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Ariiinze:
Was your father or grandfather a traditionalist?

not that I know of. I don't think so.

Qatar2022:
Believe it or not it's not good, it's either witchcraft or evil people is attacking

thanks man

Starz825:
This is it man
You just said the solution by yourself to yourself...

Talk to your creator man...
Tell Him all you saw in the dream.....
You will be guilded...
Christians walk by faith man

thanks man.

Truvelisback:
The dream could mean that someone is angry with u. The person could be a friend or relative.

Omo... Who could be angry wfy me though.

TradingGod:
the Holy Spirit is calling you

I have to go into prayers. It's been long I've prayed to God though. I do not even know how to pray. Currently dealing with a health issue that's making me restless. I believe if I call unto him, he'll respond .

CoronaVirusRelo:
Oh!

You have come online to share?

Hello, we never meant to hurt you, we just wanted to show you that, you are reachable.

Please desist from sharing our encounters on social media. It has consequences.

all right sir. I've heard.

idomalord:
spirit of sexual immorality, it could be masturbation, fornication, adultery, etc

hope it helps u or some1 but if not, hope I won't be quoted and insulted

masturbation definitely, watching porn. But I've quit it

Ariiinze:
If you're Igbo, it simply means you should appease your agwụ

I am from Delta but I speak igala. What's this agwu all about abeg?

Magnoliaa:
Wahala be like korkor shoe o.

Your tory no dey end?

And who is the un******* fellow wey go quote the post again? Mtcheewwww.

Whatever your story is about, OP: I am sorry or I am happy for you.

I been no dey read my school notes normal normal, I should now sit down to this?

but Sis, na you quote am na

Just last night...I dreamt I was being chased down by a very big dog. First off this dog was as tall as a building. I can't remember all the details, but I asked someone why this particular thing was after me, that I don't remember harming it in any way, the person replied that I haven't been nice to dogs, infact I have been cruel to the dogs puppies is why it's hunting me down

I was surprised as I have never mistreated no dog before now. I replied to this person that I don't remember being cruel to any dog, infact I had once rescued a stray dog from hunger one certain time in real life... I tried to feed it and take care of it until it died one day, perhaps from a disease or something else.


Abeg who's had a similar nightmare before?

everythinggirly:
This country just tire me.

as in look how they are all smiles posing for the camera.. none of them had it in the back of their minds that this could yet be public monies that were stashed away somewhere but brought out due to CBN latest policy. It's a shame.

Sometimes when I look around and see the kind of people I share nationality with,.I almost shed tears.

Just see how so called educated folks are rooting for an ugly ancient BAT to be their president. Like how is it possible that you'd go out there as Nigerian and be proud of saying this man is your president?

To be honest, I'm exasperated.

macbede:
i will do that

Good morning sir. Hope your night went well? Please I wanted to make a subtle reminder with regards to our conversation yesterday. I'd appreciate it if you could find the time to take a look in. Appreciate you. Have a blessed day sir

macbede:
i will do that

please sir.

macbede:
sure
macbede@gmail.com

I already sent a mail sir. Please check. Thanks.

macbede:
sure
macbede@gmail.com

thanks bro really appreciate.

macbede:
Take the warm water therapy judiciously bro. I’m in your shoes as we speak. It’s been three years now.

It’s being managed properly though.
Can’t tell my old people at home.

You’ll be fine.

Your mind plays a vital role on your body too. Be conscious of what goes there

can I send you a pm please?

Lalami3232:
Whatever business you're planning, I don't have an issue with it. But try make you learn programming and you go thank me later

some of us won learn but we no get resource, or we can't afford it. Can you help ?

ell77:
If this is all it takes for a red-blooded male to turn gay - God help humanity! Don't think it is that simple but I believe it may be true for a couple of peeps I guess.



