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Samantha123:
Never mind I asked then.

its easy nau. The reason is Nigeria's problem has become too difficult for the Nigerians to bear, so they wouldn't mind travelling down to SA

Samantha123:
Meaning

ah shit
It means problem don pass wetin person fit handle for naija.

Samantha123:
English please..

The quantity of water in relation to the amount of cassava powder on the plate has become greater in Nigeria. I hope you grok? Naturally the cassava powder ought to be more.

Samantha123:
But I thought you guys like saying we're xenophobic in SA.

water don pass garri for naija

Papichulostunne:
Person like me so if you gwt legit one feel me in bro.

I wish I did. I'm also looking for a remote job

House rent expires in December. 120k lost my job three months ago.

Nice one. Op

Chnbanc:
but they no know say their format don cast
They feel gullible people still exists,
Not knowing say people don tear eye reach back

lol. People still dey desperate o

Chnbanc:
I swear.

I just dey use one eye dey look am all these weeks wey e dey post dey laugh. People don swear say na scamming dem won use blow for this life.

Chnbanc:
You don apply?
Awon HRM

lmao make e hire e family members first

terrymcginis007@gmail.com

Enny2013:
She can't change,bro. The Emere spirit controls her. Dat spirit is tough. She herself needs deliverance.

Omo. This one go hard

Condition001:
Her Dad passed away Mid 2020 and I no know her house and she doesn’t even want to tell me her Location now but i am
planning to go back to school Before the end of this month to get some of my school issues resolved since ASUU has finally called their strike off… Hopefully i get to meet her and Beg her. Thats if she is going to give me audience.

it is well bro. Her friends nko? Any of her relatives you know?

MufasaLion:
Crap!

Lol it's okay.

Condition001:
I’ve tried quite numbers of time to get together with her so i can appeal to her in person but she doesn’t want to grant me that. She rather wants to chat like a regular friend with me on whatsapp She doesn’t even act like she wants me anymore

guy find her go house. Talk to her parents. You can't do phone shii anymore

Condition001:
Bro i regret ever getting too intimate with the girl. As much as i love sex, when it comes to her matter, she was my Oga coz this girl wouldn’t go a day with me without uncountable rounds of Sex. I guess thats the weapon she used against me. I’ve been so down for a while now that i was even thinking of committing suicide at a particular time but i whirl off that thought with the hope that nothing is impossible for God to do. *Sigh*

sorry bro. I'd suggest you talk to her make her see reason why you can't be with her . If she can change her behaviour towards you, you can both work something out. Try this. Please keep us updated

Condition001:
That exactly what the Prophet told me that the girl wants me back in her Life but i’m scared to go back to her, not because my heart cannot Love her back anymore but because of her Quarrelsome and Destructive behavior. I am an easy going guy which everybody around me knows.. I don’t want a kind of partner that will always give me BP everytime or destroying the little properties i’ve got. Had it been she is not a destructive girl i don’t mind going back
to her without a rethink because i know that she truly loved me then when we were still together but Bruh i just can’t endure her Stubbornness. Within the 11months we dated she tore more than a Dozen of my shirts, Destroyed most of my Sneakers with Blade, Broke all the Plates in my Kitchen, Tore my Moms Picture in Uncountable pieces and soaked them into a Jik container all in the name of quarrel or argument. Bruh i was in a Big soup when we were together. there are Lots of other bad things i can’t even remember that she did to me when we were still together then ��

Omo..I don't know what to say. If you hadn't had sex with her now..to severe ties with her would have been piece of cake.

LOLITAinLAGOS:
Naked homo go get yourself a man on your page abeg. You here fishing?

hm. What are you up to?

Emilia154:
U are not serious

babe. What's the update?

spencekat:
I would not have given Jane my number.

Jane fvxked you over?

Candidlady:


Your threads are always on point

My partner likes food especially home made meals

Working on my kitchen skills kos them fit use food snatch **r from me

why did you censor that shii? We already know you're a fa***ot nau. You and your ilk shouldn't exist.

Psych412:
I don't what heartbreak is.... i serve the breakfast before you have The thought of doing that....this always makes broken relationship trauma easy for me without feelings

Eya.. you're slowly losing your humanity. Its seeping away gradually. Enjoy.

Threesha:
Yes,I have experienced heartbreaks.

When? Presently, I am healing from a heartbreak. This is a situation that had me going to the Doctor's on Friday because my of my heart rate.

A guy I loved genuinely didn't only go cold turkey on me, he called me names FOR NO REASON. This is same person that begged and begged him to give him a chance. My mental health nose dived.

It is imperative to know that we ought to take care of ourselves. Pain is worse when you feel you have brought it on yourself.

I will still say, move on please.


Let keep it coming

please be strong. Its his loss. You'll come out stronger.

