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You mean he took your LovePeddler from you?

Silly world. Animals ma don join. Are we moving forward??

Sonoyom:
No need arguing with you bro.

Ignorance is bliss

Says a mofo

Sonoyom:
Those are definitely outsourced staff.

I wish

Salary for entry level first Bank in Lafia is N87,000 and Access bank is N80,000. I have first hand info cos they collect loans from the cooperative where I work and thus I have their account statement. Truly I was surprised when I first saw how much they earn

Tunjibalogun:
So if now your fault for having a girlfriend

Some women are like that, they want to have everything.. A reason why when you break up a relationship with a girl, she'll do everything possible to beef you or even tarnish your image. E.g Johnny Depp aka Captain Jack Sparrow

RuddyFusion:
Today while correcting a subordinate at work on what she did wrong, she shouted at me out of blues in front of other staff members claiming that I was shouting at her, while all I did was point out what she did wrong......A few minutes later she's already at HR accusing me of repeatedly shouting at her....

It's the first time I'm experiencing this, having not done something similar to any of my bosses before, I'm at loss at how to deal with this. HR has asked me to send in my report so they can follow it up, but I don't just know if that will take care of the root cause of her actions today

Been facing this at work recently. This very lady is having a crush on me. I always pretended I didnt get her motive. When she realised I have a fiancee, boom all the beefing, shouting and attitude started... Just looking at her sha, month end I collect salary

[quote author=motayoayinde post=116077931]THANKS FOR THE SINCERITY.

IN ISLAM, THE FATHERS MAY EAT AN ENTIRE ORCHARD OF SOUR GRAPES, NA THEIR TEETH GO HEAR AM.

NO TOOTH OF NO CHILD WILL BE SET ON EDGE....
This makes me ask why children from families are born with curses and when investigations are done they will realize it's cos of their ancestors and when the roots of the curse is tackled, everything turns to normalcy

Rozross:
Back off , real men don’t fight or look for trouble around. Be warned small boy

Damn..whats your name honey? I like your guts

Rozross:
you’ll heal

I sympathize with you

SenatePresdo:
Impression in an anonymous forum?

I wonder what you guys see Nairaland as.

If it's Facebook or IG, It would have been different.

Most of the things I say here, I wouldn't say them in real life, or if my identity is known.

Anybody can easily Deactivate and that's the end. Why not use the advantage of the anonymous profile and pour out your mind, after all, everybody has that side they hide on a normal day.
We ain't all saints after all.

Not everyone dear, some people are realists. Dem de talk am as e be

Khaleesi4lyf:
I don't sample broke d.icks

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I wonder why some ladies got no shame in them... You don't sample broke dicks sends a negative impression about you

Rozross:
Avoid me if all you know how to do is Trouble

Says someone who called another person a lowlife. Ow, so you are a lady

Rozross:
You are just a lowlife

Says a clown

Rozross:
Solely plan on the 100k first before thinking of what the other person brings to the table. Any man with such “bring to the table” mindset does not go far in life, let’s be realistic for once.

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Clearly trained by a lazy housewife called his/her mum

Church business... From Father, to wives, sons, daughters, nieces and nephews

I'm in Lafia and this place is close to my house, how come I didn't knew he was in town??

siofra:
Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/the-rise-lonely-single-men%3famp

I wonder if this applies to romantic relationships in Nigeria too because as for me, I'm not settling for any ashy, emotionally immature guy like these redpillers.

I wonder, what about all those women begging for husbands up and down? Probably this post does not include Nigerian women

blazhykowskyi:
I'm a Christian fr the south west. We are not religious bigots. The whole Yoruba voted Awolowo and Akintola christian christian tickets before.

Oh you guys are tribal bigots then.. Nigeria is way bigger than one tribe. No wonder Christians are going through hell here in the middle belt n Notth

ItsTutsi:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/08/what-transpired-during-obasanjo-tinubus-meeting-gbajabiamila/

What Obasanjo said is most likely irrelevant, from what n how Buhari led his administration, 80% of people from the West bar Lagos will always vote in Tinubu, most from East will go most go for Obi and the far northern people will vote For Attiku. It has always been like that. For me, States that would likely decide d winner are Kaduna, Plateau, Kogi, Nasarawa, Benue, Kwara, Borno, Lagos and Kastina

wis3:
It's not like he doesn't eat moi-moi, he buys it outside but dislikes it when it is prepared in the house. It's just one of those times when people just get fed up with each other for no just reason but he will come around. What she needs is to be less available for his every needs and work on her esteem and and will be well.

Possible your'd isn't as good as the one outside. My GF doesn't prepare jollof rice well enough, I told her I'm not a fan, buh I de secretly eat am outside

Lalakas:
Am not happy with my husband's utterances towards me. He unapologetically told me my duties are just 2: to give him se. X and to cook. This guy has really hurt me in this marriage, he seems not to know how to talk.

I work and equally contribute to everything. I dont hide my income and i give him for the building we are both building. I am not useless and i am not a liability to him.