HELL NO Star_Gates, I am glad if my advice is helpful but drink doe snot give confidence it only releases you inhibitions the two may sound similar but they are not even close. Confidence is loving yourself and having faith in yourself knowing that you are a good catch and that if someone does not like you it is their loss, it is knowing that yes you do have faults and are not perfect and knowing that everyone has faults and yours are no worse than the next guy, get this into your head first. Being drunk only releases your inhibitons and clouds your mind, it makes you think no one will turn you down which is obviously not true for anyone so when you approach a girl when you are drunk you will be more likely to get more emotional when she says no (i.e. violent, cry). Also you may approach a girl who is not on your level cos your judgement is clouded (as in you may approach a prostitute! - you said you were looking for a girlfriend not a one night stand!). Another thing is for me, and alot of girls I know alchohol is a big turn off, if I even smell alcohol on a guy I immediately move away or else I turn up my nose in disgust (I actually can't help it - but I am not alone). SO DON'T USE ALCOHOL TO BRING CONFIDENCE IT WON'T WORK!

Just suck it up and move to a girl with a friendly smile - not a cocky inyour face attitude think of the person as a long lost friend, or act like you are in an interview situation. Body language is important in interviews the same might apply in real life i.e. don't stand too close or to far (lets say an arms length away you may get closer if her eyes or behaviour tells you she is interested or flirting), don't fold your arms or raise your hands up in the air, (don't put your hands on your waist - bit gay to me), stand up straight, maybe one hand in your pocket, one hand at waist level for gestures. If you need to touvh her to get her attention, don't tap or thwack her and don't grab her just gently rest the tips of your fingers on her shoulder or forearm, whilst saying 'excuse me'. This way you look really confident, but not aggressive or disrespectful (as soon as she turns around remove your hand).

I can tell you how to look confident without looking cocky but not 100% sure how to make you feel confident. Try not to stutter or stammer when you speak but if you do, don't despair, because although some girls may not like that others may find it helplessly adorable ok?! The way you dress may help with your confidence. I know you are in Nigeria so 'apparently' girls like it when guys look like they have 'tasted' abroad i.e. Jeans, timberlands, T-shirt. However, to me, the best thing a man can do to make himself look on point is this:

- Wear a fitted black suit with a tie (if you don't wan't to wear a jacket, a crisp fitted white shirt will do no tie needed)
- Have a clean very low faded hair cut i.e. look at Pharrell, Usher, Jay-Z.
- Wear one watch on one hand (analogue not digital) and/or wear one silver thick chain bracelet (two different hands if wear both)
- Black polished closed-toe shoes (no sandals please) - with black socks

To me most men look good in this. It may bring you some confidence because automatically you will see girls start looking at you - probably wondering which bank or oil company you OWN. There is a saying 'Clothes don't make the man' - it is true but clothes represent the man to me! Good luck.

Oh yeah if you have a beard shave it off unless it is a clean crisp cut. Hope this helps with you - about the confidence thing, not really sure, maybe have a theme tune in your head like Sean Paul 'Like Glue' lol - seriously it may help! Also go to more clubs and socialise.

I doff my hat to you ma'am. I'm definitely learning a lot from you. Thanks for the tips

aujile:
What exactly do you want him to do for you? Person de find solution to him problem and you want to send a dm. Rather stick to the thread and get solution.
@op and mr man
Your issue is psychological and not medical (at least you have seen a doctor). I have met a guy that had same issue and i tried to guide him but he felt it i didn't know anything (as he came for medical assistance and i informed him it's psychological) he ended up spending so much money without any results.
Note those comments mentioning "mind" "psychology" and follow those steps

ok thanks for your inputs

ridbell01:
stop masturbation first then I can sell something for you you just need original honey

I have stopped masturbation sir.

SUPERPACK:
@seun should consider making me a paid antispam moderator. I will make sure their posts are deleted within a minute after creation.

same here. I wouldn't mind if he does pay me to do so. They wanna ruin romanceland for us.

Cutehector:
very soon nl will be hacked. The level of spamming is too much.

so sad.

Michelle70:
No, the mods are not bots, they too have something to do.

You see those porn guys, even if u block them for 80yrs, they could create 3more accounts in 10mins and post porn

nawa. They should create a bot capable of detecting nude images and deleting such threads then.