't agree with you though. What mainstream media is trying to purport is that women can be physically stronger than men. Imagine a little girl of five thinking she can best her male class mates because of being brainwashed by such movies.

Prettygirl200:
yeah u know why?? He looks manly, he acts manly, he leads in movies, he doesn't behave like a woman, his Adams apple, and his deep voice. The guy is manly more than those women in form of men in the Korean movies now.

I hate how those feminine Korean boys behave ehn.. e dey be me like make I beat them to pulp. Dem fit be gays sef

Prettygirl200:
Yeah Korean movies are okay, I have all the movies of lee min ho my favorite Korean actor normally

Omo Una like that guy o..

Prettygirl200:
I don't even like that she hulk. I refused to watch it, look I hate it when watching a movie and a woman is dominant, or a woman is the fighter or the major character. I enjoy movies more when the man is the character there's a way I feel when I watch such movies.

God bless you sister. You would marry a good husband and groom sensible and beautiful children. Dem won brain wash us

pansophist:
A man who lack purpose distract himself with meaningless pleasure. His philandrous state is an epitome of male weakness, and will lead him to more suffering. There is someone I know like that and I feel sorry for him.

You can literally kill him tonight with any girl, he simply can't control his sexual urge. He thinks making money (which he has) is a purposeful life, and since he has a lot of it, he spent it recklessly on drinks, women and clubbing.

I'm not kidding if I tell you that the money he has spent on this dirty life style in a year will build a house somewhere in Nigeria. And I mean buying land and furnish it to the fullest. Talking to him became a waste of time, and I stopped disturbing myself.

The world is infinitely burdened with things to do, problem to solve and just even engaging in intellectual department like philosophy will open a new of world endless possibilities, and for him not to notice this magic called life that surrounds him is the epitome of a weak mind.

So your friend should channel all his masculine energy somewhere, something he waste on dangerous sex. He should start reading books or listening to podcast from people like Jordan Peterson. The responsibility lies on him to redeem himself, not you. You're a good friend though, I applaud.

my God sir, can you mentor me? You might be older or younger.. idgaf. Please.

Juleeee:
That she hulk was very shocking to me, saw the thriller and it was unbelievable.

I swear e shock me too. I am not watching that garbage

Amongst all the garbage movies being produced recently, I am surprised nobody mentioned "She Hulk" and how she's supposedly more advanced than the Hulk in several ways. Lol
Joke of the century. Stan Lee should be rolling restlessly in his grave.

I really feel sorry for the generation growing up now. Your childhood has been ruined before it even kicked off.

I enjoyed every bit of my childhood cause of cartoons like Looney tunes, Bugs bunny and co..Tom and Jerry, thundercats.. silver hawks, Voltron, The incredible Hulk ..justice League.. batman of the future...just to mention a few.

Kids and teenagers of nowadays are fvxked. I mean that literally.

dauntless15:
Note: this isn't a woman bashing thread

I once dated this girl who was so stingy that she never let anything go no matter how small and insignificant, at first I thought she was economical and would be great with managing stuff if I wife her, she'll always tell me I spend too much, I am extravagant etc, I thought I found a wife material, not until I started seeing the signs, she will have millions in her account, but wouldn't touch it to buy anything no matter how cheap it is, she doesn't buy clothes for herself to look good, she will always opt for cheap hairdo, infact she prefers low cut to making hair, anything that'd make her spend is a no go area, she has money in her account, she can afford those, but she won't do it for herself until someone else does, she deny herself alot of things, it's one thing to be stingy with others, it's another thing to be stingy with yourself, she will always find a way to cut corners just to escape spending, but she's okay if I buy it, one time we were talking about something I wanted to do but was short of cash, at first she suggested I try loan apps, I refused, and directly asked her if she can help, she came up with excuses, including how her atm card has expired and she don't have time to renew it, truth is, she has time to renew it, she just didn't renew it to avoid withdrawing her money conveniently, when I give her money to buy stuff for me, she will always buy low quality version of whatever I asked her to buy just to keep the change but she gets mad if you don't give her her change, then small money she gave me here and there that I consider insignificant, she wrote all of them down and asked me to pay back after a while, we broke up later on and I got the shocker of my life, she asked me to remit every financial help she has rendered throughout our dating period, I don't know how she kept record of that, I also did things for her but I'm not asking her to pay back, I was so shocked to even react.

that girl na bastard. Wetin be her name?

DaddyCK:

but she no lie na

iLegendd:
I did lots of free mentorship in the past. At the moment, I don't even accept paid mentorship. Everything is already on Google and YouTube for free. Nothing is hidden.

okay boss. Thanks for the pointers.

carolingian79:
My brother, I don open book of lamentations on top this matter for as long as I can remember. Girls will reject a good man who respects them complaining that he is a weakling and he can't handle them then fall into the arms of an unrepentant player. After him show dem pepper, they will be shouting men are wicked, men are trash

lol. Funny enough you're right. They won't learn

iLegendd boss shey time Neva reach wey you go give back? Big man with all the humility I'm able to muster, I'm begging you to take some guys under your wing make you mentor us.

Happy weekend boss.

Op go and cheat. Leave us alone abeg