How it all started :
Moimoi or beans is for every other Friday or Saturday ( moimoi could be ones in 6 weeks except my kids specially ask for it) but for a while now whenever I prepare any of the 2 he would complain, regect it. He told me he doesn't like them during the week and I will never prepare them Sunday to Thursday. Friday because he won't be going to work the following day. My kids like eating moimoi very well, infact, it is one their best meals. Atimes, they ask for it. My husband sees moimoi and beans as crap. Guys, he buys it and eat it outside!, my moimoi doesn't purge anyone of us. Even him but he'd keep saying he purges with moimoi, it's just an excuse.

It is difficult to cook 2 foods, i will not stop making moimoi or beans because of him, my kids like the meal so much. For the fact that he buys it out there and this food is what we usually enjoy together before now, i cant stop cooking it.

He has in many ways abused me, he is not someone I should even go the extra mile for, he doesnt sacrifice for me, he doesn't respect me, he doesn't stay close to me except when he wants se. X, always going out. He is very scarce at home. I can't cook 2 foods on days i cook moimoi or beans.

And for telling me my duties are just 2 in his life, I feel abused for allowing him have se. X with me all these while, i feel like a kitchen tool for cooking for him. His intentions and motives about a women are so demeaning.

I am feeling so ashamed of myself. He place no value on me.

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Preferring to please your kids over your husband? You've lost it dear. Your marriage is in your hands. You either use simple logic and wisdom and enjoy your marriage or be stubborn and see it fall apart

[quote author=exstreve post=115802517]The Igbos are the most tribalistic tribe in Nigeria, they don't care about your tribe, as far as you're from the north, they'll call you Hausa or ab0ki.

All of a sudden now, they remember there are Christians in Jos, Kaduna and other northern states. Look, don't be fooled by that. We northern Christians will never vote an Igbo man.

You know nothing about leadership and politics then. I'm from the north and hundreds of thousands in Nasarawa are voting Obi come 2023. That's one thing I'm certain of

DadaHammed:
So you go ahead to punish the ordinary citizen who can't afford to buy fuel because you have a grouse with government officials who steal billions and can afford to power their houses 24/7 all year round?

If the govenment tells you guys to go to hell, the common man can't sympathize with you. Tueh!

Possibly, they have tried resolving the issue before taking this action

If you are voting APC come 2023, God will never forgive you

SteveDGreat:
I am emotionally down honestly. If not that I am hearing this from her, I won't believe that a Man could be this cold towards his wife.

This lady is my one and only best friend. As a matter of fact, I was nursing plans to marry her but man never make it. We never had sex.

Well, she got married and our conversation slow down. I deliberately slow it down so as to respect her marriage.

One day I decided to call, the husband picked and warned me never to call her again. Omoh I was shocked.

Days after she called and apologized and explained how the man has completely changed and is maltreating her to the extend of beating her and emotional abuse. We spoke consistently and unfortunately, she left the marriage.

She came to my city was staying with her elder brother. We spoke for some time and I went off cos I didn't want to get too close so as not to attract emotional feelings.

Well, after some months, she blocked me from reaching her. For 9 months we haven't been in touch.

Yesterday she sent me a chat with a strange phone Facebook that I should give her my number. Since Yesterday, she has been pouring her emotional trauma on me.
Her marriage is hell. Emotional abuse, insults, beating.

As I am typing, she is still talking on phone. She is done with the marriage and wants to leave but she is scared of her son that's 1 year and 2 months old.

I really feel bad for her and don't even know how to help her.
It is painful. She is my best friend.

I don't understand, she is done with the marriage but haven't left. Is the marriage worth more than her life?? If the marriage does give her the love, happiness and rest of mind she craves for why remain in it? Hope she's not a housewife and the husband is tired of giving her money daily

NaijaRoyalty:
Over 7 million people registered for PVC in Lagos

2.1 million are Igbos living in Lagos

1.2million are Hausa and Fulani living in Lagos

1.1 million are Edo, Calabar, Akwa ibom and Benue People living in Lagos

And they will all vote for Peter Obi

Large percentage of Yoruba Lagos indigines will also vote for Labour Party Peter Obi and it's a wrap

Nigeria will be great again, Insha Allah

Hausa Fulani vote for Peter Obi?? about 98% would rather vote Attiku Abubakar

Biodun556:
Peter Obi is Ipob candidate.
Beware! Of nepotism,
beware of terrorism,
beware of ethnic cleansing,
beware of domination

Isn't all these happening in Nigeria already?. I'm not Igbo, I am not saying Obi is a saint, but looking at facts and history he is the best candidate right now...
Nepotism- Buhari appoints 80% people from the North
Terrorism- Boko Haram, Fulani Herdsmen bandits etc.
Ethnic Cleansing- Northen domination
I am from the North and my name is Audu, but this doesn't stop me from saying the truth

I can relate 100%. I cried when I sold my first dog named Kiyara. In fact I dreamt about her, my girlfriend was even jealous of my love for that dog... Now I got a loving GSD called Caesar though

Anyone above 18 years who is healthy enough and refuse to vote is the genesis of this failed state. Such a person has no right to complain about the regime because he/she has neglected his civic duty

Nozino:
Go and learn how to read first before you come here to comment.

Thanks for the advice.

BloomingDale:
No woman is going to carry such a heavy burden, especially with him earning only 15k per month. Abi you think say women na work oxen. Send your sister his way.

She never said he is on 15k monthly. He was paying 200k on his child's treatment right?