Condition001:
There is a difference between a quarrelsome girlfriend and a Destructive one. During the time i was dating this my ex, i couldn’t count the numbers of my shirt she Torn. Any small argument like this she will lock up my shirt that i am going nowhere and if i struggle to leave her at the spot she would tear my shirt. She sometimes go into the kitchen and pour the food i’m cooking for both of us into the kitchen sink or break plates in the kitchen all in the name of quarreling with me which is very normal in a relationship She doesn’t cook most of the time she is with me in my hostel. I would be the one to cook majority of time and she always said she enjoyed my food that i cook so well. Thats how much i endured this girls wahala because i loved her then and she gives me good sex and not over demanding. If i no get i no get ni that time and she doesn’t because of that cheat on me. I guess thats why i still held on to the relationship then. Fast forward to 2018 december when we got a break in school i went to my home town and she also went to her. I was thinking that the everytime quarrel will reduce since we are not together at that time that we are on break but it got worse. If i don’t call her within 5hours i’m in soup she will nag nag and nag on the phone which i also endured because i knew she missed me thats why she was acting that way but it got to a point that i got tired and couldn’t focus on my hustle then because of her over demanding attention so i was pushed to break bonds with her noting to her that the reason i want a break up with her is because of her everytime wahala coz a day won’t go without us arguing or fighting over something and she usually initiate them. She was begging me not to leave her that she will change but i’ve made up my mind already and couldn’t change it. About two weeks after she called me and told me that there is a ritual she has to do pertaining her departure from her Egbe (Emere) and the guy she dated last must be there for the ritual to go well, she even said her dad was aware of it then that it wont hurt me at all but i refused to do that with her because i was scared and moreover i felt like i have broken up with her already why would she want me to come to her again. I faced my life after then but noticed that in the Freelancing job i was doing then and also Gee that i was doing wasn’t paying, not that i don’t usually see the opportunity to hit big but they always turn out to be failed no matter how hard i try. The only money i’ve been seeing is small change to do eat and do small boy i was backward academically, lots of carryovers but still moved on and hoping for better days. My thoughts then was that, who school help i just wanna graduate with any grade and face my life squarely after. Moving on with my hustle i realized that anytime i want to hit big money or i smell something big is coming my way from the way i update my clients then, i would just wake up with wet dreams maybe a night or two night before the supposedly Big hit reach my hand and everything will scatter that the client will block me. I used to thing then that maybe that money isn’t meant for me that what will be will be. Fast forward to last year, things were tougher for me financially that no day will go that i wont beg people on my contact list money for food Although i had graduated then but still have some courses to clear because of too much carryovers then. I continued with my hustle with lots of Mercy Soaps (Ose Aanu) from My Alfas but still yet things didn’t change, anytime big things is coming my way it will always flop at the end of the day. So last month i went to one new Alfa and he revealed to me that there was a girl i dated sometimes ago that she is the one behind all my predicament and tough luck hitting good money from the work i’m into, he even went further telling me that i’ve been using some (Ose Anu) lately that they are working for me but anytime the work want to show that this Powerful Emere girl will always hold it down with her Tragic Powers that if i noticed that anytime something is coming up i will always noticed a strange thing on my body like Wetdreaming or cobweb fly on my body when i’m outside and on a broad day light. The Alfa told me that i need to appeal to this girl because she has registered my name in her Group as her Earthly Husband and i won’t be able to move and inch to success in life if she doesn’t forgive me and reveal somethings to me about the then ritual they were going to make for her pertaining her departure from the group. The problem now is that the girl doesn’t want to grant me an audience one on one but rather chatting and i don’t want be chatting with her with stuff like that. This is not fictitious as i am not looking to trend on NL but rather to find a solution to my life.. Anybody with Candid advice?

bro... At this juncture ehn. I am scared for you. What if she wants you guys back together as the clause in the agreement you'll sign before she lets you succeed?

Setursight:
Potential is a possibility that somethings might/might not occur. An inherent possibility.
And just about everyone have it.

That being said, if a man is heading somewhere, and he's only coming along slowly but his babe/crush couldn't wait so she left, It doesn't makes her to be a bad person, it simply makes her not to be the type of lady a man can trust when the storms blow.

I kid you not, to be a professional say a Doctor, Accountant et Al is quite easy than to be say an entrepreneur. The former can become the latter and probably a bit more easily than for one to head directly into it. But the direct path is by far more discouraging , tasking and tortous.

So if a woman is gonna judge potential, she should be looking at where the guy is headed and what it cost to get there and decide wether she's up to it or not.

hm. Facts.

Babafrayol23:
Make I see money Japa go south Africa no stress meet southafrican women

lol

Sweatshop:
omo Lesotho paypal ?... I Don't get, I"m a new Freelancer and not familiar with the Paypal of a thing.

lol. Go create a Lesotho PayPal.

Sweatshop:
So i can sell the cash from my Paypal account. Are there verified buyrs in Nigeria?

yes. You have a Lesotho PayPal I presume? If you own a Lesotho PayPal then you could send the money to a buyer. I have a legit buyer I can recommend. He'll give you the equivalent in naira at a good rate.

Sweatshop:
So i just got a Gig job, but the only payment option available for me is PayPal, and one cannot receive money directly to Nigeria bank account from PayPal. Pls how do I navigate this?

bro.. just sell your funds to a buyer nau

PerfectStranger:
You a pastor?

I'm not sadly. I'm just there... I Neva really taste life.

Persephone1:
If I find myself at this position i wouldn't date myself. Perhaps years ago when I was naive about how the world works.

I'm an advocate balance and I believe Relationship flourish when partners are equal or closely equal in what they have to offer. True Love and respect is borne when two individuals naturally come together without the 'need' to. Needs which may be materials and none material. You enjoy true companionship when both partners genuinely look out for one another and that can only come if you as an individual is satisfied and relaxed within you. If you are struggling with a demon within you, it's only a matter of time before your partner becomes your baseball stick. If you aren't satisfied with your achievement as a man it's only a matter of time before you see your partner as an hindrance to your progress. If a woman isn't accomplished within her, in years to come she would see her husband as an excuse for her failure. So what time do you have to achieve some things for yourselves if not when you are youthful and single?
Again, I do not believe in a relationship where I have to respect my man because my next meal ticket lies with him or where he would have to cope with me because I'm the least he could get. You dig?

That said, who is a ready made man? Does a ready made man have no potentials? Has he exhausted his potentials? Answer this and I would respond with my thoughts.,

damn! Insightful. So you're indirectly saying an individual be it female or male shouldn't go into a relationship until he or she is financially bouyant?

I doff my hat. But just to satisfy my curiosity, is it that you aren't dating anyone currently because you're trying to build yourself?