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Obafisenco:Thanks for the response. I think it's a real estate company. Does it make a difference if the party offering it is a family or an individual, please? bolajinoni1:Ok, thanks. |
Any useful information on this, please? |
Hello, everyone. I wish to know if a survey plan is enough proof of ownership when looking to buy a piece of land. I'd appreciate the views of people that are more knowledgeable about these matters. Thanks. |
Sixfeetbelle:I guess women must be saints then since you appear to think practically all men are guilty of lust. And for sexual sin, men commit it alone, right? ![]() Also, does the fact that some men commit fornication before getting married means it's no longer a sin if they continue with it and forget marriage altogether? I'm struggling to grasp the point in that second paragraph ("Hmmm" was the first). Regarding the bold, so you believe that? Strange. For someone that seems to have issue with men generally. And is that companionship the intimacy, which appears to be the only thing some ladies have to offer? Stop generalising. All men are not the same - the same can also be said of women. You don't describe everyone by the traits of a few or even the majority. Try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt until they prove to not be worth it. Because of the action of a proportion, for instance, many Westerners are suspicious of every Nigerian as being fraudulent. But the question is: do you agree to be called a fraud simply because you're a Nigerian? |
Sixfeetbelle:Interesting questions. Let's just say most men have been conditioned by the society to get married. If you don't, people would consider you an irresponsible person and may be pestering you. Also, some men marry for religious reasons. They don't want to be guilty of sinful, non-marital intimacy. Still some do so mainly because they want children. As for those ones kneeling upandan, it's their cup of tea. That's what some redpillers call "simping." Why would an African man like me do that? Maybe it's because I always try to keep my emotional side under control and let reason reign. ![]() Were it not for the fact that I am Christian (and try somewhat to live like one) I'd rather not marry at all if the only one available is materialistic and thinks intimacy is the only or best offer she has. Have I died since all these years that I haven't had it? ![]() |
FunnyDude:I didn't feel like commenting on anything this night, but I couldn't resist the urge to reply this one. Your comment was somewhat besides the point. One thing I think the guy was getting across was that our ladies should be more responsible. Is intimacy the best they can offer? Come on! If that's all, a man could simply decide to just be paying to get laid rather than taking on the responsibilities of marriage. What is wrong in asking for things that could improve your life and make you less dependent? Most of these ladies are only interested in pleasurable items and not in self-improvement. ![]() |
JumpByte: CoderX:As in ehn I just weak. What right-thinking person demolishes banks, police stations, public properties e.t.c. and think they are fighting a good cause? Isn't that an invitation to disaster? If you are not a crook, know that you are fighting a criminal cause if you join anyone in these shameful acts. Some even released possibly hardened criminals into the society all in the name of a protest. The #EndSARS movement is (or was) peaceful. We don't know what yours is if it's violent and has criminal colouration. |
DontBullshitMe:Like they foresaw people's lives being frustrated in the country while nothing is done about it, right? What good has their foresight brought to the average Nigerian? If we had a responsible government, something more convincing would have been done about the requests of the peaceful protesters quickly. They chose to linger instead until some despicable elements crawled in to unleash mayhem. They now crowned it with the killing of the innocent in a so-called democracy. Abegi! ![]() |
prodigyy:...that can also make those who think a lot tremulous. ![]() |
Pierced:Isn't there supposed to be a curfew? Nigerians. |
Brandonx:I envy you small. ![]() |
Tilda001:Brotherly, some comments are better ignored. Simply be certain and convinced of what you believe in. Nigerians only know how to carry religion for head. Most are hypocrites - kettle calling the pot black. sammyesx:Oil dey your head. May God grant you more knowledge and bless you for this. |
JasperVII:Hail, Jasper the Great. What empire is that? ![]() |
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Mide3367:Thanks, but the point is actually whether it makes sense having a farm with no defined limit/area. My concern is how do one claim it and take control if those in charge go AWOL. |
CastingCrowns:You're never in love. Although I am uncertain if I have ever expressed romantic love with a person, I have an idea of what "true" love is - in my mind. This type I am talking about will be very hard to get over. I'm less fanciful these days than I was when younger - those days I used to watch Indian movies regularly. I did have a certain mental picture of this love back then, but it's become somewhat faint now.Na how to chop and see money spend dey on top pesin mind these days. So logic also comes first for me. But something at the back of my mind still tells me logic could slide to the background if I found someone that proves truly worth living and dying for. I too like epistles sha. ![]() |
There's a company I learned about recently that helps people to farm, harvest, sell, and then pay returns. The requirements are that you buy a piece of land (and pay for transfer document) and also pay for cultivation. The land is supposed to be yours since you bought it. What I found strange is that a specific portion would not be allocated to you until if and when you wish to run your farm by yourself. This doesn't sound right, I think. Or is this how it's done? Anyone knowledgeable about this should please share their views. Thanks. |
Thanks everyone for your input. I appreciate. |
mariahAngel, those are a lot of questions. They are better pondered on than answered. ![]() pcguru1:I thought I would as well; just don't know clearly why I am having this feeling. By the way, I don't consider myself the vain type. I don't place too much premium on beauty or "show-offs" - they don't last. This is partly why I am a bit worried why I don't want to be seen with this lady sometimes. Strangely, I didn't feel this way when I visited her. About people's opinion, I'd say it's a subconscious thing sort of. I can be intentionally defiant to what people think so long I'm convinced that I'm not doing anything wrong. psylliumhusk1:Mein friend! Aha, don't be wicked now. ![]() But then it doesn't mean a thing if she saw this. There's no personally identifiable information here and it's not like I'm trying to spoil her name. ![]() |
Thanks infogenius and all others that responded. Pocohantas, that's deep. mariahAngel:It's not an arranged marriage thingy. In fact, I often tell her not to think in the direction of marriage yet. I haven't really done anything that could make me feel indebted to her. I'm only thinking of possibly getting married to her because she seems the understanding and supportive type. @thorpido, I am not fully sure I'm love. I just feel for her somehow. Richy4, um, I am not certain I got your drift. |
infogenius:Thanks for your response, sir. One is better than none. I agree with that your first sentence. I was just wondering if it's something I could overcome with time. Do you think so? I won't call it resentment per se. I don't feel hatred towards her. It's just that she sometimes looks older (even though I am supposed to be older) or I don't feel comfortable about her appearance. |
Anyone? |
A quick question, especially directed at those knowledgeable or experienced about this sort of matter: Is it normal to sometimes not want to be seen with a lady you're thinking of possibly getting married to? I think this is not a good sign, if you ask me. But I haven't been in a situation like this before, so I don't really know what to think. Is this a feeling I can possibly get over with time after getting married to this person? Please advise. |
optm:Oh, wow. Thanks for the info, doc. God bless you. |
Hello, doc. Good job here. I wish to know if blood loss from the body can affect vision. Thanks. |
Ernerstdavid55:Note that I wrote "before now." The latest of the offers was made to me a little over a year ago for 250k at a location that is accessed via Oja side in Sango. The place was too far for me and I dey fear Omo onile palaver like say tomorrow no dey. ![]() |
. Have you heard of gay pride? Yeah, that's another one. When I think of more, I'll definitely hala you 


Nigerians.